Female Masturbation Techniques
& Experiences: Collection 27


If you would like to share your masturbation techniques and experiences you can do so here.

 

Alex
 

Hi, I'm Alex and I've been masturbating since I was 8. 

Once I snuck in to my mom's lingerie drawer when I was home alone and put on one of her sexy bras.  I found a vibrator and didn't know what it was, so I assumed that it was a toy and I put it on my clit.  AHHHHHHHH!!!  It's the best feeling ever!!  I also found some porn and I popped it in the DVD player.  I laid down on the bed and slowly inserted the vibrator into my pussy and watched other girls get their vaginas eaten out.  I'm NOT a lesbian,  but I've always wondered what it's like to suck on a pussy.  But the combination of porn and the vibrator, guaranteed orgasm.

P.S. If you can't find a vibrator an electric toothbrush certainly does the job :)

 

A
 

I like to take something called Icy-Hot and rub it on my boobs, where the pubic hair is on my vagina, and both cheeks of my ass.  I rub it in, and for a minute or to it HURTS LIKE HELL but then all you feel is this hot pleasure all over.  I love it.

Caution: Be careful where you put it, or accidentally put it, or you could get a lot more stimulation than you want. Don't get it on your hands then touch more sensitive areas.

 

Paola
 

Hi, I'm 14 and I've been masturbating ever since I was 11. I always felt dirty when I did it because I was taught that masturbating was wrong, but now I see that it's actually very normal. Uhm I came to this website because my mom cursed me with small fingers, so I don't really get wet by fingering myself. I find myself attracted more to girls than guys. I don't know. My technique of a good time is watching porn or reading stories similar to this until I feel my pussy tingling. Then I go to my room and masturbate with a hairbrush, yet I need other ways to get myself turned on. Any help?

 

Anonymous
 

Hey guys! When I masturbate, I like to make sure I'm really turned on and wet first. If not it feels weird and sometimes hurts if I do it too long. Then, I make sure that I am in a place no one will disturb me. After, I like to strip in front of my mirror saying sexy things to myself. I rub myself in front of the mirror, then I take it to my bed. I lie down and think about sexy things or read an erotica while I masturbate. After about five minutes, I come. Sometimes, I watch porn while I do it. That makes me come in like one minute. When I am done masturbating, I usually feel a little guilty. Then I try to stop, But I get SOOO horny I can't and the cycle continues. It's really hard to accept, but it is true, masturbating is normal. If you really want to stop though, really truly, then you can. If you have enough devotion to stopping. That part is just for you girls who are unsure about yourselves ;) thankss for reading!

Have fun masturbating! :)

 

Samantha
 

When I was 13 years old on a Saturday afternoon, two neighborhood boys watched me masturbate. I was naked on my bed and didn't know they were watching from outside my bedroom window. The humiliation of it was horrifying since I saw these boys several times a week and was aware they had told other boys from school about it. I was embarrassed by it for years but as I got older the thought of them watching me became arousing to me and I would fantasize about it while masturbating. I've had three different boyfriends watch me masturbate but the same feeling wasn't there. I suppose it had to be someone I wasn't having sex with and thinking I didn't know they were watching me. I'm 28 now and live with my boyfriend who is away once a month in the Navy Reserves. About 8 months ago when he was away for the weekend I noticed two boys out in the driveway drinking a beer. I know Patrick because he lives next door but the other guy I have never met. In the darkened room I opened the window three or four inches and pulled the blinds up enough for them to see into my bedroom. I then turned on the lights and radio and began getting undressed. I did glance into my dresser mirror one time hoping they were looking in at me and sure enough they were right outside peering in. I am supervised at myself for my lack of embarrassment but what I was about to do that night was a fantasy I have had for many years. Once naked I laid in my bed making sure they could see me at the best angle. I got wet immediately and  the amazing thing is that I orgasmed three times that night with the knowledge they were watching me. Every weekend my boyfriend is at the reserves I do the same thing and Patrick is always out there on Saturday nights. There are a total of three of them that have watched me but aside from Patrick I don't know the other two. Even when I see and talk to Patrick I have no embarrassment knowing he watches me every month. Unlike when I was 13, that time was the most mortifying thing that could have happened and I never dreamed it would turn into a fantasy. 

 

Morgan
 

I read through all these stories and I can't seem to find anyone who masturbates the way I do. I have always felt ashamed and too shy to let my husband even see me masturbate because it is embarrassing to me, the way I do it, compared to how I read, and see other girls do it. But try as I might, I cannot achieve orgasm, any other way. And I do try regularly! I get excited either by vibrator or my hands...and yes I mean hands plural. For some reason I cannot seem to use just one hand. The pressure and guidance of my left hand on top of my right hand seems to be needed. I also try using one hand from time to time, and while I can sometimes get excited, I have to finish myself with both hands. I use 3 or 4 fingers flat on my closed lips, right top of my clit. And I rub as my heart starts racing I rub fast! The weirdest part for me is that my entire body goes rigid. My legs straight out (laying on my back) and together, toes pointed, full body rigid all muscles tensed, throbbing with excitement until I explode... I have tried with my legs apart. Both with my hands, and with my vibrator (which I LOVEEEE) on my clit. The vibrator will get me so super excited, and writhing with extreme pleasure, but I just can't have an orgasm until I throw my legs down, tighten and go! I think I found while experimenting with this, partly why I can't get off with my legs up, it the vibrator presses down on my pubic bone and hurts. It also hurts my clit to press directly down onto it. But when my legs are together, I have that cushioning over the pubic bone, and over my clit, to protect it, and full on orgasm. It's embarrassing to me, to try and do this in front of my husband, especially not seeing that anyone else does it this way.

 

Sarah
 

I always make sure that my pussy is fully shaven before I masturbate. my favourite technique is just my own fingers, usually after watching some porn, mainly lesbian although I am straight. I have quite a small clit and small inner lips but I love the feeling of slowly stroking my clit and feeling it slowly poke out of the hood and grow harder and longer. I usually do this lying on my bed naked, completely exposed with my legs spread wide. I like to apply lube to my nipples and slowly pull at them as if someone is sucking them. I tease my clit and rock my hips upwards to meet my hands until I am cumming hard and shaking.

 

Maria
 

Hi! I have been masturbating since I was around 6, I didn't know what I was doing, I would just place my hand on my pussy before bed. I stopped playing with myself for a while, then I discovered the shower head!! my shower head has jets, and you can adjust the pressure, so I would set it on the smallest jet for the most precise pulse, and let the warm (or cold!) water hit my clit. this would send me screaming and shaking in a matter of 30 seconds! I have multiple orgasms every single time. I am intimate with my man every chance I get, but only have orgasms from him eating my pussy out, not from sex. when I am not in the shower and I'm horny I lay back on the bed and spread me legs and slowly stroke my pussy, until soaking wet, I shave so no hair down there, and I love to feel my soft skin while stroking and rubbing my clit with one hand and fingering myself with the other. ;) great website!!

 

Anonymous
 

I started masturbating at a young age, not knowing what it was. I had found a back massager and I started to massage my neck and back. Until then I decided to try it on my tummy. I kept lowering it more and more until I had it on the outside of my underwear. It felt so amazing. My body started to twitch and I wanted more. So I slid my panties off, spread my legs wide and put it directly on my clit. Another thing I used to do when I was little was, lay in my sleeping bag and hump stuffed animals. I would pull down my pants and put the stuffed animal directly on my clit and hump it with my panties still on. I didn't know what I was doing at the time but I knew it felt so good.

But as I got older and I learned what masturbation was, I felt like it was wrong. I didn't really start masturbating until I was about 19. I just got really horny one day and I decided to forget the fact that it was "wrong" and just enjoy the pleasure. I looked up some techniques and found one where you stack 4 or 5 pillows up, cover them with a towel and hump that. So I got completely naked, straddled and humped away. I had an orgasm within 30 seconds. I felt so wrong afterwards and I quickly got dressed. But later, I remembered the feeling of my orgasm and I didn't care how wrong it felt. I wanted to do it again. So I continued to do it and got more comfortable each time.

I later picked up other amazing methods. I love to masturbate in the shower. It feels so amazing with the water dripping down. Plus it's an easy clean up. I used to lay down and use the faucet on my clit. But ever since I got an adjustable shower head, I use that. Some other methods I love are the pillow humping method of course. I also like to take a strand of those plastic mardi gras beads, get on my knees with my legs spread wide, and pull them back and forth through my legs. I start slow at first, but then I get faster and faster. It gives you one of the best and most intense orgasms I've ever felt. Another method I love is, I have a full length mirror. So I like to place a towel in front of it and some pillows. I lay on the towel and prop myself up against the pillows and spread my legs wide so I can see my pussy in the mirror. I take a mechanical pencil and just rub it up and down the length of my pussy. The little clip on the end of the pencil hits my clit at just the right spot. I just love seeing how my pussy reacts to everything. It turns me on so much and makes me even more wet. By the time I'm done, I can see how dripping wet I am and that only turns me on even more.

One more method I love is, I love just sitting at the computer and watching sexy videos or reading stories like these on this site. I'll reach into my pants and pull the sides of my panties up into my vagina. It creates more pressure on my clit. Then I'll rub my clit through my panties and feel myself get even more wet. I rock back and forth on my chair until I have the most intense orgasm.

I love reading all these techniques. I always love trying out some different things. Happy masturbating ladies ;)

 

FuzzyBlanket
 

I first discovered masturbating when I was about 7, when I sat on a Monopoly piece, right on my clit. it was a very good feeling. when I was in bed that night, I rubbed my "down there" parts and had my first orgasm. For a while, I had clenched my fists, and laid on my stomach with my fists on my pussy and hump until orgasm, it's my best way to get horny. Now, I recently discovered vibrating toys. When I go to bed, I take one of those little vibrating, Hexbug Nanos, strip down and put the Hexbug right  on my clit, while penetrating myself with a toothbrush until I orgasm. Have Fun! ;)

 

Jayne
 

Hey, I'm Jayne... My techniques are to lay on the bathroom floor when my parents go out to a party and spread my legs widely and finger my vulva and sometimes before that I lick my finger and finger my vulva... It feels soo good. My second technique is to use a handle of a brush and shove it slowly in and out of me... It hurts at first but if you just relax and think of a woman or a man fingering you, you might orgasm...

 

Sulamith
 

I live in Central Europe. I am 18 and very addicted to self stimulation. I had a very uncommon adventure.

When in the public shower I couldn't hold me back and started to flick my bean to enjoy my daily pleasure. I thought to be alone. When I was squirming with delight, fantasizing very dirty thoughts, I suddenly noticed an about 50 or 55 year old woman in another cubicle staring at me and rubbing one off in highest speed.

Her face was purple her dangling breasts shaking vividly.

I couldn't stop my actions as I was too close to orgasm. The lady was stiffening, made a horrible grimace and groaned with passion. Though almost grossed out, my convulsions started in a moment.

Never thought that elderly women will shake pussy like we young ones. We waved our hands with an awkward smile and left a little ashamed. Later I returned and had another orgasm in the shower - alone.

 

Kara
 

Hi. What a great site! I am 32 and have been masturbating since I was 11. Right to orgasm. My favorite thing by far (and I've had my share it clitoral toys), is the vibrating toothbrush. I climax almost instantly. It's so worth the try. Promise!

Kara

 

Rosie
 

I've masturbated since I was seven. I'm 17 now. I like to masturbate stomach down in bed, my knickers on and rubbing my clit. I had my first orgasm when I was 10, I think.. Also, I get incredibly horny when I'm frustrated, especially when I'm pre-menstrual. One time I got really frustrated and horny, but my sister was in the room. I had to masturbate quietly under the table.. >.<

By the way I have a question.. Is it normal to masturbate stomach down? I do, but don't know many people that also do it.. Please reply :) x

Webmaster Note: Some women do masturbate in this manner, as it is a common way in which girls learn to masturbate, and they may continue to use this method if they feel it necessary to conceal what they are doing.

 

Alexis
 

I am now sixteen years old and have been masturbating for over two years. I like to vary my position when masturbating, but often I'm on my stomach with my backside slightly in the air to provide room for my hand. Usually, I start by teasing my clitoris with the tips of my fingers - I find that it's easier to climax if I don't really touch my lower genitals at all. After teasing for maybe two minutes, and breathing slowly, I start to rub either side of my clit whilst staying near the top. I find this is where I am most sensitive. This starts to make my legs tingle and sometimes I feel a slight tense sensation in my breasts. I continue with this whilst rubbing harder in smooth back and forth motions quickly over my desired 'pleasure' spot once I've found it. I'll do this, while changing the way I am rubbing myself and varying my speeds, until I climax. I don't immediately stop during a climax, instead continue until my body feels slightly tired.

Sometimes, I penetrate whilst also using the method above. I use the end of a hairbrush, with grip on the handle (I don't use this hairbrush for day-to-day use), and start by slowly teasing the lips as I am also using my other hand to tease the clit. It takes me time to penetrate, and at times it does initially hurt, feel[ing] unpleasant. However, when I do reach a climax later on it is more intense and longer. Usually, I start slow, but I like to match the speeds in which I rub and push the hairbrush handle in and out. I don't suggest being violent, and you consider the delicacy of your genitals when doing this. The end result is a fabulously intense climax.

Happy masturbating my beauties!

 

Anonymous
 

Okay, so I was reading other people's experiences and I thought for the longest time masturbation was filthy. I am 14 and I tried a couple examples just a while ago. I was "massaging" my vulva (I can't seem to find my clit, I'm stupid I know) anyway and I was listening to the one scene of American Pie: The Naked Mile with the blonde on tv (I'm not a lesbian) but I for some reason find the moaning entertaining. So my toes started to tingle, then my legs. I had to stop, my hand was cramping. Whenever I went to the bathroom like 3 minutes after (felt like I had to pee) I looked and white drops were dripping from me, yet it wasn't very sensational. When I got back to my room my face and neck were warm (I was hot). I don't know if this is from that or if I was just hot. I don't know if the clit is high or low. But when "massaging" it tends (for me) to feel better lower. I know I didn't orgasm but I got a small portion of it. Is my experience normal. See I'm on my grandma's laptop, she doesn't know how to check memory so I can really do whatever. Porn doesn't really help (its all fake moaning) but that scene does. Also watching certain porn (like with toys and kinky, long harsh looking sex) but I just need advice on finding my clit and getting that orgasm I so hope for...

 

Jo
 

I'm writing here not so much to talk about my masturbation techniques, though i have a few (which I fucking love but am bored with) I actually wanna say that I try to do more than the old "hump the pillow/teddy bear" or "showerhead" trick. I really wanna to expand my horizons, haha, cuz I'm really into diversity and I get so bored by sexual routine. Even doing the same thing twice in a row is bore snore to me. Anyway, I digress. I try to finger fondle myself, but I don't [know] if it's that I don't have the patience or I'm not doing it right, but that feeling isn't coming as instantly as most women on here. But I'm not losing hope. While I've been a sexually active person for a long time now (I'm only 16 going on 17, btw) I realized while reading these really hot masturbation techniques that I don't really know my body. I don't truly understand what really turns me on and I'm all the more determined to take my time with myself that way the next time a guy asks me what he wants to do to me I can give more details than just "Harder!" or "Your whole hand". I love sex and masturbating and I think it should be fun at all times. I'm really not the intense look into eyes as you'll die type. I'm light-hearted and fun-loving. Again, I digress. Anyway, I'm gonna annoy myself and be another poster who says I really love this website and the way it really makes women know who they are and what they can do with themselves. Which is a lot!!! hahhaha, I swear reading about the chicks who masturbate 24/7 a day make me wonder if they ever socialize "sans-pussy touch" I mean I masturbate everyday but come on, I still have a life..

 

Stella
 

Hi guys, I'm 15 right now and I started masturbating when I was 10. This is how I did it) I went to the corner of my bathroom squatted down and put the showerhead on full force. First I keep it as far away from me as possible then I bring it closer. If I'm at a friend's house I would not cum, but if I'm at my own house I cum. IT IS SOOO NICE! When I was 10 I used to punish myself. (This is how I did it) If I wanted to pee I used two hold it back for at least 30 min and if I don't (I usually don't) I punish myself by coating my clit with cool menthol shampoo, as after a while it will start 2 burn so I will slap my clit hard and put the showerhead on cool water and full force the spray at my clit.

Webmaster's Note: Applying irritants and stimulants to the vulva, clitoris, and vagina may result in irritation and possibly chemical burns.

 

Shy Geek Gal With Raging Hormones
 

I am in my late 20s and haven't been with a man in over 6 years now, as I am shy geeky girl and don't meet new people. I am so afraid I am going to be alone for the rest of my life.

But anyway, of course I have needs. I have been masturbating about once...sometimes twice a day since I was 5 but only through clitoral stimulation. A few days ago, I was watching porn when it hit me that I've forgotten what it's like to be vaginally penetrated. I was feeling curious so I inserted a phallic, bubble wand tube thing in me. It kinda hurt but still felt good at the same time, I don't think I was wet enough. I have since used this makeshift dildo four more times and now it feels great! I love to watch porn while moving it in and out, at the same frequency and thrust that the guy in the porn is going at. I imagine how good it must feel to be the girl being fucked. While I am moving the tube in and out, I rub my clit and breasts...it feels so good. I wish I had a guy to do it with for real but until then, this will do. I am thinking of inserting a ribbed hairbrush handle in me next.

I feel so dirty and shameful for using non-sexy items for sexy purposes but I'm too embarassed to buy from a sex shop and I am afraid that if I go mail order, the packaging will have the name of the sex toy company on it and I don't want my roommates to see it!

Webmaster's Note: Every adult toy supplier I know of uses discrete packaging and a mailing addresses that doesn't disclose the contents. Of course, many suitable items are available at toy and department stores.

 

Kristen
 

Hi I'm Kristen and I started masturbating when I was 9 months old, yeah no joke. I've honestly never masturbated using my hands or fingers. I'm 20 so I have a vibrator now but back when I was a kid I use to sit in a chair and move my hips back and forth in a pumping motion, while moving my legs in a circular motion at the same time. I have a great memory so I still remember doing that when I sat in a car seat. I use to think it was wrong because I use to get in trouble masturbating in class. Of course I didn't know what it was at the time so I use to call it the "tickle me." I don't really use this technique anymore because a vibrator feels so much better but I highly suggest this technique if you want to get to an orgasm without getting your hand all wet and smelly.

 

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