Anonymous
Hello. I would like to share a little secret of mine. When I want a little pleasure I use my hair brush handle and mount it like a man. It sends me such a rush when I hit an orgasm.
Alexis
Hi, I'm Alexis. I have been masturbating since I was about 9. At first I used my fingers on my clit...but that didn't really work. When I was 10, I got one of the greatest ideas ever. My electric toothbrush has two brushes. One I use for my teeth, and the other...well...I think you know. And usually while I let the toothbrush work my clit, I stick something in myself. I've gone from pens, to sharpies, to thick markers, and now candles. I think candles are the best because they mold to your vagina. I also have a muscle massager for those times when I feel REALLY horny. Hope this helps =]
Anonymous
I come from a very conservative country (i.e. my parents would freak if they so much as saw me now in my room naked). And considering our whole family has been squeezed into a small apartment, there is very little room for privacy, especially considering how I, until a few nights ago, shared a room with my brother. To further impact how conservative my environment has been - the closest I came to a sex ed talk was one bio lesson on an optional topic in our text book.
I started surfing porn when I was nine, when I chanced upon a picture of Britney Spears naked (obviously photo shopped, but never mind that). Curious, I went from there. Occasionally the built-in guilt kicked in and I stopped, but I always started again. My brother's porn stash has been very helpful. However, I never once touched myself, except to have a look in the floor to ceiling mirror. I am eighteen days from my eighteenth birthday (I swear; coincidence), and having just finished every major examination I'm like to encounter, my mind has again wandered to sex. In my world, a good girl is expected to save it, and though I have friends currently enjoying sex, I nevertheless hold to my promise to my mum of no dating or anything more till I'm eighteen. However, even though I am a virgin, I am quite sick of it. I don't want to give it up to the first guy I run into, so upon receiving my new room, I decided to baptize it, so to speak.
My first night, I took off my panties, and armed with 'knowledge' gleaned from having surfed sites on female masturbation (such as this one), I proceeded on. While I didn't orgasm (I was a little afraid, I think, as most new experiences are, so I stopped), I found out how sensitive my clit was, and that vaginal juices are probably the best lubricant you could find.
My second night, I spent most of it reading up on experiences and techniques, and reading some erotica online, and got so wet that there was a huge wet spot on my shorts. Towards the end, I locked myself into my parents' room (my mum works night shifts at a hospital and my dad crashed in front of the TV) and after stripping down, I spread myself over the queen-sized bed and started rubbing my clit. There were things I wanted to try, like full-body caressing as a build-up. I dipped a finger from each hand into my sopping juices, and using it as lube, started playing with my nipples (which are a bit sensitive and can hurt after a little abrasion). After a while, I started subconsciously clenching and unclenching my thigh, buttock and vaginal muscles, so I reached down. It was such a turn-on to find that I was so wet it had dripped down over my asshole onto the bed. Using the flowing juices as lube again, I started playing with my sensitive clit and my vulva (you know how it is, you just experiment and go with the flow) when I found that using my left hand to keep my pussy lips spread wide and the full length of my right fore finger to rub up and down my vulva, maintaining pressure on my clit and occasionally dipping into my cunt, I could make myself moan (which is quite something, because I'm not a very vocal person with my emotions). I started moving faster and faster, clenching and unclenching, increasing to two fingers, rubbing harder at my vulva, squelching away in my juices, squeezing my clit between the fingers... My back was arching, my muscles tightening, my breath becoming ragged... And, of all things, my wrist grew tired. It was so anticlimactic, I decided to just pack it in for the night and go to sleep. I still slept with a smile on my face, though, because it did feel so good.
This is my third night, and earlier, after my parents had gone to sleep and my brother entrenched himself firmly in front of his computer, I went into my room, but a "do not disturb" sign on the door, shut the lights except one small one, and stripped down. I opened my laptop, and like I usually do, got myself wet reading some erotica. Then while I was reading, I tied an old pair of stockings into a little ball and put it in my panties. Squeezing my thighs together, I sat in a way that had it smack between the bed and my sopping cunt, and rocked as I read. When I couldn't take it anymore, I put my computer aside, put my hand in my panties, and rubbed my clit, still rocking. Eventually, I fairly tore my panties off, and started playing with myself. Unfortunately, the stocking ball had soaked up a lot of my juices, and there wasn't enough left to lube my clit. So I went on reading. After a while, I started playing with myself again, and realized that my pubic hair was really getting in the way. I threw a nightshirt on, headed for the shower and shaved. Afterwards while rinsing off, I remembered what many had said about the hand-held showers and decided to try it out. I'm not sure if I orgasmed, but it felt so good with the water directed at the area just within my vulva (my virgin cunt is way too tight; it hurt trying to put more than one finger in) and at my clit, both at the same time, I whimpered and ejaculated (won't use come to avoid confusion). My knees had shaken at this point, so for safety's sakes, I lowered myself to the floor, and tried it again. Same effect - I moaned and ejaculated, and felt so sated afterwards (I took the pressure away when I felt the release of fluids). I still don't know if I orgasmed. Can someone tell me what an orgasm feels like? Erotica and romance novels are so non-specific. Bursts of light, indeed...
Anyway, I can't wait to watch myself ejaculate without a flow of water to interfere. I figure a vibrator would do it, and while actually having one about the house would mean a BIG explanation if my mum found it, there's the most amazing toy/novelty store with millions of branches that's selling a massager in the shape of a forearm and hand making the V sign. God bless those Japanese. I reckon it's just the right size for each finger on the V to touch my clit and that sensitive spot in my cunt at the same time, and I don't really want to penetrate so the odd shape suits me fine; guess what my birthday present to myself will be?
I have to ask though - I've put a knitting needle, a hairbrush handle, and a finger in my cunt; is my hymen still intact? I wouldn't want to tell a boy I'm a virgin, only for him to find that I am not.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read this.
Ashlee
I usually read some of the stories on this site and I get that tingle within my pussy.
First I get completely naked if I'm alone. I look at myself in the mirror and watch my hands run over my nipples. I then sit at a site where I can read about people masturbating, then I take my index finger and thumb and twist my nipple. I then take a pillow and put it on a chair and hump it until I'm moaning. Finally, I rub my clit until I have a great orgasm and go for some more.
I've been masturbating since about 12. I used to put cold things on my nipples and hump my bed for hours, it felt amazing and still does!
Anonymous
I use a vibrating shower head to splash water into the vulva and clitoris, and right before I climax I rub the clitoris to make a really amazing orgasm.
Anonymous
I used to masturbate everyday. I love to do it before going to sleep. Mostly I like to insert a banana inside my pussy shake it and enjoy the vibration. Many times I have used my fingers if nothing else is not available. I enjoy to put fingers inside my pussy while reading or studying, seriously.
Tori
I love masturbating sooo mmmuch!! I love thinking about masturbation while masturbating! I think I have a masturbation fetish. Is there a latin name for that...an official "diagnosis?"
Anyway, I love to think about other people getting themselves off. When I was in school, there was this girl who always humped herself right there at her desk during class! It turned me on sooo much because I knew exactly what she was doing. One day the teacher let us switch desks, so I made sure I got a desk right next to hers. ;D It got me so very hot glancing over at her once in a while and seeing her with her legs crossed and squeezing her thighs and totally humping herself!! It was so sweet! I guess she didn't know what she was doing was masturbation or private, because she went at it totally uninhibited every day.
Sometimes when I got brave I would scoot forward and press my puss against my desk and just hold it there, pressing hard. I sooo wanted to hump wildly and cum, but I didn't want other people to see me. So every day after that class, I was shaking all over and had to go masturbate in a bathroom across campus that hardly anyone ever used. It was sooooo hot !!!!
One day, she was humping as usual, and the bell rang. She tilted herself way up on one hip and started squeezing her legs really tight and her foot was wagging back and forth. OH MY GOD!! She grabbed the corner of her desk, I guess for more stability. She acted like she was finishing up her school work, but I knew what she was REALLY finishing!! Oh yeah, girl. I still think about you to this very day years later.
I gathered my books slowly and got up and walked out very slowly, and kept glancing back at her and she was STILL going at it!!! I finally tore myself away so that no one would notice I was watching her. Oh, how I wanted to stay and see her get offff in her chair!!! Right in front of everybody!!!
I already was a Jiller before I knew her, but I wonder if she is the one who "turned me on" to masturbating that way? I can't remember. I know that the first and still foremost way I did it was by humping a bathroom counter corner. But that girl did it her own special way. To this day I love watching clips of guys and girls orgasming. But there are hardly any videos of women masturbating through the use of pressure or humping. Darn it... lucky I have that girl from school to think about still! Oh yeah, girl, hump the desk for me!!!!!
Teeh
I found out about doing it from my friends at school. At first I swear I said ..EEeewww...until one time after school I tried it. Then my friends told me about this site so I read more stuff here about it...soo now I know like it's like a normal thing for teens to do, and that older people do it too, so now I don't feel so bad about it so thanks.
Anonymous Sexual Goddess
I love to fantasize about the men I like. I often stare at their photographs while I masturbate. Using a power toothbrush (not the end where you put your mouth!) works great if you can't get your hands on a vibrating dildo. I also love to have a cold, tingling (but not stinging) sensation in my pussy; I get this feeling by rubbing "Maximum Strength Gold Bond Anti-Itch Cream" all over my vulva, clit, and all around my vaginal walls. Oh it feels so great! I often do this when I'm in a public place and cannot masturbate (I just put in on in the bathroom); the sensation lasts for quiet a while. When I can masturbate, I like putting in on and fingering and penetrating myself with random (but sanitized) objects. I also love masturbating naked in a big leather office chair in front of the computer while I look at hentai. Hentai is anime porn. I don't enjoy real porn so I look at hentai and masturbate at the same time, and it gets me OH SOOO WET AND HORNY! Orgasm is easier to achieve.
The tissues of the vulva and vagina are very sensitive to irritation so be careful when experimenting with topical stimulants, as painful irritation is possible.
Caitlin
Hello my name is Caitlin, I just got done masturbating and I came, oh God it felt good, I lay down on the floor or bed and rub my clit and moan softly and then I stick my fingers inside my vagina, it makes me cum, harder then when I cannot take it anymore and I go and get a massager and stick it to my clit, (I cannot contain myself) it feels so good, I have been masturbating sense I was ten!
PJ
I'm 40 and have been masturbating regularly and enthusiastically since before puberty. I've always had a healthy libido, which has increased since my early 30s, and the frequency and length of my sessions have increased accordingly. At a bare minimum, I masturbate twice weekly, but more often I do it daily and sometimes more. During particularly horny periods, and if time alone permits, I may pleasure myself two or more times a day (especially when I don't have a lover).
I really love the feeling of being filled up by a cock, so my toy of choice is a silicone dildo about 7" long and 2" in diameter. I arouse easily and my juices often provide enough lube. If not, I put a bit of almond oil on my dildo, but require no repeat applications since once I get going, my juices are dripping down my inner thighs and the silicone retains the heat and moisture produced by my own body. The dildo feels oh so nice once it's warm and wet...closer to a real cock!
I usually start on my back and will fantasize about about a current lover, someone new I desire, or a memorable past lover. The seduction scenarios vary.I'll caress my breasts until my nipples get hard. I'll remove my panties and play with my clit with my fingers. When I start to get moist and as my arousal increases, I'll straddle two or three stacked pillows, spread my legs wide apart with knees bent and thighs hugging the pillows. I manually spread my pussy lips and wedge the dildo lengthwise between as if placing a hotdog in a bun. I place the dildo with the head pointing towards my anus. I then embark on an incredibly pleasurable ride, Usually sitting upright at first, eventually leaning over the pillows. I employ a combination of movements including rocking sliding, back-and-forth, side-to-side, up-and-down motions to optimize the friction on my clit. I hug the dildo with my pussy lips. The variations and possibilities are endless and the sensation intensely satisfying.
The pillow setup renders my hands free to explore other erogenous zones. The dildo begins to marinate in my juices and as I get increasingly wet, the juices start dripping down the insides of my upper thighs. I repeatedly bring myself to the verge of orgasm building up to a crescendo until I cum with utterly delicious intensity.
I'll pause to bask in the waves of sheer pleasure until I'm in a completely tranquil state. Often I'll repeat it all to experience another amazing clitoral orgasm.
When my pussy is nice and wet again, I'll penetrate it with my dildo and then embark on another incredible joyride where my pussy is the star attraction. Once I'm penetrated, I love to sit upright and move up and down so that the dildo slides in and out of my pussy getting wetter and stickier with each motion. I also love to lean forward on the pillows and grab them with my thighs, pushing the ends of the pillows towards my ass until I feel the dildo really deep. I move the dildo thrusting slowly then fast and vigorous in and out with my hip motions, increasing the pressure on my g-spot until it ejaculates. I imagine my lover fucking me hard and deep doggy style his balls slapping against my ass both of us moaning in ecstasy. When time permits, I can go on for perhaps an a hour or more of this pleasure, either teasing myself until I cum intensely or I cum over and over.
Good Girl Gone Bad
Hi it's me again, this time to share how I masturbate. (:
First off I've been doing this for about 3 years now. Until I discovered this site and read about it I really only had one way to do it and it wasn't exactly the best way as I later learned. I started out trying to hide my actions by lying on my stomach and keeping my legs clenched together. Soon I couldn't achieve orgasm any other way. At the time I didn't realize the significance of that but after reading up on your site I saw your little blurb on how masturbating this way makes it harder to achieve orgasm during coupled sex. O_O!!! Right away I started retraining myself in masturbation, first by flipping over on my back, and then finally by leaving my legs spread wide. As you said it took some time and effort before I could orgasm with the speed and intensity that I used to, but it was very worth it. (:
With me, masturbation is mostly a mind thing. I don't start touching myself until I'm wet as I prefer to use my own lubrication only. I first start out by reading something sexually stimulating or just fantasizing about the boy I like and usually have "mind sex" with him for up to 10 minutes. By now I'm hot wet and aching, but I don't touch down there yet. I start out with pinching and playing with my nipples for a minute or two while thrusting up into the air with my pelvis. After a few minutes of this the ache gets so intense I bring my hands into it. I start out with one hand, then add the other. My way of doing it is to insert the index finger of my left hand into my vagina and then tease and flick my clit with my right thumb. It's gotten to the point where I can add a 2nd finger now so I then insert my left middle finger. At this time I've usually already hooked my left and right thumbs together, this gives me leverage and helps intensify things. I now can rub my clit with both thumbs at the same time. While doing that, I usually try to pump my inserted fingers in and out, but I can't make myself orgasm that way alone. With my thumbs still hooked, I start rapidly jerking at the fingers inside me...trying to explain how it works...I just basically use both my hands and pull them up towards me in short jerking motions. I'm not sure if what I'm hitting is the g-spot or not but whatever it is, it feels good. When I'm almost about to orgasm I stop and repeat the pumping motions from before. I've had several intense orgasms this way, and my favorite part is when I can feel my vaginal walls clench around my fingers. Thank you so much for giving us a place to share our experiences and for letting us know these important things.
More can be learned about learning to masturbate while laying on your back by clicking here.
Ciara
When I need to pee I open my legs wide and have nothing but my knickers on and start rubbing it [clitoris?] in circular motions. It takes about 1 minute to cum xx
Anonymous
I love reading all these stories. I do it every day after I get home from school as a way to unwind. It makes me horny sometimes and usually I stop to masturbate.
Recently, I have begun serious masturbating, even though I've known that it felt good to touch myself all my life. Self-exploration as a little kid helped me to get to know myself better but I never did it for pleasure really. I've had orgasms in my sleep for as long as I can remember. I never really knew what they were until recently. I would just wake up to a building sensation and then my vagina would start contracting, slowing down with time. I knew that this sensation felt good and I enjoyed them when they came but I never figured that I could get that same feeling (or similar feeling) when I was awake.
Then I met my current boyfriend, who believes that masturbation is healthy and something that is necessary. I have come to this realization too :D and I now masturbate almost daily. But I was very frustrated from the start. I would masturbate by rubbing circles on my clitoris and would have intense feelings of building and then no contractions like I had experienced in my sleep. I assumed that I just wasn't having orgasms. I was very sexually frustrated for a long time and feared for my sexual future, was I one of those women who would never orgasm?
I have now come to the conclusion that "orgasm" is a word we attach with a certain feeling and that each orgasm is different for each woman. There is no one particular feeling that we call orgasm. There is no sense in describing it to someone else in order for them to determine if they are having orgasms or not. Each of us must decide for ourselves what our orgasms consist of. For myself, I have different variations of orgasms, each as pleasant as the next, and because I have accepted this, I am at peace with myself and no longer worry about the future.
So don't be upset if you're not experiencing that "release" or whatever that you think should happen. If you do something that feels good, don't try to determine whether it is an orgasm or not, because you might end up disappointing yourself. I searched for a long time, trying to find an exact description of what an orgasm is and what it feels like. And then I realized, well why am I putting so much stress and worry on myself when I can just say hey that feels good and call it a day. Masturbating shouldn't be about reaching someone else's idea of an orgasm, or even reaching your own idea of an orgasm. It should be about making yourself feel good, which is all that matters.
Audrey
Hi! This is to Anonymous [?], the girl who said she was a Christian and doesn't get any pleasure when she touches herself. I am a Christian too, and I know exactly what you mean. The same thing used to happen to me.
I never dreamed of actually touching my vagina until I woke up in the middle of the night one night, the summer after I graduated, so I was eighteen, with my hand covering my clitoris, massaging it. I was terrified. And wildly turned on. I didn't exactly know what was happening, and I was still half-asleep; but I kept going until I came, though I didn't know what that was or that I was doing it. But here's the weird part: Simultaneous with the (what I later learned was an) orgasm came this awful nausea. I was so sick afterwards that I couldn't sleep for a while. I just lay there in pain and in shame. It was awful.
But the same thing kept happening. Not every night, but perhaps once a week or once a month. I would wake up to find myself touching myself, and then I would come, and at the same moment, I would be sick to my stomach. I went to college, and being alone in a dorm room gave me a lot of time to notice myself. I began to actually choose to touch myself (as opposed to waking up doing it), and crave it; but still I was fearful of it because the nausea would come. It was inescapable. But! I had a boyfriend who began to touch me, and when I came with him, there was no nausea at all. Interesting, yes? I know that your problem is slightly different; you said that it doesn't feel good at all when you touch yourself but you like it when he does, but I think that both of our problems come from the same issue.
My mother is a very lovely but very strict woman. There is no running, jumping, screaming, crying, or other forms of unrestricted behavior in our lives (except for at the appropriate time, of course). There is also no laziness, self-indulgence, or sexuality. Period. The church taught me from a very early age, way before I knew what sex was, not to have it. It was extremely important that sex belong only in Christian marriage. This made me feel awful every time I looked at a guy. This made me feel awful every time I looked in the mirror. This is a crazy way to introduce sexuality to people!
And so, it took a long time and a really, really sensitive (and similarly-Christianized boyfriend) to be able to learn that my body was beautiful and that I can touch it and that it doesn't mean that my soul is impure. In a way, there is a beautiful purity in a human touching himself or herself. I am now twenty-three, but I have only been able to understand this for the last year or so. It took four years! And I think you said you're only fifteen, which means that you can start this process of loving yourself and seeing your body for you now. You seem pretty self-aware, which is great. Can you start to just enjoy yourself apart from sexual things? Do you love to sit in the sun or eat really good chocolate slowly or take a walk with only yourself for company or feel the breeze on the back of your neck or play with your own hair? These are little things that can help teach you how to love yourself. Loving your sexuality will come gradually, as you learn to let go of the concept of "purity" you've been taught. Most importantly, you belong to you. Never forget that.Anonymous
I usually just use a pillow but I recently bought a lovely red 8 inch dong with veins on it, which is great. I just discovered this technique for masturbating while driving. All you do is rock your hips back and forth and squeeze your pelvic floor muscles at the same time. You can also circle your hips around. It's a wonderful massage and nobody knows you're doing it. Its a great way to change your mood if you have had a bad day at work. When I am at home alone I imagine that I am giving my friends 16 year old son his first blow job. He probably has already had many but I still like to imagine.
Gina
I'm kind of new at this. When I masturbate I think about me taking advantage of a guy. And he falls for me because he got a boner and it hurts really bad. I lay on my back in my bed half or fully naked and I rub my clit by just moving my finger up and down. I also rock my pelvis back and forth and pretend that I am grinding on a big hard cock and its stretching out my pussy. I moan... but not that loud just little ones here and there. I also whisper under my breath little things like...."Oh yes" and "Keep going baby! Don't stop!" and some times I put a part of a blanket touching right below my vulva and it rubs back and forth when I pretend to hump something and it feel like a guy's balls hitting there. When I orgasm I moan pretty loud and grind my clit really hard against my finger. Sometimes I can go for like 4 to 5 orgasms in a row.
Anonymous
I had been fingered and eaten out by a boyfriend before and it really didn't do anything for me. I just layed there and it felt good but not worth my while. We broke up and about 2 years later I was in my room and had always wanted to masturbate, but was scared. I was flipping through channels and on HBO there was the bunny ranch show. I watched it and thought, what the heck. So, I did and from then on... for 2 years now I masturbate as much as I can.
On days when I'm really horny I'll masturbate 3-4 times a day for about an hour each time. If I'm really in the mood, I get completely naked and love to grab my thighs and boobs. Writing this right now is turning me on as I hold a vibrator near my pussy. I started off with wearing all my clothes and just using my hand and rubbing my clit. I had never orgasmed, but it felt so good. I would be so wet my finger would be full of cum. This lasted about a year until I discovered my mom had a back massager. It has a point on one end and it it so great at the clit. I now use that and in order to get in the mood I have a porn clip stash on my computer. I don't like to watch lesbians, but I do like to watch guys eat out girls. It's my favorite. I have recently discovered this site and I read as I masturbate. I no longer use my fingers, just the massager. I want to insert my fingers but I always feel like it will ruin the mood so I still have not. I like to use the massager and hold my boobs and thrust my pelvis. When my pussy is really wet and the massager is too I rub it all over my body, it turns me on so much. I orgasm 10-20 times each time. I think of a girl licking me down there and I'm straight but it turns me on. I love to masturbate! Great stress reliever! VIBRATORS do the trick!
Anonymous
Hi I've masturbated ever since I was about 4 or 5. I lie on my stomach and press down hard on my vulva and sometimes I hump. I used to do it during naps in preschool but the teachers would stop me and I didn't know why. Then when I was about 8 I would go to a girl's house who was a year older than me to play for the whole afternoon. She would lie on top of me facing me and grind on me and kiss me and carress me. Of course I didn't know what was going on but I loved it!! And it helped to make me imaginative in fantasies and so on. I usually masturbate before sleep and sometimes wake up in the middle of the night and find myself masturbating!!
I'm a virgin but once I was on a crowded train and I was face to face with a boy around the same age and he was so hot! The train jerked and I was pushed against him and well it was like we were grinding against each other! I was feeling so hot and embarrased but it felt good and he was smirking so I grinded some more and felt myself dripping wet!
Nowadays I like to lie on the floor fully clothed with both hands pressing on my vulva. Sometimes I masturbate in the shower pressing against some pipe.
I've tried fingering myself but it doesn't seem to stimulate me that much. Heavy pressure works the best for me. But also licking my fingers and fondling my breasts help me when masturbating.
Reading erotica makes me so so so so wet but I don't get the same feeling as when I'm grinding.
Deb
I prefer to have my husband watch me when I masturbate. He is totally turned by when he watches me and I admit that I too get turned on when he is watching. I love teasing my nipples which gets me wet. I slowly move my hand down to my clit. I prefer a slow slight pressure on my clit. I slowly work one finger inside my vagina and continue to alternate between penetration and stroking. I love squeezing my breasts while I'm stroking myself. I love to feel myself and watch how much my husband enjoys the show. I sometimes like to please myself while watching in the mirror. Self pleasure is the best when I'm being watched by he one I love.
Anonymous
I love this site and visit the various techniques often. I have seen a post by Amanda on pole/rope climbing. This is my favourite technique too. Simply find a door, thin pole or rope to climb. I climb up to a certain point and then keep moving up and down using my feey as the driving force until...bam. The feeling is so intense and different. Sometimes I disappear to the forest and look for a secluded spot to climb a tree. This adds to the excitement. I wish I could contact other people who do this. There seem to be a few but not too many. I once even filmed myself.
Elise
I started masturbating when I was, oh, I don't know, four. My younger cousin and I were taking a bath together. She was helping me rinse, pouring water all over me, including my vulva. It felt divine! I rinsed her off and did the same. I've been masturbating in the shower ever since.
My favorite technique is to start underneath the faucet in the tub with the water on low, but still warm, hitting my clit. I increase the pressure until it's as high as it can go. I fantasize and enjoy it. Then, right before orgasm, I stop and count to ten, then I finish. It is amazing!
My other favorite is to take one of those blush brushes, one of those huge fuzzy ones, and stroke my clit gently until I come, just make sure there isn't any make-up on the brush. Ouch. The only thing is, you have to stay away from your vagina, because the wetness ruins the warm feathery feeling you get as you stroke, slow and light. It is great!
Anonymous
I find that clitoral stimulation works the best for me. I have been masturbating since I was about 11, I am now 16 and have been looking for new ways to pleasure myself. what I find is really nice is before going right in for the kill, I rub the outside of my vagina and wait until I get good and wet. Then I use one hand to open the lips of my vagina and usually I place three fingers on one side and my index finger and thumb on the other. Using the other hand, I stimulate my clit and rub my thumb just above the lips of my vulva. Using pressure with the three fingers holding the lips open, hold it there until the stimulation drives you over the edge. It's takes a little practice to get the pressure just right but it is totally worth it.
Anonymous
I didn't really understand masturbation until I came upon this website. I was looking up some stuff about it, because I didn't really understand it, and someone reccommended this website. I remember when I was young I used to touch myself down there, and it made me feel good. I never went past stroking my vulva, but I knew there was something down there.
I stopped for a long time, but just in the last year or so I've gotten back into it. I discovered my clit about 6 months ago. I couldn't touch it directly at first, but I have now gotten used to it.
Today was my first time coming even close to orgasm. I was in the shower and I had sat down at the bottom and was rubbing my breats. I then made my way down and started lightly rubbing my clit. I proceded to rub harder, at which point my legs started to twitch. I was breathing heavily, and my juices were dripping. It felt so, so good. I wasn't able to make it all the way though, because I was afraid my mom would hear me and my clit was already sore. I guess another day will have to do. Hope this helps someone :]
Kitty Nekomimi
I've been masturbating since I was 10. Now that I'm 17, I've recently started using toys. IT feels so much better because my fingers are extremely small and can't touch my g-spot or much else. I love to have my lover "scissor" my g-spot for me. When I'm aroused it sticks up like a little button and then he takes his index and middle fingers and makes a scissoring motion with my g-spot inbetween it. If your fingers can touch your g-spot, you can do it too! I sure wish I could. I also get enjoyment from filling up a water gun and squirting it on my clit and inside of me! Yay! ^.^
Love,
Kitty Nekomimi
*chu*
Pamela
I am 61 years old and just recently found this web-site. It's so comforting that Helen and Fran, of similar age to me, have made a contribution, which in turn has encouraged me to reveal my masturbation thrills. I was 14 when I first discovered the delights of masturbating myself, and similar to most young girls masturbation soon became an every-day pleasure; usually two or three times a day. My compulsive masturbation lessened some-what during the years I was married. However since my divorce, 12 years ago, I still enjoy, and need, sexual satisfaction, but whilst I've had sex with a few men, masturbation is again my main sexual pleasure. I masturbate most days and I enjoy watching myself. My pleasures are derived from two different techniques; a quick thrill with my fingers, and secondly with a dildo taking my time and giving myself multi-orgasms. My 'quickies' are usually morning times, before I go to work. Standing and facing a full length mirror I raise my skirt and lower my knickers. Then with two fingers of one hand inside my vagina, and fingers of the other hand exciting my clitoris I watch myself masturbate, I usually climax within a few minutes. The more leisurely thrills are usually evening times, two or three times a week. Soaking in the bath and slowly moving fingers back and forth over my vulva and clitoris, but not making myself climax. After some twenty minutes I leave the bath and towel dry myself. Then naked in the lounge sprawled on the sofa I caress my breasts, finger my vagina and clitoris to an orgasm. But the big thrill is when I'm penetrating my vagina with a dildo. Taking it nice and slow I enjoy giving myself multi-orgasms, until the desire to bring myself to a climax is overwhelming. Whilst thrusting the dildo back and forth in my vagina, I'm also fingering my clitoris. The climax is so powerful that I'm left shaking with indescribable pleasures.
A tip for the younger girls who have recently just discovered masturbating themselves. Whilst there is a need to thrill yourself as quick as possible. Afterwards try taking your time and giving your-self multi-orgasms before the eventual climax .Lisa
I love to fantasize about women and rub my clit - it gets very wet and I just wish I knew some women who felt the same! I lie on my back and let my imagination run wild. I usually come quite quickly but would love to try it with a real woman - oral would be great. Maybe someday ....
Anonymous
Hi. I'm 16, and I started masturbating when I was around 11. My friend asked me if when watching sex scenes in shows if I ever started humping something. From then on that summer we talked over the phone as she made moaning noises to turn me on and we read sex stories to each other. During that time I would put a sock in my underwear and put a pillow on my bed. I would spread my legs to the side of the pillow then pull the upper part of it up to my chest. I would rock back and forward until it felt good.
I got my first orgasm that summer. My friend had found porn on her brother's computer and I had her play it to me. As she played it I listened eagerly lying on my stomach with a pillow under me. I remember suddenly feeling like I was exploding as I tried not to scream. I think I've never said oh my god more times in my life.
That year at camp my friend and I rubbed each other's clits through our panties. I admit I didn't get much out of it, but I go back to different variations in my mind to turn me on.
Now as I'm older I have two different ways to masturbate.
1. I lie on my bed with my laptop in front of me, on the edge. I have one leg over the edge and the other to the side. I read sex stories, look at pictures, do anything I can to get me turned on and rub my pussy in a circular motion. I do this most often because I can do it secretly, and in lot's of places (bed, couch, chairs etc.).
2.This is my favorite method but I don't do it a lot. I lie under my covers wearing a t-shirt and underwear. I place my hands right next to my pussy on my thighs and think of an arousing story. As I think of the story I get more and more aroused, but I don't allow myself to touch myself. I instead run my hands around my pussy. Then I take of the covers and my underwear. I put my hands on top of each other and put them on my pussy. Then I rub my pussy in a circular motion. I take my fingers and run them up and down too. I do many things but never fully satisfy myself. By now I am wet and shaking. I lick my hand too and rub it up and down my pussy, it feels like someone's licking it. After I can't handle it anymore I finger myself & then go back to method one. I get mind blowing orgasms off this one. Try it!
Jodie
Hi I started to masturbate when I was just 6, I would 'hump' practically anything, I did feel wrong doing it however, but when I spoke to my older sister who is a year older then me I found out she was doing the same, I always get my boyfriend my grind my clit when we dance at parties, its such a turn on for both me and him, it gets me soo moist.
Samantha
I have recently discovered this website and I think it is great. I am 16 and have been masturbating since I was a little girl. When I first began to do this I didn't know what I was doing, I thought I was crazy and did not understand why I would insist on doing it often.
I always try new ways a techniques to get myself to that special place, I usually masturbate at night when I am falling asleep, I do not have a special method, I just enjoy playing with myself. And being that I am to young for toys or anything special all I really have are my hands. I am not sure if I have ever reached a full orgasm, I always get to a point that feels amazing yet I never feel an "explosion" like people say they do. I am embarrassed about what I do, and never want my mom or family to find out. But if anyone has any ideas, or other techniques that seem successful to them please post them, all I want to do is reach a full orgasm.
Lawanda
I like to lie back and tease my clit with a electric toothbrush. I read about this on the Net, and figured I would try it. OMG!! Is fantastic, and much more reliable and cheaper than a vibrator. Plus, can leave it out, and no one knows. I would like to try this technique on another woman, to see if she would like it. Any takers??
Giselle
I have a shower massage, and love to focus it on my clit. The warm cascading water feels like a tongue, and helps me to envision a willowy blonde sucking my hard clit.
Larna
I must confess, I am addicted to touching myself, I get turned on by fantasizing about some pretty weird things too.
Sometimes I imagine that a stranger enters my house in the middle of the night, he or she slowly pulls the covers to one side and begins to gently lick the inside of my thighs until my body is quivering with pleasure and I am begging for release, I sometimes stroke my thighs to help me along and then Ii pull my knickers to one side to reveal my wet throbbing clitoris. I then imagine the stranger slowly but firmly licking circles around my clit with the flat of his/her tongue (in reality this makes me erupt!!) and I simulate this by lubricating my middle and ring finger with my own juices and then massaging (not rubbing or flicking) my clit with the flat of my fingers (not the tip it is too much too soon), steadily and with a good, flowing rhythm. I like to feel my orgasm flow through me in waves, and I assure you, you will be shaking from head to toe with this one, it makes me feel almost like I am drunk!! Try it! Enjoy!
Bonnie
I started masturbating at the age of 9...I was at my friend's house, watching some movie, and when it got to this part where this guy's dick falls out of his shorts, I got extremely horny. It got so bad that I actually had to excuse myself from their house to run back to my house (I only lived a couple of blocks). I went in my room and sat on my bed for a little bit, trying to understand what I was feeling. As if my body was answering me, I laid on my stomach, put both my hands down my pants, covered the hood of my clit and mound and started to slowly hump. I started thinking about the penis in the movie and gradually I started humping faster until I reached a climax, and that was my first orgasm.
For the next 7 years, the only way I was able to orgasm was that exact same way; on my stomach humping my hands. The first object I tried sticking in me was a nail polish bottle which of course got me no stimulation...but when I turned 17 (age I am now) I tried once again to orgasm whilst on my back, legs spread and rubbing my clit with just my fingers. It finally worked and I was so pleased with myself, I've only resorted to the stomach-routine once!
After I finally mastered orgasming on my back, I wanted to try to stick something in for penetration. Since I'm too bashful to go out and buy a vibrator/dildo, I use the handle to my hairbrush, which is actually pretty fat but it's very smooth. At first I started out using a candle, but I grew too used to it and found it to be way too thin, so I used my hairbrush and it turned out wonderful. I love using it during a hot steamy shower.
I sometimes feel like a dirty old man because I love watching pornography and getting aroused by that, or reading erotica (I keep a book of ero in my desk next to my bed for some late-night internal fireworks) or simply just storming up something that I find incredibly sexy and get off doing that. Another thing I sometimes do when I feel like having a little human contact is calling a local phone dateline and have phonesex while masturbating. The results of that are extreeeeemely rewarding. I feel incredibly sexy when I'm able to get a guy off.
Anyway I've read about a hundred dozen of these stories and I'm full of new ideas to try. Thank you so much for this site...Anonymous
My favorite masturbating technique is to rub my bottom half on various furniture naked and feeling my breasts at the same time. I've been doing this since i was about 10 and it gives me great pleasure.
Lisette
Thanks to this site. I always felt alone and maybe something was strange about me as a young woman because all my life I have heard that "men" are visual creatures, turned on visually by what they see to the point of orgasm but I never heard this about women. So for years I went around thinking I was the only women who was very stimulated sexually by looking at erotic images and reaching orgasm without even touching myself or being touched. This also has always happened to me by thinking of erotic things. After reading the many stories on here of other womens sexuality and masturbation, I now know this is completely normal. Why isn't this said more openly about how women, just like men, are visual creatures, sexually stimulated by what they see or think about or read, without even having to be touched. Thank you, Lisette.
Anonymous
My first sexual experience was when I was about 11 - I enjoyed doing gymnastics, at my school we had an after school gymnastics club so me and my friend decided to go, we were on the ropes and decided to try and climb to the top, when I got to the top I just held on with my thighs and hands when I suddenly started to feel wet - at the time I didn't understand what was going on. Now I realize that I was probably having a small orgasm. I didn't tell anyone because I thought it was un-natural, but it wasn't. I still vaguely remember what I felt like - it felt soo good - I think I thought it was just my nerves of being so high up.
Diva
I love to rub my clit whenever I get in the mood. I start off by taking a hot shower and drying off and not putting anything on no lotion, no powder and definitely no clothes. Then I love to get under many comforters and spread my legs wide. Then I take my hand and rub my nipples and slightly touching my slit. I rub the out side of my vulva real hard then I open the lips if my pussy and slowly rub in a circular motion around my clit and as I rub I find sensitive spots on my clit and when I find a real sensitive spot I rub really fast until I orgasm: and if I'm still horny I hump my pillows and begin rubbing again. It feels so good I can just fall asleep.
Liz
I love to masturbate. The best way I found was rubbing my clit until my mom bought me a foot massager. OMG! The best sensation ever humping it. Just using it on your clit like any other old vibrator but you can lie on your front at the same time and hump it like you would a guy's dick. Fucking awesome.
Kim
I don't put my fingers in my vagina but I do rub my clit in circles, which feels awesome. Also I lay down in the tub and let the water run down to my spot.
The feeling is sensational.
Kristy
I have tried many things (most of them successful) the shower head -- absolutely wonderful -- my own way that I've been doing since I can remember (4-5 ish), but really hard to explain -- the electric tooth brush, also great 'till the tooth brush died -- back massager, the first time I did that, I didn't know what was happening when my juices started flowing, and I freaked out and turned it off immediately and now I'm sad that I missed out on a potentially good experience --humping pillows -- fantasies -- I tried the 'ice' techniques, and I don't recommend it, way way way too cold, my pussy is more of a warm temperature lover -- and I've been trying to come for a while now, I've done all the normal visual and physical stimulation, but I can't seem to get anything but writing about it seems to be working! Thanks to all the techniques and for this wonderful web site, its the best out there!
Anonymous
Once, after I had stopped masturbating and was reading more posts on your website: Well, I was sitting with my back up against the wall, my knees up in the air, but I was slouched down a bit, so my stomach was parallel with the floor. And my cat walks over and stands on my bladder, as the creators of this website have said, for some reason a full bladder can be stimulating, and I came immediately, then of course my cat started freaking out when I was breathing hard, but it was the most amazing - strangest - and pleasuring experience. I have never been able to recreate that on my own and believe me I have tried! Happy masturbating and thanks for this site!
Anonymous
I sit on the edge of a chair with my pussy pulsing. I can feel myself starting to get wet against the chair, my red cunt slippery and hot and wild. I fuck myself with my fingers, rubbing my hot pussy juices around and around and over my clit. I hump the chair, getting so wet I scream and moan as I fuck myself to the most amazing wet juicy orgasm. My cunt is exploding as I writhe around, the pressure on my clit is amazing. I am so hot and wet, my juices spurting out all over the floor. In the mirror my pussy is huge and throbbing, wet and hot. I scream while I cum around my fingers "YES YES OH YES CUM FUCK ME!!"
Ashley
I have been masturbating for about a year. I'm totally straight, but I fantasize about woman all the time. I'm in love with my boyfriend, and he turns me on and gets me wet by just looking at me. But I sometimes think of a woman rubbing and licking my clit.
I used to use a back massager, but it broke, and rubbing or fingering myself never made me orgasm. So I used the water technique. The hot water is amazing against my clit. I even use the removable sink faucet. That feels even better. I'm wanting to try the pillow technique ever since I've heard so much about it. But thanks so much for this frickin awesome site.
Bye bye!!
Tina
I have been masturbating since the age of nine. I began masturbating because of this special I saw once on HBO about naked protestors. Then I didn't understand why this made me soo excited and tingly down in my pussy. That night I laid on my bed, and squeezed my legs together as hard as I could with my arm pressing against my clitoris. I noticed that this action made me wet down there. Soon afterwards I began to lay in my bed and pull down my panties and just touch myself down there. One night I turned on HBO and I saw the show Pornicopia. This was the best thing I had ever seen. It showed women masturbating, men and women humping and having oral sex, men jacking off, women having sex together in the position 69, and many other things. This made me soo excited that I began to rub my clit. I rubbed and rubbed until my clitoris grew and began to throb really hard. Soon I reached orgasm. This was the best feeling I had ever felt. Since then I have been trying many ways to please myself.
Now I usually lay on my bed and pull down my panties and lay under the covers and massage my clit with either just my middle finger on my right hand or the index finger and the middle finger on my right hand. I also go in my bathroom and lock the door and get completely naked and lay on the floor because of the fuzzy bath mats we have and rub my tits, massage my clit, and sometimes insert two fingers in my vagina.
I'm still a virgin but I really want to feel the feeling of have a man pumping his dick in my vagina and have a woman lick and finger my vagina.
Serena
I don't know exactly how old I was when I first started masturbating, although I was probably about six or seven. It's difficult for me to remember a time when I didn't masturbate. I found that the urge to masturbate would normally come over me while I was lying in bed, either in the evening or after waking in the morning. I would lie face-down on my bed with my pillow tucked underneath me and would start rubbing myself against it. This immediately produced a pleasant sensation which made me want to continue. I would often also notice a tickling sensation in my nose which made me want to sneeze. (I still often sneeze when I am sexually aroused, especially when masturbating). I found my sexual sneezes very enjoyable and they would spur me on to continue with my masturbation. I would start to rub myself harder and harder as the sensation in my crotch got more intense, until I reached a point where my body just seemed to take over by itself. My eyes would glaze over, my body would stiffen and I would start to pant and breathe heavily as I continued thrusting my pelvis faster and faster against the pillow. Eventually the feeling would become so strong that I couldn't take any more. At first I would just stop at this point, but I never enjoyed stopping, which always left me wanting more. As I got older I would learn how to continue beyond the point of no return which would lead to an even more delicious sensation as my body suddenly relaxed and all the stiffness would drain out of it. I had just had an orgasm, although I didn't know the word at the time. After coming, I would feel wonderfully dreamy and relaxed as a drowsy languor came over me, and I would either fall asleep or have to lie on my bed for about half an hour in a happy daze while recovering.
Anonymous
I have been masturbating for about 6 months or so now. When I was about 11 I remember it felt really good to just push hard down there when I had to pee really bad. Now, I masturbate at least three times a day or more. I usually just rub my clit until I orgasm because I am too afraid to put anything in my vagina yet. The clit thing is amazing though!
Magen
Ah I just love to read these techniques and stories! They make me want to rub on my clit forever! So I've been masturbating since I was very young. I used to stay at my grandma's while my parents worked and she kept a little boy. He used to put his hands in my panties and rub on my clit. I wasn't real sure what was going on, I just knew that we got in trouble for it one time cause I rubbed his penis too. But we still did it. It was like just because we the young 3 or 4 year olds got in trouble it seemed that much better. Later on I humped my stuffed rabbit every day in my closet. It was the best thing. Then I moved to just rubbing my clit in a circular motion every night to get to sleep. I LOVE to masturbate. I love to watch porn and masturbate, I love to masturbate in the shower, I love to stick things in my pussy. I love reading these stories and getting so turned on I can cum without even touching my clit! I love to picture a girl sucking on my clit while I suck on a guy's cock. Even though I'm completely straight there is just something about a girl eating me out that I cannot resist! Well ladies I enjoyed this site very much! Keep rubbin the clits!!
Christina
I have masturbated for as long as I can remember, since before I knew a name for it. My clitoris is very small and sensitive, so I keep my panties on and never part my labia majora. When I was younger (from about age 2 to 18) I would masturbate lying on my stomach with both hands cupping my mons. I would rub myself with a massaging motion, using my labia majora or even the flesh of my thighs to indirectly stimulate my clitoris. This would produce a weak but deep orgasm that felt like bearing down.
When I went to college I became vaguely aware that most women seemed to masturbate lying on their backs. I tried this, but it didn't work for me. I needed my body weight pressing against my hands to get enough friction for orgasm. But with some work (and a lot of porn) I finally managed to orgasm while sitting down or lying on my back, rubbing in circles around my clit with three or four fingers. This produces a more intense, explosive orgasm than lying on my stomach.
I've learned to combine the two to great effect. My sex ed teacher in college explained that when the clitoris becomes erect, it pushes further up under the clitoral hood, becoming more protected. After the initial orgasm, it becomes flaccid and therefore more exposed and sensitive. When it is like that, it is easier for me to orgasm on my stomach because the pressure is more uniform and gentle. I masturbate to my most intense orgasm lying on my back, then I flip over and massage myself to three or four more on my stomach. My only limit is when my arms get tired.
Lucy dOVE
My name is Lucy dOVE. I am 17. Recently I found the best was to cum really hard. I straddle a door and put a hand on each knob. Then I rock and put lots of pressure on my lovely little clitty.
Put a towel over the door or wear your panties so that there is no cum on the door.
When I am done I am red and throbbing.
Then I get my electric toothbrush and hold it on my pussy and clitty until I shake with delight.
Its amazing.
I'm going to go do it right now!!
Mmmmm
Beth
Hi I'm Beth, I have been masturbating since I was about 12. I got sent a link once and clicked on it, which turned out to be porn. I watched it and couldn't help myself feeling turned on. I felt myself getting wet and couldn't resist getting my fingers in and rubbing. I started slow and got gradually faster, and then had a great tingling feeling through the body.
Since then I have masturbated a few times a week. I like to watch some porn first to turn me on. I take my clothes off and lay down on my bed, with my legs far apart. Because I don't have a mirror in my room, I sometimes get my web cam and put it on my laptop so I can watch. I then put more porn on, and slowly rub my clit up and down then slowly round, getting gradually faster. I then rub from the top of my clit down to the bottom of my vulva very fast which makes me very wet and gets my orgasm.
Anonymous
I started when I was about 10. I was on holiday, and I was feeling my bits when I realized how good it felt. I had been talking to this girl on MSN who was older than me, and she told me a lot, and got me into that sort of stuff.
I used my index finger on my clit and just moved it side to side until I started shaking and I had an amazing feeling. I had no idea what I was doing, it just felt good. When I was 11 I realized I was masturbating and I was having orgasms. I started to try different techniques, and now I have orgasms using my electric toothbrush, using other things. My aim now is to get a g-spot orgasm, I cant seem to do it though.
I love this website makes me very horny and more comfortable about my habit. I masturbate up to twice a day now. I can't tell my friends, they all think it is wrong, but I think they might do it as they seem to know an awful lot about it :)
Anonymous
I am 17 and have been masturbating since I was about 12. I actually prefer it to sex. I usually watch music videos by this band I like, and the singer is so fucking hot, and he rolls his eyes in the back of his head in about 7 videos, I usually imagine he's fucking me while I rub my clit or finger myself. It's really hot. I also like the pillow technique, and a friend of mine uses hot dogs.
Willow
I just recently started masturbating and I got some orgasms, but only from the faucet running onto me. I would have my legs on the walls and in a couple minutes I start quivering and then I'm done, sometimes the water has to be warmer and have more force, and sometimes it has to be cold. But I don't think I cum in the bath.. Or can I just not feel it? I'm not sure...but it feeels GOOD with out it.
I don't like penetration or touching myself down there, it has to be another object or water, but objects don't give me an orgasm.
Also when I'm in the bath I can only get one orgasm and then that's all.
Any tips for how to get more while in the bath??
Please please !!
Anonymous
Okay..So I've visited this site for about nine months or so, and always felt too awkward to write.. but here goes it...I'm almost 20..and have only been masturbating for about a year.. and this site has helped me out sooo much :]. I love reading everyone's stories.. it really helps me to mentally get into the mood. So here's what I do.. usually I'll come here, read some stories.. or I'll check out a nice girl/girl flick online.. For some reason I am just so turned on by two females.. it's such a beautiful thing.. I love my body, as a female, so watching other women is great...then I creep up to my bedroom, turn on my electric fireplace and strip down.. I hop into bed, lay on my back and let my hands make their way down my body..I start by massaging the outside, while imagining that I am one of the women in the videos.. and then I can't take it anymore, and I have to start slowly rubbing circles on my clit, but soon that isn't good enough.. I have to go faster, while pushing it.. I stop right before I peak.. wait about 45seconds then slowly start in again.. I try and do this 3-4 times, but sometimes I can barely handle it, and start rapidly rubbing and all of a sudden I begin to cum, and within 30 seconds I achieve the most amazing orgasm ever...I can't even talk about it anymore..so thanks for everyone's support and openness on this topic..Now I've gotta go handle some 'business'
Ann
I can make my self climax be pulling my thong up real tight and rocking back and forth. I did that once when I was on a road trip with friends. I was in the back seat with my dress pulled up and I came so hard I screamed when we passed a semi truck and the truck driver looked at me.
Ashley
I first masturbated when I was 12. I am 17 now. I first discovered it when i realized that I really liked the feeling of peeing, and eventually discovered that's what turns me on. I really enjoyed it, and started fingering myself right after I peed. One day, when my parents left, I took all the sheets off of my bed, and stacked all my pillows on one side. I laid up against it, with my legs straight up in the air, and started to pee. I let it run all down my stomach, and then my chest, and finally dripping down onto my face. That was the first time I've ever had more than one orgasm, and now I can't orgasm without pee being involved somehow. I wish I could find someone who would accept that, and help me enjoy it.
Anonymous
I too love to masturbate in the shower. Often I use my shower head's "pulse" or "massage" setting and with one leg on the side of the tub, spreading my clit hood open with one hand, aim a jet of water at the area directly above the clit bump. Occaisionally I can get it aimed in such a way that it causes an unbelievable urge to rub on my pubic bone and almost scratch at my skin above the clit, it also helps if you use pubic hair to help scratch, and this can cause a great orgasm, for me at least.
Cas
I'm 18 years old and I've been masturbating since I was 7. I was very curious as a child. One day I was snooping through my parents dresser drawers and I found a videotape, naturally a put it in the VCR. There on the TV was two woman and a man; one of the woman was being pounded from behind while she was eating out her girlfriend. I was so turned on by the site of their naked bodies and sounds of them cumming. I crossed my legs and started flexing my inner thigh muscles, cut to five minutes later, I was wet and had this tingling sensation throughout my body. My first orgasm...such tender memories
Now with 11 years under my belt since then, my curiosity has grown and become more refined. Now I fantasize a lot about older men: substitutes teachers, friends fathers, preists....yes men my age turn me on too but there's just something about an older man that really gets my love button going. But I still have that curious 7 year old in me, that just loves to get off to porn. Two girls and a guy are my favorite scenes...
Morgan
I think I masturbate about once everyday. I think I've been masturbating since I was about 13. I'm lucky, I had my first orgasm last year. And it was the wildest thing I have ever felt, but I love it so much. I would love to learn how to squirt, I think it looks like it feels amazing. But I don't know. I'm lucky enough to get my hands on my own vibrator, that my parents DON'T know about ha. Yeah I use it everyday, usually while looking at porn, (it helps so much) but other times I'll do it in the shower (with out the vibrator) yeah. That's me.
Danielle
I'm 17 years old and have been masturbating since I was about 10. I love it so so much that sometimes I will deprive myself for a week and then have the time of my life. I start by having a shower and shaving down (especially my pussy) then I will go and watch TV but think only about sex. I keep touching myself until I'm wet then head off to bed. When I'm in bed I take off my panties and start to rub my clit. After a minute or so I plunge three fingers in and then suck on them pretending that a guy is forcing me too. I'll put my fingers back in and start going in and out vigorously, then stick two fingers up my ass. If I'm super horny I'll try for three. At this stage I almost always cum. It feels so so good that I want to do it again but sadly I am just too tired, after so much fun. I never thought something in your ass could feel so nice, I always used to think it was disgusting.
Anonymous
I started having sexual fantasies when I was about 12 or 13, I would spend the night with a friend who was about two years older than me and more developed, she would "accidentally" roll over and lay her hand on my chest, then move down to my pussy. She would gently start rubbing my clit and I would spread my legs wider for her to have full access to my pussy. She never penetrated me, therefore I started having orgasms from clitoral stimulation. I moved away and missed that so much that I started "humping my pillow" at night, thinking about her and boys too. I am happily married, and have a wonderful active sex life but still am so intrigued by beautiful females. I masturbate using a wand vibrator, sometimes stimulating my pee hole, fantasizing about a beautiful woman sitting on a fountain wall, high heels, legs wide open and holding her pussy lips open so I can kneel between her legs and suck her clit. I get so hot thinking about her that I want to play now. I have never been with a woman but would love to with my husband watching.
Beth
WOW! I am glad to know that I am not the only one who started young. I might have been 10-11 when for maybe three years I had two friends (girls) that I masturbated with. We used to touch each other and kiss. My breasts were very small but one the girls was already a small B. I loved touching them. We used to ride pillows. We then grew and stopped it and never talked about it. I still ride pillows. Awesome!
I also look at girl's videos and get horny that way. Then I pinch and pull my clit while moving around until it's almost time. At that point one finger goes on the hood, the other one right underneath and start rubbing! Off I went! Awesome! I do this daily at least twice a day. Can't do without. My boyfriend doesn't know.
Paris
Hello my name is Paris and I love to use the shower head, just the yummy feeling of it massaging my clit is great! I love to think about a person instructing me on what to do, I also love to dream about going to a Vagina spa were the workers give you special toys and make you have exploding orgasms while watching hot porn.
Blondie
I am in my late thirties and I have been masturbating since as far back as I can remember. I am, in general, very sensitive and become aroused easily and since it has been my experience that most men I have relationships with can not keep up with me, it an excellent outlet. I think about sex all of the time, even at times in my life where I am making love a lot. My nipples are highly sensitive and any hint of them being touched gets me extremely wet. I have had orgasms before purely from nipple stimulation alone. I like to masturbate (and make love) in a room that is somewhat cool, because my nipples become very very erect from the cold, and the pressure of the skin getting tight, that squeezing sensation, feels unbelievable to me.
Late at night when the temperature drops in my room I pull the blankets down to my waist and at first I like to flick my nipples with the tips of my fingernails through the material, then I unbutton my top, and expose my breasts to the cold. before I even touch them again, feeling them become more erect from the cold is enough to start me squeezing my thighs together. I like to take my finger tips and lightly make little circles on my erect nipples, and gradually make the pressure harder. I like to have both nipples stimulated until I come, and after a little while when I start losing it, I start pinching and pulling on them, squeezing them so that it hurts slightly. I like to pull my panties up tightly between my lips, I will usually spread my lips with my fingers so that I can pull them up as far as possible against my clit and I pull my panties up in the back so that I get pressure behind too. One fantasy that I have while masturbating this way is that someone is outside my bedroom door listening to me. I am very vocal and loud, which when I reach a certain point of arousal, it is hard to control the sounds I make. I like to imagine them listening to me moaning and getting turned on just by the sound of me.
I am naturally a very dominant woman, but I often fantasize about being dominated sexually. I fantasize that I am being overpowered by a man. I love the idea of being in a "dangerous" situation where you have to be "careful", and not being able to control myself. I like to pretend that he is running his finger between my breasts, hinting at touching my nipples, teasing me, and me attempting to tell him to stop, but I am so weak and wet that I cannot get away. I like the idea of being cornered, and protesting with my words, but my body not being able to stop.
I also love to kiss, my mouth is extremely sensitive, and when I am really making love to someone I cannot help but put my mouth anywhere there is bare skin, I like to bite (gently) and suck. I have a fairly long slightly pointed tongue and it turns me on to lick with the tip of it, a shoulder, thigh, forearm, whatever my mouth is near. I often fantasize about putting my mouth all over a mans body, and thinking about kissing alone gets me really excited. I like to think about being teased in this way also, like my lips are being touched softly with his finger, letting me suck it then pulling it away. I like the idea of him not giving me a full on kiss right away, but making me wait for it, maybe running his tongue up my neck, biting my chin, brushing his lips against mine and then pulling away. Sometimes when I masturbate I will run my finger on my lips and suck on it, pretending it is his.
I also like to masturbate in the shower and have made my own dildo out of the sausage you buy at the grocery store, the packaged one in a "U" shape. I cut it in half and put it in a condom, tying off the end. I position the bend so that it puts direct pressure inside me towards the back, so as to hit my G spot, and bend the other end so that it is between my lips, rubbing my clit. Then I get on my knees in the shower and slowly rise up and down while squeezing my thighs together, leaving both hands free to play with my nipples. My thigh muscles start to ache after a while, but I am so turned on I can't stop.
Sometimes I like to lay behind a man just close enough so that my nipples are barely rubbing on his bare back and sort of slide them up and down while I finger myself, and I make sure to have my mouth close to his ear so that he can hear me getting off.
Beth
I remember pulling my panties down and rubbing my pubic area to "feel good" when I was in the first grade, I didn't know it had a name until I was older, but I had continued to "hone" the act. I started to play with my clit with my fingers then developed the ability to masturbate quietly in my room at night. By the time I was in my teens, I had started to let my date rub my breast and suck on them, but I often thought about what intercourse would feel like but was too afraid to lose my virginity to allow penetration. By the time I graduated from high school, I was pleasuring myself a lot and doing it in front of my boyfriend, but did not allow him to participate so he started jacking off in front of me, which turned me on even more. Now, a long time later, I am married and have a wonderful sex life but often still make myself orgasm, like everyday, now thinking of this beautiful young girl who lives down the street. She lays out near her pool and will undo her top just enough that I can see her nipples when I do my daily walk. I go home, get naked, open the doors and shades so I can be seen and play with my sweet pussy until I enjoy a total orgasm, hoping to be seen by neighbors. I know the lady across the street watches for me after my walks. I love being watched and love to dream of Heather, and her hot body. I have never tried another woman but would gladly eat Heather's pussy out for her while I finger my own pussy. I dream of this while I pinch and pull at my swollen clit.
Anonymous
I am 15 and just masturbated for the first time. I've been having fantasies, and been watching adult stuff since I was 5 but was always too scared to do anything, so I had a lot of Sexual Tension. I came across this site and after reading the stories and tips here decided to give it a try. I didn't cum and I only got shaky and overheated for about three seconds, then I realized something was happening and snapped out of it. But now that I have, I have this weird liberated feeling! Like I'm free or something! I'm still a bit shocked and shaky but maybe I'll try again one day. Thanks a lot for this site!
Kelle
Hay I'm Kelle and my first orgasm was when I was four playing with my friend Morgan. I was on top of him, we had all our clothes on, and had no sexual ideas or anything like that, but my clit must have gotten pretty excited because his penis was at the same level as my vulva. But then on I rubbed myself on things like a previous writer has said. I like to lie on my back lube up my clit with spit and lightly tap it with my middle finger. It's REALLY great for teasing and then change to circles on my clit to make it last. I find closing my eyes and focusing solely on my clit makes it really intense.
Sarah
I'm 16 and masturbate a lot. I love it! I do it when I'm in my room naked on my back and I'm in the shower. Sometimes I wear my favorite thong and bra while I masturbate. I usually have better orgasms in my room than in the shower.
Luv
Sarah
Kerry
Well, at first when I was younger, my parents had this back massager, I use to sneak into their room and rest it on my clit, it felt amazing. I started using a dildo, it didn't do that much for me, I did have an electric toothbrush also I would lay on my bed for hours with it I get more pleasure from clit stimulation. At this moment when I have a bath I spread my legs and let the water run onto my clit, it feels amazing. as the water runs onto my clit I finger myself..it works great and its relaxing, it can get really hot though because of the steam, but I love it :P.
Kayla
I have been masturbating since about....5 maybe. I do it almost everyday. I love when I just get off my period, like the next day, to do it. Makes it all the more better. I love it. I am a virgin.
Anonymous
I'm 17. I started masturbating when I was around 9. I remember going in the bathroom to take a shower one day and we had one of those hoses you can take down off the wall. I was just cleaning myself when I realized the sensation I felt. It was so good. After a while we moved into a new house that didn't have one of those hoses. So I decided to experiment using my fingers. Then I would usually think of different fantasies involving both girls and guys. It was also at this time I realized I was bisexual. I never fingered myself though. I simply used my clit. It wasn't as great as the hose was so I figured out my own technique with the shower I did have. I would lay in the tub with my legs spread and the water was intense enough to give me an orgasm. By this time I was 11. Then I found an electric toothbrush. The brush was missing so I didn't exactly know what it was. I knew some what about vibrators and such so I decided to give it a try. It was the best I ever felt. Now I have two electric tooth brushes. I turn one on and slide it in and out of me a few times until my body feels that warm feeling. Then I put the other one directly on my clit. This has given me greater orgasms then ever. I have yet to have sex with a man or woman, but I doubt they could beat this.
Anonymous
I have no real technique but I do find that porno movies turn me on. So I take off my clothes and touch myself through my panties. Then I take them off and just rub myself till I orgasm. I find that I have multiple orgasms.
Vivian
Well, since I'm not old enough to use any sex toys because I can't enter any stores. I use a vibrating shaver. I just separate the shaver head and use the handle. It's really good. It's easy to because of the comfortable handle. Also you can use it in the shower without any suspictions of what it's for.
Sarah
I masturbate all the time. Like in the bathroom at work. There is this really HOT guy at work and I mean HOT. I can't concentrate so I go in the bathroom and masturbate while I pee. I masturbate while driving sometimes. I don't know what it is about peeing it just makes the experience all that much better. Sometimes I leave my underwear on and spread out on the bathroom floor and go crazy. It is somehow very awesome to pee on the floor and watch it spray through my panties that makes the orgasm all that much better. Masturbating while I drive is also a great one. The vibrations of the car, the risk of being seen by some guy in a semi.... mmmmm mmmm I just love it. I am 30 and I am married. My husband has no idea that I do this. I have this fantasy of him watching while I pee through my panties. I am all hot and I have to go.
Suzy
Ah masturbation .... totally love it. But although I started when I was 11 years old, I never really had an orgasm that would make me moan and often scream with ecstasy until I was 16. This was when I discovered the electric toothbrush. Ladies ... let me guarantee you that the electric tooth brush will be your new best friend. On first contact, the rapid vibrations and lightening speed rotations of the brush head on my clit made a orgasm INSTANTLY, and over and over again for the whole duration. I was screaming and gasping for ten minutes straight with tears streaming from my eyes. I was so loud I had to stifle my yells with the corner of my blanket in case the neighbors heard. It was like one big ten minute orgasm (depending on how long you keep the device on before you feel like your about to explode). It was so intense I've almost urinated several times, so take it off your clit just before you do :) Guaranteed is an orgasm that will shoot up your spine and dizzy your brain, leaving you gasping and make your clit swell so much that just brushing it against a pillow or blanket will have you screaming all over again, so I usually straddle something after a session with the brush. I urge you to try it. Hope you love it just as much as I do :D
Anonymous
I love to masturbate!!! I started masturbating last year and I love it. Since I don't own a dildo I use vibrating razors. I get myself turned on by watching girls climax from rubbing their clits, its way hot!! Then I turn on my razor and rub my clit alternating between a circular and up and down motion. After about 5 minutes I'm off!!! And it feels great!!
Amber
I love to masturbate. I have masturbated since I was about six years old. One day I was laying on my bed and I started rubbing the handle of my jump-rope against my pussy (I had just come in from outside). I felt this explosion and I didn't know what it was, but it felt so good. I would do that or I would hump my pillows. My mother caught me one day and told me to knock it off. I did while she was there but started once again after she left the room. I didn't know what I was doing, it just felt sooo good.
Up until a couple of years ago, I thought I was the only one my age that did this. Then I was playing at a park with one of my friends. We were sitting under the slides and we were the only ones in the park. She asked me if I ever touched between my legs or humped anything. By then I knew that it was humping, but still didn't relate it to masturbation. I said yes and so we humped the edge of the slide until we both reached orgasm.
I had partnered sex a couple of times when I was 13. I know I was young but we did use condoms that he had gotten from the sex ed. teacher during one of the "Growing Up" speeches.
Thanks for allowing me to share this. I'm glad to know that I'm not the only 14 year old that likes to masturbate.
Kim
Oh God I'm 15 years old
I started masturbating when I was 11
I always clench my legs together, hold my breath and rub my legs
I have never had a proper orgasm and I want one
Whenever I try to finger myself I don't get any pleasure unless a guy does it
I'm too scared to have sex at the moment, but I definitely love it when my boyfriends touch me down there, but I don't want to be too easy
Everyone at school says that "masturbation is disgusting" and I can't admit it to anyone (apart from my one close guy friend) that i do it or they will tell everyone.
I wish everyone would just accept me for who I am! I can't help it that I get horny!! x
Angela
I love to orgasm, I too have done it since I was around 11 years old.
I have different ways to get myself "OFF." One is the finger rubbing around and round till it brings me to a lovely little orgasm, my gut wrencher is soooooo powerful I am knackered afterwards! I lie on my belly and get my little vibrator and place it length ways inside my outer lips so it runs from the hood to the open vagina. Usually to one side of my clit then I rock back and forward rubbing myself on the vibrator. I find that under the clit is just as powerful sometimes, the minus side it takes ages to achieve but the orgasm is so intense I shudder! Wow its so beautiful so strong and worth the knackering!
I also like to sit on the edge of the bed etc and put the vibrator length ways down so touches the whole length of my pussy and clinch and rub the vibrator and use the same sort of technique as the other to wind myself up.
I love to watch men to men and woman to woman and mixed videos they turn me on so much, I would love to try one of those big sit on vibrators you see, they look as if they're an orgasm to enjoy.
If my fellah is here I like him to make me cum but think oneself gives the best one.One technique I love him to do is, he has me lay on my belly and he rubs my clitty from behind and I get a whacking one that way too!
Jodi
I could masturbate all night just reading all these techniques.
But, I probably started when I was 11 or 12 - and it started in the silliest way. I was a bit of a tomboy and always rode my bicycle. One day I borrowed my older brother's bicycle, which was way too big for me. The motion of shifting back and forth over and over to be able to pedal filled me with the most amazing feeling. Didn't know at the time what it was - but it definitely started me down the road of masturbation ecstasy!!
Now, I love using the pulse of my shower massage.
I also use my finger pressed against my vaginal opening and just press hard and then release - feels like I'm building pressure in my vagina and I just keep doing that till I cum - and it's so intense. Sometimes I'll rub my clit with the other hand - and try to get a double orgasm going.
Can anyone else just think themselves to orgasm? It's happened to me only once or twice - but it's a wild feeling since I can do it anywhere!
Margot
I love masturbating, I am 47 now and in a relationship, but my boyfriend isn't really into sex much so I have to play with myself a lot, which I don't mind. I have been masturbating since I was little. I use to climb poles and after a few minutes it gave me an intense orgasm which at that time I didn't know, but it felt good and I climbed a lot of poles, my little pussy was always aching for some reason. I also rubbed pussies with my friends when I was little, it felt so good, although I am not lesbian. One of my favourite is reading some masturbation stories, that makes me unusually dripping wet, so I sit on my chair with a big fat dildo in my pussy and just move around a little. Then I move my chair around with the back touching my hard nipples and I rub them against the chair pretending it's a man licking and sucking them. Then I attach the suction bit of my dildo against the back of the chair and I start fucking it like I would a man. I can do this for a few hours until I am so horny I can't take it any longer. Then I put a vibrator on my clit and in minutes I cum so hard it's dripping all over my chair. I also like to rub myself around the house, against all kinds of objects and things I can find, I am so horny now I need to go rub the bedpost.
bb
Well what I usually do, I make sure that I'm very relaxed, and take my g-sting off and slowly start rubbing my pussy. When I'm about to climax I take phone and slowly move it up and down on my clit,,,,,,,,,,,,,amazing.
Sarah
I absolutely love this website and agree with a lot of the things these girls have said. I didn't realize that it was that common to masturbate from an early age, but I also started to masturbate when I was around 6 years old. I am now 17 and love to masturbate, my favourite technique is to get my blanket role up place it between my legs (I'm getting really horny just thinking about it) then rubbing my clit up and down against it starting slow and getting more aggressive it feels soooooo good!
Alecia
I only just started masturbating properly. I love to get the end of a hair brush and put it up my vagina and move it in and out slow to fast, it feels soo good. I also like just rubbing around that area to. Also if you get a notebook, the binder, down the side, is good to use rub against your clit.
Anonymous
I usually just pull my panties so its like a wedgie in the front, not hurtful but firm. Then I lay on my stomach on my bed and start rocking my hips, slowly and then I pick up speed. You can drag it out or you can cum fast. It is so intense I have to catch my breath after. I can usually cum three or four more times afterwards by just squeezing my legs together really tight.
Charlotte
Hi! I was looking for way to masturbate, as I only just started, so I only know the basics. But what I have found that was good was when I got a carrot (make sure you wash it and put a condom on it) and rolled it over my clit. I started off slow, and then got faster and faster, I think I almost orgasmed, but didn't quite get there. Anyway, it feels good!
Amanda
Ok so the first time I masturbated I reached the point of no return but the problem was I did return I stopped and I was to scared to actually reach an orgasm!
Sandra
I am 42 years old and have masturbated since I was about 11. I love it. I masturbate four or five times a week. My favorite way to do it is to get completely naked lay on the bed and start playing with my nipples and rubbing the inside of my legs. My clit is huge compared to most and as I stimulate my nips and the inside of my legs it rises like a little dick. Then I rub my clit and the fluid runs free just before I climax. I have to be careful because I am very noisy before I climax and I have been caught several times. I have a number of interesting stories about masturbating that I will tell later.
Rachel
Hey every one I have been masturbating since I was about 6. I sat on the stairs at night as my parents were watching a guy kiss a woman's tits. I had no idea about sex or anything at that age, so I kept watching. And to this day my parents do not know I saw that! But that is what got me started on masturbating. As I watched this guy kissing and sucking on her breasts (if it is even possible) I got turned on and started rubbing my clit and every since then I masturbate almost everyday.
Some of the things I like to use is the cold wash cloth trick, you get a very cold wash cloth and lay it on you and then rub your vulva. I like to use my finger sometimes too. But what really makes me "come" (ok I know this sounds childish) is my mom's back massager!!! I really gets me turned on and I cum every time I use it!!!! It feels soooooooo good!!! And you don't have to do any work, all you do is hold it there and it vibrates!!!!!
Martha
Everyone will think I am weird, but I learned how to masturbate from my brother. It was summer vacation 1979. I was 14, he 15. Our parents worked. Our hormones raged that summer. I walked in on my bother stroking his shaft. He was at the point of no return and ejaculated before my very eyes. I said, Jimmy what is that? He told me it was a pleasure indescribable. He said girls could do it to and and that he had done it to his girlfriend, Misty. I must admit, seeing his hard throbbing cock shoot come had been a turn on, even if it is wrong. I felt wet. He started getting hard again. He told me to just stoke my pussy area. I felt awkward, but watching my bother stroke his big hard on, urged me on. Pretty soon, he said, here, like this, he pulled my shorts back and my vulva was exposed. He took the palm of his hand and rubbed me. Then, I guess it turned him on so much, he moaned and squirted again. I was hot beyond belief, but I did not know how to finish. My brother leaned over and took my hand and showed me how. I felt so guilty! So wrong! But the need to climax was too overwhelming. I shook with relief. I feel so awful and terrible! But my brother and I masturbated together a lot that summer. It was so forbidden, yet so absolutely fantastic!!
Anonymous
I started touching myself in a sexual way at about the age of 13 (I'm now coming up to 16). I enjoyed it but it was always brief and rushed, as I didn't want someone to find out, because I thought I was being dirty. Later on that year my friend asked me if I ever touched myself, I said no because it felt too private to tell anyone about, but that made me more curious. Recently I've started fingering myself again, and it has been a lot more frequent, up to three times a day, but I always orgasm and that feeling just makes me want to do it again. Even though I'm still worried about my friends and family discovering, I told my boyfriend about it and we have masturbated whilst on the phone to each other, and I now feel these experiences will make me better prepared when I have sex.
Anonymous
I started masturbating before I could ever remember...I remember as a little girl I used to crouch a lot and put the heel of my foot to my clit, and jeeze it was wonderful. At that time I didn't know what masturbating was. It just felt good.
Nowadays I masturbate in the shower/bath. I usually put my clit under the faucet and it feels soo good. Recently, I took this tube like juicepop, melted the inside, and put it in me. It was perfectly safe because it was all covered in plastic, and I doubt something inside of me could break it. Boy, the result was soo satisfying. Usually I could only land with one orgasm, but I got TWO instead. I kept shoving it in and out while my clit was getting all the satisfaction it wanted, stopping for a few seconds now and then.
When I was done getting an orgasm, I crouched in the tub and pulled the juice pop out, and whattya know, my juices were all scrunched up inside and they all came flowing out. They were kind of brown when they first came out, which surprised me but they were clear in the water. What I found out was that having an orgasm came with many discoveries...It is possible the brown color of her vaginal fluids was an indication of vaginal bleeding, or old menstrual blood from a recent period, which was greatly diluted by the bath water, which made it appear as those they became clear upon entering the water. Dark colored ink on the plastic packaging may also have come off inside her vagina.This technique should be safe as long as the plastic package doesn't have any rough or sharp edges, test it with your lips, and excessive force isn't used. The cool slush may feel stimulating.
Nina
Well, I didn't know about sex or reproduction the first time I "masturbated". How could I? I was three!
It just happened when I was leaning forward on the edge of my bed, and the edge rubbed against my mons. It felt nice, and so I did it a lot, until my mother caught me when I was 7, and yelled at me for doing it. I still didn't understand what was wrong about doing something that felt nice, but she explained to me that it was a dirty act, and that "nice girls" didn't do those stuff.
It was 13 when I joined a forum for feminists, who guided me to many educational sex sites for females, and I understood a little of what I was doing. 13 turned to 15 and I understood a little more.
I'm still a virgin, but I don't think that sex with a partner is a lot more different than sex by oneself. A partner would fumble, but your own hands knows you best.
It was a happy coincidence for me at age three, and I hoped that when I have a daughter of my own that she would discover that same happy coincidence, but I'd be too shy to tell her to master bate straight out. It can be embarrassing to actually inform your own kids about sex and pleasure, even though it's the right thing to do!
