Question: Is in normal to have a pinkish discharge after being fingered? I was fingered for the first time, the next day when I peed, I saw some of that pinkish thing on the toilet paper (after I "cleaned myself up" I suppose). Does that mean I might be pregnant? Because we were "playing with each other" but at no point was his penis near my vagina. But (because there's always a but - it's never too much to ask, I suppose) maybe somehow his sperm could've been carried up to fertilize an egg because he might've had some dried sperm on his fingers? How long is the sperm alive when it is out side of the penis? I was as careful as possible and watched his every move when he had an orgasm, what he was doing with his hands when they weren't on/in me, etc.
Answer: I suspect there was simply an injury to your hymen, vulva, or vagina when your boyfriend stimulated you with his fingers. This topic is addressed in the Q&A section, under Pain and Bleeding on the Subject Index. When you engage in this activity it is usually required to use additional lubrication to reduce the amount of friction and irritation, and to ensure your partner's hands are clean and their fingernails don't have any sharp or rough edges.
You would not exhibit signs of pregnancy so soon, the egg and sperm would not have implanted in the uterus so soon, as fertilization most often occurs in the fallopian tube.
Under "ideal" situations sperm can live for up to six hours outside the body, or 6 - 7 days inside the body. Once semen dries out, conception is not possible, as the sperm have died. Washing your and his hands with soap and water should wash away or kill any sperm that are present after he ejaculates. You should probably wash away any semen on his and your bodies, especially if you want to cuddle naked after sex.
While it is wise to make sure he or you do not accidentally get sperm on or in your vulva and vagina, it is rare for pregnancy to occur in this situation, but as you mention, still possible. If you cannot relax and enjoy the experience it may not be worth the effort though. What you might do is take turns taking your cloths off, or sit and watch each other masturbate, with no touching at all. If you cannot risk getting pregnant, mutual masturbation is a great way of sharing sexual pleasure while avoiding intimate contact. It also teaches you what works best for your partner. You can also take turns giving each other oral pleasure, simply keep your genital separated during these activities.