Shared Female Masturbation Techniques and Experiences: Collection 11

Janet

Hi my name is Janet, my boyfriend hooked me up to your website. We've had a lot of fun with reading all the other experiences of women like myself. Of course, I'm a little intimidated to write about my experiences but here we go anyway....

When I was at a very young age I had this strong attraction to the female anatomy, I had a girl I used to play with and we decided one day we would play doctor and nurse. Well, needless to say I was the doctor and totally enjoyed looking at another female....I became very wet, not really sure what that was all about, but as I became to mature, I was very interested in what turned me on way back when....a girlfriend of mine (when I was in my late twenties) said if you really want to have an orgasm position your pussy under the faucet when you are taking a bath and just let it massage your clit. Up until that time I had never had an orgasm, I thought I was going to explode, (I had been married for about 5 years and had never experienced what other females said an orgasm was) so that day I had an orgasm...from that point on I was determined if my partner could not or would not satisfy me I could do it on my own. I had received an dildo as a gag gift, I decided to start using it for what it was intended to be used for, and I would have orgasm's on my own that were totally awesome. Something I had never experienced with the person I was married to at the time. I had never had a vaginal orgasm before I met by current boyfriend...but the wonderful thing about our relationship now is that he totally enjoys watching me make love to myself. It is the most wonderful erotic experience I have ever experienced. At the age I am, I finally have a very fulfilled sex life, whether it be me making myself cum, or having my boyfriend watch me cum...it is awesome. I never thought in my wildest dreams that I would have such a wonderful sex life.

P.S. I also enjoy very much when my boyfriend reads the experiences of other females and he jacks off it totally turns me on....Thanks so much!!!!

Michelle

Hi my name is Michelle and I love this site! I have been masturbating since I was about 11 years old. At first I was showering at my dads house with the detachable shower head, I began to point it at my clit. It felt awesome but I never reached an orgasm. Then I found this site and I am finally having my first orgasms. I love to go on the shower and then the water starts to hit my clit, and then I have an orgasm which will last about 30 seconds. I have always wanted to have longer ones, but I can't figure out how. An electric toothbrush works really good for me and makes me cum the most. I love to fantasize about another women licking my clit as she works her way in! Thank you for all your wonderful techniques!!!

Anonymous

I love to masturbate. The ways I masturbate may not be for everyone, but it works for me. First I start rubbing my clit and pussy until I am wet and the juices are flowing out. I mostly fantasize about women. I love thinking about pussy and being fucked and eaten out by a woman. I have never had that experience but I would love to one day. By this time I am cumming all over the place. I also get on the internet to porn sites and look at women's pussies and clits. Other things that turn me on are women being fucked by animals. Dogs, horses, monkeys, whatever. I never done that before but it turns me on so much and I cum really hard. I have a dildo in my pussy and I just sit on it and hump up and down. I am doing that right now. I am so horny and wet now. I also masturbate while driving in my car. Sometimes I have to pull over so I can cum. Then I am good to go. I masturbate everyday about 3-4 times a day. I also get on the local phone chat line and listen to women. Their voices makes me wet and horny. I just love it. Well I need to go now so I can cum for the 5th time thanks for this site.

Anonymous

My first sexual experiences really started when I was 11 or 12, and I started using the internet. One night, a guy asked me if I had ever cybered. Of course, I was curious and lonely, so I started to become addicted to that. I ended up being desperate at times, trying to find a guy to cyber with. Masturbating never really did anything for me, though, because I was really inexperienced. Finally, I stopped that when I was 14 and a half or so. I'm now 16 and a half, with my first real boyfriend. I met him over the internet, and love him to death. We started experimenting, and each time we met up we went a little farther. He performed cunnilingus on me more than once, and a few times I experienced orgasm without knowing it. I would get this really warm, pleasurable feeling that would spread all through my body, but I didn't think it was orgasm. Reading your site and learning how to masturbate with the shower head have convinced me, though. Now I take a bath whenever it is possible, so I might try to orgasm again. Sometimes my clit gets over stimulated, and numb, so I let it rest for a day or two. I had my first orgasm by myself about a week ago, thanks to your site :) I never thought that masturbating would get me to orgasm, but whoo boy, it did. Having intercourse never actually has really done anything for me, except sometimes when he thrusts in really far. Laying in your bathtub with a handheld shower nozzle (pulsating is good) aimed in the right spot can get you there in a minute! I have a question, though. When you start feeling pleasurable, with water spraying on your clit, is it normal for your muscles in your legs to start twitching involuntarily, and for you to get the uncontrollable urge to squeeze the shower nozzle as tight as you possibly can? Sometimes that has delayed my orgasm, because it moves from the right spot with my whole lower body twitching. I just want to know if it's normal.

The muscular twitching she experiences is normal and common. It is not bad, and Betty Dodson, in her video, teaches women how to cause this thigh tension by raising their knees up off the floor, when they are spread apart with feet touching. If this twitching is distracting, you might try finding a position where your legs are comfortably spread apart and relaxed while being fully supported. Do not go for the quick orgasm, but allow the sexual tension to build up slowly. If the twitching starts, back off on the stimulation and take a deep breath. The one minute orgasms may be a blast, but slow buildups are likely to produce more intense orgasms. Remember to breath and stay relaxed.

Shelley S.

I am so grateful for this site. I first found it about 7 months ago and was really blown away. I'm 17 and a virgin; I have been masturbating since I was 6 and reading some of the entries, I am very glad that my parents never made me feel guilty. I remember being caught twice and both times being told that it was something I should do when I'm alone.

Though I never felt guilty about masturbating, I did go through a phase where I thought I masturbated too much. I was masturbating about every other day and I really tried to make myself stop but now I realize that was a mistake. I also used to feel really guilty about my fantasies which a lot were about being raped and very submissive, I was so relieved to find that both of these are actually quite normal and I no longer feel like I'm a sick person for thinking about it.

The reason why I'm so grateful for this site is because it made me realize something. When I first started reading all the experiences a few months ago, I was actually feeling very blessed. I could always orgasm easily and usually under 30 seconds if I wanted. Then I read about the woman who could only orgasm while masturbating on her stomach and it really hit me. Although I could get off by clit stimulation on my back, I had never been able to reach orgasm through fingering or other penetration except when I was on my stomach. Of course I know now it is because that's how I did it through childhood. Out of fear that I would never be able to orgasm through sex, I tried to make myself get off on my back. I have to tell you that it was very frustrating! I actually gave up the first 4 times and cried once. So then a few weeks later I tried the 5th time and I realized there was really no big rush, I had all night so I just started to enjoy myself. Instead of concentrating on trying to orgasm, I started to visualize my favorite fantasy. I had a small vibrator that I used to penetrate myself. It did take a lot of work and like someone mentioned before, a lot of muscle clenching but I was able to orgasm! It took a while and really the orgasm wasn't that great and even seemed almost a disappointment considering how much work it took but I was just happy I could make it happen. I won't lie, it still takes longer on my back and though the orgasms have gotten good I'm not sure if they will ever be quite as intense as the ones I can give myself on my stomach. If there is an easier way than how I was able to do it then I hope some of you with the same problem can get through it but I just wanted to let those of you know that it's not impossible to achieve orgasm on your back even if all you've known is doing it on your stomach.

I was also glad to see I wasn't the only one who used to bunch up towels on the bathroom floor and ride them. I thought I was the only one who did that. Actually most of my earlier masturbation, before I figured out what I was doing was by rubbing up against something. Thanks for letting me share my experiences and again I appreciate the site.

Anonymous

I have been divorced for about 10 years and have only ever had three sexual partners (including my ex). I have only ever had actual sexual intercourse about 10 times in my life (not by choice!) and have therefore spent many hours masturbating. My favorite technique is using a vibrator with a hard nub on it. It's a pistol-grip type. The hard nub feels awesome when I use a lot of pressure on my clit. So far, my record for orgasms is 3 in 2 hours. I plan to try to do better than that sometime soon. :-)

Patti

I masturbate just about every night when I go to bed. After I have had one or more orgasms it helps me get very relaxed and ready to fall asleep.

One of my favorite times was when I was out west in the fall on a hiking vacation. The motel where I stayed had a Jacuzzi and late at night, after a long tiring day of hiking, I was the only person in it. After a while, when no one else came, I started getting daring and removed the top to my swim suit, and then the bottom. I placed my clitoris directly in front of the jets. I had to keep moving away from it, as I didn't want to cum too quickly. Eventually I just stayed there and had probably the most intense series of orgasms I have ever had. When I went to bed I slept like a baby.

Anonymous

I masturbate when I am home alone. I usually use a simple vibrator, but when I can't I just use my hands. I take off all my clothes and get under my covers. If I am using a vibrator, I am on my stomach with the vibrator on my clitoris and move up and down on it until I orgasm. If I am using my hands, I start by massaging my clitoris and then I move my fingers in a circular motion. I sometimes stick my middle right finger into my vagina. It doesn't take long until I orgasm.

Arianna

I am 21 years old and I've been masturbating during the last 2,5 months. Two main reasons contributed to this discovery, your site and my current boyfriend. So I'll have to say a big thanks to both of you. During all these years I haven't been able to find the right way to masturbate since I didn't know that the clitoris was the secret. I've always inserted things in my vagina but this wouldn't get me anywhere. None of my past boyfriends was caring enough to pay attention to my clitoris and when I found your site and read all the experiences I suddenly understood what I was missing throughout all these years and I decided to go for it. It was difficult at first and I could only reach orgasm with the help of a massage device which vibrates, but it was worth the effort! Now I am able to reach an orgasm up to 4 times a day and only with manual massage! I start by gently touching the whole area and then pulling back my hood and rub my clitoris in circular motions while I'm watching some porn or fantasize. I haven't tried to do it with my boyfriend but I certainly will in the near future. Having orgasms has changed my life, I'm more relaxed, self confident and I feel like a woman should feel! But I still can't figure out why I hadn't discovered it on my own, and lost so many years of pleasure...there must be a reason! Anyway, many thanks to all of you who helped me understand the meaning of self-loving!!!!!!!

It is not that unusual for girls and women not to discover their clitoris on their own, though this may surprise many. Since we frequently do not teach our daughters about the anatomy of their vulva and we place it off limits to them, they learn to believe nothing is there for them to explore and discover. They may learn there is nothing more there than a couple openings in their body. Add to this the focus on penile/vaginal intercourse and many do not believe they should be concerned with their clitoris and other external genital structures, or have a need for them. If your clitoris does produce sensations during daily activities and sexual arousal you may have learned to be unaware of them, to ignore them all together. Many may believe the sensations are coming from their vagina, bladder, or urethra, not their clitoris, not knowing there is such a thing as a clitoris. The hood may also conceal the clitoris to the degree it is never stimulated to any significant degree. It is very important for parents to teach their daughters about the anatomy of their vulva, and to point out their clitoris while having them examine their vulva with a mirror.

Carly

Hi my name is Carly. I am 14 years old and I love to masturbate and I can't get enough of it!!! I had my first pleasurable experience when I was 7. I was at my friend's house for a sleep over and we decided to have a look at our private parts. We took off our panties and laid down on the floor on our backs with our legs spread wide apart. We would touch each other and play with our clits. We didn't know what we were doing at that age but we knew it felt good so whenever we were at each other's house we would do it. But then my friend moved away so I had nobody to "play" with.

So I discovered the joys of self- pleasure. I have many different techniques which I use and they are all super effective.

I always need something to fantasize about so I will think about a hot guy in my class or anything else that turns me on. Then I will lie naked on my bed, couch, floor, wherever I am, on my back with my legs spread wide open. Then I begin fantasing and rubbing over my clit and the outside of my vagina. I start with focusing on the vagina, occasionally inserting a finger or two, just to get my juices flowing and to lube up my fingers. Then I begin to concentrate on my clit. First I just rub it gently through the hood. But I like direct contact so I hold the hood back with two fingers on my right hand and rub my clit with my left index finger. I start slow and gradually get faster using flicking motions. It gives me the most earth shattering orgasms that I can't explain. If I want them to last longer I vary the speed of clit flicking and rubbing. Sometimes I can keep going for half an hour. I also enjoy lying in the bath with clit under the running water. I start slow with cold water and gradually get harder hotter water. The feeling is sensational!!! I have to try hard not to move my hips because the feeling is so intense.

My parents probably wouldn't be too happy if they found out about this. So at the moment I am in heaven as I am on holidays and both my parents are at work. I can get myself off as often as I like and nobody knows.

Pearl

Most of my friends call me Pearl and I am fifteen years old (still a virgin) and I love to masturbate. I usually do it at least once a day, more if I'm bored or stressed. And also if I'm really sore from dance rehearsals and such. A couple days ago, I was so sore from a workshop that I could hardly walk. I masturbated. Didn't even bring myself to orgasm. And then I was no longer sore.

I only started a couple months ago, but I think I've developed a pretty good method for enjoying myself and eventually bringing myself to orgasm (but I must say the trip is half the fun if not more :) ). If I'm not in the shower (nice place to be if you want privacy), I slowly strip off my clothes, listening to very quiet music that gets me in the mood (Sarah Brightman's 'Once in a Lifetime' highly recommended) and then let my hands roam over my body, especially my breasts, stomach, sides and hips. My breasts aren't as large as I'd like them, but if I stretch, I can lick my nipples and that occurs quite a lot these days. Generally in the middle of massaging my breasts and erect nipples, I lower myself onto the floor, my bed, or fitball (you can do some interesting things with that, too . . .). I spread my legs far apart and with one or two fingers from my right hand stroke the clitoral shaft through its surrounding tissues. Gradually, I build up speed and then start moving my fingers in little circles. Once I feel like I might climax, I stop and repeat. Throughout all this, my left hand generally finds its way into my vagina, on my hips, sides, stomach, chest, neck or breasts. When I can't take it anymore, I just continue with the circles all the way through my climax. I don't always take myself to orgasm, just because the next time I masturbate, the orgasm will be that much better.

Also, my first time was entirely by accident. My genitals began to itch, or maybe I was just compelled to itch them. But I didn't like the fabric of my pajamas, so I stuck my hand inside, and there was a hole in my panties and my finger slid in . . . changed everything!

Anonymous

I enjoy firstly teasing my clit to get aroused, while I fantasize about women - I then insert a dildo-like object into my pussy and push it deep inside me, angled towards my g-spot, when m wet enough I lay on my front with the dildo still inside me and push my clit up against a hard flat object - as I reach, I grab the dildo and push it harder and faster inside, on my g-spot as I rub harder I have an explosive orgasm. After I enjoy gently and rhythmically pushing the dildo inside me - my cum makes it slide well and come to another orgasm.

I love moaning - it makes it feel better.

Kate - Age 25

I'm one of the women that comes by rubbing against things (a pillow, the top step in my house, my boyfriend's thigh); I don't get anywhere using my fingers. I've been doing it for as long as I can remember. I need to control the pressure and rhythm very exactly, but if I'm already turned on when I start rubbing, I can come with about a dozen 'strokes'. I put pressure about a centimeter above, below or to the side of my clit, not on it. The thing that turns me on most is looking at my body in the mirror. My favorite way to masturbate is to dress up in a corset and look at myself, playing with my breasts, sometimes using baby oil, and then make myself come by kneeling with my legs apart, with my 'rabbit' vibrator inside me with its base resting on the floor, so that by lifting myself up and down a little, the vibrator pushes inside me and the vibrating rabbit ears push against my clit.

ELHAM

Hi everybody,

My name is ELHAM. I want to explain my icy methods of masturbation as unique and the most pleasurable manners that I have found with hot ice!

1- for beginning a piece of ice is needed. I lick and suck it first and rub it on my lips. Then I use it as a strong breast stimulator by slowly rubbing it around my breasts and try to focusing it on their center and finally nipples. Ohhhhhhh, who can describe the pleasure of rubbing ice on complete erected nipples and experience nipple orgasm several time with this method like me? After some orgasms through my nipples, I bring it on my belly and pubis then around and on my anus. In this time my wet vulva ask it by very pleasurable internal shocks.

With rubbing ice inside and outside of labia a sweet dream starts. This dream can expend as many as you want by stimulating various parts of vulva but for final count down of an explosive orgasm, you should stimulate the clitoris with ice directly. At the beginning slowly but next as fast as you can. In this time each erected clitoris, cause to an unbelievable pleasure and orgasm so that should believe the warmness of a small ice

2- Can you think for using an icy dildo? First, I fill a condom with tap water and after closing its open side, hang it up in a freezer. [The condom does retain its shape, but keep in mind water expands as it freezes.] After complete freezing and removing ice crystals from outside of condom, icy dildo should be covered by a thick layer of lubricating jelly on it. It's ok now. I apply it as a routine dildo and insert it in my vagina and anus. Both of those parts can reach me to a very strong orgasm. Above mentioned methods are the only ones that can show the warmness of hot ice!?

Good Luck.

Caution: There is risk of frostbite, especially inside the vagina, when using the above technique.

Donna

My name is Donna and I like to masturbate for my own pleasure and also for my husband to watch.

I like to get right down to business quickly. First I get totally naked and lie on the bed with my legs spread as wide as I can get them. I rub my clitoris between two fingers and as I get wet I dip my fingers from my other hand into my pussy so they get wet as well.

Then about a minute before I orgasm I take my finger out of my pussy and stick it in my ass and move it in and out, all while ribbing my clitoris between the two fingers of my other hand and while I dream of my husband's cock sliding in and out of my ass.

As I orgasm I have the most intense feelings in my clitoris and in my ass. I also just love the feeling of my ass pulsating uncontrollably (it just drives my husband wild when my ass does that while he is having anal sex with me as well).

Anonymous

Well I am 17 now & I've been steadily masturbating since the age of probably 13, but I actually started when I was about 8 or 9 w/ my old best friend.

I don't even know how we got into it. I really don't, I know she showed me everything and her friends. But we did so many things. One thing we would do is use the jets in her pool and they felt so good and just sent this tingling sensation through you. Then we would use this pool cleaner "Mr. Squiggles" I think and it shot out water and we would put it right on our clits and take turns. IT was so great and I really didn't even know what I was doing. Then since we were I guess what you would call horny then we would just take off our bathing suits wrap in a towel and go in. It just made it all so much better. Later on that night or whenever, we would take a bath together. You know when you are little and you have friends over, they just bathe together? We'll we always did that. And it was great. We'd take turns putting our vaginas up against the faucet... changing it from hot to cold water and so on. Then we would get wash cloths.. soak them in hot water and wrap them around our genital area. We would pretend we had our fake boyfriends over and just play. If we didn't take a bath we would do stuff in her room. Like once we were so little we would just pee in our underwear on the floor and pretend we were babies. Something about it just felt good. Then as we got older we kind of experimented... we would get under her covers and rub our own pussies and get really wet. We'd just do it and talk or day dream, never doing anything to each other. We'd always hump occasionally w/ underwear and once we put a blanket between us and "made out" and faked having sex. So we did that for a few years and it was great. Sometimes just imagining a guy was doing it and we'd put our pussies together and just press them... it felt so good. But I kind of put an end to it all... which I regret still. I am not a lesbian and I do not like girls that way... but I'd love to have someone to talk to that way with and share stuff. It was great But I ended it by just kind of fading off or saying I didn't want to and then she stopped asking me. I stopped b/c I was developing before her and I wasn't "bare" down there anymore. So I felt embarrassed and didn't want to do anything sexual anymore. So it slowly faded away and I like I said earlier I miss having a masturbating buddy, b/c I don't talk to anyone about it anymore.

But so now I do it all alone. And since we moved, it really sucks b/c there isn't a removable shower head.. which was my ultimate orgasm. It felt so good to have the warm water just flowing against your clit and the way I figured that out was from watching TV. It was an episode were this girl wanted to have an orgasm so she did so many things and that was one... it just made me so horny and I never knew what an orgasm was so I looked it up on the fabulous internet.... ahh. Soon enough I started the water thing and had up to 5 orgasms in one bath time. But I moved on from that and used a vibrating toothbrush which works wonders and I love it. I just get stimulated form taking my panties off and fantasizing. Rubbing the head of it against my slit and sometimes rotating it... oh it feels so good. I sometimes use dildos.. it makes it better and more "real". I don't even have real sex toys so I have to deal w/ what's around.

But that is basically it. I love masturbating and I love this site. It feels really good to let this out b/c I really have never ever told anyone about all this and I don't know it just feels good. But masturbating is a fabulous things and I wish everyone was sooo open about it. That'd be great. Because it is not a bad thing and so many people do it... they just won't say so...

Natasha

I am 14 and can't stop masturbating. I usually go to bed every night and make sure I close my door. I then get completely naked and lie down on my back in bed. I start by gently rubbing my clit with the three middle fingers of my right hand with my legs bent wide apart... the wider the better! The other hand is usually on my breasts, rubbing and teasing. When I get turned on and my juices are flowing I might put my index finger of my left hand into my vagina. I never orgasm by 'fingering' alone, so I continue to rub my clit faster and faster.. thinking of lesbian fantasies.. and naked women spanking me. I get so turned on but I refuse to orgasm straight away... pausing for a moment then going again. I do this many times to make the orgasm the best.

Anonymous

I used to have to use a generous amount of lubrication on my vulva when I masturbated. If I didn't do this I soon got very uncomfortable and usually had to stop to prevent it getting painful. Lube was fine but a bit messy requiring a clean-up afterwards. Then I discovered satin panties! The shiny surface of plain satin is very slippery, especially against itself. I discovered wearing a pair of these panties normally with a second on top but inside out solves my problem. I rub the fabric of the second pair and it slides frictionless over the under pair. I get loads of lovely feelings in my clitoris and vulva but no friction discomfort. Since discovering this technique I have invested in several pairs of lose fitting satin directoire knickers that, because they aren't tight on me allow loads of scope for sliding around.

My other secret to share is something else I discovered by accident. Like many I learnt at a young age what fun a shower attachment can be if it is allowed to spray on one's genitals. One day I unscrewed the head from the flexible hose to just try gentle running water. It didn't do anything for me but I did see the end of the hose and it made me think about using it so I could give myself oral sex. I tried it out, with one end in my mouth and the other on my clitoris I found that when I gently sucked I gave myself really nice feelings. My drive to find a better way of doing it led me to buying a meter of clear PVC hose from the local DIY [Do It Yourself] store and fitting on a cup shaped receiver for my clitoris that I made out of the latex teat from a baby feeding bottle. I made a toy that I use from time to time when I want something a little different. It has made me orgasm but usually its just part of my prelude to orgasm not the final movement!

Barb

Hi, my name is Barb an I am lesbian. I had always been attracted to girls and when I was little me an my friends used to play doctor. I used to love examining my friend's pussies and sticking my fingers in and listening to them squeal. I always became very wet down there but never knew why. As I grew up I realized my attraction to girls. My girlfriend now showed me this site and I love it! My technique is to take a vibrating toothbrush (without the brush part) and stick it inside a pillow under the pillow case. I then straddle the pillow where the vibrating toothbrush is and ride it. To tease myself I slowly go back and forth on the pillow so the toothbrush is protruding at me and tickling my clit. If you have a mirror its fun to watch your ass go up and down and listen to yourself breathing hard. I love watching my girlfriend get off and she loves watching me. We make each other so horny. We love this site thanx!

Anonymous

I'm am young but I love to feel myself. Ever since I was young I used to undress and rub myself not knowing why I was having that much pleasure. Now I know.

I get totally undressed and lay on top of my bed in front of the large mirror in my room. I tease my clit with my finger making me want more as I become wet. Then I get my vibrator and put it on low rubbing it against my clit. As I become wetter I turn it up higher. As I reach as high as it can go. I close my legs tightly, leaving it there not moving it. I begin to have something like fits and I cum all over it and my bed. I feel so amazing afterwards.

Self Lover Part 1

Well hello, I just wanted to say I am loving every inch of this site. I was looking for some good hot reading. I have Masturbated since I was about 4 or 5. I have always been attracted to the same sex, as well as the opposite sex. I am 42 now and I am still curious what it would be like to make love with a women. I have experienced being made love to by a women but not with it going fully both ways. I still long for the feeling of a women going down on me or just both of us in 69 position pleasuring each other. That is my fantasy all the time. Just having the total fullness of a sexual experience with a woman. I often masturbate in the show with the feeling of the warm water running down my slit and flowing over my clit the sensation is awesome. I am not as fortunate as most to have a large clit which is another turn on of mine, but mine is nice once it is hard, I often like looking at it as I masturbate standing in front of my bedroom mirror. Sometimes my throbbing clit can get so hard that I can grasp it with my thumb and index finger and just stroke it gently and it gets harder and the juices just start to run down my legs as I shake and quiver all over, I get so so wet from watching myself in the mirror do this to my self, I will cum over and over again until I am too weak to stand, but then I will just collapse to my bed and start to spread the wetness all over my pussy, squeezing my nipples for they are very hard by then. Then my clit is harder and bigger than ever that the hood of my clit is rosy pink and wet and just standing on its own needing more attention, then I take my middle finger and start flicking it back in forth like a tongue having fantasies of some one going down on me with their huge tongues flicking faster and faster on my clit as I start to shiver and shake and cum over and over again, whewwww this is the best. And it goes on for at least 45 minutes to an hour. I just hope to be able some day to share this moment with another woman, or even to just have her watch me through it all and then have her come do whatever to me would be awesome. Well thanks for all the good reading and great new ideas on this site******** Masturbating and cumming always what a way to live it is the best.

Self Lover Part 2

Man, this site us awesome, I have cum several times just sitting here reading this stuff. I have not even touched myself several times and just came so hard, my clit just constantly throbbing, but I am enjoying every moment of it. What a great way to start my day. Well one way I would like to share that I masturbate is standing up in my bathroom up against my bathroom sink spreading my lips and exposing my hard clit up against the sink and grinding up against the corner thinking about grinding with a female friend, then reaching down and pushing gently down on the shaft of my clit which makes the hood of my clit harder and presses even more against the sink I start to rub in circular motions as I think of my clit up against another woman's clit as we grind faster and faster and get wetter and wetter and then I just explode and sometimes I even ejaculate and the juices just keep coming it is hard to do when it is this intense standing up, so be careful not to lose your balance, a lot of times I have ended up on the floor still cumming but laughing too. I have not read much about woman's ejaculations yet but I sure would like to hear of someone's experiences when they first discovered they could ejaculate, sometime I can cum so hard it will squirt out of me like a faucet and the sensation is awesome especially if you can do this without even hitting the G-spot like I can......Masturbate USA is my kind of world. Thanks for letting me share

Anonymous

I am 38 years old and have been masturbating from childhood. I have tried the bathtub water running over the clitoris, the manual clitoral stimulation, and even the electric toothbrush. There is nothing quite like the electrical toothbrush orgasm, but I think this eventually makes your vagina scar and it takes longer to orgasm. I have found the next best way to orgasm and that is stimulating my clitoris with a finger or two and having a dildo penetrate my vagina. At times, this has made me have a vaginal and clitoral orgasm at the same time and girls you MUST experience this. I enhance my experience by twisting my nipples. I have had variations of the above with my wonderful sex partner, Winston. I can pull my legs apart wide and he slams the toy in my pussy and I finger my clit and the feeling is simply divine. I also fantasize about going down on a girl and vice-versa. And then at other times, I think of people watching as I cum. This is such a huge turn on for me. Well that is all for now! Masturbating is a great way to relieve stress and put a little smile on our face.

Tiffany

Hi my name is Tiffany, I am 26 years old and I have been masturbating since the age of 9. My experience with self pleasure was the result of a sleep over with my 11 year old cousin. She had just started to develop breast and I was totally fascinated with them, I couldn't help but stare at them, and she couldn't help but notice. We slept in the same bed, and that night I was playing "spider" (the same principle as playing doctor). I would run my fingers up and down her body and I would play with her breast, and flick her little nipples and genteelly rub her labia. I didn't notice any sexual feelings at all. I was just so thrilled to be playing with her body I actually forgot about myself. At one point I did notice she was very wet, so with her encouragement, I explored her genitals with my fingers, Rubbing her lips and what I now know to be her clit, she started to tremble and shake. She didn't make a sound, but the shaking became very intense, her hips humped my hand hard and fast and her eyes rolled back scaring me, I didn't know what to make of what just happed except that my hand was VERY wet and she had a great big smile on her face. She asked if I ever felt the "wave" as she called it, I had no idea what she was talking about, but none the less my curiosity was aroused. She told me she was going to turn on the night light so she could see and then kiss me on my genitals. I thought okay, this sounds like fun. It was at that point I noticed a warm feeling down there and my pannies getting wet.

She crawled between my legs and removed my pannies and she said WOW!!! Medically speaking I have iodopathic clitorolmegally (which mean super huge clitoris for no medical reason). At age 26 it is normally 1.5inches and grows to just slightly over 3 inches when I am aroused. At age 9 it was roughly half that size but you can see the BIG picture. My cousin quickly pointed out how huge mine was, all she could say was WOW. After the initial shock she held my clit between her forefinger and thumb and pulled back, with a pop (that's what it felt like) she had pulled back my foreskin and exposed the head of my clit. That was the 1^st time my little head was exposed, and it was cold in an erotic way. I was really getting wet then and I felt my pussy tart to throb. She asked was I ready for the next step an I said yes. When she put her mouth on my clit, the heat was absolutely exhilarating, in just few seconds my clit did a Pinocchio and doubled in size and became as hard as a rock.

In an instant I felt a hard clitoral erection, and along with that came a tantalizing sensation. Every muscle in my body was stiff as a board. I didn't know what to think except, this feels REALLY REALLY REALLY GOOOOOOD. She was right, it was like riding a wave, I went up to the top and stayed there on top. After about a minute I had the distinct impression I had to go pee, so we stopped and went to the bathroom, nothing happened. So she went right back to sucking my clit with the foreskin pulled back. This went on for at least an hour. My clit was so hard, it was actually kind of sore. But I loved the feeling my cousin gave me. And for days latter I followed her around hoping she would do it to me again. About a week latter we were in the tub and I begged her to suck it. My clit was so stick and hard looking for her soft and erotic touch, but our parents were only in the next room, so she didn't want to do that, instead she took my clit between her thumb and forefinger and began to stroke it up and down. With each stroke the head of my clit was exposed and hidden and exposed by my foreskin. It was an awesome combination of hot foreskin and cold air caressing my clit head. And every time pulled my foreskin over my head she would squeeze slightly applying the right amount of erotic pressure. I felt the feeling growing and growing and growing, my pussy was flowing with juices and my hips started to gyrate in sync with her stroking. Then it happened I reached the top of the wave as before and this time I came crashing down in a terrific orgasm. I moaned and quivered my toes curled and my back arched and made a big splash literally. My mom rushed in to see what the problem was, all she found was us sitting in the tub looking guilty and my big clit sticking out from between my legs.

Needless to say our bath ended right then and every sleep over there after resulted in us sleeping in separate beds. My mom latter told me she knew what had happened, but she wasn't mad about it at all, only that my aunt and uncle were not as understanding and this shouldn't happen again with adults around. She clearly left this statement WAY OPEN for interpretation. But after that my eyes were opened, I never did anything else with my cousin but now masturbate every single day 2 to 3 times a day using the "stroke method". That is a feeling I can not get enough of. Today I am a lesbian, actually Bi sexual but I prefer women much more. And it is a requirement that my partners be able to please me the way my cousin did so many years ago. Most guys and some girls are actually scared of my super clit, so I make it known early in my relationships, if you can't stand the sight of a "dicklett" as I call it, they must find somewhere else. My current girlfriend is actually my OBGYN, but that is another story.

Rebekah

Hey, my name is Rebekah. I started masturbating at the ripe old ago of...........two and a half. I was very young when I discovered that there was a feeling I could get from between my legs that I couldn't get from anywhere else. My parents actually freaked out about this and even began to question if I had been sexually abused. I was 100% discouraged from doing this because my parents thought it was wrong and unnatural (they were going through a very "holy" stage). To this day my siblings always react with snide comments if they catch me, so I try to do it in secret.

I know masturbation isn't something to be guilty about, but even now, I always feel wrong and dirty for doing it, however good it feels. I was the type of child that thought there was nothing down there except for the urine hole and so couldn't figure out why the thought of giving birth (I guess it was penetration of some sort) managed to enhance the feelings of pleasure. I hadn't actually started to get wet until a year or so ago, when I started to use penetration. In doing so, I think I managed to unintentionally find my G-spot, an definite added bonus.

As I am such a busy person and mostly in control, my fantasies tend to be of a dominant male, sometimes even rape in where he is in control of the situation. This is actually quite logical and sometimes can be extremely erotic. I am very much into the whole pain pleasure thing, in fact I was at a young age. I used to put things down into my panties so they would push down hard onto my clitoris as I rubbed up and down. It was painful, but definitely pleasurable.

Jerri

Alright, I'm only twelve years old, but I absolutely LOVE masturbating! I have no idea how to tell my mother, so I've just kept it a secret. Anyhow, I have two favorite techniques. One is when I take a bath (every night) I move myself to where my clit is directly beneath the running water. Then, I move back and let myself come. My other technique, also in the tub, is I take my middle finger and ring finger and stick my middle finger into my vagina, and my ring finger into my butt. This gives me a sensation like no other, and then, after I'm satisfied, I get out and go to bed, and just before I go to sleep, I fantasize of other girls doing all the work for me, and then I usually dream about that. Well, I LOVE this site, and mom still wonders why I like privacy so much....

Anonymous

Hi! I am about to turn 20. I have been masturbating since I was very little. It has been a long time since I added any input to this site and let me tell you...I have found some fun ways to have orgasms. My first thing was buying vibrating toys. First I got the vibrating butterfly which fits like a g-string and that felt awesome for awhile and then I got tired of that so I recently got a vibrating egg and a dildo. I love them both. The only downfall is that they are kind of noisy so most of the time I have to put them on a pillow on the floor and put my clit right on whichever one I have chosen for the day. It muffles the sound and I still get tremendous orgasms. Also I have recently gotten into anal play. I love to have a butt plug in me and the dildo in my vagina and the egg and I have the most explosive orgasms you could imagine. I am reading more about the ejaculating orgasms and have been trying a little to do it with no luck...but I find that when I try to pee at the same time I am having an orgasm it intensifies the orgasm a little. Anyway....that's my two cents. Thanks for having a great site where we can share our experiences together.

Anonymous

I'm 18, I discovered masturbation when I was 14. My favorite technique is basic....I just lie on the bed, with my back up. Sometimes I start by touching myself through my clothes. I rub my clitoris through my pants and my underwear, when I want to go deeper I will just slide my hand down my pants. After a while I'll rip off my underwear and start rubbing my clitoris really fast. When I feel I'm wet enough, I put one finger inside myself and start thrusting my pelvis up, all the while rubbing myself. It takes me usually 5 minutes to cum, but my orgasms last 10 seconds or so, which is disappointing. I used the pillow technique that I found on here, and it's really great!

Emma

Hi I'm Emma, I just wanted to say what a relief it was to find this site and read other girls stories.

From a young age I was aware of the sensations gained from touching myself 'down there'. One time when I was 4 years old, another little girl and I snuck into the toilets at kindergarten and showed each other what was in our knickers, we fiddled about with ourselves for a bit before getting told off by the teacher and split up for the rest of the day for being rude. Another time when I was around 7, my also 7 year old cousin and I were 'pretending' to have sex like adults in a tent, and I got on top of her and rubbed myself on her. I remember it feeling nice back then. I also remember my getting told off for 'picking my bum' in front of the television whilst sitting crossed legged watching cartoons.

Anyway, I am 25 now, and after losing my virginity at 14 and having 11 sexual partners (and faking it), three of those female, I only had my first orgasm last year. Looking back I think I was far too impatient, I wanted it to just happen, I didn't realize I needed to be mentally tuned in to it. The first time was sitting at my computer cybering with another girl, I asked her to tell me what to do with a vibrator, and as I followed her instructions it happened. It was quite intense, although I still failed to repeat this by myself after that which half made me think I had imagined it.

Then after months of flirting with a man I had the hots for, we had sex and we got into talking about all sorts of dirty things, like me weeing on him. As he fingered me and rubbed my clit, the urge to pee on him made me so horny that I relaxed like you do to pee and I came really hard. It shocked the both of us but I was so happy, he was happy too. He was a virgin before we got together, and I suppose pleased with himself that after the 11 sexual partners I had had, he was the only one who had made me cum.

Now I'm happy to say that I masturbate all the time, I can do it for myself now after a bit of practice. I usually lie on my back with a vibrator and rub my clit, but I was just reading your site and got horny! I decided to try riding my pillows with the vibe inside me rubbing my clit with my hand. Its GORGEOUS. I think I'll have to do it again tonight. I also absolutely love watching porn, I'm bisexual so of course I love watching women. Its also a great turn on for me to shave all the hair off my pussy and feel the wetness wiped across my skin.

I think it is important not to be ashamed of what turns you on, I found a 'role play' chat room on the internet, where I pretended to be a young girl for a daddy or mummy. This was amazing, something I am dead against in reality but as a role play was lovely. I even had phone sex with one of the daddies, this was such a turn on, to hear this 50 or so year old man wanking himself off while I played with myself was out of this world. So I think I've cum quite far- (ha ha) since relaxing and enabling myself to have orgasms.

Thank you again for a brilliant site.

Becca

I am 15 and a virgin. I have never had any sexual experiences with another person. There has been no mutual exploration, touching, or kissing in my past. As an only child I had to figure things out for myself. Thanks to your site, I have learned a lot about my body. A lot of women have said they fantasize about other women licking them and so forth. I really don't get turned on by other girls. I mostly think about a hot boy watching me take my clothes off. I lie on my bed nude and start to rub my whole body. I really enjoy G-spot stimulation and use my finger for that. It makes my whole body tingle. Sometimes I put a hairbrush or candle inside me. My clit isn't sensitive at all until I'm turned on, so I start by rubbing the inside of my vagina. Then I play with my clit until I ejaculate. I love that warm gush all over my pussy. I haven't experienced orgasm yet, but it doesn't matter to me. I will happen when the time comes, and for now fantasy and pleasure are enough for me. I'd really like to masturbate in front of a boy and watch him masturbate. I wish there was more access to tools of masturbation (lube, dildos, vibrators, porno, etc...) for teen girls. I don't have any access to any of these, but I'd like to. Society needs to accept that girls masturbate and should have personal pleasure. Since I have no boyfriend to kiss and touch, masturbation is my only form of sexual release. I can remember being young and rubbing my crotch under a blanket, and my mom telling me to stop it. She said it was bad to touch myself there. I'm glad I didn't listen and continued to explore the best I knew how. I'm still trying new things until I can find what's right for me, and to make me orgasm. Thank you for helping me grow as a young woman.

Anonymous

I love to masturbate, I sometimes find it more stimulating than having intercourse with a man. First I like to take a hot bubble bath. Just to relax and unwind. There is absolutely noting wrong with pleasuring ourselves!

Then I go over to my bed and dry off then I rub oil all over my breast, and my stomach and all over my thighs. I then lay on my back and begin to rub my inner thighs. Then my breasts. I then begin rubbing my clit. I like to pull back my vaginal lips to I tend to get a better sensation. When I am turned on I then get my dildo, I like the realistic ones. I begin to thrust it in and out if my vagina at a slow pace. I then turn onto my stomach, I can never achieve and orgasm lying on my back. While on my stomach I place pillows just under my stomach to support the dildo. I then begin rubbing my clit and start to fantasize about how good it feels. I then begin to move in circular motion this gives me the most intense feeling on my G-spot. I try to hold back from the orgasm for the while it then intensifies it. When I can feel that I am about to orgasm I then clench my entire body. Then I just EXPLODE! The intensity of my orgasm is magnificent!!!

Anonymous

After 3 years of a failed relationship I tried to start a new life. Sex was something that no longer interested me anymore. I start a new job (I am a professional). Life started to get more enjoyable.

I came home late one night to tired to make supper, curled up on the sofa, and turned on the TV. Obviously I became aroused by something on the TV but this is besides the point. My new job requires me to properly dress... This day I had on a comfortable one piece dress. A pillow I always hug was rubbing my vagina. My panties had worked their way to the side and my pantyhose were directly in contact with my vagina. I felt embarrassed. But continued, I don't know how long. The orgasm I had was incredible. I fell asleep immediately.

Guilt was my friend the next day (I had masturbated before...but not like that). That night it happened again but I found without pantyhose on, the feeling was not as intense. I am this time dating a man I may love, but the orgasm I achieve alone masturbating with pantyhose against my vagina beyond what he can supply. Am I crazy or just a pervert?

I know some men have a fetish concerning women's clothing...but I never thought or heard it can happen to women. I feel this is getting out of hand and need help. I've taken to wearing pantyhose always and grown to love the way they feel against my skin.

I won't discuss this with my partner. He's seems to get enough (at least that is what he says). But I continue to satisfy myself with my pantyhose when I'm alone.

Should I stop this? I'm not harming anyone. Am I alone?

I would not consider her preference for masturbating with pantyhose on a fetish activity, or at all abnormal. As with the above mentioned use of satin panties as an alternative to using lubrication, the pantyhose happen to provide the appropriate amount of frictionless stimulation and softness. Alternative methods of masturbation that may work are those that use a generous amount of lubricant or water spray. If something works and causes you no harm, don't question it.

Anonymous

I am 13 years old and I masturbate. I usually lie on my back but I've never tried it on my stomach. I have only been masturbating for a few weeks but its great. I haven't had an orgasm while I'm masturbating but I have when I'm asleep. I'll wake up to intense pleasure but they never last long but I would love to have one while masturbating.

I lie on my back and start to rub my clit then I insert a finger in my vagina to get myself wet and then start to rub my clit again. I rub it really fast making my legs feel almost numb and very tingly its great and I'm going to go try this on my stomach. I hear its quite the orgasm-giver!

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