Question Part 1: I was just wondering...why does my girlfriend bleed every time I insert my fingers in her vagina? I only use 2 fingers at the most every time I do so and she never complains about it hurting. Also, it only happens when I touch a certain region (its in the innermost part of the vaginal wall...in front of the cervix). Should I be worried?
Answer Part 1: I would not consider this normal at all. It could be that you are tearing her hymen, by inserting your fingers so far in, at that particular angle. Is the blood on your fingertips or around the base of your fingers? Have you inserted anything larger than two fingers into her vagina; your penis perhaps?
Based on what you have said so far, I would recommend that she see a doctor. This is not something that should normally occur. Her inner vagina may be less sensitive, so she may not feel any injuries she has, which is bad. Her feeling no pain does not mean there is not something wrong. She may also be afraid to admit that it hurts.
Question Part 2: No, I have not tried inserting anything more than 2 fingers...we have agreed not to go further than that. Also, she said that she would have told me if it was hurting...she usually does.
We have been doing this for a couple of months now. It is only recently that she started bleeding, when I tried inserting my fingers at this different spot, as I wanted to see if it would stimulate other areas. She said that it feels great, and that she doesn't feel any pain at all. I trust that she is being honest with me.
The blood is usually at the base of my fingers. It's not a lot but its there. So I'm not quite sure about where its coming from.
Also, when you say that there is probably something wrong, what exactly do you mean by this?
Answer Part 2: Any recurrent and unexplained vaginal bleeding is a reason to be concerned. It does not mean there is a serious problem, just that things need to be checked out. I feel it would be wise for her to see a doctor.
If you are both teens, getting to a doctor could be a bit difficult, and embarrassing, since parents usually need to be involved. She can simply tell her mother she has experienced some unusual discharge or intense menstrual pain, and wants to see a doctor. She can then request to see the doctor alone and then explain what the problem really is. If there is a medical problem, the doctor may need to tell her parents what the problem really is, so they can treat it. Part of being sexual is taking responsibility for your actions, even if they are unpleasant.
It is possible that you accidentally injured her vagina, scrapped it with your fingernail for example, a while back and the injury has not had a chance to heal. It could be her hymen, if it is tight around your fingers, but it should not keep tearing and bleeding, unless you keep using additional force each time; especially since you are reaching into her vagina.
The area you are stimulating may be her urethral sponge or what is commonly called the G-Spot. Many women find this area sensitive to sexual stimulation. You can read about this in the section on Female Ejaculation.
It is great that you have discussed what types of sex you both are interested in exploring, and have set limits. Communication is extremely important to enjoyable sexual relations.