Question: I've enjoyed much of your webpage and have learned a lot but I been having a problem. After my girlfriend has an "orgasm" and I continue to rub her clitoris, is it suppose to tickle and feel awkward? I'm wondering what happens to a woman after she has an orgasm and how her body reacts to it, will she lose her sex drive?

Answer: It is common for women to find their clitoris to be extremely sensitive after orgasm and to dislike for it to be directly touched at this time. Apply extra lubricant and simulate her inner and outer lips for a few minutes before stimulating her clitoris directly, following orgasm.

While a woman may feel more relaxed after orgasm, her desire for sex may or may not change. It just depends on the woman and the situation. A woman's desire for sex is for the most part controlled by the hormone testosterone.