Masturbation Techniques
& Experiences VI
Since I was little I've been rubbing against things like blankets and
pillows. I was caught a few times but I didn't realize why it was 'wrong' or
even what I was doing. As I got older I learned more about my body and exactly
what masturbation was. Since then, every summer when I was home alone I'd go
through my daily masturbation routine but after a while I started feeling
guilty. I don't know why, I guess because I had been told that it was 'bad' so I
tried to stop. Well, as a sexual being that is very impossible. You can't
suppress your sexuality once you've discovered it.
Up until last year I wasn't very experimental, then I discovered the Internet
and sought out information on masturbation. I learned about the 'shower
technique' but was a little discouraged since my shower-head was not detachable.
I finally perfected a way to control the water flow and once I did it was
wonderful.
Orgasms for me are really beautiful and euphoric; I hold them as sacred as I
do my own virginity. Up until that point I still did not understand the origin
of my pleasure until one night I was visiting my dad and stepmother and they had
rented a movie for me with my favorite actor in it. I had no idea that the movie
had any sexuality in it but as I watched it, it became apparent and I started
getting aroused. I put my hand between my legs in a fist and rotated my thumb
against my clit. It took me a while, I went into the bathroom so as not to be
interrupted, stood against the wall and continued. That was really my awakening.
I was so weak and euphoric; I shook for an hour afterwards and fell into the
most wonderful sleep.
The good stuff:
When I returned home with my new found knowledge of my body I experimented
with everything. I'm not comfortable with penetration so that isn't part of my
practice at all but I have tried everything I can think of on my clit. The
shower is still my favorite technique and I have since gotten a detachable
shower-head. I've come up with a few techniques with that that I haven't seen
mentioned here that I'd like to share.
The obvious one is laying on your back holding the shower head near your
vulva and finding a comfortable setting for the water spray, then opening the
vulva and spraying the water on the clitoris or labia minora. Well...it usually
takes me forever to climax and my fingers would get tired of holding my labia
open so I hooked the shower-head between my big toe and second toe and put my
leg up letting the water hit my clit. This works very well if you like to be
'open' while masturbating.
Another good one is to stand with your legs spread and bent slightly then let
the water hit your open vulva, clitoris and labia minora. It also helps to be
near the faucet so you can change the water temp from cool to hot (the hot water
mimics your own internal body fluid temperature causing a wave of 'cum' when it
hits your labia minora, its a very nice feeling). This resulted out of a want to
clench my leg muscles while climaxing, this way you can tense your muscles and
bounce or gyrate against the water spray, plus you're standing up which is a
great feeling.
Other than that I've tried the vacuum but it causes the air to be cold around
your clit which isn't pleasant, pearls massaged against the clit but that can
catch your skin and pinch it, also not pleasant. I'm still working on just using
my fingers around my clit but haven't succeeded yet. Also, makeup brushes
(obviously ones that have no been used and will not be used for makeup) are
wonderful on the clit. The days I wear tight jeans I come home in a frenzy to
'get off' without realizing why at first.
The one really big perk of masturbation that people seem to neglect are its
effects on your physical appearance. Between drinking lots of water and eating
semi-sensibly and masturbating I've lost 20 lb. and toned my whole body,
especially my leg muscles. It’s GREAT for those of us who happen to store fat
in the butt and hip area. So not only does masturbation contribute to your
awareness of your sexuality and your body it contributes to your love of
yourself and the love of your physical appearance which is SOOO important in a
society where women are constantly pelted with images of 'attractive' women that
they can never look like due to the lack of real-life airbrushing.
It really has made me a better person. Thanks sooooo much for letting me
share:)
Anonymous
One great way I discovered I have not read on your site. I took one of the
big sized plastic barrels that the mini M & M's come in and used it to
masturbate. Talk about orgasms! Wow! I could do it over and over and still keep
cumming. I pulled off all my clothes and propped up on my bed in front of a
mirror. First I rolled around some and played with my giant tits. I started
getting all wet and horny so I took the can and started stroking my pussy with
it. I did not fuck myself with it because of the edges on the end. But, as I
took bigger and bigger strokes, the plastic got hotter and hotter as it rubbed
against my hot, wet pussy! Wow! I was cumming in about a minute. I was still so
hot so I stroked my throbbing pussy some more with the can and I was cumming
again. I must have done this three or four times in a row and was still so hot I
could not stand it. My pussy was dripping and I could smell its sweet smell in
the air. Best of all, with this much masturbating and cumming, my fingers and
wrist weren't tired at all. Man, I am getting so wet and horny just thinking
about it! My next fantasy is to see how many times I can cum while I am in the
tanning bed! Talk about fun!
Another method: I lay flat on my back, preferably on the floor so there is no
bouncing around of the bed. I straighten out my feet and put them together. I
then place my right hand on my pussy and my left hand on top of my right hand. I
use my middle finger of my right hand to rub my up & down, up & down on
my clit. I have always put my left hand on top of my right hand. It just feels
better that way. I can't come if I don't. I suppose it's because my left hand
provides more pressure to my pussy that just my right hand alone. Using this
method, I usually come in about 1 minute. After I come, I usually do this again
3 or 4 more times. It takes up a lot of energy to do this. My legs are
straightened out in front of me and very tensed up. But it feels damn good!!!!!
I have always wanted to try using other objects such as cucumbers, squash,
and other edibles to insert in my pussy but have never gotten brave enough.
Maybe some day I will get brave! Wish me luck!!!
The best way is with my b/f, we strip each other from the waist down and I
sit on the side of the bed or the couch. I open my legs and he kneels in front
of me or sits on the floor. The sight of him naked below and dressed up top adds
to the excitement, I begin to pull myself open and let him watch me finger my
pussy as he starts to jerk off. We look at each others genitals as we masturbate
and encourage each other to come, the sight of his balls moving and the slapping
sound as he pulls his cock is a real turn on for me and sometimes I smear some
of my juices under his nose so he can smell me as he jerks off. Just rubbing my
clit really hard and dipping my finger in is enough to make me come violently
and noisily, I am usually first to do so and my b/f will finish off by coming on
my pussy or tits. I haven't tried the showerhead method, as I am frightened of
burning myself with hot water!
I am 42 years old and have been masturbating since I was a child. Recently I
have been doing it more frequently due to a hormone replacement that makes me
quiet horny.
To be honest while reading these posts I feel myself becoming wet as I become
very aroused.
My favorite way of masturbating is to first undress myself. I love to massage
myself all over with oil, paying close attention to my big breasts. I gently rub
and squeeze them. Then I massage my stomach legs and butt, It feels so good. I
then love to feel something cool against my clit. I spread my lips far apart and
gently lean against the bathroom sink. It feels so good. I also enjoy watching
myself in the mirror so I often masturbate in front of the mirror. My favorite
fantasy and desire is to make love to another woman. I love to look at pictures
of lesbians loving each other. I imagine myself kissing her all over. Holding
her warm body next to mine. Gently stinking my tongue in her mouth. Kissing her
nipples and finally sticking my tongue inside of her a gently flicking my tongue
against her clit. I am so close to cuming as I write.
It is so good to know that what I am doing is very natural and my fantasy is
very natural too.
Thanks for this site.
I also will use a plastic bottle with the larger the mouth the better. Create
suction first by squeezing it somewhat and then place open top against the clit
and releasing the suction is the most incredible feeling. I often do this while
reading the letters here. Every so often I squeeze the sides of the bottle to
create the suction. Do this just enough to keep the excitement going and then I
use my finger to rotate around my button. The clit is swollen and very extended
after being in the bottle top.
I am quite an innocent person in that I have only had sex with two men before
and felt that I loved them both. But...at the same time I am very sexual! I
touch myself sometimes 3 times a day! This may seem mad but I love my orgasms! I
can have two or more each time just from touching my clitoris in a special way.
I lie with my feet upon the headboard of my bed and a mirror wedged between
my knees, the visual effect really works wonders for me! I then part my labia
and look into my vagina and this gets the desire going in me! I rub one side of
my clit up and down, not in a circular motion and what a sensation!
I have a large clit which has always been so tender or sensitive, my school
friends never got turned on when anything brushed against them down there and
always laughed when I did!
When we skipped at school there was a time when some boys ran by, grabbed the
rope one on either side and myself with it still between my legs, the rope was
raised and pulled back and forth...I had my first orgasm on that occasion and
don't think any of the other kids knew why I went week at the knees and had to
sit down!
Anyway, I am lucky to have such a great disposition to pleasuring myself, it
is very much in ones mind too.
The only problem is I don't like only being able to orgasm using this method.
Not only do I want to find other ways, but I want my boyfriend to be able to
make me orgasm. I really enjoy it when he licks and sucks on my clitoris but I
still don't end up having an orgasm, well I haven't so far. Another thing is I
love sex. I love the feeling I get when we have sex; it's just completely
different to being under the bath. I would love to be able to combine both... I
can only imagine how good that would feel! If any one has any suggestions please
let me know!!!
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