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Questions & Answers - Arousal and Orgasm

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Adult Onset of Orgasm

• When women learn how to experience orgasm as an adult, is their ability to experience orgasm different than it is for those who learned to experience orgasm as a child or adolescent?

Arousal

• Is it normal to find the sight a naked boy sexually arousing?

• What is all this clear fluid coming from my vagina?

• Should a girl know when she is sexually aroused?

• Please help, I'm sixteen and cannot get sexually aroused.

• I have a female partner and I don't enjoy having sex with her, what can I do to correct this?

• What are signs of vasocongestion of the face during arousal?

• I need help, I always feel sexually aroused?

• I am totally frustrated by and unsatisfied with partnered sex and need some advice?

• Could my possible thyroid condition be the reason why I have trouble becoming aroused and seldom have a menstrual period?

• I am not experiencing sexual desire and find it hard to become aroused when masturbating? (Addresses sexual desire and perception of sexual arousal.)

• I experience increased wetness without warning, can you explain why? (Addressed spontaneous arousal and cervical fluids)

• Will frequent sexual arousal harm me and will my coworkers know that I am frequently sexually aroused?

• Why don't I become sexually aroused when I fantasize?

• Why doesn't my wife's clitoris become fully erect and is this why it takes so long for her to experience orgasm?

• What do you mean by "sexually compatible," and I am not satisfied with my experience of sex and orgasm.

• What options exist that will increase my level of lubrication, pleasure, and desire?

• Why am I losing my arousal during intercourse?

• Why is my bladder so connected to my experience of sexual arousal and desire?

• How do I bring about the same level of sexual arousal that I experience during my wet dreams, during my other sexual activities?

• Why can't I ever get aroused?

Changes in Orgasmic Response

• What can I do to regain my orgasms? (Information about testosterone)

• What has happened to my wife's sexuality now that she is a mother of two and has a thyroid condition?

• What affect will hysterectomy have on my wife's sexuality?

• Why was I able to experience orgasm while taking a medication but not before or after?

• Why do I feel pain just prior to orgasm?

• Why are my orgasms unfulfilling now?

• I have been having trouble experiencing orgasm for some time while masturbating and now it occurs sometimes during partnered sex.

• Can you explain why I haven't been able to experience orgasm during partnered sex since I have become pregnant?

• I'm 22 and don't experience sexual arousal as strongly as I once did, can you explain why?

• Can you explain why I was able to experience orgasm five years ago but cannot do so now?

• I'm no longer able to experience orgasm during intercourse when I'm on the bottom, after my boyfriend and I broke up, but got back together again, can you explain why?

Crying & Laughing - Emotional Responses During Sex

• Why do I sometimes start crying during intercourse?

• Why did I start crying when I was having sex during my period?

• Can you explain why I start laughing when my partner stimulates my clitoris?

• Why do I sometimes cry while masturbating?

Faking Orgasm

• I was sexually abused by my father but am now reclaiming my sexuality, but have been faking orgasm with my partner, can you help me?

• I have been faking orgasm with my partner, how to I steer him the right direction without telling him this?

• I can experience orgasm during masturbation but have been faking it during partnered sex with my current and past partners, can you help?

How to Have an Orgasm

• Why is my girlfriend unable to have an orgasm?

• How can I give my girlfriend an orgasm?

• I am trying to learn how to experience orgasm, can you help?

• I am having trouble learning how to experience orgasm, could you answer some questions? Multipart discussion addressing several topics, including bicycle riding, arousal, desire, sensitivity, and hooded clitorises.

• I enjoy intercourse and partnered sex but do not experience orgasm, can you help me?

• I need help learning to masturbate to orgasm using only my fingers and are larger breasts more sensitive?

• I need some advice on how to experience orgasm. (A shared experience rather than a presentation of new answers.)

• I am not experiencing sexual desire and find it hard to become aroused when masturbating? (Addresses sexual desire and perception of sexual arousal.)

• I am experiencing sexual pleasure but am I experiencing orgasm?

• Can you help me locate my urethra, and experience my first orgasm?

• I have a phobia concerning my vulva, and my clitoris becomes too sensitive and my legs shake uncontrollably during partnered sex, how do I experience orgasm?

• I learned to masturbate was by crossing my legs and squeezing them tightly together, how do I learn to experience orgasm by stimulating my clitoris?

• I learned how to experience a "tickle" as young girl, but don't know how to experience orgasm, can you provide any suggestions?

• The problem is that I'll get aroused, and feel one wave of pleasure, then my clit will become so sensitive that it is uncomfortable to touch and I can't continue.?

Impaired Orgasmic Response

• Why is my girlfriend unable to have an orgasm?

• Why have I only been able to masturbate to orgasm twice in two years?

• Why can't I have an orgasm and what is this white sticky stuff?

• I cannot arouse my wife, what can I do?

• New to partnered sex, experiencing pain and orgasmic impairment, please help.

• I'm 16 and cannot masturbate to orgasm, is there something wrong with me?

• I am having difficulty experiencing orgasm and could use some advice.

• I am totally frustrated by and unsatisfied with partnered sex and need some advice.

• I need some advice, I'm eighteen, taking an antidepressant, and cannot experience orgasm?

• Is it possible the medication (Birth Control, Depakote & Risperdal) I am taking is preventing me from experiencing orgasm and what caused my leg to twitch?

• I am not experiencing sexual desire and find it hard to become aroused when masturbating? (Addresses sexual desire and perception of sexual arousal.)

• I need some advice, my arousal goes away so I cannot experience orgasm alone and with my partner.

• Is my masturbation technique of putting my legs together and crossing my ankles the reason why I do not experience orgasm with my partner?

• I have been masturbating for years by rubbing my vulva against things but cannot experience orgasm, do you have any advice for me?

• We are both college students, can you explain why my girlfriend hasn't experienced orgasm in two years?

• I could use some advice, my clitoris is insensitive, my urethral orifice is sensitive, and I can only experience orgasm through thigh tension.

• Why cannot my girlfriend have an orgasm or engage in vaginal penetration?

• Please help, I can only experience orgasm by rubbing my vulva against a pillow or my partner?

• Help, I'm seventeen and get sexually aroused by do not experience orgasm during masturbation or partnered sex.

• I can only experience orgasm while masturbating with a vibrator or water spray, could the birth control pill or PCOS be the cause?

• Help, I can only experience orgasm when I masturbate but not during partnered sex?

• I was sexually abused by my brother and can now only experience orgasm during masturbation, can you explain why?

• I can masturbate to orgasm but have never been able to experience orgasm with any of my girlfriends, can you help? (Two Year Followup - More Questions)

• Help, I can only experience orgasm while masturbating on my stomach, not during intercourse?

• I'm 45 and have never had an orgasm, is there a chance that I ever will?

• Help, I can masturbate to orgasm but can't experience orgasm during partnered sex.

• Why doesn't my wife's clitoris become fully erect and is this why it takes so long for her to experience orgasm?

• What do you mean by "sexually compatible," and I am not satisfied with my experience of sex and orgasm.

• Why can I masturbate to orgasm but can't experience orgasm with my partner, even if I masturbate.

• Can you explain why the only times that I have had an orgasm during intercourse has been after being "played" (BDSM) by my ex-boyfriend.. (Explores how physical activity and mild stress and anxiety may facilitate sexual arousal and orgasm.)

• Did masturbating while watching online videos cause me to be unable to orgasm during partnered sex?

• I'm preorgasmic, are my childhood experiences with another girl the cause?

• I'm 22 and don't experience sexual arousal as strongly as I once did, can you explain why?

• I'm a young woman who doesn't experience the sexual pleasure other women describe in their shared masturbation techniques and experiences on your website, can you explain why?

• My girlfriend doesn't experience much vaginal lubrication, I have trouble entering her during intercourse, and we engage in partnered sex infrequently, can you explain why?

• Help, I can only experience orgasm while using a vibrator, and have been faking orgasm during partnered sex?

• Can you help me locate my urethra, and experience my first orgasm?

• I'm 41 years old and preorgasmic, are my three cesarean sections the possible cause?

• I'm 42 years old, I need some advice on experiencing my first orgasm.

• I was basically just wondering if there is such a thing as a girl who can not experience orgasm.

• Why was I able to experience orgasm more easily while masturbating in the past, and why can't I experience orgasm during partnered sex now, even though I find it very pleasurable?

• Why are there times when I cannot experience orgasm, and is it normal for your vagina to push your partner's penis out during orgasm?

• I cannot experience orgasm during masturbation and partnered sex, can you provide some advice?

• I can experience orgasm during masturbation but have been faking it during partnered sex with my current and past partners, can you help?

• Regardless of whether I'm using a dildo, vibrator or my hand, I can only orgasm whilst lying on my belly, can you help?

• Why is it that when I masturbate I experience twitching, jerking, and female ejaculate, but cannot experience orgasm?

• My girlfriend experiences full arousal but not orgasm during partnered sex, what should I do?

• I'm 28, have never been very orgasmic, and now find masturbating to orgasm even more challenging, do you have any additional suggestions?

• I'm 20 and have never experienced orgasm, but enjoy sex with my partner, can you help me?

• I'm 24 and may have experienced orgasm, but I'm not sure, did I?

• I'm 23 and new to partnered sex, how can I experience orgasm?

• I learned to masturbate by rubbing against a table, how can I experience orgasm during sex with my partner?

• My girlfriend is having and increaslingly difficult time experiencing orgasm during partnered sex, what should we do?

• Help, I can masturbate to orgasm, become very aroused during partnered sex, but can't experience orgasm with my partner.

• During sex, my girlfriend becomes highly aroused, but at the point of orgasm, the arousal goes away, do you have any suggestions?

• I'm 18 and have never experienced orgasm during masturbation or partnered sex, do ou have any suggestions?

• I can only experience orgasm while masturbating by rubbing my vulva against an object I am holding tightly between my thighs, how do I learn how to have orgasms through other activities?

• I'm 17 years old and cry myself to sleep after unsuccessfully attempting to masturbate to orgasm, what should I do?

• I've never experienced orgasm while masturbating and I'm finding that using a vibrator is produces less stimulation the more I use it, what should I do?

• If I require direct clitoral stimulation to experience orgasm, how do I experience orgasm during intercourse and partnered sex?

• I may have experienced orgasm at the age of 5, and today, but I don't perceive that I did or do experience orgasm, can you help?

• Can an antidepressant like Paxil prevent orgasm?

• I can experience sexual arousal, but don't experience pleasure and orgasm during sex.

• Why can't I ever get aroused?

• Do you have any advice for a woman who has had a double mastectomy and a total hysterectomy, including the cervix and ovaries?

• I love sex but do not experience sexual arousal, can you help?

• I can masturbate to orgasm but my boyfriend can't stimulate me to orgasm, and it is frustrating both of us, can you help?

• In the past 6 to 12 months I haven't been able to orgasm with my boyfriend, before that I was only able to orgasm with him if I used my vibrator, and the resulting orgasms weren't as intense or strong as when I masturbate alone.

• Lately, I get increasingly worried about my ability to orgasm during intercourse.

• The problem is I feel uncomfortable when I masturbate, I just can't get myself in the mood and I feel awkward, but when my boyfriend touches me, it feels great and I like it a lot.

• I find partnered sex slightly enjoyable but don't desire sex and experience difficulty becoming sexually aroused, and have never experienced orgasm, can you explain why?

Lubrication

• Why does my vagina dry out during intercourse?

• What is all this clear fluid coming from my vagina?

• If we do not have access to K-Y Jelly, is there something else we can use?

• I am totally frustrated by and unsatisfied with partnered sex and need some advice?

• I experience increased wetness without warning, can you explain why? (Addressed spontaneous arousal and cervical fluids)

• What causes fluid to flow from my vagina the day after I masturbate?

• Is there anyway to reduce the amount of wetness or lubrication I experience during sexual arousal?

• What options exist that will increase my level of lubrication, pleasure, and desire?

• I'm concerned about the length of my vagina and the lack of vaginal lubrication when sexually aroused?

• I produce too much lubrication during intercourse, which results in decreased pleasure for me, do you have any suggestions?

• Can Bupropion and Quetiapine decrease the amount of lubrication a woman experiences?

• Why does it hurt when my boyfriend tries to insert his finger into my vagina?

• At what age do girls first become slippery wet during sexual arousal?

Miscellaneous

• Why don't I ejaculate like other girls?

• What was that device on Oprah and tell me more about clit pumping.

• How do I overcome my sheltered childhood?

• Do women have wet dreams too?

• At thirty-seven I am discovering my sexuality and need some advice.

• My orgasms do not last very long...is that normal?

• Why do I shake and why does my clitoris become too sensitive when I try to masturbate to orgasm?

• I need help, I always feel sexually aroused?

• What happened to the video clip that use to be on the page about female orgasm?

• I can only experience orgasm if I fantasize about severe domination and this is a problem for me and my boyfriend what can I do?

• How much does a normal girl moan/scream during orgasm?

• Help, my 23 year old girlfriend had her first orgasm yesterday using a vibrator but even after 12 orgasms wasn't able to release all her sexual tension.

• Do all women ejaculate when they have a G-Spot orgasm?

• Can you explain why I lose my hearing, go deaf, when I masturbate to orgasm?

• Is it possible to have an orgasm while having a bowel movement?

• I have a question about making noises during sexual activity.

• Why do I fart when I experience orgasm?

• Why is my girlfriend shivering and incapacitated during sex?

Multiple Orgasms

• How can I experience multiple orgasms when I masturbate?

• Should I have intercourse immediately after orgasm or wait? Does this affect my ability to have multiple orgasms?

• Why does my clitoris hurt so badly after orgasm that I can't have multiple orgasms?

• Can you explain why I can only experience a maximum of three orgasms during a sexual experience?

• Can you explain why my arousal goes away after my first orgasm?

• Can you provide some guidance when it comes to having multiple orgasms?

• Are all women capable of multiple orgasms during sex, specifically during prolonged intercourse?

• How do I make my orgasms stronger?

Premature Female Orgasm

• Have you ever heard of women experiencing orgasm too quickly?

Sensations Associated with Arousal and Orgasm

• Why am I so sensitive and feel the need to pee?

• Why do I pee when I feel like I'm about to have an orgasm?

• I peed when I tried to have an orgasm and what is this sticky white stuff?

• Is my girlfriend's clitoris suppose to tickle and feel awkward after orgasm?

• I'm fourteen, what is up with all these new sexual feelings, and why don't they go away?

• What caused the wetness and shaking?

• Why is my vagina contracting after orgasm and causing discomfort?

• Why were my nipples sensitive but not now?

• My orgasms are only physical in nature, there is no mental arousal, and they are weak, can you help me?

• I need help, I always feel sexually aroused?

• Why does the sensations associated with sex and orgasm feel differently when I engage in partnered sex compared to when I masturbate?

• Why are my experiences of arousal and orgasm during masturbation and partnered sex so different from one another?

• When I engage in sex with my girlfriend she experiences lightheadedness, dizziness, tingling in her arms and legs and around her lips, muscles spasms, and her skin becomes pale, moist, and cool to the touch?

• Why do I feel the need to have a bowel movement when I  masturbate?

• Can you explain why my nipples use to be super sensitive to stimulation but now are numb to stimulation?

• Is there different types and strengths to orgasm? Do all orgasms feel the same?

• I have some questions and concerns about female ejaculation and a vaginal ache during sexual arousal.

• While I experience vaginal lubrication I have trouble feeling stimulation during sex, any suggestions?

• On waking I am experiencing spasms that center around my clitoris, can you explain why?

• Why am I experiencing a burning sensation and female ejaculation when I have sexual thoughts?

• How do I address my intense physical arousal at school and on the bus?

• Why is my bladder so connected to my experience of sexual arousal and desire?

• I'm an 18 year old female and I recently experienced a very strange orgasm and was wondering if you could shed some light on it for me.

• Why do I experience two types of sexual experiences, one that is pleasurable and another that isn't?

Sensitivity to Sexual Stimulation

• Why is my wife's clitoris insensitive but other areas too sensitive?

• What doesn't my girlfriend respond to nipple stimulation?

• Did masturbating desensitize my clitoris?

• My clitoris is very sensitive, what's wrong?

• Is my girlfriend's clitoris suppose to tickle and feel awkward after orgasm?

• Why was I able to experience orgasm while taking a medication but not before or after?

• I need some advice, my clitoris becomes intensely sensitive to the point that I can't bear my partner to touch it any longer.

• I experience orgasm during G-Spot stimulation but not clitoral stimulation, am I normal?

• I need some advice, I am sixteen, taking  Prozac and Synthroid, and cannot experience orgasm during masturbation or partner sex.

• Did blunt force trauma damage my clitoris?

• Did my vertical hood piercing or taking Beta-Blockers desensitize my clitoris?

• I am not experiencing sexual desire and find it hard to become aroused when masturbating? (Addresses sexual desire and perception of sexual arousal.)

• I need some advice, my clitoris is hidden within the hood and my vagina is large, which prevents me from experiencing sexual pleasure.

• Can you explain why my nipples use to be super sensitive to stimulation but now are numb to stimulation?

• My breasts are frequently very tender throughout my menstrual cycle, can you explain why? When my partner stimulates them during sex I feel pain rather than pleasure.

• Did wearing a bra desensitize my breasts? 

• Did I damage my clitoris while masturbating with my fingers?

• Is there a connection between long term antibiotic use or a change in birth control pills and a decrease in clitoral sensitivity?

• Will breastfeeding permanently change the sensitivity of my nipples?

• Help, I'm seventeen and get sexually aroused by do not experience orgasm during masturbation or partnered sex.

• I'm 22 and my clitoris is not very sensitive to stimulation, what should I do?

• I'm sixteen and while I experience sexual arousal I'm not experiencing sexual pleasure during masturbation and partnered sex, can you explain why?

• What can I do or what can I buy to make my clitoris from being so ticklish?

• Why does clitoral stimulation sometimes cause me to pee?

• Why isn't my clitoris as sensitive as it once was, why has my scent changed, and why did I miss my period for several months?

• Can you explain why I become overly sensitive to touch following orgasm, which I experience very quickly?

• Can you explain why I'm only sensitive to vaginal stimulation?

• The problem is that I'll get aroused, and feel one wave of pleasure, then my clit will become so sensitive that it is uncomfortable to touch and I can't continue.?

Time to Reach Orgasm

• I take too long to reach orgasm, what can I do?

Vaginal Stimulation and Orgasm

• Is vaginal stimulation really the best?

• Why doesn't vaginal stimulation sexually arouse my girlfriend?

• Is there a chance I will ever experience orgasm during intercourse?

• Why doesn't my girlfriend find vaginal stimulation enjoyable?

• A woman's questions about female orgasm and intercourse.

• Should I have intercourse immediately after orgasm or wait? Does this affect my ability to have multiple orgasms?

• Why was my wife able to experience vaginal orgasm in the past but not now?

• I experience orgasm during G-Spot stimulation but not clitoral stimulation, am I normal?

• I am totally frustrated by and unsatisfied with partnered sex and need some advice?

• I need some advice, my clitoris is hidden within the hood and my vagina is large, which prevents me from experiencing sexual pleasure.

• I have recently experienced my first orgasm and need advice on clitoral and vaginal stimulation and the use of a vibrator.

• So my question is, is it normal not to orgasm if you don't rub your clit?

• I haven't been able to experience orgasm as a result of a partner's efforts at stimulating me, but I'm wondering if a new sensation during vaginal intercourse is a vaginal orgasm, or something else? (Addresses sensations associated with deep penetration and possible cervical stimulation.)

Vibrators

• I can only reach orgasm when I use a vibrator, what can I do to change this?

• I have some questions and concerns about using a vibrator?

• I have some concerns, I can only reach orgasm using a vibrator.

• I have recently experienced my first orgasm and need advice on clitoral and vaginal stimulation and the use of a vibrator.

• I can only experience orgasm while masturbating with a vibrator or water spray, could the birth control pill or PCOS be the cause?

• Help, my 23 year old girlfriend had her first orgasm yesterday using a vibrator but even after 12 orgasms wasn't able to release all her sexual tension.

• Help, I can only experience orgasm while using a vibrator, and have been faking orgasm during partnered sex?

What Does an Orgasm Feel Like?

• How does a girl know if she has had an orgasm?

• Did I have an orgasm?

• Did I experience orgasm, and why no partnered sex for pre-orgasmic women?

• I am experiencing sexual pleasure but am I experiencing orgasm?

• Did I experience an orgasm, and do women ejaculate even when there isn't G-Spot stimulation?

• During G-Spot stimulation I felt intense pleasure and experienced shaking throughout my body, did I experience orgasm?

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