Rita

Hello, everyone. My name is Rita. I am 53 years old and have enjoyed reading the many secrets all of you have shared about masturbation. Probably my first serious attempts of performing this wonderful intimacy started during my early adolescence. I was really a rookie back then and I am very happy that first awkward attempts has grown and evolved as I have. I like to think of masturbation as a special time that I set aside for myself. It can be a time for experimenting and it can also be a precious space in which to relive some wonderful moments.

Before I continue, let me say that I feel that I have been blessed with having two very special people in my life. The first is a man, who I met when I was in my early twenties. He is and always has been a very sensual, very caring man who taught me how to relax, take my time and let sex become a long and wonderful adventure that can open the doors to those secret places we dream about but seldom are able to discover. Interestingly, he told me many years ago that he thought my most beautiful physical feature was my vulva. He called it a precious flower and I can remember thinking, "Oh, God, do I ever love this man!" Since his favorite flowers are orchids, my vulva became first his orchid, then his wild orchid and finally, a very wet and wild orchid. Unfortunately, life circumstances have prevented us from making our relationship more permanent, but we continue to share a wonderful bond that has kept us together for almost three decades.

My second blessing came more recently and is still in the beginning stages, but has been equally as satisfying in many, many ways. Jillian is a woman I have known for almost fifteen years. She is a delightful and lovely woman in her early forties who has always maintained a youthful passion for life. Her sexual orientation seems to change as frequently as the weather, but this is something she has always seemed to be very comfortable with. Over the years she has often teased me by saying that she would love to have one night of pampering me. This did nothing but embarrass the hell out of me, but for whatever reason, when she made this offer again about two months ago, I surprised even myself by saying yes. Her pampering has literally sent me over the moon and I kick myself for not having agreed to this much sooner. I’m still learning but have quickly fallen in love with the pleasures two women can share. I look forward to many, many more lessons and as much pampering as Jillian wants to bestow on me.

So, that’s how I came to be where I am now. And fortunately, for me, these two very special people in my life have taught me that there is a third very special person: me! So, when it comes time for me to take care of me, I try to make it eventful and meaningful. Masturbating can be can be down and dirty fast or as long as we care to make it. However it’s done, if you’re not mentally into it, it isn’t going to happen. So, when I make a date with myself, I take the time to prepare and get ready for a wonderful evening.

I do my nails, I shave my legs, I shower, fix my hair and in short do everything I can to make myself look and feel attractive. I pull down the bed, light candles and, depending on my mood, may add a little background music. I place a soft, fluffy bath towel on the bed. I fill a small cup with K-Y Jelly; I select some toys that I think will come in useful. I have a lacy, white, silk bed jacket that I save for this occasion and when I see that everything else is in order, I slip into it, hop into bed and away we go.

My favorite place to go is, "Here’s what I’d like you to do." I imagine that either Dan or Jillian is in the room and watching. My role is to show them exactly what it is I would like them to do to me. I start by kneeling on the towel and sitting upright. I make sure that I am generously lubricated and this normally leads to some playful touching. Being on this date, is no different than being on any date. I know that this bed is where I want to end, but what happens when I get there depends I’m how I’m feeling and how I’m responding once the real action begins. It always amazes me that I can end up in places that I didn’t think I would.

I lift my body slightly so that both hands have free access to my precious orchid. A slow massage begins the journey and my mind is focused on what do I what you to do. Sometimes I want to remain the perfect lady and let the sex be slow and tender. Sometimes I’m feeling a bit whorish and want to fucked hard and fast. Sometimes I like a little anal stimulation; sometimes I want every inch of that wonderful cock buried in my ass. Sometimes I want to remain in control and stay kneeling and on top; sometimes I just want to bury my head in a pillow and in this doggy position, say do whatever you want, but please do it soon.

One word of advise. If you’re going to use toys, dildos and vibrators, experiment, buy what works and buy quality merchandise. After all, you deserve the best.

I like to think of that first orgasm as the beginning. I usually get very wet which is why the towel comes in handy. From that slow massage, I usually begin fingering myself. My clit is very sensitive and responds quickly to any stimulation. While I don’t find touching my breasts really heightens the experience, I do like the feel of the soft, silk sliding against my nipples. Touching leads to inserting a finger, sometimes two. I have an anal vibrator, that is long, but not too thick, and with a little coaxing and a lot of lube, it provides some wonderful attention to this often neglected area. Turn the vibrator on low and I normally start to cum in buckets. The clitoral stimulation is where it all comes from, but being an old fashion girl, I like the feel of something inside of me. This lady uses a soft jelly vibrator, called Magic Fingers, that turns, twists and finds every area of my vagina while the "magic fingers" go to work on my clit. That whorish little me likes a big time dong, called "The Kong," that does nothing but stretch the walls of my vagina till they absolutely ache and I let my fingers take care of the rest.

It’s dreamy. It’s passionate. It can be tender and loving. It can be hard and rough. The one thing that it always is, is look, watch, this is what I want. If you really want to fuck me and you want to do it right, then pay attention. And when your turn comes, you’ll know exactly what to do and what will make this lady very happy and very grateful.

No, I haven’t shared this with either of those special people in my life. I like keeping this evening to myself and when I am with either of them, I let them explore and discover what makes me tick.

So, ladies, time is passing. Make plans and make that special date. There’s a wonderful person that’s waiting to meet you and don’t be surprised at how easy it is to misbehave.

Love to you,
Rita