Shared Female Masturbation Techniques and Experiences: Collection 14

Kate

Being an older woman and on a lot of Medication, I thought I'd never cum again. The first experience I had was at a playground and like many of you I was climbing up a pole with my legs so tight around it I had my first orgasm. I was seven years old. I had a wet dream when I was nine. It felt so good that I thought it was bad, and that God would be angry with me. By the time I was thirteen I couldn't resist my raging hormones, and I would rub my clit till I had so many orgasms, I couldn't have another one. I was married at seventeen and my husband caught me masturbating, I was totally afraid of what he would think of me. I explained that it wasn't his fault but that's the only way I could cum. He wanted to watch me - He got off watching me grind myself into multiple 0000000000000`s We learned about oral sex and he started to eat me out and then have intercourse, he and I were the greatest lovers and we giggled about it. Now due to a stroke he is impotent. When I found this Forum I told him about it. I got so wet reading, well ladies, I just let my inhibitions go to the dickens and rubbed myself into glorious Orgasm - I only had one - but it was Earth Shattering, My Husband watched and he loved it., and I loved having him observe me. Thanks for all the passionate confessions. I am grateful that I found this Special Clitoris Forum.

Kate

Kelly

I started masturbating when I was 13. I use to insert one finger only and that felt good but after a while it got boring. Now I'm 14 and I read somewhere about using electric toothbrushes so now every time I'm alone I get into bed open my legs wide with my knees bent and put my electric toothbrush on my clit it feels so good and I nearly always have an orgasm, so when I'm close to cuming I insert a penis like tube and push it in and out really fast, I sometimes come when doing that. But the thing is I'm straight but when I look on porn on the internet I don't get horny at men I get horny at women or lesbians, got to go now I'm feeling very wet, time to get the electric toothbrush out!!! xxxxx

Bekka

I really like your website. My extra special technique is using an electric toothbrush (the Sonicare - with thousands of sonic pulses per second) with the flat side on my clit, (don't use the brush - ouch!) and on my left hand a condom over the two middle fingers to make it smooth / slippery. The moment I touch the electric toothbrush lightly to my clit, it goes crazy. My entire clit and lips become engorged and red very quickly. Juice starts to flow from my pussy and it gets crazy hot. Sometimes I scream it's so intense. Then I insert the condom covered fingers into my pussy and I can feel my pussy tightening around them. I go in-out slow at first, and the faster as I get hotter and tighter. It's so incredible. I like to have my undies totally off and my legs / feet up against a table especially in front of my computer. HOT! Then when I cum I feel the contractions around my fingers and I usually scream and groan.

Anonymous

I've been masturbating since I was about 10. I guess and I love it!!! I've tried many different ways but just recently found one that I'm sticking with. Its a little bit out there but it works perrrrfect! For those of you girls who are "too young" to but a vibrator all you need is an electric toothbrush and a HOT washcloth. First get naked and spread your legs. lay the cloth over your pussy. Then take the toothbrush and rub the tip up and down your clit. It doesn't take very long are the results are amazing! I think I'll go do it right now.

Anonymous

Oh you don't know how horny I am reading all these masturbation stories. So I am going to tell you mine and go get off!! I am a 45 yr old woman who loves to get off. I bought my husband a cock ring that vibrates, and it has turned into a great toy for me also. I take a carrot and run it under hot water (sometimes I leave it cold) and then I will rub myself a little, I am usually dripping wet before I even start. That is how I am right now. I imagine all kinds of things. I get the cock ring put it on the carrot and stick the carrot in my wet cunt. I like to rub it up against my G-Spot I get soo wet and I just want to cum until I squirt all over. I try to make it last as long as I can so when I start to cum to orgasm I slow down. Oh it feels so good. The only other thing that felt better to me was when I was messed up and this guy snuck in a woman on me and she slid up to my pussy and started eating me. I came for hours. Partly because I was angry he did that to me. Her small tongue felt soo good and I thought I will teach her I will cum on that little tongue for as long as I can. I think of that tongue in my cunt when I masturbate. I love it.

Colleen

My name is Colleen

I'm 15 years old and I probably masturbate two or three times a week. I cant even remember when I first started masturbating. I was really little and my neighbor and I always used to fool around with each other. She was a few years older than me and she had asked me if I wanted to show her my 'privates'. I agreed and from then on she used to rub Vaseline on them, I always thought it felt so good. then, a few years later when I was around nine or ten, I would play with my cousin, who did the same thing. we got older and still fool around every once in a while, He is the one I had my first orgasm with. When I masturbate, I do a bunch of different things. Sometimes I'll run my pussy under water after a shower - I don't have an adjustable showerhead so I lie in the bathtub and let the water come out of the spout on full blast. Other times, I go up to my room for privacy and strip down. I then grab a mirror because looking at my pussy makes me really horny. If I'm not already wet, I usually softly twist my nipples between my thumb and index finger. After the juices start flowing down below I take my index finger and start to massage my clit in small circles making everything as wet and slippery as possible. Just thinking about it now makes me really horny haha. I usually stick my finger - or two - up my vagina, pull it out and continue the circular motion with my clit. Right as I hit climax I stop and wait a few minutes. then I start up again and stop right as I hit climax again. The mirror I usually use is a hand held one, so the long part that you hold onto is shaped kind of like a penis. I usually stick that part in at climax, pulling it in and out and furiously circling and rubbing my clit. This leads to a great orgasm. For some reason, I don't seem to come [ejaculate]. Or if I do, its not a lot and I don't notice it. I am dying to get a vibrator, but I don't think my mom would allow it. she doesn't even know I masturbate! I've tried using household things but they are either too large or don't have a strong enough vibration. I was so upset when I found that my electric toothbrush didn't work anymore, the battery had died and my parents haven't bought a new one yet.

Anonymous

Hi I'm 15 and I love this site. I have a cool way of masturbating. I like to fill a condom and tie it off and use it like a dildo. I even suck on it. I get so wet from imagining its my hot boyfriend.

Kassia

Hello, My name is Kassia, and I'm 15. I first found this site just a few months ago, but it helped me so much already. I didn't know much about anything down there until last year, in school. I knew about sex, of course, but I didn't know that someone could pleasure themselves. So I decided to experiment. I had been taught that touching yourself down there was wrong and dirty, so I had never done it except like in the shower to clean and stuff. So one day while I was showering, I rubbed my pussy, just a little bit, and was like, Hey, that was nice. So the next day I went a bit further, and a bit further. Now I masturbate every day, usually before I go to sleep. Sometimes I'll do it twice in a day, if nobody else is home.

I start by touching myself all over, sometimes playing with my nipples, but not much, as I don't get much out of that. I'll think of my dream guy touching me, and I'll start to get really wet. Then I'll use the fingers on my right hand to spread the lips apart, and my left hand, index finger to rub my clit softly at first. Just the thought of my wet fingers sliding over and around my clit is enough to get me wanting to do it right now. I do that, rubbing faster and harder as I go, for a little while, till I get this huge desire for something to fill my vagina. I used to just use two fingers, but I discovered that If I take the detachable blade off my Venus razor, the handle works as a sort of short dildo. It has a round head, and then a ribbed grip, so if I push it in and out it feels quite nice. After that it's only a short time before I start to feel very tense, but in a good way. Then the tension will release, and I'll get this electric feeling starting in my fingers and working through my entire body.

I'm not quite sure if that's an orgasm, but it feels amazing. I'm working now on making it so the feeling lasts longer. Thank you so much for making this site... You help people like me discover what they've been missing until now.

HappyWithMyClit

Oh, boy. Well, let's see. I started masturbating when I was 11. I was periodically interested in sexual things before then, but suddenly I discovered my clit, and things just *exploded*. I mean, literally. At first I just tried touching my clit a bit, and it felt funny. Then I fetched a hand mirror from my mom's bathroom, and looked at myself long and hard down there, feeling all the different parts I had my first orgasm, then and there, and was hooked. I did it three more times after that, until I was simply too exhausted to continue.

After that I masturbated a lot, almost 3-4 times a day. I'd make excuses to go to the bathroom in school and do it. I was in the third grade at the time, and my teacher noticed me playing with myself beneath my uniform, and she scolded me for it. I didn't dare do that again, but sometimes I'd find the edge of something in the playground to rub myself on. In fifth grade it was still going on. My parents had divorced, and I went to a new school, and was still masturbating during the day. It broke up the monotony of class. I lost my virginity to one of those thick blue Crayola markers over the toilet. I was experimenting with it when I went into my orgasm, and suddenly it went in deeper, and when I pulled it out, it was red! Boy, was I blushing! Fortunately it was one of those one-person toilets, and I washed off the marker and just went back to class. I was around twelve or thirteen, then.

I always loved the jets at the pool. My grandmother would take me swimming all the time, and I'd hang at the edge of the pool with my legs folded over the lip of the pool, getting jetted in just the right places. I think I got a lot of funny looks from her, but then I'd go into the deep end and sit at the bottom and play with myself. I love water! One of my other favorite toys were my recorders - you know, those flutes they teach you to play? I thought they were so cool I bought all three sizes. I'd play with the middle-sized one from the bottom end. Those recorders have ridges at the bottom and a large flat flare, and I'd pull it along my insides deep in while playing with my clit. Then I got daring and started using my huge alto flute, and that gave incredible sensations. I'd end up locking my entrance around it and tugging on it as if I were stuck when I came. I love that feeling. I'd let the flute just lay under my bed after that, and let my cum dry, so that I could flake off the stuff after. Of course they got washed often, but I played with them like dildos more than played them. They'd come with me on vacations all the time.

I leaned to use screwdriver handles and letter opener handles too - if a handle is sticky in my house, drop it, quick!

One time I got this huge collection of colored pencils from my mom, and they all had rounded-off bottoms. So I tried playing with them one night - I placed a few in, then just added and added, until I was stretched out tight, and I came.

I play anally too, but that has come much later in my experiences. I have to try out the thing with peeing - I like to pee in the shower, so I'll have to try!

I'm married now - my hubby was a virgin when I met him, so I've had a lot of fun training him. He's been really good to me! We have a huge collection of toys. Sex is a big part of my private life, and I'm happy! I have to recommend Zetacreations toys to everybody. Be free and have fun! That's what God gave you a clit for!

This isn't even half of my experiences, but that would make a letter too long. Take care!

-HappyWithMyClit

Anonymous

I'm 17 years old and have been sexually active since I was 14. Yeah I know...kinda young. But I have been Jilling off since before that, especially now that I am in a long term relationship and I don't get it as often as needed. When I was younger I used to hump things, and I would do it just about everyday. I got my first orgasm by humping a washcloth that I put over my hand on the bathroom floor. I like to try new and kinky things. Watching myself, penetration from a brush handle...wetting myself always gives me the best orgasms. I hold it in for a while and read stories online about people wetting themselves. It always makes me wet. Then I go in my room and put on a pair of tight pants and let out a little at a time, soaking my pants. I rub my pussy through the wet crotch. It feels so good. Finally, I pull down the pants to reveal my sopping wet pussy. I come almost right away. But I haven't done that in a while. Recently I've been prone to watching a porn in my room, or looking at in online and then waiting till I am very horny and wet and I like to lay down naked and tease myself to orgasm. I've kissed a couple girls, but I've only had 1 serious sexual encounter with a girl. We were drunk, but we knew what we were doing...and we made out and touched each other's tits. I was so wet and ready, but I was too nervous to touch her pussy. I really wish I would have. I don't think I'm bi, but I would really like to do it with a girl. Just to see.

Dee

Hi my name is Dee and I am 26 years old. I have recently discovered this website, It's been maybe about a month since the first time I came upon it. I have been a "late bloomer" when it comes to sex. I love sex but did not decide to have my first sexual encounter until I was 21 with my fiancé at the time. I was brought up in a catholic home where it was instilled upon me that sex and anything having to do with sex was "dirty" and shameful. These things were only to be done with your spouse and NEVER to be talked about with anyone else. I was so scared of having sex as a child and I never touched myself that way until about 5 months ago.

I broke-up with my ex-boyfriend and I had not been having sex. I like to have sex but will not do it with anyone unless I am in a relationship. I am very afraid of AIDS and STD's.

I was feeling lonely and very stressed out and was getting a little moody. My friend Sarah noticed and she said "You need to get some." That's when I realized that I should. I started touching myself to a porn website and it felt great. I felt shameful still, after having an orgasm, wondering how many women do the same. I came upon the website and it has had a tremendous impact on my sexual awakening. I had orgasms before but never this way. I have been reading and trying some of the tips all the readers provide. I am so excited to try new positions and techniques. I am online at least twice a day. I sleep better and I am happy. I will continue to experiment with myself and will share my experiences with everyone as soon as I find what I like best. Thank you for the spectacular website!! HAVE FUN!!

Al

I already posted, but I have something else too.

When I masturbate, I go in the shower, and let the water from faucet run down. Then I imagine that a guy I have a crush on, puts his lips ONLY on my clit, then plays a little. Then he puts his hands on my thighs, close to my pussy, and opens them wide. Then he just starts sucking me, and from time to time he sticks his tongue in there.

Al

Anonymous

I've been masturbating since I was 10 or 11 and am currently 17. I only masturbate when my parents aren't home or at night when no one can hear. What I like to do is pretend that I'm a stripper or prostitute and find clothes to complete that description. For example, I wear a skirt, with a slit all the way up to my thighs, as a dress so the slit comes up to my breasts. Sometimes I'll only wear a thong and my stilettos. Or else, I just wander the house and do some chores while completely naked (not really concentrating). After a while, I get completely wet, and then I go to my bedroom and find a good porn site online. As I look at the sexy porno, I dip my fingers in my juice and slowly circle my clitoris or my anus. When I can see my nipples getting good and hard without even touching them, I insert two fingers into my vagina in a come-here position while still circling my clitoris with the other hand. I continue to make the come-here motion and usually get on my bed to hump a mound of pillows with my legs wide open while I'm doing this. I usually leave my hair down so it can feather touch my breasts. I imagine myself as a prostitute masturbating for a man, licking him at the same time, and whispering obscenities to him. When I orgasm, I arch my back and leave my fingers in my vagina for a while... I can usually fall asleep after this.

Anonymous

I have a big clit for a small lady.................got higher faucets so I could sit under the stream of water...my clit gets even larger and I bring myself to orgasm that way often.

LisaB

I also love to use balloons for masturbation & sometimes fill them with water…the trick is to buy balloons that look large enough to have the desired effect prior to filling/inflating. You can fill the balloons with water tie them off & use them like a dildo, but I prefer fill the balloon to between a half & two thirds full with water (or hair gel), and eliminate as much of the remaining air as possible before tying off. Then I use my finger (or a pencil if the balloon is narrow) to push the end of the balloon inside itself , taking care not to push the end back out by squeezing the water/gel back down the balloon, I insert the end of the balloon (where it is inside itself) into the opening of my vagina, and then as I masturbate and squeeze the end of the balloon that's still sticking out of me & full of liquid, making it unfurl inside me, like a cock penetrating my wet pussy. When it is fully unfurled I use my vaginal muscles to squeeze the water back out of the part of the balloon that's outside my pussy, and then squeeze the balloon to send it flooding back in again….you can build up quite a rhythm doing this, and have the most amazing orgasms. You can also use the balloons or make smaller versions to stimulate your clitoris…mmmmm…it's good!!!

I hope you will post this response/technique - and if anyone wants to rate it, give me feedback, or discuss any similar techniques or modifications then feel free to contact me at this e-mail address.

LisaB

Anonymous

I have a bizarre way of masturbating which I've been doing for years, since I was too young to know what I was doing, and have never achieved orgasm any other way, or with my boyfriend, which is beginning to worry me. I'm afraid I have somehow damaged the nerves in my clitoris. My friend showed me when I was about 7 that if I held onto the door handles with a door open, lifted my feet of the ground and rubbed myself against the door it felt amazing. found later that a banister works better, as the angle is more direct and the stimulation is directly on my clitoris, but although the orgasms are incredible and I take one minute, maximum, to climax whatever my mood. I'm afraid that by masturbating with my whole body weight on my clitoris I've damaged the nerves. enjoy sex with my boyfriend and only lost my virginity about a month ago, but can't seem to come when I'm with him, whether through intercourse, or him fingering me or giving me oral sex. Have found too, when masturbating, that I don't climax unless I'm holding myself off the ground, with my arms taking my weight, if my feet are on the ground I don't come. Anyone else ever masturbated this way, and do I need to worry about this? Its really starting to get me panicky!

While this is not an unusual masturbation technique it is one that can make it more difficult to experience orgasm during partnered sex. This is because the tension created by the straight and ridged position of the legs can be hard to reproduce when a partner is providing vulvar and/or vaginal stimulation. A woman may also become accustomed to the intense stimulation caused by the weight of her pressing against her clitoris; the clitoris becomes unresponsive to less intense forms of stimulation. If you are wanting to experience an orgasm through other means then it is best to stop using this method. Allow some sexual tension to develop in your mind and body. Then explore vulvar stimulation, as described in the information for pre-orgasmic women. It is important to stay relaxed and not to place unnecessary pressure on yourself. While you want some sexual desire and tension to build you don't want to frustrate yourself by expecting too much too soon. Observe your vulva in a mirror and make yourself aware of what if feels like to be sexually aroused, when your vulva becomes engorged with blood and your vagina lubricates. If you have been experiencing orgasm quickly you may not be ware of these physical changes in your body. You need to become aware of subtle changes in your body, not just the big bang of orgasm. Locate your clitoris and ensure you can retract your clitoral hood and explore direct clitoral stimulation. If you are not sexually aroused your clitoris may be insensitive or too sensitive to touch. Remember to breath and to stay relaxed. If your vulva and vagina are not sensitive to touch explore other areas of your body like your breasts and anus. During partner sex schedule an hour or more for sexual exploration and full body massages, not quickies. Awaken your entire body, don't focus on genital stimulation. It is best not to engage in intercourse, and some sessions should be about only your pleasure, not your partners. If you find yourself becoming sexually frustrated and cannot experience orgasm through manual or oral stimulation then try a vibrator. A vibrator is much easier to incorporate into your sexual activities with your partner.

Anonymous

I'm 12 years old and I have been masturbating since I was about 10, when my friend told me about a website that had sex stories on it. I had no idea what masturbation was, but after reading a few of the stories I started getting curious. So I tried it using just my fingers and it felt amazing! I didn't have my first orgasm until about a month ago, though. What I usually like to do is wait until my parents and sister go to bed, and strip down naked on my bed. Then I usually rub my hands over my boobs and nipples, and that usually makes me very horny. Then I'll slowly move down to my pussy, and gently start to rub my clit, and insert two fingers into my vagina to rub my G-Spot. I'll usually cum within 15 minutes or so.

Tia

Hello there! Let me just begin by saying that you have a wonderful and very informative site. You can call me Tia. I'm 16 1/2 years old, and I've been masturbating since a little after I turned 15. I originally discovered masturbation when I became curious about sex in general. I had a lot of older male friends, and I didn't understand what they were talking about half the time. When I finally did start looking up information, I came across a lot of stuff about female masturbation, which naturally sparked my interest. I began exploring my body, and the rest is history.

I had my first orgasm by means of an electric toothbrush combined with the use of a hairbrush handle as a dildo. It was so intense! It took a while, but I eventually learned how to do it with just my fingers, and that's my preferred method at the moment. When I masturbate now, I lay on my back, open my legs as far as is comfortable, and usually start with my breasts. I lift my shirt up a bit and softly massage them, and this usually gets me feeling aroused. A few nights ago, I almost had an orgasm just from doing that! Just goes to show that you can always learn new things about yourself. But anyway... after doing that for a few minutes, I slip off my pants and undies, and softly touch my inner thighs, and all around. I dip a finger inside of my vagina, seeing how wet I am so far, spreading my natural lubrication up to where my clitoris is. I do this for a while, touching my G-Spot as much as I can with just my fingers. My natural wetness slowly gets thicker and lasts longer, and it becomes easier to slip another finger inside. I find it painful to put in more than 2, though (I'm a virgin, and I suppose a fairly tight one at that). At this point, I'll start rubbing my clitoris. I'm one of those girls who loves direct stimulation, so that's what I do. :) I find that the left side (from my perspective) is usually more sensitive than the right, and that pulling the hood up to expose the whole thing is heavenly. I do this for a while, periodically dipping my finger back inside to test the wetness factor and you know, keep everything slippery. ;)

At this point, if I'm not already fantasizing, I usually start. I usually imagine having sex with a well-endowed guy, having him perform oral on me, touching, kissing, etc. etc. Sometimes I start muttering dirty things to myself, things I'd never say in front of another person. But in such a highly aroused state, feeling naughty only intensifies things. My breathing starts getting harder and faster, I can feel my heart beating faster, and I can feel the tension in muscles all over my body, and I'm just aching for release. I tease myself a bunch of times -- getting really close to the point of no return and backing away again. When I can't stand to wait anymore, I go in more gently and slowly in order to drag out the most intense of the feelings. The moment just before the orgasm starts is amazing. I probably enjoy that second or two more than the orgasm itself. The pleasure spreads throughout my whole body, and it's just this euphoric floating feeling that I can't get anywhere else. And then my muscles start contracting and relaxing, and I feel much happier and more relaxed as soon as it's over. Sometimes I go in for another orgasm or two, but I'm usually satisfied with one good one.

The whole process takes me about 15-20 minutes, which feels just right. I love masturbating because it makes it so much easier to sleep, relax, and let go of stressful thoughts when I need to go to bed. And of course, it feels wonderful.

Just a note: I've found that it takes a huge amount of time and patience to learn and discover just how your body responds to different things, what feels best, how long to do each thing, the right speeds and rhythms, how deeply to breathe, everything that contributes to how intense the orgasm is. I've been doing it for over 1 1/2 years and I'm still learning. If you haven't been able to reach an orgasm yet, don't worry. Just take your time, enjoy the ride, and don't be afraid to relax and let go!

Hope that's informative in some way!

~Tia

Anonymous

I started masturbating when I was young. Stuck in a twin bed with my brother, and with my parents on a queen-size bed next to me didn't provide for full fledged masturbation techniques. So when young I just touched myself down there in order to calm myself into a sleep. When my mother smelt it on my hands the next morning, I was scolded but not explained why I should stop. I continued, remembering to keep my hands in fists while she dressed me. My parents allowed for me and my brother to bathe together until we were probably 7-8, and that's probably how my exploration started (looking at his body while he looked at mine). I remember experiences of kissing him on the lips, showing him the area between my legs and seeing his, and masturbating with him in the room (we shared a bedroom). It never turned romantic, as soon after he began abusing me, beating me up, calling me names, etc. Then the masturbation was possibly the only good feeling I could get. Later on, I couldn't sleep unless I did it. It felt bad for some reason, possibly because I thought the abuse was due to the fact that I had masturbated in years earlier. Now I am in my mid-teens, and after reading your site (and getting turned on by these experiences) I realized it was nothing I should be ashamed of. Recently, I found the courage to tell my boyfriend and he recounted to me his years of abuse from his brother and masturbation as well, calling it a 'curse'. Some nights he would stay awake because he thought it was dirty and didn't want to do it in order to sleep. After realizing all this, I started exploring erotic literature online and in e-books (to keep them away from prying eyes). Sometimes I like to look at pictures of naked women (though I'm not gay or bisexual, sometimes, women are just more attractive than men and the men seem threatening, shoving their penises into w omen's mouths. also, pornography/erotica is more focused on women than for women) and men (so I will know what to expect from my boyfriend should we ever get married and have sex), but find that my mind is far more capable of extending the experience from things I read. I lie on my stomach (unable to gain pleasure any other way), and place both hands under my pubic bone. I often rub the clitoris through the hood, through my panties. I don't insert anything because I find that uncomfortable. I just close my eyes and let my mind make the experience. However, sometimes I stop and flip over just before orgasming because a little voice in my head says it is wrong. But often, the need of sleep overcomes me and I do it anyway. Fantasies include being raped and being with men in romantic settings (and recently with women in which we stimulate each other's clitorises and breasts with some kissing).

Thanks for reading and giving me a place to write and express my true self.

Samantha

Hey. My name is Samantha and I'm nearly 16 years old. When I was young I used to rub my body up and down against my bed and feel it building up until I climaxed. I never knew what this was but I knew it felt good!

When I was 11 my mom bought me a book about sex (presumably not too keen to talk about it herself), and when I got to the chapter on masturbation I finally linked it to what I had been doing all those years. I was intrigued, but believed myself to be the only one who did this.

As I got older I noticed it is a very common discussion topic amongst boys, but I never talked about it between my girlfriends until two summers ago. One evening we had been at the local swimming pool and were the last left in there. In the changing rooms afterwards we got on to the subject of masturbation and discovered that both of us did it. We decided to have a look at each other's 'private parts', and it wasn't long before we were on the floor rubbing our pussies against each other until we both came. Now often she comes over and we discuss our favorite techniques, but we almost always end up licking each other all over. She loves it when I hold her thighs and bury my face in her pussy.

Now when I'm on my own I masturbate nearly every day. I'm happy to say I have the privilege of having quite large breasts and I love to suck my own nipples while I rub my clit.

Thanks for listening :)

Chris

I have found that I get more pleasure if I masturbate with two pillows under the small of my back. Having my vagina at a slight angle seems to intensify the experience. I start by caressing my breasts, working my way down to my clit. I start rubbing my clit slowly, but it doesn't take long to get aroused and the rubbing becomes harder and faster. I like to use K-Y Warming Gel - it really intensifies the experience.

When I am fully aroused, I put the vibrator in my vagina. Sometimes, I use it on my clit first, but not always. I start with the vibrator on low, slowly moving it in and out of me. Then I increase the speed of the vibrator until I can't stand it any more!

Chris

Anonymous

I have to share my experiences after reading so many personal and enlightening stories. I am one of those kids that masturbated while on their stomach with my whole weight on my clit. I didn't even know it was an orgasm until I was 18. The orgasm produced by this method was less intense but can be reached in a matter of seconds. I had my first orgasm while looking at porn in front of my computer. I was just rubbing my clit with my fingers when all of a sudden my world turned upside down. It caught me by surprise. However, I still would have trouble coming by manually stimulating my clit so most of the time I resort to the less pleasurable childhood method. I since then have bought a Rabbit, a Pocket Rocket and a Hitachi Magic Wand. With the Pocket Rocket I can occasionally have an orgasm, but it almost always takes too long so I would get frustrated and just give up. After reading about squirting, I bought the Magic Wand with the G-Spotter. Being a girl with trouble reaching orgasms, I never thought in a million years I will be able to ejaculate. But boy was I wrong. I started by just stimulating my clit for about 10 minutes and then inserting the G-Spotter into my pussy. I started exploring and found a spot that made me feel like peeing. I wasn't using any motions at all and was just relying on the vibrations by the Magic Wand. However, within a couple minutes, the peeing sensation got more intense. I started to explore by moving the Magic Wand in and out and that is when I realized that there is a possibility that I can ejaculate. The sensation was got more intense and my arms involuntarily moved the vibrator more rigorously. I started pushing out (flexing my PC muscles) and a little bit of liquid started to squirt out after another couple of minutes. At that point I was moving the Magic Wand in and out very very quickly because the feeling of it across my upper vaginal wall was unbelievable. Then I pulled out the vibrator for some reason (I can't quite remember because I was in so much pleasure that I probably blacked out) and the cum just squirted out all over the place. I am always silent during other methods of masturbation, but with the ejaculation, my voice box couldn't be controlled. The whole experience can't not be described in words. All I can say is to TRY IT. However, I still have trouble reaching the "normal" clitoral orgasms... should I just stop the childhood method for good to re-train my clit? Thanx Anonymous

Laura

I was about 13 when I started masturbating. I discovered the shower head in the shower. I used it three or four times a day! Now that I am married and my husband and I are very open about sex, and loving. Sometimes we lay together early in the morning and just watch each other as we masturbate. Then we have sex, and he then performs oral sex on me and I have the most intense orgasms. We are now looking into Tantric and Taoist sexual techniques to increase our orgasms. But I like to masturbate alone too...I lay in bed, and just use my hands with a little KY and rub in a circular motion over my clit. I always fantasize about another woman when I do it, because I feel that another woman can share the intimate feelings of self love in a way a man cannot. I am completely hetero, but I just fantasize about women. Thanks to this website, I now know I am not alone!

Jill

My name is Jill.

I love playing with myself and have been doing so since I was about 9- I am now 20. I usually just use the fingers on my right hand to rub over my clit, whilst reading a sexy book, or watching some porn that I borrowed off my boyfriend. Imagining I'm getting fucked or fingered by a girl gets me off most, someone hot like Christina Aguilera (that 'Dirty' video,oooooh...just makes me soaking!) or Gwen Stefani, whom I've had a HUGE 'crush' on for a while now. I love to hear myself when I cum...if no-ones in the house, I like to scream out LOUD as the orgasm hits. I also get really rude when I'm turned on - I want strangers to see me cum!!!

Gracie

I began to feel aroused when I was about 11 or 12 but the first time I actually masturbated was when I was 14. My family was staying at a hotel in Germany and one day I had been left by myself. I was wearing a sun dress and lying on a swing bed at the edge of the pool. An elderly lady came and sat next to me and started chatting. I remember she was about the same age as my grandmother but very beautiful. After a while, she began to stroke my leg, running her hand up under my skirt and down again. It was a very nice sensation and I did not want her to stop. She kept it up for some time and her hand got higher and higher right up to the top of my thighs. I became very aroused and I had no idea what the old lady was saying to me. Soon I was trembling all over and gasping for breath. The lady must have realized that she had brought me to this state. Eventually she stopped and went indoors leaving me shuddering with desire.

I tried to calm down but I could not. I ran indoors and up to my room. I lay on my bed and took off my panties. They were saturated! I could feel that I was swollen and puffy between my legs and I could not resist the temptation of fondling myself there. The excited feeling got stronger and stronger and suddenly I had the most marvelous sensation. I had never felt anything like it before. Of course I know now that I had an orgasm. I went on caressing myself and I slowly calmed down, but I can still remember how sensational that very first climax felt.

I am now 34 years old and I often masturbate and remember with gratitude that elderly lady and her gentle caresses. Sometimes I fantasize that that I am stroking the leg of a young girl and bringing her to the same state of lust as she did to me. It is very exciting. Gracie.

Mary

I am 19 and when I feel especially horny I fill my car with gas! I keep my legs slightly apart and press the hose [from the gas pump] tightly between them. The vibration is FANTASTIC!!! It is better if I am wearing a skirt but pants are almost as good. I think I saw another woman enjoying herself the same way once.

Love
Mary

Debbie

Hi my name is Debbie and I am 57 years old. I have been married for 36 years and I have a 33 year old daughter. Although I am 57 I still try to stay in shape and work out regularly doing videos called the "Firm". My husband works out also so for our age we are both in great shape and look good too. Anyway I recently helped my daughter who recently finished college do a research paper, while on the internet I found this site. I love it and find it very informative.

First of all I want to say that I love my husband very much and this article is not a slam against him. I am just frustrated and wanted to express it here maybe it will help someone else with similar problems.

The problem is my sex life is less than satisfying, when we make love maybe once a month he gets me so excited then leaves me hanging. I mean my clitoris is actual throbbing it even hurts a little. My only recourse until recently was to go work out with my videos until the swelling went away.

Therefore, I have learned the art of self love. I am not like many other woman on this site, I had never really masturbate until recently (last 5 years or so). Yes, I did touch my self down there but never to orgasm, was told that it was not a healthy thing to do so I did not. It actually started one evening about 5 years ago. We had just had a wonderful time of foreplay, we were both very aroused when he entered me, well the rest is history, it took him only about 1 minute and that was it. He got off and went to sleep. Let me tell you I was one frustrated and angry woman. My swollen and throbbing clitoris was unbearable. I laid in bed for several minutes thinking the sensation would go away....it didn't...so I got up and went to the bathroom, I had to really pee. As I wiped myself my hand felt my erected clitoris which seemed bigger than normal so I took a peek, wow it was really swollen and hanging down, not huge mind you but just swollen. I was still aroused. So I went to the living room and started my videos again as always. But I just couldn't get into it this time. So I decided to call my daughter and vent my frustrations on her. She told me that happened to her too and she just did it herself and it was really fun, she said. Being shocked I said, "Susan you don't", she said, Mommy most women do." So we talked a bit more and than we said goodbye. I went back to bed, my excitement was not as intense as it was but it was still there. I laid in bed trying to go to sleep, my husband by this time was in la...la...land. As I laid there in my night gown my hand moved to my breast (to this day I don't know why) and I started to rub the nipple I felt this sensation in my crouch, my husband hardly ever touched my nipples. He would take them in his hand like two base balls (there not real big) and just cup them. As I rubbed them they started to swell what a feeling....I keep doing this for a while and than I removed my hand. I knew what I was going to do next but wasn't sure if I should. My hand moved over my sweaty stomach and on to my pussie. I just left it there for several minutes until I felt this strange sensation that begged my to go further. So I spread my legs and started to message my swollen clitoris. At first I would move in a circular motion over the swollen shaft this drove me crazy. I than started to move the hood back and forth kind of like it was a penis, this felt even better. The sensations were something I have never had up to that time. By this time my legs were lying flat on the bed but spread wide. I took my left hand and with my index and fore finger I pulled the hood of my clitoris back as far as I could against my pubic bone. The clitoris was totally exposed and I rubbed it on the left side up toward the top up toward the pubic bone, I could not touch the tip of it because that hurt. As I was rubbing this wonderful spot with the tip of my finger actually using my fingernail ever so lightly when I went into seventh heaven. I cold not believe the feeling it was electrifying. I just closed my eyes and went into overdrive. Within minutes I had the best orgasm ever.......my husband never knew.

From that day on I practice the art of self love and many times I cannot wait for my husband to go to sleep.

Yours truly
Debbie

Anonymous

I've been masturbating ever since I was four. Now I am 14. I always would thrust back and forth on a chair really fast. I've tried other ways (hand, breasts, water, ect.) but nothing else works. I've had a couple orgasms, but not very strong ones. I think I need to stay focused. I normally hold onto the desk and imagine someone licking me. It works well, but I would like for it to work better.

Anonymous

I just read about Bonnie on page IX. I too use the same technique; face down left hand clasping right fist presses in "down there". It feel incredible, I am still a virgin and do not know how my orgasms during sex will compare to the ones by myself.

I am almost 20 and have been using this technique FOREVER!

I also find humping to be quite enjoyable

Tracey

I'm Tracey and I'm 14. My friend Treena told me about this website and its very interesting seeing how other girls do it. I started when I was 11 just before my first period. We have a summer house by our pool where we change and one day I peeked into it and saw my cousin sitting there rubbing his penis. OMG it was exciting. It was the first time I had been so excited. I put my hand down there and rubbed it through my knickers while I watched. It was my first time and it felt really great. I do it quite often in bed now and I always think of him doing it. All I do is rub my finger up and down the groove and sometimes give a sort of flick at the top. I have a lovely time. My boobs are sensitive too and I like to push my finger against my nip. It is a lovely feeling and I sometimes do it before I start between my legs. I like to squeeze my legs together tight too.

Love from Tracey.

Christine

My name is Christine, 45, divorced, SE England.

I think I always enjoyed touching myself. My Mother told me I always had my hands inside my panties, but I don't think I really became aware of all the possibilities till I was 7/8. I think that would be about the time I had my first orgasm while laying on my bed rubbing myself off against a cushion, which quickly became my version of a security blanket. I could always cum easily and often when I used it.

My next dawning moment would be when I walked in on my 12 year old brother masturbating in his bedroom. I think it was just after my 10th birthday. There was no way I was walking out again after seeing what was in his hands! Luckily he was very happy to show me and explain what he was doing and why. I watched him with fascination as he stroked it till 5 or 6 jets of cum spurted from him. Now that I considered really impressive!

That lead to a period of about a year when we would often masturbate together when we were alone in the house. By then I had forsaken my pillow for my fingers so I could watch him while I did it. Yes, of course we masturbated each other sometimes. What did you expect? But he never wanted anything else other than to touch me and for me to touch him.

Eventually he moved on to girls who were not his sister, but every now and then from the age of 11 to 14 I would talk sex with him, and we would end up watching each other cumming. It always gave me powerful and intense orgasms.

Next big moment was when I was 13 and discovered the possibilities of courgettes (zucchini). The smaller ones held briefly under warm water were just perfect for my tight pussy, and when deep inside my pussy while I stroked my clit, produced a new and different kind of orgasm. I graduated through the years to my favorite size 9" long and 6" thick and slightly curved, and I still sometimes sit at night watching TV with one inside me while I stroke my clit. It's very comfortable. Am I the only person to do that? LOL!

At 13/14 I also became aware just how much all girls masturbate when I started going on sleepovers. I learnt that almost every one did it by the time we were 7/8, and we would chat till the early hours always ending up on the subject of sex and/or cocks, and Jilling off. Being in a room with 3 or 4 other girls all masturbating and cumming at different times was majorly intense and I always looked forward to sleepovers.

I got my first vibrator about 25 years ago in an underwear shop on a ferry trip to Denmark. I couldn't resist and bought two because I didn't know which was best. They were wonderful. I've never been without one fully charged or with new batteries since. So when I picked one up and it was virtually lifeless, I knew my 14 year old daughter had discovered them, and was using the smaller one of them.

I was already aware she masturbated having accidentally seen her from the garden one night, when she was about 12. I said nothing then or now, and resolved it by getting a friend to buy her one for Christmas as a joke and asking her to give it to her privately. I honestly believe all 12/13 girls should get one. Women of all ages love them, and surely they would be of most use when you are at an age where they are most required. I still love my vibrators and financial independence is even allowing me to consider looking for a UK-useable Sybian machine.

I have always loved to masturbate. However, since my divorce I'm actually masturbating less, but that's only because I have rediscovered the pleasure of very hard young cock. I recommend it to any woman, but be warned, if you have a son 18-23 watch out for me!

Amanda

I have been reading some entries on you website. I thought I was the only girl that had orgasms by climbing poles. I'm 21 now and have been climbing poles and ropes since I was about 8 or 9 (I can't remember) But I still love it. It is soooooooooo cool to me to go to a park or a playground, or a parking lot with a big tall pole to climb.

I think the neatest thing is to just shinny up the pole. I can climb and climb and just stay at the top of the pole and keep shinnying.

I want a pole of my own, but have to keep working to afford one.

I like to go to a public place and just grab a pole and go up it. I don't know what anyone thinks I'm doing, but I don't care. I just do it anyway.

Am I the only girl that does this?

I think that what is so coool about this is the tension that it creates. It takes some upper body strength to manage it, but just wrapping my legs around the pole, and feeling it's warm smoothness does something to me.

I can climb the pole until I get to the top, and then slide down and start climbing again.

What I wear doesn't matte, but I've found out that wearing shorts, or a skirt helps because I have to grip the pole with my legs.

I'd love to see this on the website and would like to hear from other girls that come on poles like I do.

Amanda

Anonymous

Hi all

I didn't start to masturbate until my late teens when my boyfriend encouraged me to try, it was more fun than I thought it could be. I am now in my late twenties and still masturbate regularly. It often takes me a bit to get in the mood but once I start I can't stop. When I first started it was mostly on my own or on the phone to my boyfriend, I just rubbed/tickled my clitoris with one or two fingers, I could always have one good orgasm but it took time. I did some experimenting internally with my fingers and phallic objects however I still found external stimulation the best. In the early days I found sitting in front of a mirror and watching my vagina and breasts closely while I played was a huge turn on (I still like this sometimes). I started to find that I was turned on by pictures of naked girls which I viewed while masturbating or while my boyfriend performed cunnilingus on me, from this I could orgasm a number of times. I found that I was masturbating in more public places. Twice I masturbated to orgasm on a train with people sitting next to me, I had my coat over my lap and it was night time, no one noticed. Have any of you had an orgasm in a public place unnoticed? My arousal from naked girls has now progressed to watching movies of them masturbating or watching them have sex with other girls on the computer. I do this on my own but mostly with my boyfriend, I can orgasm in under 3 minutes and have had over 10 in one session. It suits him because he doesn't want to look at guys either, our play often leads to amazing sex but not until I have had a few orgasms. I also now use a number of vibrators of which the Techno Wand is my favorite. I have two wands and I often use one inside and one outside, they are a bit noisy but I recommend that you girls buy one, they make me cum sooo quickly. For those of you who can't orgasm during sex try lying on your back and have your partner lie on his side under your legs, you use the wand on your clitoris while he enters you, relax and you will beet him every time. I have never been with a girl (only a few kisses) but the thought sends me right off, I may live out my fantasy one day but for now I will save it for masturbating. Must go now and get my wand………

Rachel

Kay

For most of my life, I had a completely negative outlook to masturbation. It wasn't until my husband gently encouraged and supported me in that direction that I began to be able to enjoy it.

I sometimes masturbate standing in the shower. I run my soapy hands over my breasts, teasing my nipples, making me really wet. Then I run my slippery fingers around my clit while I close my eyes and fantasize about watching a woman slowly strip in front of me. As she caresses her bountiful breasts, I quickly rub my clit. I usually cum while imagining myself pinching and sucking the other woman's nipples. Then I stick my finger (sometimes two!) hard and fast into my vagina. It's so intense, I once nearly passed out after!

Anonymous

I've been masturbating since I was about seven, I think. I was in my Grandma's pool and I passed by those jets that push the filtered water in... and noticed how good it felt when the water hit "down there". Since that point I would press myself near the jets when I was swimming by myself. When I hit 11 I learned that you could use the showerhead (I was watching that old MTV show "Undressed") and so I used that when my parents would close the pool because it got too cold. When I was 12 I learned that you could use your fingers and rub your clitoris (and do so frequently) and shortly after I learned about dildos; and I guess you could say that I used make-shift ones. Now, at 14, I continue using all methods (though ones where I could easily get caught I do less often). I'm so glad I found this site, because like any teen with raging hormones and what-not I felt embarrassed and a little ashamed of myself for masturbating. Now, because of this site, I don't feel like that. Thanks.

Anonymous

I wanted to share with you an amazing experience I just had in the shower! The water was so hot and felt so good running down my skin. So I sat down in the corner of the shower, and spread my legs wide apart, one foot up against the wall of the shower, the other down on the shower floor. I let the water slam onto my pussy. I was so wet, I can't even describe it. My hot juices running out of me along with the hot water made a tantalizing combination! Most of the time my back was arched, my hands holding myself up, and my head tilted way back, but then every time I'd look down at what was happening to my body, it made me even wetter. My clit must have swelled to 3 or 4 times the size it normally is. It was actually throbbing and I could see it with my own two eyes. Every now and then I'd run my hand between my legs and feel how unbelievably wet I was getting. My entire body was drenched with hot soapy water, and my clit was aching for orgasm. As the water beat down on my clit, I moved my body back and forth until I got into a rhythm. I could feel my body tingling all over. First at my feet, then up inside me, deep inside me...I could feel my muscles contracting back and forth. The tingling sensation moved up...my nipples were rock hard, I had goose bumps all over my body. Finally I came so hard. The orgasm was so intense, my whole body was trembling, I was actually cumming. I could feel the wetness running down to my ass, and onto my thighs. I think for the first time I was actually ejaculating! It was amazing. I now feel completely relaxed and at peace. Another start to a great day!

Anonymous

I have a strong sex drive during my period. Is anyone else like that? The orgasms are so intense. I like to masturbate while I pee. I rub my clit and then let it out when I am ready to come. I have fantasies about this all month and masturbate while I fantasize. Then every night during my period, I tease myself until I can't hold it. I have fantasies about peeing my panties while I play with myself, but I've never done it.

Raychel

What do to masturbate is lay on my back in the tub and turn on both the hot and cold water and it feels GREAT. TRY IT NOW.