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Par

I have many pleasurable experiences relating to my childhood. I started exploring before age 5. My sister and I spent many a pleasurable afternoon exploring each others parts.

I didn't know what climax meant at that age but I know it felt good as each of us pulled down our panties, lay on our backs and opened up our little splits wide and the other would rub and play with the clitoris.

Sometimes we would just leave the panties on and pull them to the side with one hand and open our little lips with the other and let them touch and rub, we took turns.

Now when I masturbate, I will look at pictures because I am stimulated that way, or I will go to some hot website, I will begin to rub the area around my clit, while thinking of all my pleasant childhood memories, the climax is intense and hot.

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Carrie

I love masturbating and have been doing it since I was 4, when I saw another little girl at day care hump her cot - and I started doing it - then I discovered the clit. I have many ways of masturbating - my favorite is getting in the shower, and putting the hand-held shower head right onto my clit. I orgasm in about a minute. Another is masturbating on the phone with my boyfriend while he does the same. It's very intense. I've always wanted another female to do it to me - I think it would be way more intense. Women know what feels good.

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Cindy

When I masturbate I think one of the kinkiest things I've ever done is let my boyfriend watch me while I start by caressing my tits and playing with my nipple rings so I can get really wet. Then after a while I work my way down my stomach and start rubbing my thighs. Then I'll get some of my juices and start rubbing my clit with my right hand. I'll keep doing this until I'm about to cum and then I stick three fingers in my pussy with my left hand and start rubbing my g-spot. Its totally crazy at how high I feel after I cum. Sometimes I'll even let my boyfriend finish me while he sucks on my tits. Then it seems like my orgasms just keep going and going. Its even better when my bf gets off and starts masturbating himself so we can watch each other. Then I'm in heaven.

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Tinisha

I love to masturbate!!! I have been touching myself "down there" every since I was about nine years old. It's been so long ago when I started that I don't even remember the first time! When I masturbate, I like to be alone. First I will strip down to my undies, and get a mirror, because I love to look at my pussy it makes me even hornier. I will put my finger right on the tip of my clit and rub in a circular motion. This feels so good. Then I will stick my fingers inside of myself until I am about to cum. When I feel myself about to cum I stop. Then I will rub my clit again at a very fast speed until I cum, this is the best feeling in the world!

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Sue Part I

Hi my name is Sue. I have been masturbating since I was little. I am an only child, and I would just love to have another female to do it with. I would love to touch her body, and if at all possible, I would want her to do the same to me. Well what I like to do when masturbating is going totally naked. I decided to do this while my parents where on vacation last year. What I did was I went in my room and closed the curtains, took off my clothes and let it rip. I got into bed, and pulled the covers up over my head, and then I started to touch my breasts. I had both hands on them, and I squeezed them, and I felt my clitoris rise. This felt good. Then after I did that I put one hand on my clitoris, and with my index finger, I rubbed it in a circular motion, and my vagina was wet. This was an awesome orgasm. As I kept on rubbing it it got harder and the orgasms where better than ever! Then my other hand was on my crotch, while the other one was on my clitoris, and I started to rub both places at the same time, and it was just beautiful! I was in heaven! Not! When I came to climax, I put the hand that was on my crotch, well I moved it and my index finger, I put it inside my vagina, and that was when I came. That experience was great. I am hooked and I do it every night. The best thing was I did it at college, and my roommate did not know anything about that. Also my parents don't know either. I have enjoyed it since I was little, and I will continue to. I am twenty four years old soon to be twenty five on the 18 of April. Either way I will masturbate on my birthday.

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Sue Part II

Cool! I hope that everyone will give it a try. I just think masturbating like this is great! I know for one thing tonight I am going to do it again, and I just love it! Even though I am single and not had sex yet, I think masturbating is a great way to know your body, and it is safe, and it is kind of like having sex with yourself. Like I told you before I would love to do it with another female. I have gotten naked in front of a girl, but I never had a chance to check her out, so hopefully I can ask one of my friends to strip down, so I could check her out. I am just curious to see if she will like it. If anything, I am going to ask her, if she feels comfortable doing this. I am not going to force her, if she does not want to. I understand why.

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Christine

I love to masturbate! First I visualize my lover giving me oral sex and it starts to get me excited. I pull my pants down just below my vagina, and leave my blouse on. There is very little exposed to the air. I like to fantasize that we are in public and he just cannot control himself and he has to do me right then and there! So trying to be discrete, he takes the pants down ever so slightly. I put two fingers on one hand inside my vagina while stimulating the clitoris with the other hand. I rub in circular motions, ever so softly and move my fingers inside around as well. I begin to visualize the people in this public place now noticing us and wanting to be part of the action. But I have to tell them, "Not until he makes me cum, not until then. After he does, then you can participate too." When I start to cum I have to stimulate myself so softly and then I can cum again, and then again, but the stimulation has to be very, very soft. I do it in bed in the middle of the night sometimes or at home when I am alone just watching TV. What a rush!

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Anonymous

I think I could be the weirdest girl on the planet. I like to masturbate while lying on my stomach. I take my right hand and place it over the left lip of my pussy. Then, I press hard while keeping my fingers tightly together. My clit is underneath feeling the friction. I move my fingers back and forth, up and down. I have to keep my legs straight and together and have my toes on the ground pressing as hard as I can. This helps to give more pressure "down there." This is the only way I can reach orgasms. Not even wild and kinky sex with my boyfriend can give me an orgasm.

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This method of masturbation isn't that unusual. This technique is thought to develop in early childhood as a result of trying to hide your masturbation activities from your parents and others. You try real hard to look like you are doing nothing but sleeping so you remain motionless and quite. The problem is that this position and technique are hard to adapt to partner sex. As in this case, orgasm with a partner can be difficult or impossible to achieve when it is your only means of achieving orgasm. This is because you are laying on your stomach concealing most of your erogenous areas and your straight ridged legs prevent access to your vulva. The thigh tension resulting from pressing on the floor is also difficult to reproduce. You likely restrict your breathing and vocalizations as well. Betty Dodson in her video Celebrating Orgasm coaches a woman who uses this technique to be able to masturbate to orgasm while laying on her back with her legs spread. It is advisable for women who masturbate using this technique to explore other options, and not to fall back on their time proven method when others fail to result in orgasm just as easily. It takes time to retrain your mind and body to new masturbation methods. Women who use this technique can still share their orgasms with their partner by allowing their partner to watch and masturbate at the same time.

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Leigh

I love to masturbate - I like to lie in my bed, legs spread wide with a lighted makeup mirror between my legs. I have a beautiful flesh colored vibrator that I use to tease my clit - I love to watch my self pleasure in the mirror. I also have wonderful anal beads that I use when I please myself. I lube them, insert them in my ass and then go to work on my pussy. I work my vibrator on my clit, watching and feeling it get completely engorged. When, I get ready to come, I start to pull my anal beads out, one by one, and I watch my clit literally dance up and down on my vibrator! The anal beads enhance my climax sooo much - I recommend them to anyone who wants a more intense orgasm - while my pussy is cumming, and while I am pulling them out - the tugging action makes it all the more intense - my anus doesn't want to let them go while my pussy is climaxing - it's a totally awesome feeling, one that I am so glad I discovered. Someone told me once it's because the muscles for climaxing are the same ones that are near your anus so that's why it's so pleasurable - doesn't matter - I recommend anal beads to everyone who wants that intense feeling. Afterwards, I love to lay there and feel my clit relax; it throbs while it's losing it's erection. Sometimes I use a dildo while I am masturbating for that full feeling - that's intense too - my pussy almost pushes it out I cum so hard!

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Jeanne

Oh yes for pleasure I rub my clit and mostly lay down to do so....but have stood while rubbing also...my friend sent me this site with my thxs because I feel every girl or woman should not be ashamed to stimulate and give pleasure to their selves ...I love to watch porn movies and rub my clit while watching really gets me to climax good....with fingers start slowly and work to a faster pace as feel the urge build...then insert couple fingers in my vagina and stroke in and out fast and hard and still rub my clit with other hand and fingers around clit and area around.

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Stace

I started masturbating when I was about 11, and I'm 19 now. At first I would use my fingernail on my right index finger and flick it back and forth over my clit and I would come that way. I use the hand held shower too, that works. I read someone's entry about using an electric toothbrush (I looked for the girl's name and the entry but I couldn't find it) it drove me CRAZY! I loved it, I've been using my toothbrush more often than my fingers. Just some reminders -- use a new toothbrush. You don't want the stuff that was in your mouth to be on or inside your pussy -- remember not to leave the toothbrush on the handle, take the one you use for masturbation and put it somewhere else and take it out for pleasuring.

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Nicole

Let me tell me about my masturbation actions. Probably not so spectacular, but I think it's important to talk about it. Mostly I begin to fantasize and touch my nipples. Can take a few minutes but also hours. Then I caress my clitoris over and over again. Which is really great. I must admit by writing this my clit is getting hot. So this can be also erotic. The most special thing is that I can do it in bed but also on the bus, train and public places without anyone noticing it. Sometimes I finish it in the lavatories or not so much public places. That's what I wanted to tell.

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Anonymous

I'm only 14 and I've been masturbating since I was about 4. Until now, I always thought I was weird for doing it so early, but I see that its normal. Now I feel more comfortable with myself doing these things to myself, and not feel ashamed or embarrassed. Since I am a virgin, I've never had anything in my vagina but tampons, so I personally don't feel pleasured by having anything stimulating that area. I love to put my vibrator on my clit, changing batteries to get a different strength and speed every now and then. While I do this, I am usually having cyber sex, or phone once in a while to get a different feeling. Though its not like the real thing, its nice to have someone do it with you, revealing their fantasies and techniques with you. Thus, you get a different feel and excitement each time, so you never get tired of yourself!

Oh, and by the way, I really want to try the showerhead method, but mine doesn't detach, and I can't position myself under the water pipe.. can anyone give me any tips to get the same feeling without destroying my bathtub or hurting myself?

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They make hand held shower heads that attach to your bathtub faucet by means of a rubber booty. The booty slips over the faucet. You don't need to modify your bathroom in anyway to use one. You can use the shower head to spray water on your vulva or remove the shower head and direct a stream of water against your clitoris and vulva. Department and hardware stores likely carry them in the section where they sell bathroom fixtures. Pet stores may have them as well for bathing your pet.

Be sure to check the water temperature first. It is not wise to direct water up into the vagina, it interferes with the natural flora and increases the chance of vaginal and pelvic infections.

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Rose

Hi my name is Rose, I just turned 17 and I have been masturbating since I was about 15. I am a virgin and am uncomfortable with anything actually entering me. I usually masturbate in the shower. Sometimes I use my index or middle finger and massage my clit when I really want to just come. Other times when I want to draw it out and make it last I rub my nipples while standing up. When I start to feel horny, I adjust the shower spray. I don't have a hand held one sadly, so I adjust the spray so it's just right. (Fortunately it takes some time so I get the chance to massage my nipples and play with my breasts more.) Once I've adjust the flow of water, depending on how I want to come, I lie down on my back on the shower floor. I then spread my legs wide and allow the shower spray to hit my clit. Some times I play with my large breasts while fantasizing about my crush. It helps me when I fantasize about him going down on me, licking and sucking my clit until I orgasm. Its a wonderful experience I usually take very long showers. Sometimes I picture a girl going down on me and it makes it even better. I used to think this was bad and it would make me out to be a lesbian. But after visiting this site I realize now that masturbating is nothing to be ashamed of and neither is fantasizing about a woman doing these things to you. I mean who better is going to please you then a someone who has the same physical parts as you? I only wish I could find someone who is willing to experiment with me. Thank you for allowing me to share my experiences.

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Amanda

I am 25 years old and I have just begun to really masturbate in the past 6 months. When I was younger I use to play with Barbies. I would lock my door and take off my shorts and panties and rub the Barbie dolls head on my pussy. It felt great, however I never experienced an orgasm. One day my friend and I were playing school and she told me to pretend I was the teacher and she was this bad boy in class. She began looking up my skirt and then she began tickling my pussy over my panties. Eventually we took my panties off and she rubbed her fingers around it. It felt soooo good. I then did the same to her. We also use to swim in her pool and she taught me that if you put your pussy in front of the pool jet it would feel great. I did it and boy did it ever. So much that I couldn't take it. I still do that today. Any ways, I stopped masturbating after that because as I got older it made me feel dirty. However, once I got my computer I found this site and some others about masturbation and got some ideas that I wanted to try. I now masturbate at least 3 times a week, I go in my room after looking at masturbation and porn sites and sometimes put on a porno. I take my clothes off and get in bed. I usually begin by putting a vibrating dildo in me and rubbing it around. It isn't very powerful and never makes me cum but it does get me going. I then get wet and put a plug in body vibrator and rub it around my clit. It doesn't take long for my pussy to start throbbing and it feels so good. I cum so quickly. I love the feeling when I cum but it doesn't' last very long and I want to do it over and over but my clit is to sensitive. Any suggestions?

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Jenny

I'm surprised that no-one has mentioned where they masturbate. Because my earliest masturbation experiences date from my schooldays where I used to do it in the toilet, I have got a fascination for masturbating in this place. Quite often when I am at work, or just out, I feel the urge coming on and I head for the ladies' room. I must have had 100's of orgasms sitting in cubicles, and I know I'm not the only one. At least one house-mate from younger days used to do in the toilet which was next to my bedroom, and I could clearly hear her ( it usually got me going as well). Also in public rest-rooms I've overheard quite obvious orgasms from adjacent cubicles, even though there have been attempts to stifle them. Everyone knows that guys do it in there, but how many women would own up to it as well. I'd be interested to hear.

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Gin

Okay, I am relatively new to the masturbation game. I have been married 10 years and never cum with my husband. He was my first lover and he isn't very imaginative. So what got me started masturbating? Well, to be honest a friend sent me copies of a show called Red Shoe Diaries. And I was totally aroused by the character Jake. In a scene where he does it to her from behind. He looked so wild and so-intense that I couldn't help myself. I started touching myself and thinking about the actor, David Duchovny, and the way he looked. How he possessed her.

I fantasize about that actor and about people I meet or see that look as though they would possess me that way. I have tried to get my hubby to be more aggressive but I guess that masturbation is the only way I'll cum. Until I can get my husband to feel openly about masturbation.

If anyone knows how I can get the things these other women talked about. Please let me know.

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Grace

I am 19 and have been masturbating for almost a year now, it is soooooooo good to be able to make myself come. My favorite technique is simple, using my fingers to rub until I come. I would love to have a female friend to do this with.

I fantasize about being outside in the bushes while my lover is trying to hide ourselves, so that others don't see. He is saying, "Don't make any noise," but ohhhh it is hard not to when I come all over his sexy body.

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May

My name is "May", That is the month I was born in. I have been masturbating since I was seven years old, and I am 38 now. It started out from a bad experience. I was walking to the park when I was seven, and a man asked me to help him find his daughter's purse with him. Dumb me ! ! ! You know all the things your parents tell you about strangers when you are little. Well, I should have listened more closely. I went with him, and he took me down the railroad tracks to this deep ditch, and commanded me to pull down my panties to my knees, pull up my dress to my waist, and spread my thighs apart. He knelt down in front of me and very tenderly pulled my outer lips apart and started to lick me between my inner lips, and my clitoris. It was an unexplainable, beyond excellent sensation. (I was the kind of girl who didn't even know anything existed "Down There"). I was also scared beyond anything I have ever been before that, and since that. He stopped for a minute to ask me where I lived, and I lied through my teeth to him. He started licking again, and I told him I had to go to the bathroom really bad. He said to hold it in and it would feel even better and went back to licking me. (I held it in tight, and it did feel even better). I put up a huge fuss about having to go to the bathroom, and needing to get home right away, so he stopped, and let me go. I didn't reach an orgasm, but I knew if I would of let him continue, something I can only describe as "Breaking Through" was going to happen. I ran all the way home and hid in my bedroom until I got called down for supper, but I couldn't eat, I was so terrified that the man would find me again. He never did. I could not get the wonderful feeling he gave me out of my mind, and it was only two days after that when I started to touch myself down there. I would get so frustrated because I could not get that "Release" I knew should come. I had one of my friends rub me with the side of her hand between my legs, that felt really good, but didn't work. I didn't discover the bathtub faucet until about two weeks later, and oh my gosh, it was exactly what I needed. I had my first orgasm, and it was like rockets shooting in the air. I thought I would never be able to breath again. It took my breath away. It was so amazingly wonderful. I was hopelessly addicted after that. I would come home from school everyday and get into the bathtub and have a fabulous orgasm. It relieved so much of the stress in my life at that time. It was really effective therapy.

Of course, as time went on, I became more imaginative, and creative, and learned how to use my fingers, and other objects to achieve an orgasm. I love to go to the grocery store and find a nice big cucumber for penetration, but be sure to wash it really well before you use it. I always like to apply something like Sex Grease or another water soluble lubricant before penetration, even if I am already nice and juicy. After I insert the cucumber, I like to pull apart my lips really far so the skin of my clitoral hood is pulled really tight and then I just rub my clitoris through the hood, and I have the most spasmodic orgasms that last about 30 seconds. If I have a lot of time, and I am home alone, I will let my sensitivity decrease a bit and I will bring myself to another, and another, and so on until I am too exhausted to go on, or I am totally satisfied. I don't think I could ever be "totally" satisfied though.

I have fantasies while I masturbate also, and my favorite one is with another woman. I would really love to be able to get and give oral sex with a woman. I think it would be so perfect.

May's reaction to this incident including the sexual pleasure she experienced is normal and occurs much more often that we may be led to believe. To get an understanding as to why read the page that addresses sexual abuse.

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May's Follow Up E-mail

 

Thank you for your response, and thoughtful email. Our bodies are incredible wonders of nature. It took me a long time to overcome what happened to me at seven, even though the experience was pleasurable on a physical level, it was terrifying on an emotional and mental level.

I believe sharing my experience will allow and help others who might of had similar experiences understand it wasn't their fault, they didn't do anything wrong, and it is ok to acknowledge that it was a pleasurable experience, even though it occurred under very terrifying circumstances. I know my life was changed forever after the experience. I had irreversibly lost my innocence at seven. I saw the world in different colors after that.

I can say on a positive note this was the only childhood sexual experience I had, so I was a lot more fortunate then a lot of the women I have spoken with. I didn't allow that man to continue to have power and control over my life once I was old enough to understand the mind/body connections. He stole my innocence, that is all he is going to be allowed to take away from me. We must all be sexualized at some point in our lives. Mine just happened a little sooner then it was supposed to.

In closing, I would like to say how much I really appreciate the website. It was a really informational and positive way to explain and celebrate female sexuality. I hope it will be a great help to younger and older women alike for a very long time. We are never too old to discover the wonderful orgasmic abilities of our body. Thank you for taking the time to respond to my email on a personal level.

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