Question: I have a problem with my clitoris. I was told I had too much skin on my hood. My husband can only give me pleasure with a vibrator. I'm also over weight. Is there anything that can be done about my hood? And is there any websites on this problem? And is there a site on sexual positions and sex in general especially for fat people?
Answer: Having a long or thick hood is not uncommon. It is unlikely to be the cause of your inability to experience orgasm except when a vibrator is used. This is a common experience for women, regardless of the size of their hood, or clitoris. While I understand your desire to be able to experience orgasm, as the result of other forms of sexual stimulation, I do not believe there is necessarily anything wrong with you. There may not be anything that is broken that needs to be fixed.
The clitoral hood can be trimmed, the procedure is referred to as circumcision, as in the case of the male penis and foreskin. The links section of the website lists resources under Plastic Surgeons. I also mention the subject on the page that addresses female sexual enhancement. The hood is often required to protect the very sensitive clitoral glans.
I am not aware of any resources that provide sexual advice for over weight men and women. I did find the link given below when I did a web search. It is an information service for over weight people. Perhaps you can find what you are looking for there.