But a while after, I started to stop liking it. I felt almost nothing. When he touched my clitoris and masturbated me (that was like 5 months ago) I loved it, I still do, but I never liked to have my breasts fondled again, even when I was aroused.
Now, our relationship has deteriorated for a number of reasons and we almost have no sexual contact, but the few times we do, I still don't like to have my nipples touched. If I'm not aroused, I simply hate it.
Isn't this strange? I read on your website that only 50% of women are sensitive to nipple stimulation. I was once, but then I lost it. Why do you think this might have been?
Answer: I believe your experiences are normal. Keep in mind that your brain is your largest sexual organ. It may have been the "idea" of him touching your nipples that was so enjoyable. Now that the newness has worn off, it is no longer pleasurable. Your nipples may not actually be sensitive to erotic stimulation.
There are possible physical causes as well. Changes in your menstrual cycle, medications, and birth control can influence your breasts and their sensitivity.
Another factor to consider is how you feel about your breasts. Has how you view your breasts changed? If you are not happy with your breasts, you are less likely to want or enjoy someone touching them.
Something to consider is whether you like to stimulate your nipples when you masturbate. If your nipples are not sensitive to your own touch, they may not be sensitive to a partner's.
Since your relationship is not healthy, it is unlikely that your sexual experiences would be good. Makeup sex can be great because of the hormones released when you are mad, but in the long run things do not work out. If you are tense then stimulation of your nipples or genitals may be annoying versus pleasurable.