Shared Female Masturbation Techniques and Experiences: Collection 25

Liz

After reading some of the other women's techniques, I feel less afraid to share what I do. Well I'm seventeen years old and I have a boyfriend that I've been dating for over a year. Well the sex is good but, sometimes I would rather just be with myself.

I used to use a bottle of mascara but, that seemed small to me. Now I used a candle that I taped till it got fatter, then put a couple pieces of plastic wrap over it. Actually that ain' t bad.

I also rub my index finger over my clit a few times, that feels really good. Sometimes I like to imagine one of my ex's or a guy I still think is hot, but shhhhh, don't tell my boyfriend. lol

Lola

I started masturbating when I was around 12. Me and my best girlfriend, we slept in my bed, and suddenly she took a pillow and put it between her legs. She moaned and later screamed. I was afraid what she was doing but she went on and told me to do the same. I did and it really pleased me. Then I couldn't stop masturbating until now (I am 19).

But I have a problem, maybe someone else feels this way: I can only get an orgasm by laying on my belly and rubbing clit etc. but not by laying on my back!! Its really strange and I don't know why.

Other women report sharing this experience of only being able to masturbate to orgasm while laying on their stomach. The article about Outercourse touches on this subject.

Passion

I am a 46 year old woman who has been masturbating regularly since I was eight or nine. There are many, many ways in which I like to masturbate -- lying on my back with my knees apart, the soles of my feet pressed together, squatting, so my cunt swings low and wide open, sitting up in bed with my knees apart and a small mirror in front of me, sitting down on a hard chair and grinding my cunt against the seat, kneeling on all fours and penetrating myself from behind with a dildo or hard object, etc., etc. But one of the best ways is the morning after sex. My husband and I usually have sex last thing at night in bed. He knows me well and knows exactly how to touch my clit and penetrate me with his fingers or lick me with his tongue, so I reach orgasm. Then, when I am good and wet and have come, he enters me with his cock, often doggie style from behind, going in long and deep or else scissor style, so we are both on our sides, facing each other and he can play with my nipples and I can squeeze his balls or put my finger into his anus. His style of fucking varies from gentle or slow to very hard and fast. It depends on how horny he feels. The penetration and the movement of his cock inside me often take me to another orgasm, but this one is usually less strong than the first one. Then we fall asleep. Next morning, I wake up with my cunt hungry for attention. I feel my clit enlarged and hard. When it is engorged like this, it comes out a centimeter or so from the shaft, the tip of the glans red and glistening. I reach down and find my whole cunt wet and hot. Still lying in bed, I part my legs and caress my lips. I use one hand to touch my breasts and nipples and the other to tease my clit. In that state of semi-wakefulness, all covered up still with the bedclothes, I like to explore and stroke my throbbing cunt. Slowly, I rub my vulva, especially that extra sensitive bit just above and below the clit, I take my time. I put two or three fingers into myself and finally work myself up going faster and faster into the most delicious of orgasms. Then, to finish off, I put my fingers in my mouth and taste my own juices.

Marie

I'm 40, and only recently "discovered" my clitoris. I've been masturbating since I was about 6, but I didn't know that's what I was doing. I used to hump the corner of my bed, and still do. When I was a teenager, I used to use hairbrush handles and stuff like that as a dildo. I remember propping up a mirror and watching my pussy as I masturbated, when I was about 15. A bunch of liquid came gushing out, and I thought I had peed. It felt so amazing, and nasty too, but I was kind of scared that I had lost control like that. I had read about how clitoral stimulation was supposed to be wonderful, but I couldn't find mine, no matter how much I looked, so for me it was all about penetration. I had never touched myself when I was younger, because my mom once said it was "delicate."

Debbie

I was 6 when I first remember that rubbing myself felt good! I used to sit in the bathtub and put my pussy up to the faucet and let the water cascade on me until I had an orgasm.

Later on in life we got a hand held shower and I used it on myself every day. I told my sister about it and now we do it together.

Amy

I like to start by rubbing my pussy through my panties. I have a silk pair that I especially like. Once I start to feel a tingle I turn over on my stomach. I reach down and continue to rub my pussy through my panties. My other hand I use to slide down the inside of my panties in back. I stick my butt up in the air and while still rubbing in the front I reach as far as I can down the crack of my butt. I slowly stroke by butt crack up and down. At this point I can't stand it anymore and have to remove my panties. I then plunge two fingers into my soaking pussy. I thrust them in and out "fucking" my self. I then have finish myself off by stroking madly on my now swollen clit. I come to a mind blowing orgasm, my pussy pulsing.

Martina

Thank you for this site. It's really helping me!

I'm 25, started masturbating at 7 with a stuffed doll...humping a stuffed animal or a pillow has been my favorite method until I lost my virginity (at 16). Once in a while I enjoy penetration while I'm stimulating my clit with a brush handle, or with my hands. I bought a vibrator some weeks ago and it feels great...but never feels better for me than humping something. I like to control movements and feeling something slippery against my clit and labia is wonderful.

I have difficulties reaching orgasm during intercourse but my boyfriend is caring and we found out other ways...

Anonymous

First of all I start rubbing my nipples, then pour some baby oil on them, and gradually the rubbing is over my whole breast, then I put the oil all over my body, I slide my hands down to my inner thigh and start rubbing there, then I spread my legs as far apart as I can get them, and stick my vibrator in, almost instant orgasm.

Sammy

Unlike most other children, I always found touching myself "down there" quite revolting.

I don't exactly when or where, but at about 12, I discovered masturbation.

But, I never really orgasmed until I was 13 1/2, after I got my period.

I only knew about the vagina, which was probably hindering me.

Once I found out about my clitoris, and spotted it, it opened a whole new world.

I convinced my father to buy a handheld massager for me and used that for my pleasure.

I still use that same technique today!

Rub myself for about 5 minutes and then turn on the massager.

It's cheap and effective!

But, if you use it too often, you'll desensitize, so depending on how horny I get, I'll usually use it every 4-5 days.

The longer you wait to do it again, the better it feels!

Horny Little Devil

I am now 21, but at the age of 3 I remember having a certain pillow that I used to always sleep with, between my legs. to this day I still need something between my legs pushing against my pussy to sleep. At the age of 6 I met this girl who used to come to town just for the summer. Me and her would kiss like they did in the movie "Grease", and eventually kissing lead to touching, which led to full blown nude humping, rubbing each others pussies. eventually after a couple times of this I hit orgasm, she did too, and we couldn't have enough of each other. Sadly she moved for good and I never saw her again. To this day, I masturbate whenever I get the chance. I love rubbing my clit and licking my nipples at the same time. I also have a vibrator and a 12 setting shower head. And oddly enough, as much as I need something between my legs to sleep, I've never humped a pillow, so I just tried it and WOW!!! Amazing... thanx girls.! I love this site, and am glad to see I am not so strange after all.

Anonymous

I think I was about 4-5 when I started masturbating, (I might have been even younger but my parents didn't tell me and I'm not about to ask so I just went by the age I remember) of course I didn't know that's what I was doing, never the less, I know it felt really, good, I would do it at school (in 2nd and 3rd grade) rather than doing my work (but staying a straight A student). I have always hid things from my parents, I don't know why, but I have always kept everything possible from them, so when my teacher talked to my mom about what I was doing in class I got the "its not bad, but don't do it near other people" talk. And my mom called it humping, so until last year I wasn't really sure what I was doing which created some confusion on my part, it would have been easier if they (my parents) had just told me that it was called masturbation, not humping, but oh well.

But I still do the exact same thing to reach--well I'm not really sure if its an orgasm, but it feels rrreeeaaallllllyyy good-- your probably wondering what I do? well....

I lie on my right side in the fetal position (on side legs curled) and I put my left hand "down there" cupped around it all and begin rubbing my hand back and forth and I move my left leg (I'm not really sure how but I just do it) to make more friction. Because I move my hand so vigorously my clit is being teased (going from being covered, to not, back and forth) When its all mixed together it makes a great sensation :)

(By the way, thanks to everyone who has shared their stories on here too, it helps me get wet) And apparently typing about it does too (help me get wet).

Alyssa

I love to masturbate. What I do, is when I am alone, I lay on my bed, and I have a mirror by my bed and that stimulates me, and while on the bed I undress my self in a sexy way, and when I am fully undressed, I put my right index and middle finger and my my clit, I star slowly and then get faster. While doing that I slowly move my left middle finger into my vagina and wiggle it around, that starts my orgasm.

Anonymous

I have been masturbating since I was about 11. I think the best way to masturbate is with either a removable shower head or a faucet. I love to get into my bathtub and get the shower all steamy. Then I put my pussy under the water. I usually start cumming within 3 minutes. I move around a lot, but I also like to spread my lips apart with my two index fingers. I've noticed that my lips are really sensitive and it feels extremely good to touch them. I can have multiple orgasms that way, and I do it almost every night.

Anonymous

Hi, I'm happy to have found this site.

I'm from Sweden, and I like to dress up in lacey and a bit romantic underwear with matching high stockings - the whole kit. :-)

Then I fantasize about these super cute, and nerdy geeky virgins (no offence! this is a fantasy, my fantasy) forcing me to masturbate before them.

Usually I tie my legs together at the ankles with belt or something so they are spread open but I can close them a bit. I don't like the idea of being fully exposed, therefore I keep my underwear on. Then I roll my quilt or a pillow to a nice, hard size, laying on my stomach with the hard bump between my legs and hump against it. Sometimes I wear a blindfold.

Orgasm every time when doing that since 2004 :---D

Good luck with sex & masturbation! ? (Sorry if the English sucked)

Love, from Sweden.

Anonymous

I love masturbating. I am 19 years old and have been masturbating for as long as I can remember. I starting watching porn on the net when I was 13, but I was afraid my parents would find out so I stopped. I usually hump/grind a pillow when I masturbate. Sometimes I touch myself, my tits and my clit until I get really horny and wet and then I grind my clit on a pillow really hard with my whole body tensed up. I've never had sex before, because I want to save it for marriage, and so does my boyfriend (for religious reasons). But we both masturbate together and it's amazing!!

Oh, and one time I put a condom I had over a banana and shoved it up my pussy pushing in and out while grinding on a pillow at the same time... and that was the best orgasm I've ever had... amazing. Well I'm going to go masturbate now, because just thinking about it is making my super wet.

Karen

Like many girls I started masturbating at a very young age. I guess I was only about 5 years old. I would rub myself on just about anything that made me feel good down there. At puberty, my mother gave me "the" talk. I was embarrassed and uncomfortable with the whole concept of sex, but I was intrigued by masturbation. I had endless questions about what, where and how. Finally, my mother swore me to utter secrecy and then gave me a practical demonstration of the ways a woman could pleasure herself. What an eye opener that was! I masturbated to orgasm that night in bed and have done so every night since.

My favourite position is lying flat on my back naked. I start by caressing my legs, arms and stomach before moving onto my breasts and nipples. I love to suck and lick my own nipples and always start with the more sensitive left side, then the right and finally both together. If I am really in the mood, this activity alone can cause me to orgasm. After about ten minutes of sucking I am usually quite wet. I bring me knees up to my chest and I reach my right hand around my thighs to get unrestricted access to my genitals. I usually insert my index and middle fingers all the way in and use them to caress the front wall of my vagina behind the pubic bone. My thumb is then in contact with the area near my clit. My hood is pierced with a bar which provides additional stimulation if needed. I will usually masturbate in this way for 45 minutes to an hour each night until I have had one or more orgasms.

Occasionally, as I near orgasm, I will roll onto my side so I can squeeze my thighs together while use my fingers hard and fast inside like a penis. When I am pre-menstrual, I tend to have an increased sex drive. In this situation I will put extra fingers in my vagina or slide my ring finger into my anus for added stimulation. If I'm really in the mood, and have the time to enjoy the experience, I will fist myself to orgasm. I generally lie in front of a mirror when fisting as masturbation then becomes a visual as well as physical and mental experience.

I have never felt the need to use sex toys when masturbating. For me, masturbation is a time to be intimate, sensual and pleasurable to myself. I guess I regard masturbation as having sex with myself, therefore, my main focus is on the achieving a vaginal orgasm rather than a purely clitoral orgasm. I am bi-sexual and occasionally fantasize about guys but my main fantasy's involve me having sex or masturbating with other women. I am fortunate that these fantasy's often become reality.

Sweetsyren

Hi, I just found this site interested to share my masturbation experience. I am hyper when it comes to sex, and I love masturbating. Oh my it makes me in good condition and releases all my pressures, stress and emotions. I love to watch porn movies and videos, I get wet easily, I massage my clit and thinks I am being licked and fuck and that makes me cum and wet. I did also when I am taking a bath or put the host on clits and see the water shoot out, it tickles me and then I come..what a nice feeling...

Thank you, I thought at first this is not normal that I'm doing this. But upon reading from other comments I feel better.

Mikaela

Howdy! My name is Mikaela, I'm a proud Aussie. Something I'm not to proud of, though, is the fact that I masturbate. Although EVERY site about the subject says that it's perfectly healthy, most people still think is weird and gross. I personally have been masturbating since I was about 5 or 6, since I looked through my mother's "Body Book" and read about the clit. Since then, I touch myself at least once a day and I get an orgasm every time I try, and have since I was 5. I don't often fantasize but I often find it hard to enjoy as much as time goes on. I have often masturbated with the shower head of faucet, and often inserted random objects. I also can get multiple orgasms one after the other for as long as I like. I usually use my hand and rub my clit area and stick a finger or 2 inside me. Orgasms are fun! I don't understand how people can frown down on masturbation! If anything, it should be encouraged, less girls will opt for young sex and risk infection and pregnancy! I love to touch myself, it makes me feel good and self confident.

Anonymous

Hi, I have been masturbating for about a year. I used to grab both my lips and squeeze them together. It felt really good. Then I started getting interested in sexual activities and I found this site. I have tried a lot, and created some of my own. One is I lay in my bed, usually at night, then I think about somebody licking me all over. I stick my hand on my crotch and simulate "oral pleasure" by gently tickling myself over my underwear. Then when I get really wet I slowly remove my panties and gradually stoke the hood. (I find that if I touch my clit directly I twitch all over which I don't like doing, others might). By this time I am really wet. Then I think of a naked women dancing or stripping in front of me. I don't think I'm a lezbo, but I don't know could you tell me?

Brenda

I love to masturbate and I masturbate often. I have been masturbating since I was 5. I started exploring myself one day and realized that I really liked the way it felt. I tried varied techniques then from stuffed animals to wet cloths to fingers massaging a very swollen clit to discovering the joys of massagers! By my adulthood my masturbation increased to twice a day. Just before getting out of bed then just before sleep. I have used so many things to get off it is not even funny, from ribbed condom covered thick cucumbers as dildos to battery operated toothbrushes in the shower or bathtub, rubbing mentholated toothpaste on my pussy (the icy sting is such a rush as it touches my clitty and then rubbing it in mmmmmmmm...it makes my pussy tingle thinking about it) teddy bears and very warm towels fresh out of the dryer (rub that against you for about 3 maybe 4 minutes and just feel that rush! It is intense!!! Humping it on the floor having it stuffed hard against my swollen pussy is pure heavenly bliss) I also still use my fingers probably more than the good stuff which I savor for weekends when I can lay in bed for 2 hours and give my pussy hot attention......mmmmm yea) but I start by massaging for a bit. Get it warm and saying ok you have my attention, I have rather large boobs (38DD) so I can suck my own titty. So I will suck one titty and massage the other titty. Pretty soon my clit is throbbing so I stop sucking my titties and rub my knee, in me it is an erogenous zone. I rub it while I find a comfortable spot. I then lay down and place my third finger right hand on my clit. I rub my clit for a few and then move my finger to the opening of my hole. There are some very sensitive areas there and if I am hot already it makes me pulsate. I then insert a dildo or cucumber which rubs against that area and getting me off inside too, my other hand finger meanwhile is rubbing my clit. In a few I am in ecstasy. It feels so good that I just look forward to it eagerly and in fact I am gonna do it now!

Anonymous

I felt like giving myself a sensual treat today, so I took the hairdryer and blew warm air all over my body. I started with my arms and chest (I was wearing a short nightgown and no panties), moved to my back and than my legs beginning at my feet moving slowly upwards, finally blew the air carefully on my butt and private parts. It felt really nice cause the bathroom was quite chilly (I didn't turn the dryer on it's highest level though) and I got in a very sensual mood, it was like taking a shower but without getting wet, and the different temperatures of the air in the room and the warm air coming from the dryer made my body sensitive to other stimulation.

I have read a lot about masturbating in the shower here on this site, so I decided to try it and sat in the tub, directing the stream of water on my clit. Well, it was ok but didn't take me far. I guess I'm just too used to humping pillows, a method that I invented when I was very little and that still works every time. The most important thing is a good fantasy though, I'll dream about guys eating me out and then fucking me slowly, I came like this really good today. Still, I might give the shower head another try someday.

Sarah

Hi, I am sixteen years old and have been masturbating as long as I can remember. The technique I use is lying on my stomach, legs apart, and I make a fist with my hand but have my thumb on the side. Then I rub my thumb nail on the flat side against my clit in circles pressing hard. While I am doing this I have to like stretch my legs. This works great and everything but that is the only way I can cum. I have to be in that position or I can't cum. I have tried lying on my back and sticking something in me, but it only causes me to have to pee.

Unfortunately I can't cum during oral, or anything so it makes my sex life boring.

Thank you!

Mandy

Well I just learned how to masturbate about two weeks ago. I originally found out how from a guy in my class. We were at school and we were looking at one of those funny sites and one of the jokes mentioned masturbating, and when I asked him, he told me to go home and rub myself "down there" so I did. All I do is rub myself through panties and after a while it feels really good. This is the first time I've visited this site and I think I'll go try some of these techniques. Ya'll have fun! Bye

Amanda

I love to masturbate when I can't have sex. I go to bed wet and in the morning I wake up wet. Sometimes I will wear tight pants without undies so that my clit can press hard against the crouch of my pants. But, I can visualize a cock that is hard and ready to be inserted in and start rubbing my clit until it is very big and juices are running out my vagina. I ball up my comforter and rock and roll on it until I can feel my toes curl and cummmm very hard. I love masturbating and fingering my anus making my vagina very tight and cummmmminnggg just enjoying it until I can get the penis. LOLOL

Angel

Sit on your knees with one had behind you for support. Wet the fingers of the other hand and start rubbing your clit the way you like. While rubbing, squeeze your thighs together, relax, and squeeze tightly. Keep rubbing your clit and squeezing your thighs until you climax. Orgasm can be experienced quickly when I use this technique!

Anonymous

I'm 16 and I've only been masturbating for about a year or so and I really enjoy it. I don't remember how I first started (my memory really sucks) and I've been doing it whenever I get the chance. I usually start by massaging by breasts and lightly pinching my nipples. Thing is, I can lick at them too and this really, really goes a long way. If I have something cold (usually a bottled/unopened can of something), I usually lightly touch it to my nipples to get them really hard (or if I'm outside on a cold night) and flick my thumb over them. Then, while sitting somewhere, I slide my hand between my legs and move a finger in small circles over my clit. I come in like 1-3 minutes, it depends on what I'm fantasizing about (usually a really sexy dude fucking my brains out). If I feel like penetration, I go with my old black hair-brush. I clean it along time ago and never use it so, hey, it works.

I have just recently tried the shower technique. I came in a minute and it was sooooooooo wonderful. Not really much more to say. my fantasy now is of my boyfriend and I'm not going into details (hehe). This site is wonderful, I LOVE it!

Anonymous

I start by reading stories like these to get me in the mood. Just writing this is really setting me off. I have tried many varieties like the bath faucet, the screwdriver, straddling the coiled phone cord, the fluffy blush brush tickling my clit, but since I was young I always enjoyed the spelling bee! What is that? I finger myself, writing the alphabet on my clit using my own vaginal lubricant. I take my time on the i's and o's and sometimes write the word 'masturbation'. I often masturbate in front of a small pocket makeup mirror. I enjoy wrapping a large beaded bracelet around my clit, making sure it hangs around the opening of my vagina and start my vibrator. Oh, wow, I have to try this again, I am now too horny to write! I will continue reading your stories, so please give me more ideas!

Dani

I masturbate in the shower. I take the nozzle and turn it on massage and open the labia and pretend to have sex. I sometimes sit on the side of the tub and do it.

Anonymous

I get wet reading the techniques...

I love the feeling of reaching orgasm and when I cum, I sigh and moan so much and I can feel the wetness in my underwear... I dream of someone stroking my clit and kissing it... then I cum really hard.

Masturbation Freak!

I started masturbating about a year ago. I love that warm sensation in between my legs. I love humping pillows, and sticking things into my wet pussy. I fantasize about my boyfriend sneaking into my house at night and just raping me! I love to get in the shower with very romantic music and let the water hit my clit. I know I sound a bit weird but sometimes I think about how good it would feel to have all of my closest friends and have a teen lesbian porn movie! HUGE TURN ON! I get a shampoo bottle sometimes and wrap it around a towel. I put it on top of the lid of the toilet and rub, rub, rub! But sometimes my pussy hurts and burns and I check down there and my clit gets bigger and red. Sometimes I can't even walk because I have that horrible (not satisfying) burning sensation on my clit! Is that normal?? And well I haven't really gotten wet yet, or had sex still a virgin so I have no idea what feels better, my finger or a dick!

The short term discomfort and swelling could be an indication of irritation caused by tight clothing, over indulgence, poor hygiene, or if persistent an infection.

Anonymous

It feels so good and lovely so soft and wet. Masturbate your clitoris with your right hand and your index finger and it feels good !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ruby

Hi I'm Ruby and I started masturbating when I was around 11 years old. I masturbate 2 or 3 times a day.

The first time ever had an orgasm was when I was watching a film called 'A Nightmare On Elm Street'. It showed two teenagers having sex and before I knew it I was playing with my pussy using my fingers.

I've never actually used many different items to masturbate, I usually use my fingers and anything around me that fits.

When I first discovered the pleasure I could receive from touching my pussy, I did it much more often, using the internet as a guide. Sometimes, when I was horseback riding, I used to trot a lot because when you rise in the saddle, it can give you really fantastic sensations!

Just reading and writing this is making me hungry for a orgasm so I might just go for a session in the bathroom!

cyaah xx :)

Anonymous

Hey, I have been reading this site for the past two weeks or so, and I am in love with it! It gets me so in the mood to read everyone's fantasies & techniques. I thought I'd share some of mine. (:

I have been masturbating for as long as I can remember, I've always been a sexual child. I just knew that it felt good, and that is all that mattered. To this day I still occasionally use the technique I used as a child. I also knew that it was "bad" to do in front of people, and such. I always remember fast forwarding movies as a child to sex scenes, and getting that throbbing sensation between my legs, my clit begging to be stroked. I can remember a few experiences proving my sexual interest as a child;

~ For a week or two, my best friend at the time would come over to my house. We'd go in my camper parked in my driveway and play "house." Then, we'd close all the blinds, and first we'd do "eeny-meeny-miney-mo," to see who was "husband" & "wife". She always made it so I was the husband. We'd strip ourselves, then lay on the little pull-out bed. We'd stroke our bodies, ever so gently, giggling. I could feel my vagina pulsating. As much as I wanted to, I couldn't reveal my little secret to her. After a while of playing, I knew she was getting bored as I was getting more and more into it. So that game wore itself out, sadly.

~ I was still little, and my mom's best friend had a son my age. We'd always been best friends. We lived across the street from each other. I remember asking him "Do you know what sex is?" I thought I knew it all just from what I'd seen on tv. I didn't know at all, actually. He replied no. So I said "Its when you get naked and lie on top of one another. Wanna do it?" (told you I didn't know at all haha.) He said "sure." So we stripped down, and laid next to each other. I was fascinated by his little penis, wanting to touch it so bad. I didn't, in fear of getting caught, we quickly dressed once again.

~ In more recent times, when I was about 10 or 11, me and my cousin were inseparable. We were the same age, so we told each other everything. She was the only one I ever revealed my masturbating secret to. After both admitting we got horny easily. We decided to play a little game. We dared each other to do "things." For example, one dare was "kiss OPEN MOUTHED." I found it very weird & wet, and we both didn't know what we were doing. Another example is I got on all fours, she took her underwear off and she started grinding her vulva on my back. I was surprised when my back got wet and sticky. "Ewwwwww, what's this?!!!" I exclaimed. my cousin shrugged, for we both had no idea! haha. Still horny, I got another "great" idea. We made our way up to her room. Where we lay in her twin bed. I said, "pull your pants down" she smiled, pulling them down quickly. I took my hand and grabbed her vulva, palm on top, fingers brushing the inside. She gasped, closing her eyes. I continued to do this. She occasionally said "I like that." or "That feels good." And then she did the same to me. I did not find satisfaction, because she obviously had never masturbated and didn't know what she was doing.

Currently, I masturbate in long sessions only when I am home alone, right when I get home from school. Short sessions I just do under a blanket where no one can see. I believe I have never cummed or had an orgasm, sadly. Women describe their orgasms as "warmth washing over them," and surges of pleasure. I never get that, sadly. It feels good, but not orgasmic good. I just feel relief afterwards. & tired.

My masturbating technique has been the same since I was a child. I don't particularly like it, but I find any other way is hard. First, I get really horny, until I can feel my clit begging. Then either I take my pants off or just shove my hand down there, (depending on if people are home or not.) I lie on my stomach and flex my leg muscles to put pressure on my clit, then I move my clit around with my finger. I feel a strong build up, small amounts of pleasure, never enough to make me moan or anything, and then I feel relieved. Lately, I have tried using electric tooth brushes, which is extremely pleasurable. I'm trying to broaden my horizons and try as much different things as possible, because I feel my own technique is not working well for me.

I enjoy fantasizing to get me horny before a masturbating session. I imagine telling my best friends at a sleep over in a game of truth or dare, daring them to take an electric toothbrush and put it on their clit. After they're hot and bothered, I "bet" them I can make them orgasm. then, I go to one of them, who firmly denies I'll be able too, secretly wanting me to touch and play with her pussy. I take my index finger and roll it across her clit quickly, teasing her, she moans in response. I take the electric toothbrush and roll it in circles on her clit while she moans, aching for more. I lick her clit quickly in fast motions, while tracing designs on her inner thigh. I slurp her juices as she trembles in orgasmic pleasure. I am triumphant.

To also turn me on, I frequently watch porn. I love watching women orgasm. I often look up women having masturbating sessions of their own. (that's how I came across this site! haha.) I am not a lesbian, none whatsoever, but I dream of the day that I'll be able to have a women pleasure me, because we know so much better than men what our bodies are like, and it could be awfully orgasmic. ;)

Thanks for listeninggg! Love the site, and I hope I made lotsa people horny, heck, I made myself horny. :)

Anonymous

I just recently found your site and I must say that it is quite informative. I think it's great that we can share all these very personal things with each other. I just had to come in and write about how I pleasure myself. I love to just be home alone, I need to have some "quiet" time to play with myself. I have been masturbating since I was about 11 and have loved it since. I love to just feel myself getting wetter and wetter by the second. I usually just lock the door to my room, lay on my back and pull down my panties. First, I play with my nipples to get them hard, by then I'm pretty aroused. Then slowly move my hand down to my vulva. I play with my lips and gently brush my finger past my clit. Once I've played with the area outside of my vagina, I push my middle finger inside myself. I feel the wetness and lubricate myself over my clit. Once my clit is wet, I circle it slowly. I start to go faster and faster, my heart starts beating and my breathing gets really heavy. When I get closer to orgasm, my back arches and I moan... When the orgasm hits me hard, I come and put my fingers inside my vagina and feel it contracting. I haven't had multiples yet but hope it happens soon. I'm so turned on right now that I think I might have to have some time to play with myself.

Thank you for letting me express this.

E

What works every time for me (and has, since I was five) is when someone is playing slow blues on an electric guitar. I usually lie on my stomach, fully clothed, and massage my clit and the surrounding area with my hands, fingers a bit outstretched. It's when the guitar player hits a high note and makes a vibrato that I cum hard. A fantasy of mine is that my clit is a guitar, and a sexy woman is playing me, making me "sing."

Justina

I have been masturbating since I am about 11 or 12, I am 46 now. I am a lesbian and currently single. My first memories of masturbating came after times I was spanked by my mother. For some reason unknown to me at the time when my mother would make me pull down my pants and underwear instead of becoming frightened I became embarrassed at the thought of her seeing my pussy because I secretly liked it. After my spanking I would be sent to my room where I would quickly get under my covers and pull my panties back down and frantically masturbate with a stuffed toy while I imagined being spanked again. As an adult I like masturbating mostly on the weekends when I am relaxing around the house and don't have to rush. I usually begin by just walking around naked which automatically heightens my arousal. Sometimes I will go into lesbian chat room about spanking and/or incest which gets me very wet. When I am ready to cum I will insert an object into my pussy and put on panties to hold it in place. Then I usually lay in bed on my stomach with a pillow between my legs and my panties pulled down a little just off my ass so it is exposed as if I'm ready to be spanked. I have the best orgasms gently rocking back and forth in this position with my pussy filled and my ass exposed while I fantasize about being exposed and spanked by a dominant female.

Meni

Well, what can I say. I was an early bloomer, if that's what you could call it.

I distinctly remember sitting on the beach, watching my friends play in the water too terrified to go in because of my always inappropriately timed "monthlies," which none of my friends seemed to get :( So, I became aware of my body in full earlier then my friends. Growing up in a.. semi open minded household, my questions about sex never went unanswered but there was only one opportunity to ask them, and I wouldn't dare ask anything further from sheer embarrassment on my behalf.

So when I stumbled upon my clit, it was one of those "should I ask.. should I not ask" occasions.

I was 9 years old, underneath the stairway in what I used to call the "Harry Potter" room which housed our computer. I was busily searching through my dad's internet for a site for school when all of a sudden a pop up came up for a lesbian porn site, I clicked, and woah. All these ladies touching bits I thought were decorative ;) So I gave it a try. I didn't get to orgasm but I could remember feeling tingly and slightly out of breath.

A few weeks later on one of those regular 'girlie' sleep overs you have with your best friend, I told her about this website and she confessed that she'd seen her brother one one of those sites, and he was touching himself. I told her I touched myself too, and she told me she did too, only in bed at night. So right then and there (don't you love being young and carefree:) ) we stripped down to our panties and lay there, fondling bits and innocently trying to see what worked best. I had my first mind blowing orgasm that night, followed by my best friend (who I'm still close with today).

These days I think I'm addicted to masturbation (if there is a thing). I can't get off when my boyfriend fingers me, so I've decided to have a weekend dedicated to showing each other how we like it so it's easier (and more pleasurable) to get off ;).

I lay back on my bed after a good long porn session, or after being on this site ;) full of fresh ideas. I spread my lips apart and rub my clit slowly, relaxing my body. I have a dildo that's only short which I like to insert right up [fully] into me (don't worry it comes out fine) and I lay there, with the vibrator in my pussy on full throttle rattling around the walls of my vagina. By this time I'm pretty much soaking wet, and my clit is nice and big so I take my other smaller vibrator and press it against my clit. I have to be careful not to wake my boyfriend up (not really but I find it more arousing to do it while he's asleep, it's like a game.. I'm sure if he knew I was getting off next to him and he wasn't invited to at least watch he'd be kinda annoyed :P) as I bring myself to orgasm I always (I don't know why) grab onto his arm or his hand.. Which wakes him and more often then not he has a raging boner..

I don't know why I feel the need to hold his hand when I climax, maybe it's because of the vulnerability I feel whilst exposing everything I feel is sacred to me directly to him.

Thanks for letting me get this off my chest :)

Meni.

Hannah

Hi, love masturbating. I've never had a boyfriend and I'm home schooled. I only started about a year ago. I have this huge stuff bear and I would stuff its "nose" into my pussy. I would rub back and forth until I lost control and masturbated. Moaning so loud.

If I'm not really turned on I watch Porn. Cytherea is so hot when she squirts. So I'd start rubbing my clit and moaning. I run into my room, lock the door (I'm embarrassed about it and sorta ashamed) and start ridding my bear.

I've had one orgasm. I was rubbing my clit. I stuck my finger up in my vagina deep (it hurt I'm a virgin) so slowly taking it back up I only stuck it up a little while rubbing my clit. I got really warm and all of a sudden I was dripping wet. It was the most amazing feeling ever.

Have fun finding the sexual you :D

Lou

I'm 27 and like all you other sexy ladies on here...I love masturbating! There is nothing better than a nice long wank when you're feeling a little bit naughty! I have several techniques that I use regularly - my favourite is the classic showerhead one - on my back in the bath with the shower nozzle turned to the jet setting and gushing against my clit - I love it! I also like to have some fun with dildos in this position - I have a nice big ribbed one that feels amazing inside my pussy while my clit gets all that attention, and I've recently got into having something in my bum as well, so I have a smaller one that does the trick nicely. Both my holes nicely filled and warm water pouring over my clit...mmmmmmm! Makes me moan out loud!

I've also recently purchased the Rampant Rabbit Wave, which is expensive but worth it - vibrators generally are the main way that I can make myself squirt - I only learned that I could do this last year and I love it, it feels amazing!

While I'm having all this fun, I often imagine someone else (sometimes a man, sometimes another girl) watching me - or me and another girl getting off side by side...I love reading the experiences of girls that have done this, it must be so hot!

xxx

Anonymous

Hi! I've always loved to masturbate, ever since I was small. I did it as long as I can remember. In second grade, I realized what I was doing! And since then.. once a night. I'm running out of creative ideas on how to bring myself to an orgasm. I can give myself two a night.. and I do! but I either do it with my legs closed tightly rubbing in small circles or up and down or with my legs open, same technique. With two fingers. I just don't know any other ways to bring myself to have amazing orgasms.. I'm a person who likes to try new things but I've done quite a lot! I'm just trying to find that new technique that will blow my mind!

Pearlrub

Jessica Alba - Good Luck Chuck

Lately, I've been masturbating while thinking about girls in their panties. My husband, who regularly watches me masturbate, asked me when did I start liking panties, and I honestly think it really started when I saw the movie trailer for Jessica Alba's latest movie, "Good Luck Chuck" (I think that's it's name). When she gets her skirt ripped off in the car door, and is left standing outside in a tee shirt and those sexy little panties, my pussy got very wet very quickly! Since then, I've been humping my body pillow to mental images of Jessica Alba's panties, or some other hotties panties. I lay face down on top of my body pillow, and pressing my pussy against it's soft fabric and stuffing inside, I buck back and forth with my ass and hips to get my aching clit off, all the while thinking about panty crotches snugly fitting over pussies, and butt cheeks peeking out from the back of panties. I suppose I always thought panties were cute, but now they fill my mind as I ride my pillow, making my hungry pussy have orgasm after aching orgasm! I'm a pillow humping masturbator in love with panties, and my wet pussy has never felt so good!

Hels

I remember using a hair band trapped under my butt whilst lying on my back, pulling it against my clit (I was about 5, and didn't know what I was doing, but it felt great). I moved onto pulling myself up our banisters - up and down, supported only by my arms - Oh, God they were the best. Nearly got caught lots, as the hall had a door with a window! Also used to experiment with friends as a child. We'd pretend to be man and woman, but I still get horny thinking about being with women, although I'm straight.

I've climaxed as an adult in a Jacuzzi at the gym, while other people were there (didn't know but might have guessed), and whilst having a relaxing massage in Slovenia. Not sure if the woman knew she was turning me on - she was massaging up my thigh and stopping just short of my labia. I think I must have a large clit, as I'm easily aroused. Love to rub myself when there are other people around. Toilets at work, in restaurants, etc. Going for a quick fondle now....

A "hair band" is used to hold your hair out of your eyes.

Tonya

I started masturbating when I was 11. I stumbled upon my dad's dirty magazines in his in the basement! For years I went to the basement when no one was home and I would get out his magazines and look at them while rubbing my clitoris. I would instantly become wet! I would sometimes use the handle of one of his screw drivers and insert it into my vagina and fuck myself with it while I rubbed my clit. I would come so hard!

Today I am 32, and masturbate more than ever. I often use one of my husband's screw drivers and imagine that I am a teenager again in my basement.

Make sure any object you insert into your vagina is clean and doesn't have any rough or sharp edges. If you wouldn't put it into your mouth don't put it into your vagina.

Lou

When I was about 11 I was in a hot tub on Holiday... I was in all alone and decided to sit in the middle of the hot tub and OOOOOOOOO it felt soo good... But I don't know what was happening... I do now. I normally use my fingers but sometimes I like to use things I find around... Like a carrot :P or my mascara tube but I like fingers just as much xxx

AnOnOmOuS

I like to wait till I'm home alone. Then I lay a towel on the bathtub floor, and use an electric toothbrush. First I swirl it around on the outside then I do it very very slowly creeping inside. The sensation is wonderful. After I cum I take out the towel and lay down in the tub. With the water on high pressure, I point it towards me spot. Its the BEST ever. Try it. I'm off to do it over & over & over again.

Parents may want to ensure their daughter has her very own electric toothbrush ;-)

Leila

Most women don't realize that if you lie on your stomach and masturbate, your orgasm is more intense.

The article about outercourse has information on developing this technique.

Anonymous

Hi there,

I have been masturbating for only about a year and a half now, I started when I met my boyfriend.

He used to love watching me masturbate, as well as helping me do it, or doing it with me. I love the closeness that it has brought us, and I feel so attached to him.

I had my daughter about four months ago, and my boyfriend had an accident and is currently disabled, and unfortunately can't have sex with me, or even touch me.

I get so horny and often masturbate at the office, at home, in traffic and really wherever the need arises, by my favourite time is in the bath, I remove the rinser's head, and place the long pipe by my clit, I then put it on full and hump the fast warm wet water.

It always manages to make me cum, and I love thinking that it is my boyfriend having me, I miss his touch so much, and am sure that masturbating will slow done once we can make love again.

Thanks for the site.

Anonymous

I love this website I could cum just reading some of these techniques! I normally just lay on my back and rub my tits really hard until I'm totally aroused, then I rub my clit over my panties until I feel an orgasm coming on. I take my panties off and rub my clit fast and hard until I cum....

Sometimes I like to do it on my balcony. I get a huge thrill if I think somebody can see me....

I have also tried the shower head thing... it feels great.

Anonymous

I love masturbating and from memory I have been rubbing my clit since I was a kid.

Since discovering my electric toothbrush I haven't been able to stop using it. I will often start by taking my underwear off and then use my finger to rub my pussy from top to bottom...I tease myself until I play with my clit in circular motions...I start to get really wet when I fantasize about a friend sucking on my tits before spreading my legs and licking my clit. I also fantasize about my friend masturbating in front of me...until I take my tongue and lick her vulva all along from one side to another...clockwise...I imagine that I rub her clit with my finger and then lick her clit until she comes all over me...by this stage I'm so wet that I get my electric toothbrush out and use it on my clit and have the most amazing orgasms, one after another after another...

Although I'm not lesbian I often think about what it would be like to have a woman suck on my clit and to have my tongue all over their pussy...

I am so wet that I have to go use my toothbrush now...

Anonymous

About a few years ago I would go to my friend's house and we play a game called boyfriend and girlfriend. She would be the boy and I would be the girl. We would go in her room and close the door. We both would get naked and I would sit in front of her and say I love it when my boy touches me and she would put her arms around me and grasp my pussy. Or when we took showers together she would play with my clit. It felt pretty good but it wasn't as good as it should have been. Sometimes we would lie on top of each other naked and she would squeeze my butt. It feels extremely amazing when someone else touches you.

Mysterious

I just take off all my clothes and lay on the floor and rub the inside of my privates. It feels so good. Sometimes I even do it in front of my family, but with a blanket over me so that they don't see me and know what I'm doing.

Anonymous

I first lay on my bed and cross my legs. Then I tighten my thighs and hold soon after a while you feel a wonderful orgasm.

Anonymous

I use my fingers and I have also used a banana once.

Lady D

I re-discovered a method to masturbate I was doing as a child. As a young girl discovering touching myself, my bicycle seat seemed to rub my clitoris the right way although I did not know it then. Well as an adult I found this to be most pleasurable. I am easily aroused and with the seat positioned correctly, I would ride without panties the peddling movement would rub my clit against the seat and my humping I would have these powerful orgasms. Long rides were the best I would wear long dress and go as long as could.

Anonymous

I love to look at breasts and vulva. My current fantasy is for a beautiful women to go down on me and treat me to all the wonderful pleasures that I'm missing out on. I want someone to eat me out, pleasure me to new levels, love my breasts, and make me moan and scream all night. These stories help me get through the lonely nights without pleasure.

Anonymous

I have been masturbating ever since I can remember, just like a lot of the women out there. For some reason I have a hard time orgasming laying down on my back, rather then on my side. So this is what I do: I put a towel underneath me, (have to, ha) lay down always on my right side, spread my legs, and I don't go in between my legs, but over my side and up my pussy that way. Once I'm in there and exploring, I can actually pound my g-spot... it is mind blowing, I tell you. Try it, you really will not ever regret it!

Many women may find their G-Spot is too sensitive, or numb, for intense stimulation and may require light caresses that slowly awaken it.

Anonymous

Use an electric toothbrush make sure you wash it with hot water to get left over toothpaste out. Adjust the speed on your toothbrush to soft then lay it pressing gently on your clit you'll feel the best sensations maybe orgasm try thinking of fantasies that pleasure you or make you horny.

It works for me best way to have an orgasm for me.

Anonymous

Ah!! After reading the section on female ejaculation and watching one of my favorite stars, Lily Thai, squirt extravagantly I can NOT wait to try squirting on my own! I think I may have squirted once or twice, but not in a projected stream or anything. I always have a great deal of liquid literally soaking the place when I am finished masturbating. This may be squirting. I still want to try to project a stream, though. I mean, have you seen Lily Thai? She's great at squirting. I want to squirt like that! Reading this site is like a celebration for me, I feel so liberated and so free. Thank you for the "G-Spot" pictures and the fully aroused woman showing us her prostate. Put up more pictures like this! Seeing a woman in this way makes me feel pretty somehow, as if every part of my body were beautiful. Thank you so much for your support!

Anonymous

I don't really know when I started masturbating. At a very early age I just recognized the fact that it felt really good to rub my clit; even before it was really sexual. I used to slide under the bath faucet and let the hot water run over me until I had an orgasm. I still do that now, but I find much more pleasure in getting creative. What worked for me yesterday might not be right for me today. Using a vacuum is probably how I achieve my most intense orgasms, but sometimes rubbing a toothbrush softly over my clit, or any other method is just as incredible.

Jazzy J

It feels so good when a woman touches herself. The best way is to open your legs as wide as possible then take your finger and move it slowly around your clit. That's where all the nerves are. Relax and don't think, just feel, you will cum so hard and long that your legs wont stop shaking. I love playing with myself. I always get amazed at how good I can make myself feel. For any woman in the world that has not given herself self pleasure she is missing out on the best thing a woman could have ever discovered. Masturbating will help any woman learn what she likes sexually and will allow her to know nutting and cumming are two different feelings.

Anonymous

I first found out about masturbating when I was about 12. I had accidentally gone on a porn site but I felt aroused and a tingling feeling in between my legs. I liked that feeling but didn't know how to take it further.

Later, when I was 13, I went on a site which told me about the clitoris and masturbating techniques. I used a pillow and that felt great. I never got an orgasm though.

Then I started putting toothbrush ends in my pussy. I didn't feel anything good, it was just normal.

A few months later, my parents were out and my brother was upstairs on his video games. So I put on the nude channels and got so horny at the site of men and women having sex. I rubbed my clitoris hard and eventually got a glorious orgasm.

I masturbate all the time and I love it!

Lyn

One of my favourite ways to masturbate is with an electric toothbrush (make sure it's clean though, for God's sake). You basically just turn it on and place it on your clit until you cum. I prefer to take the actual brush off and just use the handle as the feeling is more intense. For a really explosive orgasm I put a vibrator into my vagina whilst stimulating my clit with the toothbrush.

Anonymous

I'm 17. I started masturbating when I was 4 or 5 years old. Well, I duno if I'm masturbating cuz my techniques are a lot different from what I've read from other women. I usually masturbate with my underwear on and my legs closed tight. I put my middle finger at my pussy (near the clit) and start rubbing or sort of vibrate my finger. I can orgasm that way. But when I tried fingering myself, I never get any sexual feel. Can somebody explain why?

By "fingering" I am guessing she means she is stimulating her vagina, internal, with her fingers. Many women find their vagina is insensitive to self stimulation, or a single finger doesn't provide much in the way of sensation. Many have to experiment with objects of different sizes and shapes to discover what, if anything, works best for them.

Rachel

Wow thanks so much for your site! I just wanted to say that reading everyone else's experiences makes me sooo hot! I'm a bit chubby, and have recently thought about chubby women, older women, and just women in general. I'm not a lesbian at all, but I like the idea of a girl pleasuring me because they know what girls like. Guys are a tad clueless. Anyway, I get horny and then I start to rub my nipples and pinch them a bit. I let my hand travel south and rub next to my clit with two fingers. I used to cyber. I loved guys talking to me and jerking off all the while. I recently started experimenting with penetrations, although I haven't quite gotten to my G-spot. I use the opposite end of my Venus razor and the nub rubs. I always feel a second away from cumming, but it never happens. Happy masturbating!!!!

xoxo

P.S.- I just wish everyone was more open about sexual matters, I love the idea of everyone masturbating. It's so great!!!!

Allie

I love to master bate. I think its the best thing to do. I have a technique where I use a bear that I have and I "69" it. And also finger myself. The results are terrific!

Rose

I'm 28 and I started pleasuring myself back in 5th or 6th grade (I think). I use to use the bath tub water spout and the hot rushing water would make me cum. When I was in elementary school, my gay guy friend and I use to also take turns using his pool's jets. That felt really good, but it was more like a massage than a thriller... I also learned how to use my fingers (using circular motions and pulling my lips apart to spread them to enhance it), and graduated on to using high tech vibrators. After many years of practicing/training (LOL), I can cum sometimes 20 times in 1 session. Each one makes me so wet. Close to the end, I have to tense up my whole body to keep them coming. I tense up so bad, that sometimes the muscles in my legs hurt. And, sometimes my hearing is not very good for several minutes after I'm done either. After I'm all finished and too sensitive to have any more, there's a humongous wet spot and an almost full body print from all my sweat!

I love having orgasms and being my own "pleasure master" is something to be proud of! I love my body and I love the fact that I know it so well, I can guarantee my own satisfaction every time. If my partner ever walks in on me, I just laugh!

Heck, if most guys can cum every time, so can I. I deserve to have just as many O's, if not more!

I want every female to be able to have orgasm after orgasm. So here's my tips: get a vibe (if you can afford it), use it often (and make sure you sanitize it with an approved cleanser after every use or you'll have to see a Dr for an Rx- I learned the hard way). Vibes are cheaper on-line, but if you go into a non-sleazy store (I like franchises best), the associates are always super helpful and never judgmental. They choose to work at a place like that because they like that sort of atmosphere, and the ones who have been there a while have a lot of useful info about their products.

If a vibe freaks you out, figure out what feels really good when you touch yourself. See if you like being rubbed on one side of clit or directly on the hood. See if you like 1 or 2 fingers inside yourself at the same time... I know a lot of people wrote in about using hair brush handles and I've done that too, but you really have to make sure you are cleaning the handles properly and that microscopic tears don't form on the rubber creating an environment for bacteria and other stuff because then the brush will cause an infection and you'll need to see a Dr.

If you have a partner, CLEARLY tell him or her what makes you orgasm. It's not other people's responsibility to figure out YOUR body, it's your job to know what turns YOU on. You can do it! If I can have plenty of clit and vaginal orgasms, so can you!

Good Luck and may you all have many O's!

Antibacterial soap can be used to clean your sex toys, but be sure to rinse ALL the soap off afterwards, as you don't want antibacterial soap interfering with your healthy vaginal flora. Nonporous materials like silicone, stainless steel, and pyrex glass (a grade of glass that is extremely strong and very unlikely to break.) work best, as they don't absorb or trap body fluids. The less expensive items are more likely to be porous and absorb body fluids or have chemical residues.

Shenique

I've been masturbating since I was 8 yrs old, I'd always hide in a corner spread my legs and rub my pussy, and finger it, for me I just, well I use two techniques, one being I finger it all over, until cum comes out, and I also just use two fingers and rub slowly then fast, and gosh the feeeling is soo great, I also hump on objects, which feels good too.

Anonymous

I have been doing it for a while now...

Well I have a very large stuffed animal [about half the size of me] and I put a banana or cucumber on its butt..lol.. and I hump up and down...and it rubs by clit. It feels amazing and I get orgasms sometimes...but if you don't have a large stuffed animal use a couple pillows and pile them up! [or a body pillow] it feels great....I also use an electric tooth brush [that too feels good.] And another great one is your fingers! **hint hint** pretend the pillow/ stuffed animal is your lover!

Anonymous

Hi, I'm 21 and I love to masturbate. Usually I'll start by watching some porn and that really turns me on. Also, bondage really gets me wet. Just watching those women being tied up and being fucked makes me want to go do it. I love to lay on my back and spread my feet really far apart - as far as they would go. Then I like to put clothespins on my nipples. This gets a really good orgasm because of the pain and the pleasure mixed in one! Also fantasizing about being in bondage myself and being forced to fuck myself gets me really turned on. I'm getting wet right now just thinking about it. I love this site and I love to try different techniques!

Reference: Nipple Clamps 101

Yoli

My next door neighbor was whispering with a classmate and giggling when we were 10. She told me that the classmate, and her four sisters, ran home every day from school and took turns masturbating with the running water from the bathtub. She demonstrated for me. She took a washcloth and wrapped it around the tub faucet until the stream was hard enough and adjusted the temperature until it was hot enough. The she sat down like and Indian, scooted up until the stream hit her clit and began moaning with pleasure. I've been doing this method ever since. When I make love with my husband, I always finish by climaxing with water. It enhances lovemaking for anyone who cannot climax with sex. It is absolutely the best climax you will ever have.

Kay

Recently I've started spreading my labia while simultaneously massaging my clitoris. I moisten my fingers by sticking them in my mouth, then rub them all over my vulva. I occasionally glide my middle finger into my entrance and spread the juices around my clitoral area.

Anonymous

I started at the age of 12 and I masturbate with an electric toothbrush, I put the spinning toothbrush on me clit and it makes me jump and scream and I look in the mirror at the same time. It feels awesome, try it out. BRAUN electric toothbrush feels better than vibrator!

Anonymous

I think that it is right I like to ice [freeze] water bottles until it take[s] the form of a penis then stick it slowly up my vagina and move it in and out, it make me feel great and makes a great feeling orgasm. It is also nice to listen to nice calm music while doing this.

For basic advise and words of caution on using ice during sex play please visit this website. Based on that article, and the very limited advice I found elsewhere, make sure the object inserted vaginally, or applied to the vulva, is very slippery, or use a melting ice cube, Popsicle or the like, as you don't want the item sticking to the delicate tissues of the vulva and vagina. The larger the piece of ice or frozen object is the greater risk for injury. The book Encyclopedia of Unusual Sex Practices states: "Caution: It is unsafe to put more ice into an orifice than will dissolve within a couple minutes." You would most likely want to alternate between a cold and warm object every couple of minutes to ensure the skin doesn't become too cold and numb, and do not hold cold objects stationary for more the a few seconds at a time. You may want to read about the body's sensitivity to temperature in the article about the female sexual nervous system. The inner two-thirds of the vagina doesn't have the same range of sensation as does the vulva and outer one-third of the vagina. Frostbite is a risk associated with exposing the body to cold temperatures.

Anonymous

I found out about masturbating when I was in about 2nd grade. My best friend and I were playing house and she told me about something her neighbor said was amazing. My best friend starting humping a stuffed animal, and she told me to do it. I did and after a while we would get "the tingly feeling." That's what we called it. We did this for a year or so, and then we started experimenting with other things. We would go into my closet in my room and pull down our pants. I bent over a pile of boxes, and she spread her pussy over my butt. She humped it. I did it to her, and we even put our fingers on each others pussies. My mom caught us, and sat us down to explain that it wasn't a good thing to do. Ever since that day we would go into my basement and do it in secret. We would take turns being on the bottom, and the person on top would get the tingly feeling. The person put a pair of socks in their pants so it made a bump, and the person on top humped. One time we were scared of getting caught again so we said we would stop. We were playing house, and she was pretending to be the dad. We were "sleeping" next to each other and I started rubbing up against her. We jumped up and got a stuffed animal as if we couldn't bear it any longer.

I'm actually kind of confused...I am totally straight, have a boyfriend, and know I love him...but sometimes just the thought of me being touched by another girl makes me really wet. Just the thought of her rubbing me and licking my pussy makes me crazy. I'm not attracted to women at all, but I just think that she would know how to stimulate every right place.

I masturbate very frequently, of course when it's not my boyfriend doing it, but sometimes I feel like masturbating is better than sex. We have a detachable shower head, so I take it down and bend the hose so it fits right into my vagina, then I take the head and spray the water on my clit. I do that until I'm stimulated and then I start fingering myself. I do it many ways, even with pillows. It depends on what mood I'm in. I also have to thank this site. Reading all these makes me really horny, and sometimes I wish we were all in a room together and we could give each other the best orgasms we've ever had.

Betty

Well I am eighteen. I have been masturbating since I was around 7 or 8. I remember when I was young and just started I would fantasize and feel tingling sensations on my vulva when it was touched. Or when I was watching a movie with a man and woman doing anything from kissing to undressing each other I would get the same sensation. The first time I ever really masturbated was to a pillow. I just love the feeling you get from it. Its soft, yet you can make it as hard as you want. When I turned to be 10 me and my best friend, Karolina, started experimenting with each other. We would be in her parent's basement rubbing each others cunts and making out. She would hop on top of me and hump me till I screamed! I am not a virgin any more, but I like to masturbate to myself more than have sex. My boyfriend is amazing but no one makes me cum more or scream louder than me. With my fingers rubbing my cunt up and down with my other hand feeling my large soft boobs and nipples in circles and hitting my clitoris till I maxxxx out! It feels so great.

Anonymous

I love masturbating! I do it in the shower, on my bed, and sometimes I even masturbate in the bathroom at work. At home I have a detachable shower head with several settings. I usually start with a soft spray and start moving up until I reach the massage setting. I like to slowly turn the heat up on the water too. Every time I masturbate I love using a butt plug. It just gives me an exploding orgasm. I love the feel of my orgasm, my pussy and ass pulsating like crazy. I'll just leave the butt plug in for a while after I cum and let it stimulate my ass while I walk around doing chores or something else. This really gets me going for my next orgasm. When I'm on my bed, I love facing the huge stand up mirror I have next to my bed and watch myself using my fingers, and inserting my dildos in my pussy. I'm at work now, so I need to take a break and go to the bathroom! Happy masturbating!

Jessica

Wow what a great site! I'm so glad I found it. Reading all of these stories really has me turned on.

Anyway I was pleased to hear that so many women like to focus on the clitoris. For me it is the only way to cum. I love to stroke my nipples and run my hands around my labia and up and down my belly but as I start to get close to cumming I focus entirely on my clit. I've heard a phrase that men say called thinking with the little head and not with the big head, and that is what my clit is like to me. When I'm circling or rubbing my clitoris nothing else matters. Its like the entire universe is centered on this one spot. My clit by the way is quite large and very easily stimulated. As a bisexual I've had sex with dozens of women and consider myself quite an expert. I've played and fondled with clits as small as a pea to clits a large as large almond, and mine when I'm really hot and worked up is bigger than that. When I masturbate I love to take my time. Holding off is the best part. As I said I am only interest in clitoral stimulation so I get comfortable spread my legs wide and after starting with some breast and nipple squeezing work my way down to my pussy. At first I just hold and massage my whole mound and get me clit to begin to respond by this indirect pressure. Once my clit starts to get aroused and hard I begin to work it with my first and middle fingers, stroking round and round. I have one little spot on my clit, just on the bottomed right that is super sensitive and I just ever so lightly touch and flick this spot during my rotation around my clit. This really gets me turned on and my clit will begin to throb and pulse and stick out more. As this happens the fold of labia that covers my clit pulls back exposing more and more of my now huge clit. As this point i'm usually really close to cumming so I stop, cold. My hips usually will keep on pumping and the muscles in my lower abdomen will continue to "pull" back on my pussy for another 10 or 15 seconds until I calm down. I wait till i'm completely calm till I start again, the same way, working my clit letting my fingers slip around my totally wet pussy till i'm really close and panting and pumping my hips and then I'll stop again. I try to hold out as long as possible until I simply cant take it any more and give myself a totally mind blowing explosive orgasm. UMMMM I can't tell you how delicious it is.

Now of course its not like this every time, because sometimes I only have a couple of spare minutes but I have to tell you my clit never fails me and I can stroke it to orgasm in a minute or two if I have to. (you know in the bathroom stall, in the fitting room or even in the storage room at the office when I need a quickie) With a clit as large as mine its easy. Once I start to get horny it begins to swell and just walking with my lips hitting my clit, and by contracting the muscles down there I can practically cum. Add a good heavy seam from tight jeans and I'm home. And that's what I did yesterday while shopping at Target!! Had to stop for a minute and lean against my cart when I finally came but who cares it was awesome. Good luck ladies and remember that there is nothing wrong with being your own best friend.

Moon

Hi my name is Moon and I have been masturbating since about the age of 7. The first time I actually came doing this was in the shower.. I was washing my pussy and found my clit. I had no real idea what was going on but the tingle got stronger and I couldn't stop.

I have learned a lot since that day and cum all different kinds of ways now. At the age of 39, I just now finally found my g-spot.. I know, a shame I hadn't found it earlier. I had a pair of nunchucks and while I slipped it in I raised it to the top of my tummy about 3 inches inside me.. I was rubbing my clit with one hand and moving the nunchucks around in a circle inside. I felt a lot of pressure but OMG the feeling was great.. I came almost immediately and it was very very strong.. I didn't think I was gonna stop.

I have also used vibrators (all kinds) even my phone on vibrate. When I was younger I let my dog lick me to orgasm. Cumming is a great feeling and I don't think I could ever not masturbate..

Melissa

I'm a 24 year old mother and wife. I don't know what has gotten into me these last few days. I find myself to be very horny. My husband is in the Army and he is always working. So I'm at home alone all the time. I'm always masturbating. When my husband is at home I don't feel up to having sex. But when he is gone I love to masturbate. I like to get my vibrator out and have fun. I started getting into anal action too. But I wont give my husband anal. I found myself the other day humping a pillow. And sticking the handle of my husband's flashlight up my pussy. But one day my husband came home from work and was watching me for a long time and I didn't even notice. When I finally notice that he was watching me, he was masturbating as well.

Cristal

The best technique, even better than a dildo, is to turn on your bath water with not a lot of pressure....just perfect....and not too hot or too cold....and then lay down and open your legs wide open and let the water do the work.....TRUST ME.....WORKS FOR ME ALL THE TIME.....IS EVEN BETTER THAN MY HUSBAND SOMETIMES.

Cheryl

I am 49 years old, and I have to admit that my sexual desires have greatly diminished for several years. My husband has tried many things to help me 'get out of the slump' as he says.

When I discovered masturbation at 16 I thought I couldn't live without it. I would get myself off frequently, but not daily. I even got caught one night in my dorm room by my roommate!

After I got married I still masturbated. My husband is very good and considerate in bed, and even though I would have 3 or 4 orgasms with him, I would sometimes rub myself off once or twice more after he finished. Now, for years, I haven't had the urge to masturbate, until now. My husband has been showing me sites like this one so I can read other women's experiences. It has helped. I realize I've been missing out on nice, private orgasms. After I'm done here I will be back in my bedroom enjoying myself again.

Katie

Well, what I like to do is put two fingers in my vagina and circle around so I can get everything wet and all. Then I rub my clitoris really slow. Then I have this thing that you put a toothbrush in and travel with that I put in my vagina and go up and down. Then I rub my clitoris really really hard in a circular motion!!!! And I am on my stomach the whole time! This makes me always squirt!

I love it so much you should try it.

Anonymous

I have been masturbating since I was about seven or eight. My favorite thing to do is to read erotic stories. I had my first real orgasm when I was nine, that was when I discovered my clit. I love to finger myself and sometimes while doing this I fantasize about having a huge dick in me while I'm in the middle of a huge orgy.

Sandra

I was 6 when I first masturbated. I was sitting at my kitchen table with my legs around the leg. I felt a brilliant sensation. I lost my virginity at the age of 15.

I still want to feel another clit.

Thanks for this site.

Kristina

I masturbate almost everyday. I only do it when I'm home by myself or at night. I masturbate because I'm really horny a lot of the time. First I take my clothes off then lay down on my bed or couch. I like to rub my nipples with one hand and finger myself with the other hand. It takes me awhile to reach my orgasm but it feels so good when I do.

MasterBabe

Submitted: December 10, 2007

I have finally found my technique, I thought I never would.

It's simple yet affective.

1. Grab yourself a pen, a thin one with no chips or sharp edges
2. Open your area [Spead your labia]
3. Place the pen, with the lid above your hair (if you have any)
4. Slide pen up and down slowly
5. Get faster and faster until you feel pain in your arms
6. Raise hips so your bum is of the ground, bed etc.
7. FEEL THAT ORGASM FLOW

.....Orgasm varies from 5 - 10 seconds

DO NOT DO MORE THAN 3 TIMES OR AREA BECOMES RED AND SORE!!!!!!!!!!

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