Arousal and Orgasm
Arousal
Is it normal to find the sight a naked boy sexually arousing? Answer
What is all this clear fluid coming from my vagina? Answer
Should a girl know when she is sexually aroused? Answer
Please help, I'm sixteen and cannot get sexually aroused. Answer
I have a female partner and I don't enjoy having sex with her, what can I do to correct this? Answer
What are signs of vasocongestion of the face during arousal? Answer
I need help, I always feel sexually aroused? Answer
I am totally frustrated by and unsatisfied with partnered sex and need some advice? Answer
Could my possible thyroid condition be the reason why I have trouble becoming aroused and seldom have a menstrual period? Answer
I am not experiencing sexual desire and find it hard to become aroused when masturbating? (Addresses sexual desire and perception of sexual arousal.) Answer
I experience increased wetness without warning, can you explain why? (Addressed spontaneous arousal and cervical fluids) Answer
Will frequent sexual arousal harm me and will my coworkers know that I am frequently sexually aroused? Answer
Why don't I become sexually aroused when I fantasize? Answer
Why doesn't my wife's clitoris become fully erect and is this why it takes so long for her to experience orgasm? Answer
What do you mean by "sexually compatible," and I am not satisfied with my experience of sex and orgasm. Answer
What options exist that will increase my level of lubrication, pleasure, and desire? Answer
Why am I losing my arousal during intercourse? Answer
Why is my bladder so connected to my experience of sexual arousal and desire? Answer
How do I bring about the same level of sexual arousal that I experience during my wet dreams, during my other sexual activities? Answer
Changes in Orgasmic Response
What can I do to regain my orgasms? (Information about testosterone) Answer
What has happened to my wife's sexuality now that she is a mother of two and has a thyroid condition? Answer
What affect will hysterectomy have on my wife's sexuality? Answer
Why was I able to experience orgasm while taking a medication but not before or after? Answer
Why do I feel pain just prior to orgasm? Answer
Why are my orgasms unfulfilling now? Answer
I have been having trouble experiencing orgasm for some time while masturbating and now it occurs sometimes during partnered sex. Answer
Can you explain why I haven't been able to experience orgasm during partnered sex since I have become pregnant? Answer
I'm 22 and don't experience sexual arousal as strongly as I once did, can you explain why? Answer
Can you explain why I was able to experience orgasm five years ago but cannot do so now? Answer
I'm no longer able to experience orgasm during intercourse when I'm on the bottom, after my boyfriend and I broke up, but got back together again, can you explain why? Answer
Crying & Laughing - Emotional Responses During Sex
Why do I sometimes start crying during intercourse? Answer
Why did I start crying when I was having sex during my period? Answer
Can you explain why I start laughing when my partner stimulates my clitoris? Answer
Faking Orgasm
I was sexually abused by my father but am now reclaiming my sexuality, but have been faking orgasm with my partner, can you help me? Answer
I have been faking orgasm with my partner, how to I steer him the right direction without telling him this? Answer
I can experience orgasm during masturbation but have been faking it during partnered sex with my current and past partners, can you help? Answer
How to Have an Orgasm
Why is my girlfriend unable to have an orgasm? Answer
How can I give my girlfriend an orgasm? Answer
I am trying to learn how to experience orgasm, can you help? Answer
I am having trouble learning how to experience orgasm, could you answer some questions? Multipart discussion addressing several topics, including bicycle riding, arousal, desire, sensitivity, and hooded clitorises. Answer
I enjoy intercourse and partnered sex but do not experience orgasm, can you help me? Answer
I need help learning to masturbate to orgasm using only my fingers and are larger breasts more sensitive? Answer
I need some advice on how to experience orgasm. (A shared experience rather than a presentation of new answers.) Answer
I am not experiencing sexual desire and find it hard to become aroused when masturbating? (Addresses sexual desire and perception of sexual arousal.) Answer
I am experiencing sexual pleasure but am I experiencing orgasm? Answer
Can you help me locate my urethra, and experience my first orgasm? Answer
Why is my girlfriend unable to have an orgasm? Answer
Why have I only been able to masturbate to orgasm twice in two years? Answer
Why can't I have an orgasm and what is this white sticky stuff? Answer
I cannot arouse my wife, what can I do? Answer
New to partner sex, experiencing pain and orgasmic impairment, please help. Answer
I'm 16 and cannot masturbate to orgasm, is there something wrong with me? Answer
I am having difficulty experiencing orgasm and could use some advice. Answer
I am totally frustrated by and unsatisfied with partnered sex and need some advice. Answer
I need some advice, I'm eighteen, taking an antidepressant, and cannot experience orgasm? Answer
Is it possible the medication (Birth Control, Depakote & Risperdal) I am taking is preventing me from experiencing orgasm? What caused my leg to twitch? Answer
I am not experiencing sexual desire and find it hard to become aroused when masturbating? (Addresses sexual desire and perception of sexual arousal.) Answer
I need some advice, my arousal goes away so I cannot experience orgasm alone and with my partner Answer
Is my masturbation technique of putting my legs together and crossing my ankles the reason why I do not experience orgasm with my partner? Answer
I have been masturbating for years by rubbing my vulva against things but cannot experience orgasm, do you have any advice for me? Answer
We are both college students, can you explain why my girlfriend hasn't experienced orgasm in two years? Answer
I could use some advice, my clitoris is insensitive, my urethral orifice is sensitive, and I can only experience orgasm through thigh tension. Answer
Why cannot my girlfriend have an orgasm or engage in vaginal penetration? Answer
Please help, I can only experience orgasm by rubbing my vulva against a pillow or my partner? Answer
Help, I'm seventeen and get sexually aroused by do not experience orgasm during masturbation or partnered sex. Answer
I can only experience orgasm while masturbating with a vibrator or water spray, could the birth control pill or PCOS be the cause? Answer
Help, I can only experience orgasm when I masturbate but not during partnered sex? Answer
I was sexually abused by my brother and can now only experience orgasm during masturbation, can you explain why? Answer
I can masturbate to orgasm but have never been able to experience orgasm with any of my girlfriends, can you help? Answer (Two Year Followup Questions)
Help, I can only experience orgasm while masturbating on my stomach, not during intercourse? Answer
I'm 45 and have never had an orgasm, is there a chance that I ever will? Answer
Help, I can masturbate to orgasm but can't experience orgasm during partnered sex. Answer
Why doesn't my wife's clitoris become fully erect and is this why it takes so long for her to experience orgasm? Answer
What do you mean by "sexually compatible," and I am not satisfied with my experience of sex and orgasm. Answer
Did masturbating while watching online videos cause me to be unable to orgasm during partnered sex? Answer
I'm preorgasmic, are my childhood experiences with another girl the cause? Answer
I'm 22 and don't experience sexual arousal as strongly as I once did, can you explain why? Answer
I'm a young woman who doesn't experience the sexual pleasure other women describe in their shared masturbation techniques and experiences on your website, can you explain why? Answer
My girlfriend doesn't experience much vaginal lubrication, I have trouble entering her during intercourse, and we engage in partnered sex infrequently, can you explain why? Answer
Help, I can only experience orgasm while using a vibrator, and have been faking orgasm during partnered sex? Answer
Can you help me locate my urethra, and experience my first orgasm? Answer
I'm 41 years old and preorgasmic, are my three cesarean sections the possible cause? Answer
I'm 42 years old, I need some advice on experiencing my first orgasm. Answer
I was basically just wondering if there is such a thing as a girl who can not experience orgasm. Answer
Why was I able to experience orgasm more easily while masturbating in the past, and why can't I experience orgasm during partnered sex now, even though I find it very pleasurable? Answer
Why are there times when I cannot experience orgasm, and is it normal for your vagina to push your partner's penis out during orgasm? Answer
I cannot experience orgasm during masturbation and partnered sex, can you provide some advise? Answer
I can experience orgasm during masturbation but have been faking it during partnered sex with my current and past partners, can you help? Answer
Regardless of whether I'm using a dildo, vibrator or my hand, I can only orgasm whilst lying on my belly, can you help? Answer
Why is it that when I masturbate I experience twitching, jerking, and female ejaculate, but cannot experience orgasm? Answer
My girlfriend experiences full arousal but not orgasm during partnered sex, what should I do? Answer
I'm 28, have never been very orgasmic, and now find masturbating to orgasm even more challenging, do you have any additional suggestions? Answer
I'm 20 and have never experienced orgasm, but enjoy sex with my partner, can you help me? Answer
I'm 24 and may have experienced orgasm, but I'm not sure, did I? Answer
I'm 23 and new to partnered sex, how can I experience orgasm? Answer
I learned to masturbate by rubbing against a table, how can I experience orgasm during sex with my partner? Answer
My girlfriend is having and increaslingly difficult time experiencing orgasm during partnered sex, what should we do? Answer
Help, I can masturbate to orgasm, become very aroused during partnered sex, but can't experience orgasm with my partner. Answer
During sex, my girlfriend becomes highly aroused, but at the point of orgasm, the arousal goes away, do you have any suggestions? Answer
I'm 18 and have never experienced orgasm during masturbation or partnered sex, do ou have any suggestions? Answer
Lubrication
Why does my vagina dry out during intercourse? Answer
What is all this clear fluid coming from my vagina? Answer
If we do not have access to K-Y Jelly, is there something else we can use? Answer
I am totally frustrated by and unsatisfied with partnered sex and need some advice? Answer
I experience increased wetness without warning, can you explain why? (Addressed spontaneous arousal and cervical fluids) Answer
What causes fluid to flow from my vagina the day after I masturbate? Answer
Is there anyway to reduce the amount of wetness or lubrication I experience during sexual arousal? Answer
What options exist that will increase my level of lubrication, pleasure, and desire? Answer
I'm concerned about the length of my vagina and the lack of vaginal lubrication when sexually aroused? Answer
Miscellaneous
Why don't I ejaculate like other girls? Answer
What was that device on Oprah and tell me more about clit pumping. Answer
How do I overcome my sheltered childhood? Answer
Do women have wet dreams too? Answer
At thirty-seven I am discovering my sexuality and need some advice. Answer
My orgasms do not last very long...is that normal? Answer
Why do I shake and why does my clitoris become too sensitive when I try to masturbate to orgasm? Answer
I need help, I always feel sexually aroused? Answer
What happened to the video clip that use to be on the page about female orgasm? Answer
I can only experience orgasm if I fantasize about severe domination and this is a problem for me and my boyfriend what can I do? Answer
How much does a normal girl moan/scream during orgasm? Answer
Help, my 23 year old girlfriend had her first orgasm yesterday using a vibrator but even after 12 orgasms wasn't able to release all her sexual tension. Answer
Do all women ejaculate when they have a G-Spot orgasm? Answer
Can you explain why I lose my hearing, go deaf, when I masturbate to orgasm? Answer
Is it possible to have an orgasm while having a bowel movement? Answer
I have a question about making noises during sexual activity. Answer
Why do I fart when I experience orgasm? Answer
Why is my girlfriend shivering and incapacitated during sex? Answer
How can I experience multiple orgasms when I masturbate? Answer
Should I have intercourse immediately after orgasm or wait? Does this affect my ability to have multiple orgasms? Answer
Why does my clitoris hurt so badly after orgasm that I can't have multiple orgasms? Answer
Can you explain why I can only experience a maximum of three orgasms during a sexual experience? Answer
Can you explain why my arousal goes away after my first orgasm? Answer
Can you provide some guidance when it comes to having multiple orgasms? Answer
Are all women capable of multiple orgasms during sex, specifically during prolonged intercourse? Answer
How do I make my orgasms stronger? Answer
Premature Female Orgasm
Have you ever heard of women experiencing orgasm too quickly? Answer
Sensations Associated with Arousal and Orgasm
Why am I so sensitive and feel the need to pee? Answer
Why do I pee when I feel like I'm about to have an orgasm? Answer
I peed when I tried to have an orgasm and what is this sticky white stuff? Answer
Is my girlfriend's clitoris suppose to tickle and feel awkward after orgasm? Answer
I'm fourteen, what is up with all these new sexual feelings? Answer
What caused the wetness and shaking? Answer
Why is my vagina contracting after orgasm and causing discomfort? Answer
Why were my nipples sensitive but not now? Answer
My orgasms are only physical in nature, there is no mental arousal, and they are weak, can you help me? Answer
I need help, I always feel sexually aroused? Answer
Why does the sensations associated with sex and orgasm feel differently when I engage in partnered sex compared to when I masturbate? Answer
Why are my experiences of arousal and orgasm during masturbation and partnered sex so different from one another? Answer
When I engage in sex with my girlfriend she experiences lightheadedness, dizziness, tingling in her arms and legs and around her lips, muscles spasms, and her skin becomes pale, moist, and cool to the touch? Answer
Why do I feel the need to have a bowel movement when I masturbate? Answer
Can you explain why my nipples use to be super sensitive to stimulation but now are numb to stimulation? Answer
Is there different types and strengths to orgasm? Do all orgasms feel the same? Answer
I have some questions and concerns about female ejaculation and a vaginal ache during sexual arousal. Answer
While I experience vaginal lubrication I have trouble feeling stimulation during sex, any suggestions? Answer
On waking I am experiencing spasms that center around my clitoris, can you explain why? Answer
Why am I experiencing a burning sensation and female ejaculation when I have sexual thoughts? Answer
How do I address my intense physical arousal at school and on the bus? Answer
Why is my bladder so connected to my experience of sexual arousal and desire? Answer
I'm an 18 year old female and I recently experienced a very strange orgasm and was wondering if you could shed some light on it for me. Answer
Sensitivity to Sexual Stimulation
Why is my wife's clitoris insensitive but other areas too sensitive? Answer
What doesn't my girlfriend respond to nipple stimulation? Answer
Did masturbating desensitize my clitoris? Answer
My clitoris is very sensitive, what's wrong? Answer
Is my girlfriend's clitoris suppose to tickle and feel awkward after orgasm? Answer
Why was I able to experience orgasm while taking a medication but not before or after? Answer
I need some advice, my clitoris becomes intensely sensitive to the point that I can't bear my partner to touch it any longer. Answer
I experience orgasm during G-Spot stimulation but not clitoral stimulation, am I normal? Answer
I need some advice, I am sixteen, taking Prozac and Synthroid, and cannot experience orgasm during masturbation or partner sex. Answer
Did blunt force trauma damage my clitoris? Answer
Did my vertical hood piercing or taking Beta-Blockers desensitize my clitoris? Answer
I am not experiencing sexual desire and find it hard to become aroused when masturbating? (Addresses sexual desire and perception of sexual arousal.) Answer
I need some advice, my clitoris is hidden within the hood and my vagina is large, which prevents me from experiencing sexual pleasure. Answer
Can you explain why my nipples use to be super sensitive to stimulation but now are numb to stimulation? Answer
My breasts are frequently very tender throughout my menstrual cycle. Can you explain why? When my partner stimulates them during sex I feel pain rather than pleasure. Answer
Did wearing a bra desensitize my breasts? Answer
Did I damage my clitoris while masturbating with my fingers? Answer
Is there a connection between long term antibiotic use or a change in birth control pills and a decrease in clitoral sensitivity? Answer
Will breastfeeding permanently change the sensitivity of my nipples? Answer
Help, I'm seventeen and get sexually aroused by do not experience orgasm during masturbation or partnered sex. Answer
I'm 22 and my clitoris is not very sensitive to stimulation, what should I do? Answer
I'm sixteen and while I experience sexual arousal I'm not experiencing sexual pleasure during masturbation and partnered sex, can you explain why? Answer
What can I do or what can I buy to make my clitoris from being so ticklish? Answer
Why does clitoral stimulation sometimes cause me to pee? Answer
Time to Reach Orgasm
I take too long to reach orgasm, what can I do? Answer
Vaginal Stimulation and Orgasm
Is vaginal stimulation really the best? Answer
Why doesn't vaginal stimulation sexually arouse my girlfriend? Answer
Is there a chance I will ever experience orgasm during intercourse? Answer
Why doesn't my girlfriend find vaginal stimulation enjoyable? Answer
A woman's questions about female orgasm and intercourse. Answer
Should I have intercourse immediately after orgasm or wait? Does this affect my ability to have multiple orgasms? Answer
Why was my wife able to experience vaginal orgasm in the past but not now? Answer
I experience orgasm during G-Spot stimulation but not clitoral stimulation, am I normal? Answer
I am totally frustrated by and unsatisfied with partnered sex and need some advice? Answer
I need some advice, my clitoris is hidden within the hood and my vagina is large, which prevents me from experiencing sexual pleasure. Answer
I have recently experienced my first orgasm and need advice on clitoral and vaginal stimulation and the use of a vibrator. Answer
So my question is, is it normal not to orgasm if you don't rub your clit? Answer
Vibrators
I can only reach orgasm when I use a vibrator, what can I do to change this? Answer
I have some questions and concerns about using a vibrator? Answer
I have some concerns, I can only reach orgasm using a vibrator. Answer
I have recently experienced my first orgasm and need advice on clitoral and vaginal stimulation and the use of a vibrator. Answer
I can only experience orgasm while masturbating with a vibrator or water spray, could the birth control pill or PCOS be the cause? Answer
Help, my 23 year old girlfriend had her first orgasm yesterday using a vibrator but even after 12 orgasms wasn't able to release all her sexual tension. Answer
Help, I can only experience orgasm while using a vibrator, and have been faking orgasm during partnered sex? Answer
What Does an Orgasm Feel Like?
How does a girl know if she has had an orgasm? Answer
Did I have an orgasm? Answer
Did I experience orgasm, and why no partnered sex for pre-orgasmic women? Answer
I am experiencing sexual pleasure but am I experiencing orgasm? Answer
Did I experience an orgasm, and do women ejaculate even when there isn't G-Spot stimulation? Answer
During G-Spot stimulation I felt intense pleasure and experienced shaking throughout my body, did I experience orgasm? Answer
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