Puberty, Adolescence,
and Self Discovery
Learning How to Be a Sexual Woman
I'm fourteen, what is up with all these new sexual feelings? Answer
A girl expresses her concerns about uncontrollable sexual feelings and masturbation. Answer
Why are my friends able to masturbate to orgasm but not me? Answer
My boyfriend is pressuring me to have intercourse, what should I do? Answer
What is all this clear fluid coming from my vagina? Answer
How do I overcome my sheltered childhood? Answer
I am trying to learn how to experience orgasm, can you help? Answer
I heard from friends my girlfriend wants to try oral sex, what should I do? Answer
I'm 16 and cannot masturbate to orgasm, is there something wrong with me? Answer
Should a girl know when she is sexually aroused? Answer
I have some questions about my body, masturbation, and dating. Answer
I peed when I tried to have an orgasm and what is this sticky white stuff? Answer
I use an electric tooth brush, can you help me learn a new masturbation technique? (Plus Many Tips) Answer
Please help, I'm sixteen and cannot get sexually aroused. Answer
The first time we had intercourse my girlfriend did not experience pain or bleeding, was she really a virgin? Answer
I'm a virgin, should I have my parents get me a dildo? Answer
I need some advice, I am fourteen and eager to explore partner sex. Answer
When will my boobs grow, and what is this little brown patch on the inner part of my thigh? Answer
How do I get my girlfriend to take charge during sex and express her needs, plus other topics for developing a sexual relationship? Answer
I'm thirteen and my clitoris always tingles, what can I do? Answer
I am totally frustrated by and unsatisfied with partnered sex and need some advice? Answer
I need some advice, I'm fifteen, always sexually aroused and thinking about sex and feel uncomfortable masturbating at home? Answer
I'm thirteen, haven't experienced the affects of puberty, and need some advice on inserting a finger into my vagina? Answer
I'm a virgin, should I tell my boyfriend that I have been experimenting with a vibrator? Answer
I'm 14 and need advice on when I should explore sex with a partner, wetness, and the shape of my vaginal opening. Answer
I am 13 and new to masturbation, how do I get myself to stop looking at Internet porn? Answer
I need some advice, I am almost 13 and my mother embarrasses me with her comments and doesn't know I know as much about menstruation and sex as I do. Answer
I'm really self-conscious about my large clitoris and could use some advice, and what is this white substance on my vulva? Answer
I need some advice, I am self-conscious because my breasts are two different sizes. Answer
I'm 14, why do I keep getting clitoral adhesions and I need help learning new ways to masturbate to orgasm? Answer
I am not experiencing sexual desire and find it hard to become aroused when masturbating? (Addresses sexual desire and perception of sexual arousal.) Answer
Why does the sensations associated with sex and orgasm feel differently when I engage in partnered sex compared to when I masturbate? Answer
Why are my experiences of arousal and orgasm during masturbation and partnered sex so different from one another? Answer
I have questions concerning removal of my pubic hair, masturbation, and cunnilingus. Answer
I have questions about an urge to pee prior to orgasm, orgasms, small penises, sex in water, condoms, bleeding during first experience of intercourse, douching, and anatomy. Answer
When I engage in sex with my girlfriend she experiences lightheadedness, dizziness, tingling in her arms and legs and around her lips, muscles spasms, and her skin becomes pale, moist, and cool to the touch? Answer
I have some concerns, I can only reach orgasm using a vibrator. Answer
I am insecure about my body and do not feel comfortable exploring my body because I am afraid I will be caught doing it. Answer
Help, my sexual desire is very strong so I am like masturbating all the time, I cannot find my vagina, and that is all this white stuff on my clitoris? Answer
Um, how do I tell my dad I need privacy so I can masturbate? Answer
I cannot concentrate long enough to masturbate to orgasm, and I am overly emotional, can you help? Answer
I thirteen and need some advice on learning how to experience orgasm. Answer
How do most girls learn to masturbate and at what age? Answer
Our five-year-old daughter masturbates frequently and openly and I wonder if we have been too permissive with her? Answer
I'm fifteen and my curious twelve-year-old sister asked to see my penis, I didn't, but don't know what I should do. Answer
I was wondering if I am still a virgin even though I tried a couple times with a boyfriend, but we did not succeed. Answer
I have been faking orgasm with my partner, how to I steer him the right direction without telling him this? Answer
We are both college students, can you explain why my girlfriend hasn't experienced orgasm in two years? Answer
Help, I'm seventeen and get sexually aroused by do not experience orgasm during masturbation or partnered sex. Answer
Help, I can only experience orgasm when I masturbate but not during partnered sex? Answer
We aren't ready to engage in intercourse and are bored with sex, any suggestions on what we can do together to make sex more enjoyable? Answer
I am a religious person, how do I overcome my past bad experiences, which didn't begin until I was 28 years old? Answer
I am a 25 year old virgin female, should I continue to wait for the right person, are my expectations too high? Answer
Help, my 23 year old girlfriend had her first orgasm yesterday using a vibrator but even after 12 orgasms wasn't able to release all her sexual tension. Answer
I'm sixteen and my first experience of intercourse wasn't what I expected and I didn't experience orgasm, can you explain why? Answer
I'm new to partnered sex and my sexual experiences aren't fulfilling, can you explain why? Answer
Help, I'm twenty-two, have a conservative religious background, and I am experiencing intense sexual desire that is beyond my control. Answer
I'm sixteen and while I experience sexual arousal I'm not experiencing sexual pleasure during masturbation and partnered sex, can you explain why? Answer
My girlfriend doesn't experience much vaginal lubrication, I have trouble entering her during intercourse, and we engage in partnered sex infrequently, can you explain why? Answer
My girlfriend has never engaged in masturbation and doesn't even like the idea of it, how do I know if she is ready for partnered sex? Answer
How much discomfort or pain do teens and women experience when they start inserting fingers and objects into their vagina? Answer
I'm 19, please help me discover and explore my elusive sexuality? Answer
My 18 year old girlfriend wants to engage in sex but is very nervous, can you offer some advice? Answer
My girlfriend has never experienced an orgasm, how can I bring her to orgasm during oral sex? Answer
How do I help my girlfriend explore her body and discover sexual pleasure? Answer
Would using a vibrator adversely affect my first sexual experiences with a partner? Answer
How do I address my intense physical arousal at school and on the bus? Answer
I'm 45 and just now beginning to explore and enjoy my sexuality, I would like some advice on addressing the challenges I now face. Answer
I have a question about making noises during sexual activity. Answer
I'm very frustrated, how do I get my partner to fulfill my needs, sexually and otherwise? Answer
Is masturbation the reason behind the increasing size of my clitoris and changes in vulvar skin color during puberty and adolescence? Answer
I have just started exploring vaginal stimulation with my partner and have some concerns, can you help? Answer
I'm 28 and trying to discover my sexuality, was the medication I have been taking the cause for my lack of sexual desire and the absence of pleasure during intercourse? Answer
I'm thirteen but haven't experienced my first menstrual period yet, I have been masturbating, is that why my periods have been delayed? Answer
I've started exploring my vagina and have some concerns. Answer
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