Question:I’m nearly 14 years old and I want to try masturbation. The problem is, I don’t have enough time, because there are always people around me. Is it ok to masturbate when you are in the bath, and how long does it take until you reach orgasm?

Answer: Teens and women frequently masturbate while taking a shower or bath. Using water spray is a common way of masturbating. You can simply use your fingers and hands too. Some reach orgasm quickly while others take longer. I would hate to set a time limit. The main thing is to relax and explore pleasure not orgasm. Your body has likely gone through many changes recently and is still changing. You need to discover how you body works, and what feels good to you. If you only have five minutes of privacy at a time, then enjoy those five minutes. If you share your room, you can still explore under the covers. Do not forget to get your mind involved by fantasizing about something you find sexually arousing.