Question: This is a technical and practical question based on pure naiveté... I am dating a man but we don't see each other very often and so have a wonderful correspondence via e-mail most of the time where we indulge in fantasizing about what we want to do together next time we meet. One thing he says is he'd love to cum on various parts of my body, my breasts, my butt, my face. Now this is where I sound completely inept, but what do people do with the cum in this case? Wipe it off? Rub it into the skin? I'd ask him myself but I don't want to sound so naive! It sounds fun and it sounds like it would be so pleasurable for him and us both.

Answer: I guess it comes down to personal choice. It can be kind of messy, but many rub it into their body, it won't hurt you. When it dries though it may not be very pleasant. At some point, you will probably want to wash it off. That may be immediately or in the morning. Try it to see what works for you. You can keep a damp wash cloth near by, or baby wipes, just in case. You both can jump in the shower and rinse off too, or wait until morning to do the same. If you find that you don't like for him to do this you can certainly ask that doesn't.