Female Masturbation Techniques
& Experiences: Collection 24


 

 

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Hey! I'm 13 and I just had my first orgasm! It  felt great! I used my electric toothbrush and just stuck it down my panties and pressed against my clit for like 30 seconds and before I knew it I was moaning and shaking. I felt a tingly feeling go through my body. It only lasted for about five seconds. I'm gonna try to do it again now! Bye

 


Caitlin

I am Caitlin, I'm 16 years old and have been masturbating faithfully for about 5 years. I first discovered masturbating after reading a book. But it wasn't a porno or anything like that, it was just an ordinary book.  There was this girl that disguised herself as a man by putting straw in her pants.  Well.. I decided to try this.  I also had very small breasts at the time and to make myself feel better, I put washcloths in my bra.  I put a separate washcloth in my panties to see what it would be like to be a man. While I was taking the washcloths out of my bra, I leaned up against the counter which just happened to be the perfect height to hit the washcloth causing it to rub my clit.  I didn't know what it was but it felt good!!  I laid on my stomach, hoisting myself up with my arms and began to hump the floor. This was the first time I had an orgasm and I was immediately hooked!  I would go in the bathroom and repeat this ritual about 4 times a day.  It made me feel bad though so I stopped for about a month.

When I moved, I started my ritual up again.  I was 13 now and went on a website to learn how to put tampons in when I found a section on masturbating.  I started reading some of the stories and I could feel my pussy pulsing!  I tried to stimulate myself by inserting two fingers in my vagina, but with no luck so I returned to humping the washcloth.  Later, when I was about 14, I discovered an easier, less tiring method: circling the clit with my fingers.  This was amazing!

Today, I have many methods, but I usually stick to circling my clit.  I don't like the do it right on my clit so I do it through my panties mostly because I don't like how my fingers smell weird after.  Sometimes, when I'm REALLY horny, I get my boyfriend [[who currently lives several hundreds of miles away from me]] to text me his fantasies of us teasing each other or having sex.  He is a virgin while I am not. Intercourse didn't make me orgasm until my third time [[bummer!!]].  But anyway, after my boyfriend tells me his fantasies [[while I usually am rubbing my clit just enough for it to feel good with no orgasms]], we both masturbate together.  It's amazing to picture him stroking his hard penis while I rub my clit!  I also discovered my g-spot recently.  So now, before I take a shower [[so my hand doesn't smell]], I take the palm of my right hand and circle it in a clockwise motion on my clit.  While doing this I put as many fingers into my vagina as I can [[lately it's been up to all 4 which is surprising for me]].  Then I just tap my g-spot.  The movement on my clit is what gets me to orgasm and right before I do, I stop that and only play with my g-spot!  This is great!  It feels pretty much the same as clitoral stimulation but it feels so much better!

A good technique for guys to finger girls it to put however many fingers they can inside your vagina [[has to be more than one or you can't feel it though!]].  If they are on your left side, they must use their left hands, on your right side, right hand.  Then while they play with your g-spot, they take their thumb and rub it up and down your clit.  It feels amazing!  He only did it to me for maybe 30 seconds and I was already breathing hard and ready to moan for him!  [[Which really does turn guys on, but you only should do it when you orgasm so they know what turns YOU on!!]]

Hope you all enjoyed!  I know I enjoyed most of your stories!

Anonymous

I have never told or confessed this to anyone, but I masturbated on and off from the age of 4 or 5 to about 10. I never had an orgasm, I just somehow worked out that pressing myself against things felt nice. My mom caught me doing it a few times and reacted badly. Once she walked in and froze in shock and then as I started to say "I was just.." She finished the sentence for me by saying "I know what you were doing" and storming out. I remember thinking, well good for you because I have no idea. I then locked myself in the bathroom to do it. I always knew that it was shameful but I never realized until the age 0f 10 that it was something sexual (because it never was to me). When I did, I just had to stop. Since then it has been like my life's biggest secret, seems ridiculous I know, but whenever I think about it I feel really disgusted and ashamed. Everyone on this site seems  quite happy with telling their experiences and being open etc, but I feel like I was a dirty and weird little kid and that if anyone knew then they wouldn't want to be friends with me anymore. I know in my head this is stupid and petty but I still get very depressed about it sometimes. I wonder if anyone else here has ever felt the same way?

Ashley

Hey, well I've been masturbating for about 6 months now, I'm 13, but now I realized what I been doing for ages, I used to dry hump the chair legs and my hand, and it always felt so good. Now my favorite way to 'bate is to do it at night when no ones in. I take all my clothes off, read some porn, and generally get horny. I take my electric toothbrush and climb into bed, putting it directly on my clit. This brings waves of warmth through my entire body, then I clamp my legs tight causing the toothbrush to vibe more. I start licking and playing with my boobs and nipples and groaning and writhing then I arch my back and grab the toothbrush and start pushing it round really hard and fast around my clit, then I stop and go back to playing with my tits, needing them and pinching them, thinking of loads of fit people touching me and licking me, I start saying dirty things, and then I go back with the toothbrush, then I put my fingers in my pussy, then lick them, with the other hand now playing the toothbrush over my nipples and start rubbing my clit in and out of my pussy, then that hand starts playing with my nipples and the other hand goes down to my pussy and clit and starts rubbing round and round up and down, and now I'm so wet and hot, I feel like I', going to explode and my hand and arm are aching but I know how good the orgasm will be so I carry on, then I start to feel myself go into that rhythm just before you climax, so I grab a huge chunky pen, stick it in my pussy and rock back and forth my body bucking as I start to climax, and I scream and wither as the orgasm convulses through my body, my pussy muscles clenching the pen, and then I force myself to sit forward as the multiple orgasm starts, pushing the orgasms down to my vagina, creating a mind blowing effect. I scream and roll my boobs around cum going everywhere as I have constant orgasms for about 4-5 minutes, my body bucking for more. Eventually they subside, and I'm left weak and wet, my hair plastered to my head. I take the toothbrush and quickly vibe my clit, then I take a shower, and go to sleep.

Although I am only 13, this way I always get mind blowing, uncontrollable orgasms, that last for a good 3 mins. Hope you liked my technique!!

Lindsy

Hi I'm 17 yeas old, and just like Emma, have been masturbating since like 11.  I am also very glad to find this website.  I wanted to share that I have always fantasized about "experimenting" with a girl, and masturbate about it almost every night, watching some soft-core porn.  I have even discussed trying it with a particular friend before.  She is the only person who would not get weirded out at this type of talk.  I've always wanted to try sex toys, but I don't think I could actually buy some at this point in my life.  I am not lesbian or bisexual, just curious, very curious.  I find that if girls almost ALWAYS know what a girl wants, why not try a good way to get maximum pleasure?  Sometimes I think that, even though I do have what I think is an "orgasm," I don't think it has been good to the full extent it could be at, especially listening to these other women.  It seems that I am never able to get that g-spot by myself, but just able to massage my clitoris until orgasm.  I also have never reached any multiple orgasms. I also would really like to be able to enjoy this pleasuring for longer, like these other women have. It seems like when I orgasm from my clitoris, I have to stop right away, from tenderness and a little discomfort. Sometimes I can go again after a couple of minutes for a less pleasing and shorter orgasm. I just wish I could feel the same or close to the same orgasm for about an hour like some of these women. I hope that one day I can experience more of this. Well thanks for listening!

Jen

Once, I inserted an egg in to my vagina, I was greatly aroused, but alas, I could hardly got it out until being helped by one of my friends.

Anonymous

Well I have been masturbating since I was 3. I liked two feel deep inside. Now I just take a carrot stick it up in my vagina and rub my clitoris and let it flow.

Anonymous

I've been masturbating since I was about 11. I would simply use my fingers and rub my clit lightly.. Then I would insert objects into my vagina.. My favorite is a candle stick.. Once I feel an orgasm.. I go faster and faster...

LaLa

Wow I read a lot of other girl's experiences and honestly I'm shocked to know that I'm not the only one. I too started feeling tingly at the age of 5. I remember when I was young my mother's friend's sons would come over and one of them would put me in a closet one day and started rubbing my clit. I didn't reject him, because it felt good I guess. And as I started to get older like around 9-10 I remember making out with my girl cousin and all...and till this day I don't know why I've done it, was I that horny? I DONT KNOW :) I'm 18 now and since I was 11 I've been masturbating..my technique is by rubbing my clitoris with my left index finger, now that I know the spot on my clit....anyway it feels good to satisfy yourself, even though the stupid things I've done in the past are pretty regretful :)

Julia

Well I just turned 14 and duh, my parents don't know I masturbate, so I couldn't get any  toys or anything without them finding them, so I use a Venus Vibrance, it is sooo good and if you can't get a hold of any dildos I recommend the Venus Vibrance (its a vibrating lady shaver) they sell for around 15$ and well its normal to have a shaver so my parents don't suspect anything !!! It's GREAT

Emma

I like to watch a movie and then slowly pull my panties off. I then use my right hand slowly getting faster until I reach climax. I would also suggest fondling your nipples while doing it, as this makes it all the better. But try not get caught as it can leave you red faced, ENJOY............

Tati

When I masturbate I first start by gently caressing my nipples. I love to touch them in a teasing way, slowly at first then a little firmer until I pinch my nipples and pull them. This gets me very wet, so I feel how juicy I've gotten. I love to taste my juices, it makes me more excited. When I stroke my clitoris its usually popping out, so I rub it for awhile then insert my middle finger inside of my vagina and keep going back and forth from fingering myself to rubbing my clitoris. Each time getting harder and harder until I'm wetter and wetter until I make myself explode in an intense orgasm. When I masturbate, afterwards it makes me feel so relaxed and fulfilled. Even though I have a long time girlfriend and we have an excellent sex life. Its still something that satisfies me, and soothes me.

Anonymous

As far as masturbation, I think I was about 12 when I realized I masturbate for pleasure. I've always touched and rubbed my nipples and vulva as a young person and was fascinate by how my nipples were harden by my rubbing and how they were soft otherwise. I still am not and never was very intrusive about sticking my fingers in my vagina. I always had rubbed the outside of the clitoris more or ran my fingers through the hair of my vulva.

Speaking of the hair of my vulva, I have shaved my vulva since I was 13, in fact I enjoy shaving it more than shaving my legs :)

Molly

Hi, I'm Molly and I'm 14. I don't know how long I have masturbated. I just used to stick my pointer finger in my clitoris and move it back and forth quickly. I must have been like 6. Now I take all my clothes off, I lay on my bed and take my four fingers and move in a circular motion until I orgasm. It feels lovely. Sometimes I think of guys naked or girls (I'm bisexual.) I picture myself making out with a guy or girl or touching them. It makes me cum. I love it, and sometimes. I will even finger myself. Just yesterday I was sitting at a chair and stuck two fingers in and moved them in and out quickly, I was easily aroused. I like to read stories on the internet or look at girl's bodies. And masturbate for hours. I always feel like it's wrong though. I have to go in my room lock the door and have fun! I love it. Love this site too.:)

Anonymous

I absolutely love my clitoris. I masturbate almost every day. There's a hose in the bath tub, and I press it up against my clit, and fix my thumb to where it has a lot of water pressure. It feels so good.

Alexis

When I was around the age of 9 or so, I had a cousin who was only a year older. She had found her mom's back massager, & was rubbing her legs and arms with it. I somehow ended up leaving the room, & when I came back, she was rubbing her vulva with it. I didn't know what a clit was at the time, and I don't believe she knew either. Later on, I asked her what she was doing, & she said when she put the back massager between her legs, it felt REALLY good. Well, I became rather curious myself... so when I came home, I found a back massager, & let it vibrate on my vulva. At first nothing happened, but soon after... I felt this tingling sensation happen, & then instantly I received my first orgasm. I was so shocked at what happened, & yet so amazed at how good it felt.

Through the years of my life, I have tried many excellent things, that you should try if you haven't. Some work better than others.. but either way, they work perfectly, when wanting to receive a good orgasm.

I've gotten in my tub, turned on the water (full blast) laid on my back, & let the water pour on my clit. This technique works really well, but might take a while, depending on how much water comes out, & how fast it pours. Another technique, (if you have a pool, or know someone with a pool) to find a jet on one of the sides of your pool, open your bathing suit bottom just a little by your inner thigh, & put your vulva right up against the jet under water. the sensation is amazing, & I've gotten some of my best orgasms that way. I truly recommend doing it. Also, I've scooted my body up against a vacuum cleaner, & let the vibration touch my vulva, which will give you an orgasm for sure. Back massagers are good if you don't own any actual vibrators meant for your vulva. I've used back massagers for years, & they work just as well as anything else. -And if you're impatient, you can turn up the speed on your massager, giving you your orgasm quicker. Fingering isn't bad, but I've found that it feels a lot better when someone else does it. Like maybe a boyfriend, or one of your closest girlfriends. Oral sex is great, but if your sex partner isn't good at it, you might find it better to just masturbate instead. Masturbation is a normal thing, & it's something to not be ashamed of. Whether you're 8, 18, 28, or 88, It doesn't matter, as long as you make sure your items are sanitary. I usually always use a vibrator, my tub, or the pool. I've used my hands to get orgasms in the past, but nothing does it like the others. Well, hope this helps! Have fun ladies, & enjoy every minute of it!

Anonymous

Hi,

Well, I started masturbating when I was 11 and can still remember the first time it happened. I was watering the plants and accidentally rubbed the hose against my vulva. Anyway, it felt good so I kept rubbing it until all of a sudden I was shuddering and collapsed on the grass. The next sleep over I had with a friend we both confessed that we masturbated, and tried it on each other. I am now sixteen and we still do it together. I have lately tried a brush as a dildo. It has tiny bumps all along its ridge and feels really good when I use it. Mainly, I don't penetrate, because I can't cum just from that, but right before an orgasm I like to slip my fingers in because when I clench around them, the orgasm seems more real and intense.

This site really helps
Thanks

Vikki

I just have two words for any girl who has never had an orgasm...ELECTRIC TOOTHBRUSH!  Try it there's nothing like it!

Anonymous

Hi!

Well... I'm 13 yrs old... and I've probably been masturbating since I was five. My first time I went into my brother's room and found this little vibrating sword thing. I was like whoa this thing is cool!  I already had this strange curiosity about my clit... which me and my good friend named "Wormy". So I took the vibrating plastic sword and placed the tip of it on my clit. It felt SO good!... I did that almost every day since then, and I was SOOOO upset when it ran out of batteries. So I began to wonder if there were any other vibrating things in my house... and there was... electric toothbrushes. For a very long time, until I was about nine I used electric toothbrushes (the bristly side) to get amazing orgasms! Then I moved into my new house, and every day after school, I would go upstairs to my room and masturbate on my toilet. I was VERY (and I still am) careful about not letting anyone know about my masturbating (which I would NEVER do in school). So one day, my mom had got my brother and I these really cool and expensive electric toothbrushes (the Oral B Triumph)... it makes your teeth SOOO white! It had these amazing different settings on it (like "massage".. and uhmm "clean") and I wanted to use it on my clit SO badly, but I didn't want to ruin the brush. So one day... I took off the brush attachment to see what was underneath it. It was this flat metal stick that fit perfectly on my small clit! A few days later... I tried it and I had NEVER had such an amazing orgasm! Almost every night before I went to bed, I would have a great orgasm with my Oral B Triumph. then, I discovered porn. I felt sort of lesbian (which I'm not!! I absolutely adore boys!!!) watching naked girls... But it made me feel so naughty and horny!! And I started feeling wet. That's when I learned about getting "wet" and what cum was and all of that fun stuff. Not long after that... I went camp shopping and bought what looked like a regular toothbrush... but actually was a vibrating one (the Oral B Pulsar). I was shocked by how quiet it was (much quieter than the Oral B Triumph) and how STRONG the vibrations were! So I wanted to try it out.. at first... it didn't work as well as I would have liked it to, but after using it again and again... It made me so wet and my clit felt AMAZING!! I would lay the flat side on my clit and rub it in circles. Then, I would take the tip of the brush and twist it around my clit... it felt amazing!! One day, I thought that maybe, it would be good as a vibrator. So I turned it on and stuck the handle (which also vibrates) in my pussy, and used the Oral B Triumph on my clit. It felt so good and I'm wet just thinking about it. Until I saw this website... I thought I was the only one who used a toothbrush and got horny from porn. I also love reading everyone's stories and techniques. Thanks so much!

Toni

Hey yall!  I wanna say, please keep supporting this site, it is so inspiring to know that there are so many women out there who have now been encouraged to grab the reigns and secure their womanhood and NOT relying on a man to give pleasure.  We as women have come a long way, and by this site, it is just another affirmation that women do not need men as much as we think we do.  Anyways...I have been touching myself for years....since I was young, although I didn't  know what it was, only that it felt so good and I was in another world when I did that.  I use a vibrator now...it's quick, and easy and a whole lot less hand work. Just stick it on, you are done! But the orgasms are gggggGGGGREEAAAATTTTT!!!!  Tony the tiger!  Take care yall

Anonymous

I'm 14 and GAHHH I love masturbating, I don't usually hump anything, I use one hand to finger myself and the other to stroke my clit, every time I come to this website it makes me sooo horny and I end up masturbating every time I come here, I love this website soooooo much [:

Gabby

I just tuned 13 and I've been masturbating since I was about 9 or 10, I figured it out when I got a back massager for Christmas, I was messing around with it, putting it on my stomach and thighs, stuff like that. Then I wanted to see how it felt on my clit, so I put it there, it felt so good, I didn't know how I ever lived without this feeling, so I pushed harder and harder until I got an orgasm (I didn't even know what I was doing until I turned 12). After that, I started experimenting, using things like vibrating toothbrushes, vibrating  razors (I took the  blade off and use that point part on my clit). Eventually the toothbrush broke from water exposure, so I tried to find something else to use in the shower. I tried using the pressure from the shower head, laying on my back the shower head faced straight at my vulva, fantasizing about my crush masturbating,  and famous people like Aaron Gillespie, from The Almost, talking to me on the phone. I haven't put my fingers inside my vagina yet, I'm a bit scarred to, but I used to use the back of a toothbrush. Now I masturbate daily when I take a shower, and sometimes in bed with my fingers if I suddenly get turned on by something.

Anonymous

Hi,

I'm nearly 16, I'm bisexual, and I love masturbating. I started just about 5 months ago and have one it almost everyday since then. I have a girlfriend who also enjoys masturbating and we usually do it every night over the phone. This arouses me so much, as I hear and imagine her pleasuring her pussy. I had my first experience with a girl when I was 14 and it was with a 20 year old much experienced young lady. The whole experience was overwhelming and I loved it! But usually when I'm on the phone with my girlfriend, just her voice turns me on so I'm often gently massaging my clit as I engage in conversation with her and come to find out she often doing the same. I like to lay in the bed with just my TV on and pinch and rub my nipples...this usually leads to me rubbing my body and talking freaky to my girlfriend as I arouse my pussy. By now I'm mostly very wet so I go down and start rubbing my pussy or I often just rub my vibrator on my lips. I wait until I can see my clitoris erect and then I start rubbing it side to side I often have an orgasm just by doing this, then I move on to penetration.

But I absolutely love sex with my girl. It's fantastic. She licks my pussy and teases it so well and I love it. She gives me this sensation that I've never felt before and I love it!

Anonymous

Okay well this website is very helpful. I've been reading it for the past 2 hours and I had about 15 orgasms. I love to masturbate. I'm still a virgin. I'm not sure if I'm a lesbian. But I hooked up with my best friend back in the day. We just rubbed our vulva together and we made out and we just ate each other out. I loved it that is why I'm bisexual. I love boys but girls are just more fun. I'm not sure if i'm even masturbation correctly. I usually take a blanket and try to turn it into a penis and I rub up and down on it. My friend taught me when I was 15. We would hook up like everyday. But we never talked about it. But masturbation is wonderful. This site gave me a lot of new techniques about masturbation....Thank you

Anonymous

I'm 15 years old and I'm a very strong Christian. I masturbate a lot and  I always thought that masturbation was bad but no where in the Bible does it say that. So when I do I'm usually turned on by Girls Gone Wild commercials or Viagra commercials or there is even a show called Talk Sex on OH! Oxygen Sundays at 11:00 pm and it gets me really horny. So after I'm horny I start out on my back and I gently rub my clit then when I feel like I'm going to orgasm soon I flip on my stomach and move around in circles then I will stick a finger up my vagina and hump my hand while moving it around.

So I guess I've always masturbated because one of my friends molested me when I was a kid. But my first orgasm I didn't really know what I was doing but all of the sudden my hands started shaking and it was awesome. I had a great orgasm when I was masturbating on my knees. This site is awesome and I encourage everyone to masturbate. And if you're Christian and are worried like I was:

IT'S OKAY!!!! I believe that God created masturbation so we wouldn't be too tempted to have sex before marriage.

Shawna

Hi, I am 18 years old and thought that I was weird for loving to masturbate. I have been masturbating since I was about 4 or 5 years old. I would rub up and down but at the time I did not know what I was doing. All I knew was that it felt really good to me. I will masturbate using anything that is around me, but the best way is to use a vibrator. One time I was traveling with a group of girls and we all dared each other to get a vibrating egg and stick it up our pussies until we got to our destination. It felt really good, I orgasmed more then a dozen times.

Tina

I have been masturbating almost daily since I was about 5, by rubbing the area over my clit, either directly or covered by my panties, until the sweet feeling increased to the point that it was so sweet that it was unbearable, and then it slowly went down, and I felt satisfied, at least for a few minutes. My orgasms were very intense, even at that early age. I am now 14, and since I started having my period, I feel an ache in my vagina when I masturbate, like I need to be filled, like I need a penis to fill me. Sometimes now I thrust a finger in me while I'm masturbating, and it feels delicious. Sometimes I almost pass out when I orgasm this way. My friend has admitted to me that she masturbates, and I hope that we will masturbate together sometime in the near future. If we do, I'll let you know what happens!

Lilliana

Hi, I have been looking for some indication that other girls masturbate the way I do.  It is the only way I reach full orgasm.  I lay on my tummy with one hand in a fist with the other wrapped around it and then rock up and down whilst pushing hard on my clit. It is amazing to say the least, so intense.  I would love to see pictures or movies of this, no matter how hard I search the Internet I cannot seem to find any! If you do please let me know by making a post on this site.

I have thoroughly enjoyed reading these posts and it is the first time someone has said they have done it this way. x

xOurLittleGamesx

I'm 15 years old and I have been masturbating since I was about 13... I used to think it was really weird but now I've read these stories its making me wonder about all the things I could do with myself.

I experienced my first orgasm when I was with my friend on Holiday with my family. We used to play games where I was pretending to be a boy and we used to have relationships in the game. I really enjoyed this and whilst her parents were out we had the cabin to ourselves to play our games. It began with just simply kisses and dry humping but nothing really ever sparked from that. But then one night in bed, I ended up sleeping top to tail with her because we were having a sleep over at her cabin instead of my parents' tent. It was a hot night and we just couldn't get to sleep so we decided to play one of our 'games'. In this game I was the boy again, as usual, and she was my mistress who owned a big house. I was the gardener's son. We played our game but we eventually fell asleep. During the night I woke up with a hand running up and down my leg. I sat up and my friend was caressing me. She then began to play with my pussy and I began to play with hers. She massaged my lips and I fingered her slowly. Then all of a sudden I felt this pulsating and a gush of liquid and I realized that I was having my first orgasm. Once I had experienced that me and my friend played our games in the dead of night often.

I then began to masturbate a lot. I prefer doing it in the morning and in the shower and recently in dangerous places. I've also recently told one of my best friends about it and she feels the same.

My favorite technique is massaging my clitoris in a circular and hard and fast movement and its most satisfying. I also masturbate in the shower a lot and this is the best because I like the feel of the hot water running across my pussy. I have began to look for new techniques and in particular I would like to learn how to ejaculate. I found out yesterday on a website and I have been meaning to try it but haven't had the chance but I think that I will this Sunday when I have my next shower.

I'm really glad that I have found this site, because just reading all of these stories has made me so wet its quite unreal. I am just going to collect a towel, because I am starting to leak all over the sofa if you get what I mean. I am also very horny and I need to go and masturbate...

Thank you for reading my story and I would appreciate it if people would respond to it in their own stories.

Alex

I am 13 and one day I was in the bathroom and was REALLY aroused, but fingering myself didn't really do anything for me...so I looked around, and saw a Swiffer mop (the cheep ones that have 3 parts that you can unscrew) and the top had raised bumps, it was small and thin but, it works well : ) I also use the bathtub faucet, I wish I had a shower head that detached. I never have told anyone that I masturbate but I love it and I am pretty sure that masturbating is a  better alternative than losing your virginity at my age thanks for all the tips great website : ) 

Curious

After reading this website, I feel that my way of masturbating seems odd. I began masturbating at a young age not knowing what I was doing. I was exposed to porn very early and became aroused without even knowing it. What I did was I used the bed sheets and place it between my thighs, position myself so that I am almost lying on my chest, then with both hands, hold the sheet and begin rubbing. After doing so, I would always get a feeling that felt real good, however I'm not sure if  I orgasmed. I've continued with that method until 15 or 16. I stopped recently because I have a boyfriend. I told him that I used to masturbate and he encouraged it. What I am concerned about is the fact that when I masturbate, I push my pubic bone down. Just recently, I noticed how much my pubic bone protrudes out. I guess I'm just concerned that with the odd placement of my pubic bone, it may affect pleasures and birth. Any suggestions?

The shape and size of the pelvis is determined by heredity, and I don' believe having a prominent pubic bone would adversely affect your life. You can see photographs of women with prominent pubic bones in the body image section.

Jerry

My name is Jerry, I like to sit in my chair with one leg on each corner of the desk so that my legs are spread. Then I get out my vibrator or massager (depending on my mood) and play with myself while looking at the pictures on my computer, usually of lesbians. Also, a helpful hint one of my girlfriends told me about, Vic's Vapor Rub works really well. It is very stimulating to rub on the clitoris. At first, you think that it's painful, but actually the feeling is cold and hot at the same time. I think it brings a lot of blood to that area as well as stimulation while rubbing it on.

Anonymous

I sometimes watch some porno that's on T. V. and I squeeze my legs really tight and it feels really good.

Anonymous

Hi, I love to rub my pussy and my anus at the same time, it gives me a mind blowing orgasm and my girlfriend loves helping me.

Sharon

My partner made a comment recently about my exercise ball. Well it has now become my favorite place to play. I use a dildo that has balls and a base, as well as a pocket vibrator. I put on home videos of me and my partner. I begin by licking and sucking the dildo. While I am doing that I rub the palm of my hand over my entire genital region, applying pressure to my clitoris and vulva. Then I place the base of my dildo on my exercise ball and slowly lower myself onto it.  I rock back and forth on it while rubbing my clit in a circular motion. As I get more aroused I begin to bounce on the ball feeling the dildo inside me tightening my vagina around it. I then stroke my middle finger up and down the shaft of my clitoris. The sound of my wet vagina slipping up and down the shaft of my dildo is very exciting. When I am almost there I grab my trusty little vibrator and place it against the base of the shaft so I can feel it's vibrations up inside me. This brings me to ejaculation.  

A.G.

Hey everyone!

 I'm 17 years old and I love your website.  I used to be very ashamed of masturbating because I thought it was a dirty and wrong thing to do, even though that thought was never pushed upon me.  I am still getting used to doing it without feeling dirty, but I can tell the bad feeling is slowly yet surely going.  Ok now to my experiences:

I have been masturbating since I was 5, although, like most of the women who have started at this age, I didn't know what I was doing and only did cuz it felt good.  The bizarre thing is that I have been stimulating my clitoris the entire time and didn't know it.  I used to "scratch" my clit through my panties and this continued until I was 9.  Then I stopped cold turkey.  When I turned 12, I began again, gee I wonder why?? lol  I used the technique I did when I was younger.  This would always put me to sleep afterwards if I was having trouble sleeping. I now wonder if this is "normal".  I never realized it until I started reading the passages on the site, but I never had trouble reaching an orgasm.  They weren't massive but they did the trick.

When I turned 16 and after having watched a lot of porn, I wanted to try and finger myself to through penetration.  Well that was a bust because I didn't get aroused at all, so I tried just rubbing what I now know as my clit directly and WOW was that pleasurable.  For the entire year I fought with myself about masturbating but I couldn't stop, and being a teen I'm always sexually aroused.  I would always chat online and role play with a guy or sometimes a girl (I'm not bi or gay, I just like the idea just the rest of the women here) then I would go to my room and think about the role play and rub my throbbing clit (I still didn't know what this was at the time and didn't found out where the clitoris was until this site) I would reach my usual orgasm between 1-2 minutes. 

Lately I have been very open with my friends (guys) about sex and masturbation and we talk about it frequently.  At first I was embarrassed about it but with these two, you tend to get over it quickly.  They tease me about giving me a vibrator, I bring it up in the conversation just to put the thought there (planting a seed lol)  I have tried some of the techniques on here and may I say, I LOVE THE SHOWER HEAD, Dios Tio! I think it gave me a multiple orgasm and my entire pussy was throbbing still after.  I tried the electric toothbrush once I realized I still had one and Dios Tio!  That was mind blowing, however the peeing sensation came over me and I think I did, but after reading one of the passages I think I may have ejaculated, I'm not sure, but that was embarrassing!  I also found out with both of these methods that I'm a moaner.  I have never moaned before so it was quite a shock when I couldn't control what came out of my mouth.

Thanks for the tip about breathing and relaxing, using that I have been able to prolong my climax.  I love this site and hope more people find it.  You have really helped me with my sexuality and have helped me get to know what my body enjoys.  There are still a few techniques I have to try and look forward to it.  Keep masturbating and be comfortable with your body because you're worth it.

Sincerely, A.G.

Anonymous

I rub my clit up and down..hard and fast until I cum..I sit in front of my bedroom mirror and watch myself as I stroke my wet pussy and spread open my pussy lips, then I watch as my pussy muscles quiver with wetness, I fantasize about another sexy naked girl watching me while fingering herself, I imagine us pussy grinding and I imagine her rubbing my hard wet swollen clit. I imagine I'm with a group of sexy girls and they are all watching me rub my swollen clit hard and fast with my vagina getting so wet. I really want this to come true, so if there is a sexy girl my age-17 or in their 20s..please get back to me because I'm desperate four you two watch me rub my hard clit and cum..and we can do dirty things to each other...xxx

Anonymous

Hi, I love to masturbate and do it ALL the time.  I like to wrap these thick knitted socks around my deodorant bottle and put it in my panties.  I cross my legs and rock back and forth with my stomach down.  It feels soooo good I have the deodorant/sock combo in my panties RIGHT NOW ahhhh it feels sooo nice.  Plus you can do it with other people around if you put a blanket over you because there is a bulge.  HMMMMMMMM do it right now!!!  It's heavenly.

Anonymous

Hi you can add this little technique to your "normal" masturbation sessions.  Take your shirt and bra off if you wear one and get a Q-tip.  Put some face astringent on the Q-tip and rub the liquid on your nipples.  Blow on them to make it burn a little more.  It hurts SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO good.  Plus if you don't have time to really masturbate simply apply the face astringent to your nipples, blow lightly on them, and put your bra (if you wear one) and your shirt back on and go along your way.  Happy blowing!!!!!!

Caution: be careful that you don't irritate or burn the skin you apply the astringent too.

Anonymous

I Think I Must Be Really Weird.. The Only Way I Can Achieve Orgasm Is By Rubbing Myself Against Something. I Realized This When I Was About 7 Years Old And I Was Climbing The Rope At School. I Got To The Top And "hallelujah" I Felt Lyk I Was In Heaven. I Have An Amazing Sex Life And Always Enjoy Myself With My Partner. However, The Only Way I Have Ever Properly Orgasmed Was Through This. Maybe Someone Can Explain To Me Why This Is The Only Way I Can Achieve Orgasm? Its Nothing To Do With My Partner As He Is Very Good..

Anonymous

Working on the G-spot with two fingers on the inside and the thumb on the clit.

Kayla

I am 16 and I have been masturbating for.. well a long time. When I was a young girl I shared a room with my sister who is four year older then me, I remember feeling around "down there" on a few occasions while she was in the room and she told me to stop. But I ignored her. When I was alone I would put a stuffed animal, or part of a blanket under my vulva and lay on my stomach and rub up against it, and this would eventually lead to orgasm, although I didn't know what it was at the time I just knew it felt good. When I was in my later years of elementary school my friends and I would play "doctor" and we would spread our lips open and take a peek at each others parts (not that we knew what they really were). It was exciting to know that we could be caught at any moment. Then, when I was 11 my best friend and I grew very curious and we started experimenting with masturbation, we would draw ourselves up to the jets at her neighborhood pool and have orgasms in public, it was very exciting to do it in such a public place without anyone knowing. We then went online and went to a website, much like this one, which described techniques of how women masturbate with their fingers, and we discovered exactly what the clitoris was. We decided we had to try it out, and we did, the orgasms we experienced felt much stronger and more intense then the other ones we'd experienced before. We were hooked, we would often have sleep overs and just lie in the dark and masturbate. I am still friends with that girl, but we stopped masturbating together when we reached 8th grade. That gave me freedom to explore myself more, and discover what really felt good to me. Nowadays I usually start out by fantasizing (or watching/reading some porn that I find in my mom's room) and then I use my right middle finger to stimulate my clitoris in a back and forth motion, my left hand is usually squeezing my breasts, or sometimes opening my lips so it is easier to directly stimulate my clit. Since I am a virgin and I believe I still have intact hymen (even though I wear tampons) it doesn't feel very comfortable for me to insert things into my vagina.. yet. I think masturbation is a wonderful part of life, and I do it often. It is such a good stress reliever and it also helps wear me out if I'm having trouble sleeping. I'm almost shocked when I talk to some of my friends and they tell me that they have never done it before. I think it is something that every girl should do as an act of self-realization. I would also like to thank you for having this lovely site to help answer some of my questions, and to let me know that I am certainly not alone. Cheers!

Anonymous

I have always liked to masturbate..I started when I was 16 when a friend touched me down below and I liked the feeling I got.. So when I was alone, I would go to my room, take off all my clothes and experiment.. I would take a mirror to see how my pussy looked up close.. Then I would rub my clit, feeling how good it felt and how wet I became.. I would then pile up pillows on my bed and lie on them so I'm up in the air.. Then I would masturbate, slowly at first, then more quickly as it was feeling better and better.. And when I was ready to climax, I would stop, wait a couple minutes, then start rubbing again.. This would give me a great mind blowing climax.. And once when my girlfriend caught me masturbating, we did it together.. I was glad she caught me cause we would play with each others clits till we both came.. It was awesome...I love masturbating and I will never give it up.. I do it a lot by myself..I even use my vibrator at times but my fingers feel really good rubbing my wet clit.. I'm so glad many women are doing it now and are more open about it.. Its perfectly normal.. I think I'll go masturbate right now.. All this talk has my clit throbbing.. Happy masturbating girls..

Deborah

I travel a lot and have apartments in two cities.  In the States, I have a husband and two kids. In England, I have a lesbian partner who is aware of my husband but adores me anyhow!

Anyhow, even though I have such wonderful luxuries of bisexuality readily available to me, I often find myself in need of my own love and attention.  I have masturbated in the most unusual of places including the more mundane airplane bathrooms to risky places like a park bench in Hyde Park in Sydney.  So, I need many ways to please myself.

I have no favorite.  I am my favorite lover!!  Ha!  When I need a quickie...that orgasm that will blast in a few seconds and bring me to a relaxed state, I use my little bullet.  I love to put that in my hot pussy and just go walking around town watching other people express their love to each other without their knowing I'm getting a pussy blast from their kiss.

Other times, I want that slow deep long build up that heightens the tension and gives me a orgasm that sends me into a comforting sleep.  For those, I start by reading web sites like these.  Then I will tickle my nipple off and on, brushing it lightly if I'm in public or pulling my breast over the top of my bra and out the opening of my shirt so I can bend and lick at the sweet pink nipple...sucking at it...long deep sucks, if I'm alone.  Soon my shirt is off and I'll be sticking my finger into my soaking,  slippery pussy, lapping at the love juices which I'll then rub onto my aching nipples. 

I move to  the floor, usually totally naked and spread eagle.  I slip my fist into my slippery pussy and pump myself with one hand while the other continues to pinch and pull my aching, throbbing pink erasers!

Oh I do love breasts so.  I usually fantasize about other ladies beautiful breasts.  My favorites are those luscious little ones with sweet flat nipples, prior to having babies. 

I bring myself to edge, withdraw my hand and start rubbing at my nipples again.  Sometimes I get a mirror between my legs and look at my lovely box.  Oh it is so juicy and sweet.

Finally, I let my pussy pulse to the heat.  I slam my cunt with my right hand while I pinch, pull and slide round my precious, throbbing clit with the other.  Then I fly into oblivion thanking god for the pleasures of my body and the beauty of the women and men that I have loved or fantasized about.

Ellie Aged 13

I remember when I was about 10 and I was on the Sims 2 creating a House and I pushed my heel of my foot to my clitoris and it felt soo good but I didn't know what I was doing. I did this all the time. Then I found out about it at school, then I started fancying boys and this one particular boy called Billy, showed me how to masturbate and he used to do it for me. I was so turned on that when I masturbated by myself using the heel, then I would think about him and once I had six orgasms in a row! We used to do it in class when we sat at the back. Yum! We weren't going out though, but now, we do it after school when we tell our parents that we are "studying". Its a blast. Anyway the est way for me is either the heel because it's quick or if I have more time, then I lay back and tease my nipples and then rub my clit Really hard until I orgasm!! Awwah

Bethy

I have been tickling myself since I was 4. I was shown how to do this by a little friend that lived up the street from me. She would come down to my house and we would play together all the time. She was also 4 at the time. She asked me if I ever "tickled my bottom" and I said no. She asked me if I wanted her to tickle me and I said yes. Who doesn't like to be tickled when you're little? lol

She had me lay down on my bed and she pulled my shorts and panties down around my ankles and the opened up my lips and wiggled her finger on my clit. I squirmed and laughed and have been doing it ever since.

We tickled each other from the time we were 4 to the time we were 10. For some reason it stopped there. But we had many great tickling times in between there and I miss them. She would come down, she always came to my house because she had a lot of brothers and sisters, and we would go up in my attic, out in my back yard, in my bedroom, in the woods behind my house, we'd make tents out of those old folder sun chairs and drape blankets over them. We had a ball. And it would always start off with her putting her hand down my pants and panties and wiggling her finger on my clit and that would send me into laughing fits and I'd wiggle and try and get away, but I loved it too. You know how that is, it tickles and you try and get away, but you love it at the same time because it tickles. lol

One time we were in one of our "tents" and her older sister came down looking for her to tell her she had to come home. She caught us both with our pants and panties off and she climbed in our tent and tickled us both. We thought she was going to go and tell, but she didn't and she would sometimes join us but most of the time not.

I remember one time we were outside in our bathing suits playing in the hose water and she stuck the hose in the crotch of her bathing suit and wiggled her bottom around. She kind of giggled and said the water tickled. I tried it and she was right, sticking a hose in the crotch of your bathing suit does tickle you clit because it's almost the same as having the water run on your clit from the bath tub.

I've been tickling myself almost every day several times a day since then and I'm 35 now. I fantasize about those days while I tickle and it makes it more intense. I wish I could find a friend that lived close to me that would like to just be friends, but also tickle once in awhile. Either we'd tickle ourselves and jut watch or when we got comfortable enough we would tickle each other. But that is where I'd want it to stop.

I fantasize about that and about a dad coming in the room of his daughter and tickling her to sleep. I think about that one a lot while my husband is tickling me and it gets me off every time. Also I think about an older brother coming in my room at night and crawling in bed with me and tickling me all night long. I know those are bad things to think about, but the really get me wet and I get off so much bigger when I do.

My usual way of tickling is I lay on my back or sit in my computer chair. If I'm in my chair I use my left hand and open my lips with my pointer and ring fingers and rub circles on my clit with my middle finger and eventually stick the tip of my finger up inside the hood of my clit and tickle the tip of my clit that way, I have to be VERY  wet to enjoy this though but once I get there I cum in minutes!

If I'm laying on my back I open my lips with the finger of my left hand and use my pointer finger on my right hand and just wiggle it back and forth over the shaft of my clit playing with it sometimes to make it last longer. I like to rub the side of my clit on the right side, it's more sensitive on that side, and run my finger up and down the shaft of my clit. Then I rub circles around the top of my hood with my clit just inside and then I pull the hood back and tickle the clit directly and WOW does it tickle. Sometimes I can't help but to laugh out loud sitting or laying there all by myself. I laugh a lot while my husband is tickling me and he loves it. He holds me down so I can't squirm away and tickles it faster.

Hope this helps someone or gives them some ideas.

Anonymous

I really enjoy thinking about giving my man head. I am extremely turned on by the thought of really sucking hard on his cock. Sometimes I get a banana or some other suggestively shaped object and stick it in my mouth while rubbing my pussy lips and clit. Then, I take the object and rub myself with it down there with one hand while I play with my tits using the other hand. I then finger myself hard until I feel I want to cum in my pussy and finally rub my clit so hard I end up having two orgasms. Then I think about my man cumming all over me. It feels so good.

Jordan

My first experience with masturbating was when I was late 10 early 11. We had just had the period talk and our nurse gave us a website that told us about menstruation. Well I went to a different site on accident. I saw a word that I didn't know, and it was masturbation. I clicked on it and it talked about how a lot of people do it and its natural. So I tried it. A few days later I was in my room sleeping. I woke up when I realized my three brothers were in my room. I had the only closed room with a computer in it. I looked at the screen and realized that my brothers were watching porno. I started watching it with them but they didn't know it. They kept looking at me to make sure that I was still sleeping. I would shut my eyes real quick. I'm still sure they saw me though. I don't have any tips since I'm just 12 but I really need advice that could work for a busy 12 year old who wants to orgasm but doesn't have the time.

Anonymous

Thanks for the tips, will definitely be trying the pillow.. I mainly use the handle of my hairbrush to either penetrate or just to rub my clit. It works every time.

Chrissy

I started masturbating when I was very young (3 or 4 years old). And now it doesn't take a lot to get myself off. I love wetness and usually my fantasies have to do with that. I love to swallow my boyfriend's cum and I've always wished that I could rub it in my pussy and get myself off with it. I love how warm it is and how its thick and messy. Another big fantasy is grinding my pussy with another girls'. The idea of her juices all over my pussy and her lips slipping and sliding in between mine makes me so wet.

When I really want to get off all it takes if a couple things. Getting completely undressed helps me, along with moaning and grabbing my own tits. The best part is rubbing my own spit into my pussy. I will just get a little cup and spit into it and as I rub my clit I'll start to pour it between my lips. The coolness of it feels so good and its just another sticky mess which I love.

I'm not bi, but my last fantasy involves women. I've always wanted to feel a woman's huge tits pressing into my pussy. Pressure turns me on and feeling a soft huge titty with a hard nipple rubbing my clit gets me going. I'd like to try it both ways. I'd love to rub my chest in between a girls legs and get her juices all over me and have another girl come suck my nipples till all the juice was gone.

Thanks for listening = ]

Anonymous

What a great website it really turns me on. I masturbate quite a lot, and I just love rubbing myself down there. Happy masturbating!

Anonymous

I rub and rub and my pussy until I have an orgasm.

I have a fantasy that I'm getting eaten out by a boy in my class named Matthew. He comes in my room naked and he makes me give him head and he fucks me so hard that my pussy rips.

Anonymous

I use my electric toothbrush it feels so good I can't even hold in my moaning and groaning.

Erica

This site is wonderful!

I started masturbating at around the age of 6, which is the first time I had sexual fantasies. Over the years I learned that not only did it feel good, but I could reach an orgasm in the shower by stroking my clitoris very fast with my hand or a shampoo bottle.

My favorite technique is to fill up a water balloon with warm or hot water, and then push it into my vagina. The warmth of it fills nice, and can leave the whole thing in there while I rub my clit, and then pull it out right after I climax for even more enjoyment.

Amy

Well I'm now 15, almost 16 and I have been masturbating since I was about 11. I used to rub my clit against a pillow or stuffed animal, but of course back then, I didn't know what masturbation was. To me, it was just something that felt nice.

After about a few years of this technique (my fingers didn't bring me to orgasm), I decided to see what would happen if I used my electric toothbrush. And God, it was fantastic. I've been using it ever since, but... from what I've read, because I've been using it directly on my clit, it's gone numb.

I now have a girlfriend (which I see as much as I can as we live in different cities) and she can't bring me to orgasm with her fingers or her mouth. I've had to fake it twice. Where as I can get her to orgasm loads, and it's really starting to worry me now.

Mya

Ok...so I have been masturbating since I was about 8 years old. I have done different things to get extra horny. My first orgasm was about a month ago and I'm 18 (about time right)! hahahha...SO LISTEN TO THIS!!!! I took a water bottle from the freezer, it had cold water inside...and I get on my chair, put the water bottle into my panties, start rubbing forward and back on the chair with my legs spread so that my WET pussy is on the bottle and the bottle is against the chair..I keep moving and touching my boobs. I spit some saliva and rub against my boobs...I put a porn movie on or I look at myself in the mirror. The COLD wet water bottle just makes me feel so damn good! After I'm all excited and full of pleasure I lay on my bed and take my whole hand and start stroking myself...it feels so good!

Anonymous

Wow, I have been sitting here rubbing my pretty pussy like crazy. I love having sex with women. My basic method is the shower head and my finger.  My girl friend just gave me the biggest orgasm ever. Happy masturbating girls!!!!!!!!!!

Jane

Well I'm 14 yrs old. I love to masturbate, it feels soo good. I usually start off by sitting in front of a mirror and putting a finger in and out of my anus, it feels really nice. I then start to explore my vulva by rubbing the lips, then pulling open and closing them still in front of the mirror. I love to do this I find it really nice!!!

I then start feeling my tits and rubbing my nipples. When my mum buys some squirty whipped cream I put it on my nipples and lick it off, as well I also put some on my vulva, nice and cold and I then rub it all around my vulva, on my clit, and in my vagina!

Anyway after I feel my tits and nipples I rub my clit really fast and insert two fingers into my vagina until I reach an orgasm. I let some juice go, I get the juice on a finger and then proceed to insert that finger into my anus and then carry on masturbation normally. I love masturbating the way i do!!!!

Jane

Anonymous

Found this site while searching for something hot. Well, I'm from Germany, 23 years old and have masturbated for as long as I can remember.

Today I did it three times and would like to do it once or twice more.

I have many methods. At the moment I love the shower. I love the feeling when the water is running directly on my clitoris. I lay down, spread my legs as wide as possible and play with warm and cold water, and after I came I don't dry myself. I love "playing" with a pillow or else in my vagina.

At night I love to do it on the balcony. Outside, dark, neighbors could see me. I get crazy at these moments and love lying naked outside.

Kelly

Hi, I'm 23 and I enjoy masturbating, it feels so good. I started at 12 years old. I love to get horny. When I was 15 I'd wait till my parents were asleep and take off my undies and shorts and I'd just rub my clit on and on until I'd feel like I'd have to pee. But one time I forgot to stop and I peed a little but I kept going. I get horny just thinking about it. I don't dream about other girls and I don't feel my breasts, that's not for me. I don't use vibrators. But I've noticed it takes longer to reach the climax of masturbating in the shower but I do it anyway. I keep rubbing and rubbing and it feels sexy. When I was in 7th grade I'd go to the bathroom every hour and just rub and rub and rub. But i love this site. I used to think it was bad but I'm glad lots of people feel this same way.

Happy masturbating!

Karen K.

It's messy but worth it!

I like to wear panties that are a bit tighter for this. Cotton will give a totally different feel than nylon (Which I prefer I suppose, but I like both. Both are extremely enjoyable). I put a towel on my bed first (under my butt) and lay on my back with pillows behind my shoulders so I can see between my legs. I bring my knees up so my feet are close to my butt. I then spread my knees apart wide and lift the edge of my panties at the inside of my thighs and squirt a little cream inside my panties (I'll explain the different creams later). Just enough to make the panel raise up a little off my pussy. The size of a marshmallow maybe?. I like to press my panties gently and feel the cool cream move around inside my underwear (You can warm the cream or chill it for a different feel). I like to feel the cream go inside me a little and then I press harder with my open palm and massage myself rubbing my panties over my pussy as the cream gently works its way through the fabric and a little squirts out the side. I like to put a finger or two on the panel and press it inside me, feeling the cream go in with it. As the cream breaks down I'll add more, squirting it from the sides again and sometimes lifting my front waistband on my stomach and squirting a little from the top. I eventually end up using a LOT of cream and getting everywhere inside my panties! Eventually, I'll roll up a soft towel and lay on it and hump into it as I feel the cream in my panties squirt all over inside, and slipping inside me and out of me as I rub my pussy while sliding my panties against the towel. I always reach orgasm while humping like this, the sensation of my creamy panties moving back and forth on my clit is just too much!

Whipped cream is nice because you can taste it on your fingers but shaving cream holds up MUCH MUCH longer, never gets sticky either and is a lot more dense, so, it makes for a better feeling. I have tried almost every liquid I can think of to test the different feelings, butter, honey, raw eggs, mayonnaise, everything!! HAHA. If I had to choose, its shaving cream!

Unless... I'm doing it with a girl. I had a bi experience a while back and one night we both put cream in our panties and rubbed together in the missionary position. Probably the most incredible feeling I ever had/shared. The feeling I had against my pillow was GREAT! But not even close to how it feels against another girl! Our clits were squirming around in our panties mixing with the cream and pressing against each other's panties....staring into each others eyes...it was an amazing orgasm! As I said, shaving cream is best for the feeling, but if you use whipped cream, you can kiss each others panties after and more! HAHA....well...use your imagination! (Use a good brand that is thick and dense or even a good non dairy heavy whipped topping.)

Sometimes I'm at work and I think about this sensation. I can't DO IT there but I found the next best thing! I've filled a small plastic bag with shaving cream and put it inside my panties between the panel and my pussy and then put my pants on. Every time I move I get that sensation of slipperiness against my pussy! A strong Zip Lock type bag will better stop it from accidentally popping! But a very thin plastic bag like you get at a vegetable place will make the cream feel better...more movement. Just make sure you put the cream in and then squeeze ALL the air out! That's important for a better feel! Then tie a knot and cut off the excess plastic.

I hope someone tries this and tells me about it!

Kathy

Wow! This site is fantastic! I'm in my late 50's and have been devoted to masturbation all my life, but every time I come to this site and intend to write something I get so horny reading the posts that I turn off my computer and rush to the bedroom! Anyway, something happened yesterday that I just have to share! I was at my mother's house and she was going through a shoe box full of old pictures. We were having coffee and she was showing them to me, then casually passed me a photo and said, there's one of your uncle Bob at Thanksgiving. I looked at the picture, and was about to put it down when I noticed up in the corner that there was something else in the picture! I couldn't see the face, but there was a little blond girl straddling the arm of one of the living room chairs, clutching the back of the chair. Instantly the memories flooded back, how I loved humping that chair, just going from one good old-fashioned orgasm to the next, unashamed, desperately trying to prolong and intensify each orgasm! I must have been 3 or 4, because that's when I started getting teased about doing it and found another way to get my orgasms. At that time, of course, I didn't associate any of what I was doing with sex, I just loved the way it felt. When I saw that picture I became instantly and totally aroused, found some excuse to leave and went home for a marathon masturbation session. I have got to find some way to get that photo!
                                         
Kathy

Hollis

Hi, I'm 27 and have been enjoying immense orgasms since the age of 12.  I love to rub my clitoris, caress it with my vibrator, and sometimes fuck myself with my pyrex glass dildo while doing it.  Often I like to take my time rubbing and petting my swollen clit and get myself completely crazy with desire, so that I'm dripping wet and trembling all over.  I enjoy pinching my nipples gently while doing this too.  I like to shave completely so my pussy is super sensitive! One of my fave techniques involves three different vibrators at once.  I kneel over one, which is lying on a pillow, and press my clit down onto it, whilst I place the other two against my nipples.  It's HEAVEN!!!!!!  I come so hard that I scream with pleasure!

Emma

Hi, I have been masturbating since I was about 12 and that was the age I started to have sexual feelings and sensations, one night I was listening to a CD and a song came on about sex and love and "grinding" and just listening to it turned me on, so I went online to look at what this feeling meant and found a website suggesting methods of masturbating to bring myself to orgasm, I tried humping pillows and I eventually got myself there, it was the most amazing feeling and ever since I will masturbate once or twice a day ,

At the moment I masturbate either naked on my bed with my Venus Vibrance (vibrates) and I remove the blade and tease my clit with it until my pussy throbs and I explode with orgasm, I've also tried using my "vibrator" whilst I sat at my computer watching porn , both men and women turn me on and watching porn whilst doing it makes my orgasm even more intense.

Anonymous

I find the best way to masturbate is to get really turned on before I even think about touching myself. I do this by reading erotic stories etc just like this site. I read until I'm so wet I can feel it almost dripping down my thighs, then I lay on my back & tease the very tip of my clit with one finger, moving in slow, circular motions. Eventually it gets to the stage where it starts to sting a little, this is when I use two fingers to trace all around the clit. I do this until I get that hot, aching & throbbing feeling all over my pussy. If I'm home alone i'll use my electric toothbrush. The vibrations are more intense than some actual toys. I repeat the above with the head of the toothbrush (Breathing deeply & moaning quietly to myself always intensify the experience). After a while, my clit is so sensitive I can hardly bear to touch it. At this point I start to rock my hips back & forth, grinding my aching clit against the shaft of the toothbrush until I reach an amazing climax.

I don't often get the chance to do this though. So when I'm stuck using my fingers, I just lay on my back imagining a tongue tracing my clit or the most powerful vibrator resting on my pussy & tease myself to the edge of orgasm, slowing down before I come. Most people stop but I carry on willing myself to hold on. It's the most amazing feeling. Imagine being on the edge of orgasm for minutes at a time. Then finally I let myself explode! I get the best orgasms this way. Try it, you'll love it.

Reammtine

First I read a very erotic book or magazine while in the bathtub, then I let the water flow at a very slow rate and lie on my back (the water level is fairly low) and place my genital area under the water flow. I use one hand, usually the left, to "open" the area then lie back and fantasize!! The results are great!! Sometimes I use the ribbed end of my hairbrush if I feel like I need a little more, or if I am really frustrated. Also a hand held shower head with a real fast pulsating stream works great!!

Anonymous

I actually don't know when I began to masturbate...but I began to really explore myself when I was about 12 or 13...I used to find objects that looked somewhat penis shaped and get off from those. I'm now almost 16.

But after obtaining a vibrator I now use that. Which has worked wonders and brought me to orgasm many, many times. But before I got my vibrator, I used the whole "electric toothbrush" thing, and that also worked very well. Until recently I never thought of getting myself involved with another woman, and now I find it very sexy, having another woman there, although I'm totally straight.

But just the thought of grinding ourselves against one another is amazing! And I'd love to try it! And now that I've seen this site, I now see that I'm not the only one who thinks of this, and it's quite neat to see what other people are doing to please themselves, I may just have to try some of the things on here!

Valerie

Well I have two techniques. My first one is.... I am naked from waist down, then I put my feet against the wall, my legs make a diamond (I am on my back). I stick my first finger on my clitoral hood and go slowly back and forth slowly then faster until I  juice. I stop when my hips rise in the air, and the contractions start. Then I stick one finger in my virginal opening and move my hips with every contraction.

My next one is... I sit on the floor with a mirror on front of my "area". With the mirror I find my clitoris, and with a free hand I gently pinch and wiggle it. That usually brings me to an orgasm, if not then I watch porn on the computer while stroking everything through my underwear. The moaning of the people really turns me on.

Anonymous

As with most people who have sent into this site, it does indeed make me horny to read experiences.  I am straight, but always fantasize about watching another woman.  I masturbate every day, and I am on an antidepressant which makes cumming quite hard (have not cum thru sex for over a year now sadly). The only way I can cum is by using toys (Ann Summers Rabbits usually)...my fingers just don't seem to cut the mustard these days!  Anyone got any suggestions on how I could make myself cum with JUST my fingers and not take hours over it...then perhaps I can cum during sex again...?

Kathy

I usually masturbate in my bed, lying face down on the mattress. Sometimes I lie with a pillow under my pelvis. I start fantasizing about sex, mostly actually about my own masturbation, sometimes about sex with my boyfriend or other guys. When I get wet, I lead both hands down between my legs and start first rubbing my outer labia, particularly around the clitoris, but soon moving two or three finger deep into my vagina. I use the other hand to support my first hand to get my fingers deeper. Sooner or later I start rocking back and forth on my hand, the palm massages the clitoral area until I come, which is in this way very quick and wet.

Sometimes, I might start off lying on my back, but I rarely reach an orgasm lying on the back, so I turn onto my belly after a while. I also like touching the anus with my little finger while having the other finger inside my vagina, sometimes also inserting a finger tip, but I got into trouble with bacterial and fungal infections and dropped that part for now.

When I was a teenager, I got too tired with my fingers and used the handle of a big screw-driver as a dildo... I lost that toy somewhere and my hands got strong enough, anyway.

Anonymous

Firstly, thank you for such an educational and supportive site!

It has proven to be so educational to me because I too am one of those girls who has only ever been able to orgasm through masturbation by lying on my stomach. I normally cup my hands and grind against them, or vary it by moving my hands instead. I was sexually abused when I was young and was introduced to masturbation at a young age too, and I read somewhere that the technique of masturbating on your stomach was thought to develop as a child. This is very true for me, as I did try to hide it. I love sex and oral sex with my boyfriend but nothing has ever brought me close to orgasm. I also find that I fantasize about women when I'm masturbating. Both about going down on them and having a girl lick my pussy until I come. Thank you for giving us all the opportunity to share our experiences and open up to others.

Ivon

Hello, I'm really pleased of finding this site. I'm 13 now and I love rubbing my clit and labia. I have been doing this for almost four years now. I discovered by accident on a hotel's tub, the water was hitting directly on my clit and I felt heaven, so I did it as much as I was able to. Later, I don't know how but I discovered that I can get the same feeling by touching my clit with my finger so it was my normal technique, usually after everybody was sleeping.

Later I was looking for new ways to satisfy myself so I started to use some objects like my pillow or my Teddy Bear. But it was not enough, when I got my first cell phone I instantly knew what I was doing on it.

I call myself with the cell over my clit and make it vibrate and WOOOW it's amazing!! But I love to feel something inside me so I once looked at a statue that is in my living room, it's a small statue of a man with his arm fully extended and his fist closed like punching (looking to the front) and the statue  is like 2 foot tall so once I got my home alone I putted a condom over his hand (I found my parents condoms) and I sat on it... Woow that felt so COOOOL. I had an instantaneous orgasm and I continued doing that for at least 5 or 6 more orgasms.

Now when I'm alone I use to do the same but I also use my cell phone over my clit so I can get double stimulation .. and sometimes I squirt this way, and let me tell you that squirting it's the most amazing feeling in the world.

Finally three days ago I was with a boy in my home (he is 19) and we were alone, and I got horny as we started to speak about sex and stuff like that, and I told him about my statue-lover and he started to ask me so many questions and he was really interested on the topic. But that day we didn't do anything besides a hot touches...

But yesterday we were alone again here at my home and we were talking dirty again and I got super horny and as we were sitting one in front of the other. He got closer and closer until I was able to feel his dick hard pushing my cunt. We started to rub each other moving our hips. He putted my cell phone inside my panties and called me till I orgasm, but I was unstoppable, so I asked him if he wanted me to see me while I fuck my statue... he agreed of course.

So I got naked and started to move up and down while the statue's hand was going in and out of my cunt. I had two orgasms almost instantly and he got closer and stated to rub my clit while I still move. Later he encouraged me to put the statue's hand inside my anus, I was little scared about that but I finally did it. And while I was doing that he was masturbating until he got tired, I guess, and he suddenly put his dick in front my cunt and I wasn't able to say no so he fucked me just like that. It was SUPER WOOOOOOOOW the best orgasms I have ever had.

Oh my God I have written a lot, well I'll continue later, I'm horny again and I'm alone hihihi :D

Kathleen

I love masturbation and cannot imagine my life without it. I've never really had an orgasm from traditional intercourse (although it still feels good to me & I am extremely sexual). I don't recall how young I was when I first discovered that delicious tingling sensation down below but I recall that by the time I was 12, I was using hard objects like hairbrushes, veggies, etc - anything that would stimulate my clit and get me off (and boy did I experiment!). I also discovered my step-father's stash of dirty porn magazines hidden under the mattress and stole those to look at the photos. Now that I'm older, I use a variety of methods. Jelly vibrators, tongues, rubbing my clit and nipples slowly, and as many have mentioned, shower-heads are amaaazing (I first realized this as a teen at my parents house. I'm quite vocal when I orgasm so it was really hard to keep quiet!). Despite being scolded for masturbation when I was younger, I plan on teaching my own children (2 boys) that it is nothing to be ashamed of. Self-loving is healthy, natural and beautiful.

Anonymous

I was getting desperate to have sex. I have no constant boyfriends and getting them when I want was not possible as I live with my family and I cannot make it to have sex. I was living alone before and I would have them come over to have sex. But now I live with my family and this has made my life difficult and unbearable at times.

We had gone on an office outing at a resort. I was the only girl and was feeling shy to mingle with them. So I stayed back in my hotel room all alone. I was unimaginably desperate for sex. I wanted a human touch running all over my body. Thinking of this I fell asleep without my knowledge. The next day morning while I went for my bath, I liked the warm water running over my body. I was enjoying my bath. As I was enjoying an idea occurred to me. I slid exactly below the tap where the warm water was flowing. I let the warm water fall on my pussy. You will not believe the kind of excitement I went through. It was as good as a male licking my pussy with his tongue. And the tongue going deeper and deeper into my vagina and tickling all my inner corners. This technique provided me with unlimited satisfaction. I did not want to stop at this ...wanted more and more...

Dee

A slight tingling sensation quietly tells me that it's time. So depending on where I am I lie, sit or stand. When lying, my back is down and my knees are bent upwards, spreading my legs apart - just enough to reach my waiting pleasure hole. With the fingers on my right holding open my outer lips, my left index finger lays gently on my hooded treasure. Then I find myself whisked to a world I've for so long only dreamed of, where the woman of my dreams meets me for the first time for the thousandth time and says hello. From here we progress, sometimes this could span years, and we fulfill our every sexual fantasy. Then my finger rubs the hood of my clit in a circular motion, softly at first, then harder and harder, until an eruption of bliss, satisfaction and fulfillment explodes from within my thighs. I'm wet. And I'm smiling.

I find that masturbating standing up even while just rubbing your clit is a whole new experience. It's better than anything I've tried. It doesn't seem like too many people do this. You should try it. The experience is like none-other. You may want to have a wall to lean on because the feeling is so intense and you might need support.

This site has given women, especially myself, a reason to be proud of and true to who they are. No more shame! Thank you.

Jan

I have to agree with the water techniques used for masturbation.  I'm a 46 year old married woman and we lived in the North West of Western Australia where it was always hot.  We had a pool and my husband was quite often away, so I would sit on a step in the pool, legs apart, and use the water spray gun from a hose on my clitoris and within a minute I was coming so intensely every time with the pressure of the water on my clitoris.  I got my husband into it and I would get aroused and sit on him and have the hose on my clit and we'd both be coming within a minute.  So intense, it's amazing.  I've also got to say masturbating with your legs closed can be so intense also.  Cheers.

Anonymous Sexual Goddess

I have been masturbating since age 5. I used to take dolls, lay face down on my bed and massage my vulva with my clothing on. I continued masturbating throughout the years. When I got into junior high I began masturbating naked because it gave me more pleasure. I'd do this by using a towel or blanket folded up and placed between my legs and moving up and down. One year, I heard about female cumming. I'd never done it before and decided to try. I masturbated in front of a huge mirror in my parents' room and spread my vulva open with my fingers and watched my vagina contract.  I placed my fingers inside and pushed them on my upper wall. After a few minutes I began to squirt. At first, I was nervous, but it began to feel great; I took and rubbed the moisture all over me. It felt so great to cum, so I decided to try it again. Masturbating in front of my vanity mirror, I did the same thing except sitting on a stool with my legs spread apart so I could see my vulva. Then I began experimenting with penetration. I am still a virgin, but I was curious as to what it felt like, so I use items such as round perfume bottles. I soon realized that the perfume bottles were too small and the caps sometimes got stuck; so I turned the bottle the other way. I did this laying on my back on the floor or on my bed. Then I moved up to larger items such as lotion bottles and bubble containers. I also masturbate in the bathtub. I find it most arousing to masturbate in front of a mirror so you can see how your vulva works; it helps you climax faster. Now I am 15 and I love to masturbate at least once a day.

Anonymous

The way I like to masturbate is to rub my clit lightly in circles with a finger, then put my clit between my middle and pointer fingers and squeeze gently. With my other hand I rub it up and down between the fingers. When coming, I increase the pressure of the fingers to help the orgasm last longer. Amazing!

Anonymous

I love this site!!!!  I'm 18 years old, and I have been masturbating since I was 14. It's kind of limited now because I go to a religion-based college.  My main masturbatory position in on my back with my fingers teasing my clit.  I have used a hairbrush, but I prefer the other method.  What usually gets me wet is reading AND writing hot stories.  My sexual fantasy is a guy on top of me, being semi-rough.  The longer I hold back from orgasm, the better it is.

Anonymous

If I'm not turned on I always finger fuck myself. I tried it once and thought it would hurt but it really makes me wet. After that I lie on my back, but make sure I can see my vulva in a mirror so I see what I'm doing. I rub my breasts until my nipples get hard and always leave once finger in my anus. Then I use circular motions on my clit when I'm lying on my back with my legs wide. If you move along with your fingers you come much harder and faster leaving you moaning for more......try it.....I dare ya!

Anonymous

First, let me start out by saying that I haven't had sex in 3 yrs. This is strictly by choice.But lately I have been wanting sex but I don't want to do it with a another guy until I get married.{I've only slept wit 1 guy.) So here's my technique for masturbation: I get myself in the mood by reading an erotic book that goes into the sex details such as:"He kissed her lips and all over her body and then stopped when he got to the V shape of her thighs.She shuddered as she anticipated what was going to happen.He opened her legs and took her into his mouth he opened her up and stuck his tongue inside of her vagina to taste her completely." Then I lay flat back on my bed and fantasize about the characters in the book as I touch myself, with my middle and ring finger. I get myself lubricated then I insert these 2 fingers inside and massage myself until I hit my G-spot, then I get really excited and finally cum. 

Charlotte

Heya, I'm 19 now but I first started masturbating when I was 7, I found my sister's vibrator, I didn't know what it was then but the box's picture seemed to explain it all, so I decided to try it out. It felt strange at first but after I had used it the first time it was like an addiction, that wouldn't go away. My sister caught me using it and was surprised but she had always thought those types of things should be talked about openly, she said that she wouldn't tell our parents about it if I didn't tell that she had one (she was only 15 herself). I was still confused and I decided to ask her more about the vibrator, she said that if she wanted me to she would show me how to use it properly, I agreed, she striped off and inserted it into her own pussy and proceeded to stroke it in and out for about 15 seconds, I remember seeing the look of pleasure upon her face as she used "her toy". After the 15 seconds she removed it and cleaned it and put it back in her draw and left the room, I just stood there confused and shocked. I realized why she had left the room and proceeded to the draw, removed the vibrator and repeated what my sister had just done, this was the first orgasm I ever had.

Now I can't get enough of the feeling, when I was 16 I went out and bought loads of sex toys. I can't stop wanting to be pleasured and I regularly  masturbate using both my hands and my toys, I think I might be a sex addict, as I can never get enough. I regularly have more than one boy round.

I just wanted to say thank you for this site as it has allowed me to share my experiences.

Anonymous

I usually masturbate using just my fingers. Yesterday night I started with a marker. I took a Sharpie marker and licked it. Then I put the Sharpie in my vagina [the smooth side of the sharpie]. I slowly move it in and out and move my lower body around. I usually do this in front of the mirror so I can see. Then I take the Sharpie out and put it into my butt. Sometimes I stand on the bathroom counter, lean over, and do my technique. Its very pleasuring. Try it.

Elifa

I have always felt really isolated in terms of masturbation - I never had the chance to discuss it with my girlfriends so I'm glad to find this site...

I started at age 11, although I was very curious way before that.  I would read my mother's medical books about sex and the female body, and I always wondered what an orgasm was.  All I knew was that I liked looking at naked pictures... Finally I figured out the bathtub method, where you get under the stream of water until orgasm... I loved it.  From age 11 onwards, I've masturbated almost daily (I'm 29 now).  I was fortunate to find a husband who enjoys masturbation as much as I do!  I prefer vibrators over anything else.

Clair

I am a 57 year old woman with cerebral palsy and I love my clit. I keep my pussy and my clit very clean and I wash three times a day. I like to walk naked in my house and feel my clit. At first I am a little bit dry but after I get wet I cum very hard. Some times I cum four or five times

Anonymous

Hi, After reading these articles I wanted to input my methods. I've been masturbating since I was about 8 or 9 and I'm now 17. When I first started I had a favorite to, and I would pretend that it was a boyfriend or conjure up stories for that night and I would rub it up and down my clit. It felt so good and I didn't even realize what I was doing. Then as I got a bit older I started to use other toys like a Teddy Bear and rub my clit up and down the face (nose part) of it so it felt like I was having sex. I used to do this laying on my front or even sitting up on my bed and mobing about. It really felt like I had that moment, and not just rubbing, it felt like it was in me. But my methods changed when I went on Holiday and couldn't take my Teddy Bear. So one night when everyone was asleep I caressed my clit with my finger and realized it was the same as before and I would occasionally slip my finger down between my thighs and back up again and just fondle with myself. I realized that I didn't have to have a bear or whatever to masturbate and it was a great feeling that I could control more.

Since then I've tried whole new things like ice cold water bottle and spray cans, and also with the shower it is the most amazing feeling.

I also sometimes become spontaneously horny at home and will go into the bathroom and open my legs wide, caress my body and then play with my clit.

I've found out what my body likes and talking about these experiences has made me hornier than ever and as I type I am masturbating with the most effective feeling of typing this.

Just a thank you to everyone who write tips that I have tried! FANTASTIC!

 

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