Shared Female Masturbation Techniques and Experiences: Collection 19

Anonymous

Hi, I have been masturbating since I was 11. I am almost 13. I will be in May. I get very horny and I want to go have an orgasm but see the only problem is that I only get orgasms when I use a shower head and put it on full blast and after that I cannot get myself to have another one so I just start rubbing my tits. I often look for another girl to do things with and I would love to have cyber with someone. I do think that I am bisexual. But I'm very horny right now and I am gonna go jump into the shower and masturbate

Chris

Hello,

I've just been introduced to your great website by my lover. My name is Christine and I'm 64 years of age but look younger. I still feel quite young at heart and I'm still sexually active. I've been married over 40 years and have 2 grown up lads who are now married. I have a vigorous sexual drive and release my tensions almost every day. I've masturbated for over 50 years and I just love to do it. My husband sex drive is much lower than mine and his technique always has been wham, bam, goodbye mam! I have had several lovers but my present one is really special as he knows my needs and what pleases me best, which is masturbation by him or watching me play with myself. He is also a daily masturbator and loves me watching him wank off. We are very happy with our antics and only occasionally have full sex.

Ok, down to business. I have several techniques but one I use more often than the others. I like to feel my body. I started to masturbate when I first got my period about 13. In our day we wore sanitary towels. I fitted the pad over my vulva and pulled up my kickers which were very tight. When I walked to school the pad rubbed on my protruding labia and made me very randy. I shot into the toilets, upped with my skirt, pulled my pants and pad aside and rubbed my swollen clitoris vigorously and orgasmed almost immediately.

From that moment I was hooked on playing with my cunt as often as possible. I started experimenting and found that I can make my clitoris extend to almost an inch long with rubbing my large labia lips, then I can actually hold it with thumb and forefinger and wank it up and down. Its heaven and I usually come quickly. I always masturbate like that these days and when I'm extra randy it may be two or three times a day. Don't think that being in your 60's is a determent. I love doing it. My tits are still good and my big nipples and areola extend when I'm aroused. I sometimes can get off by just playing and sucking them. Oh hell, I'm going to have to play now I'm so wet and aroused. Back in a little while. What lovely surprise. My lover just called around while I was doing it in the lounge and he just sat there and watched me. My clit was huge and my orgasm was great.

Well, I'm back and my pants are in the wash basket for I ejaculated a lot. Sometimes I wank in the shower so that my ejaculation can run down my legs. I have my lover sat next to me right now while I'm typing. I'm still wet and sticky and he knows it because he's just had a feel. Oh, he's taken his cock out and giving it a go. It looks wonderful. I had better finish this letter for I can't see me getting any further the state that I'm in. Anyway I can't type while I've got my mouth full. See you.

Samantha

Thanks for the site.

I started to masturbate soo young around 7. I'd do it in the car. My mom and her friends wouldn't even notice I'd usually put a sock or something down in my panties and then I'd come to a orgasm.

I'm older now and I still masturbate I like stacking pillows and riding it to bring me to a intense orgasm, and I like taking a maxi pad and putting hot water on it then putting it in my panties then I rid something it feels SOO GOOD

Anonymous

I have a hard time with masturbation. Namely because orgasms are not satisfying to me.   It doesn't matter how many I have or how great they are, they're just not enough. There are times when I've masturbated all night or all day long and not been satisfied. There's really no sensation of true relief for me. No matter what I do. I just CAN'T BE SATISFIED. I don't know what's wrong with me. I've gone to a doctor and all my hormones are fine.

I would love to know if other women experience this as well. I'm sure some do.

Lora

Hi my name is Lora and I Love To Masturbate. I do it everyday at least twice.

My favorite technique is to stick my pussy underneath the tap when I am having a bath or a shower, it gets me off so good and I don't know what I would do without it. I first discovered this method in the bath with my sister, we were having a bath together and we were only about 6 & 8 me being the younger one and our tub had jets and it touched my sister, and she told me to do it because it felt good and that was the first time I ever had an orgasm. When I do it I like to fantasize about being taken away and someone just having there way with me. I am totally straight I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years but every time I see a naked women touching herself it gets me going, so then of course I have to go and have a bath to please myself. I have also used an electric toothbrush which also works very nice to and feels just as good.

"Plugged In" - 35

I've suffered from vaginismus for years. Because of my disorder, I cannot place anything hard or rigid into my vagina. (Including butt plugs) I have however found that ear plugs can be a useful masturbating device.   I'm talking about bullet shaped ear plugs. They're rigid enough to go into my vagina but soft enough not to produce the same type of pain if I have a spasm. Yes, I still get sore. But at least it's not as much. Which is something. I can also stick a plug into my anus. (Both anal and vaginal plugs are kept separate, of course)

I would suggest ear plugs for other women who also have vaginismus. Or to young girls who aren't old enough to go into a sex shop and get butt plugs or what ever.

....I'm sure its easier to come up with a "reason" for needing ear plugs than to explain to your parents why you need a sex toy. We all know some parents aren't too understanding about such things.

I would recommend using ear plugs that have an attached string between them so they don't slip inside and become difficult to retrieve.

Julie

Hi, I've been masturbating since I was about 7. Somehow, I found this spot by kneeling on my heel. I noticed it started feeling good so I would somehow sit with my heel extended toward my area and rub back and forth profusely. It would feel sooo good that I kept doing it until I finally noticed that I would come. The more I did it the more I would come. I also liked to lean on corners of tables or furniture and rock back and forth. I like the motion on my clitoris. It made it nice and juicy and wet. I'm going to go do it now because I feel my pussy getting "twinged". My pussy is contracting while I write this. I also like to watch men jerk off and watch them cum on each other's penises. Their jerking off brings me to orgasm. Anyone else?

Rebecca

I'm 17 and I started masturbating young, two, but I used to do it by squeezing my legs together and moving a bit till I came, I used to do this all the time even in lessons when I was only in primary school, this is still guaranteed to work now, but I can also do it just by rubbing my clit hard and continually. I love it and my boyfriend loves to watch.

Anonymous

I actually have some questions. I feel very self conscious discussing sex as talking openly about it was not something that was encouraged while I was growing up. I find that we still exist in a very repressed society and this contributes to sexual inhibitions that limit positive sexual experiences. I was lead to this site through an assignment for a Human Sexuality class, and find this to be extremely enlightening.

I have been masturbating since I was very young. I do remember experiencing orgasm while in my grandmother's bed, and she was nice enough not to berate me when she discovered me fast asleep with my pants around my ankles. I have not ventured past finger stimulation and occasional penetration with a finger or two, but after reading this site, I intend to explore many more methods of masturbation not only with myself, but also with my fiance.

I was reading many of the postings by others who talked about experiences with family members. One woman revealed that she is interested in approaching the "next level" with her twin sister and brother, with whom she regularly enjoys sexual acts. Because I grew up in a world where contact with family members (sexually) was strictly forbidden, I find this idea challenges my current ways of thinking. I am wondering how others feel about this? I would really appreciate some feedback.

My intent is to broaden my own understanding; I am aware that my ways of thinking are very narrow, and so with my questions, I seek to widen my knowledge and gain some new insights.

Anyone have any thoughts?

This email has been posted on our discussion forum if you wish to reply.

Mimi

I find it always helps to masturbate heavily before going in to have a vaginal exam. It just seems to make the whole thing go easier. I found this out quite by accident one night before a check up when I started to get really horny for some reason. I just kept doing myself over and over again until I was exhausted and fell asleep.

When my physician did a pap smear on me, I was amazed at how relaxed I was and how easy the whole thing went. (I had experienced pain during previous exams) Now I make sure I'm well "excited" before I go in to have my papa done. It would be interesting to know if a gyno can tell if I've been "handling" myself before hand, but I doubt it.

Anyway, going to the gynecologist has always given I guess what you could call a sexual thrill. During all of my teenage years I struggled with obesity. And No guy really wanted to touch me "down there." I felt like some disgusting thing no guy wanted to touch. I'll never forget what it was like to go in and spread my legs for a man for the first time. And to have a man's gloved fingers spread my labia and touch me. To have a man actually staring at MY vulva. "You certainly have nothing to be ashamed of," I remember hearing the doctor tell me as he gazed at my pussy. I enjoyed the way that he said it. But it kind of made me feel a little weird to. Even though I'm sure lots of gynos tell their patients the same thing.

I've always been celibate. And sometimes I feel the urge to go see more male doctors so that I can appease this "urge" to have a man look at me without being pressured to have sex or feeling like a slut. I'm sure there are other women who feel the same way.

Anonymous

I've been masturbating since I've been about 9 or 10. I first felt "pleasure" in climbing the swing set pole and later on even more pleasure when fingering my clit in the bathtub. I am now 41 and love to masturbate. I'm happily married and have a wonderful sex love but also have a wonderful sex life with Me, myself and I. I am totally my own best lover and I love to touch, caress, massage, kiss, myself all over. I've used a variety of tools (pillows/vibrators/dildos/shower etc) and all produce wonderful orgasms. I have never had a multiple orgasm and am working on that. I'm currently into pleasuring my nipples these days. Love the site!

Anonymous

Hi. I'm a 16 year old whose never even been kissed let alone had sex. I've been masturbating since I can remember. I've always just placed a few pillows between my legs and humped them. I never knew back then what I was doing, as sex is not much talked about in our family. I have always felt bad about masturbating so I recently stopped masturbating and now I'm finding it difficult to concentrate on other things like school work. I'm not sure if I should go back to it since I feel less guilty this way and more honest with myself. I don't think I know any one else who masturbates although it feels great. I would love to hear any advice any one could give me. Thank you very much for this site.

Book Worm

Has anybody else ever used the binder of a book to masturbate? It's easy. You hold it up to your labia and rub it up between your folds. Wow. Sitting or standing, its such a good sensation.   I love to kneel down on the floor and hump one of my books. I can't orgasm this way, but its still a fun thing to do.

Sometimes when I'm watching TV I'll take the remote and part my underwear to one side so that I can rub it against my clit. It's so cool and hard feeling. A real turn on, to be sure.

I can also orgasm from clenching my PC muscles alone. I lay on my bed and clench my muscles over and over again, pretending that with each clench I'm being fucked. That's when I begin to feel this odd warmth running the length of my vagina and spreading to my urethra. It feels sooo good. Because I don't actually touch myself, I'm sure if it can really count as masturbation. But boy is it good!

Anonymous

I'm glad I found this site, I'm 15 and am quite how would you say it ..worried about my masturbating so much. I first started masturbating when I was about 9-12 years old...and I don't even know how I started off, I think I just stated, like a lot of people on this site, humping my hand and it felt good. When I am masturbating, I often like to think about women, with hairless pussy's and it really REALLY turns me on. I love to watch porn on the net as well and often have fantasies about women licking me out or me being in bed with women.

However, when I do cum...my fingers smell horrible...like a fishy smell or a sweat smell and it doesn't come off for hours...is this normal?

I'm glad I found this site because, again, like a lot of people it has put me at ease. thank you

Clit Dancer--23

A while back I started doing the whole Kegels thing. WOW! What that does for a girls orgasm! But, anyway, I found that I could do this neat little trick while clenching my PCs. I can make my clitoris jiggle and bounce without even touching it! Really. I enjoy retiring to my room, sitting on the floor and pulling open my labia. I have some music going (Justin Timberlake, of course) and I hop my clit up and down to the beat. It's such a fun way of passing time and gets me really horny. Plus its a good build up to stimulating myself and all.

I would love to know if other girls can do this "clit trick" or if your anatomy has to be a certain way to pull it off. But I get such a laugh off of it. It kind of tickles my funny bone.

Anonymous

Although I am not sure when it actually began, I remember masturbating daily since age 3. I don't know how I discovered this technique but I did. What I would do was cross my legs together tight and hold my breath and grip something and I would feel this wonderful feeling and couldn't take it any longer. I did it for a long time and when I say a long time I mean several times daily for years through high school and sometimes now.

The problem that I have however is that I have never ever received pleasure during sex. Oral sex doesn't even feel good. I was wondering if this is the reason why and if so please can you help give me ideas on how to solve this problem. I have never ever in my life felt pleasure other than this. I am getting very frustrated. If it is that I am used to this, what positions or new things should me and my partner try because I cannot feel anything at all. I really hope you can help because I am afraid I will never get to enjoy sex.

I appreciate your time..

These are not unusual experienced. This subject has been addressed in a Q&A.

Becca

Hi, I'm 13 and just found this site while I was looking for answers. Wow have I found some answers! I didn't know what orgasm or masturbation were till I found this site (I think I should have got out more when I was younger lol!). That is not to say that I hadn't experienced what I now know as orgasm and masturbation. My experience relates to a time when I was 11/12 riding my pony on the local beach. Normally Nutmeg is a very placid thing but for some reason whilst we were just cantering something spooked her and she took off into a gallop taking me by surprise and I dropped the reigns. My automatic instinct was to grip harder with my thighs and reach forward around Nutmegs neck. Almost immediately the extra pressure through my pubic area and the pounding from Nutmeg's gallop made my whole body (particularly down there) shudder wildly. I had not experienced anything like it ever and although it made me a bit scared at the time it also felt delicious and I almost fainted. Gladly Nutmeg calmed down quite quickly and we got home in one piece - but I had to have a lie down to recover.

Since then I've done the masturbation thing (not knowing it was called that). The way I do it is using my Mom's 'aromacushion' that she uses to keep her neck warm (she suffers from neck pain a lot so I bought it for her for a birthday). Anyway this thing, you heat up in a microwave and it keeps warm for ages (you have to get the setting right or it burns you). The nice thing about it is that it is both soft but firm also and so I heat it up and kneeling down, I scrunch it up and squat over it on my bed and hump it leaning forward like I was riding Nutmeg. It is mind blowing the sensation it gives me and I can keep doing it without fear of falling off so I get several orgasms before the heat goes out of it. I think I need to get Mom a new one as this one is beginning to look a bit stained.

I love this site - keep it going whoever is doing it. Becca

Anonymous

Hey, I'm fourteen and I started masturbating when I was aboutttt 9-10 or so. It was about the time when I actually JUST realized I had those parts.

Ummm it started out because I had itch down there and i started to scratch it and it felt SOOOO good. I love it so much now.

And this site is so great cus it tells you that like its normal to do and I don't feel as awkward about it anymore cus there's other people my age doing who started younger.

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Bitchy When Wet

I'm 34 years old. I grew up in an old fashioned house where masturbation was something "oversexed people" did. I remember my mom catching me doing it when I was around seven or so in my bed. She leaned over me and told me in a soft voice that that was a bad, wrong thing to do. She told me when I was older that masturbating could break a persons mind and that any girl who touched her own breasts was sick.

As a teen I began to put markers and things inside of myself. I felt bad and told my mother about it. She was shocked and appalled. To this day she gets a wild look in her eyes when she mentions it. Usually referring to how sexual I am by saying "Anyone who would stick markers up inside of herself...."   Than again she has also told me countless times what a good prostitute I would make and that I should do porn. (Mothers..What would therapists ever do without them?)

My problem with touching myself is that I can't. I'm so use to being sexually frustrated that I don't know what to do without it. Its been there for sooo long. It's like a part of me or something. But without an orgasm I become a sort of devil woman. Mad. Bitchy. Depressed. Like I want to claw the eyes out of something and rip things off the walls.

Jill

I think I've always masturbated in some way. When I was around seven I remember being in my uncle's room while he wasn't there, pulling on my clitoris and putting the antenna of a walkie talkie inside of myself. When I was around sixteen I began rubbing my anus as a way of getting pleasure. I didn't even realize it was sexual at first. I just kind of enjoyed it. Than I began to explore my vulva as well. Than one night I felt this RUSH between my legs as I was rubbing my clit. I must have orgasmed as a child, because I knew I had felt it before. I will never forget that entire day of school as I replayed the memory of the night before over and over again. I was shocked. Enthralled. And I could not wait to discover my special little secret again.

Fear Girl

I'm in my twenties and enjoy using a kareokee mic to masturbate. I love to put on some underwear (the top of the mic is too rough for direct contact). Then I take the microphone and tap it repeatedly against my vulva. I love to look down and see how large it looks against my pussy. How "Big" it is and all. Even though I can never insert it, I love all the pressure on me.

I can also have orgasms without ever having to touch myself at all. I find that strong emotions like fear or anger are enough to send me into sexual overdrive. To the point where I can have a urethral type of orgasm complete (sometimes) with contractions. I've never heard of another woman having a "fear orgasm" before. I would be intrigued to know how common this is.

Some medical research has found a link between films that produce anxiety and increased sexual response in women.

Crystal

Wow I thought I was the only person addicted to masturbation as much as myself. But I've found a site were my sexual drive is considered normal.

Since I was 5 or 6 I would touch myself. When I was that young I knew it ticked when I used my hands down there. I didn't know I was touching my clit. But, as I would do it, I would have orgasms and afterwards my muscles would relax and I could sleep easier.

When I was 11 or 12 I talked to this older boy that was friends with my older cousin, he explained to me what I was doing and how a boy could do that too. I understood and thanked him for talking to me.

When I was 13 to 14 I became ADDICTED to touching myself, or having somebody touch me. I would masturbate 3-5 times a day. If I had a boyfriend, I would allow him to touch me too.

The summer before I turned 15 I had my first sex partner. We were dating for months and he was really good with touching, he had had sex before so he showed me the way. He was amazing with his tongue and his dick, he gave me more orgasms than I ever imagined.

I am older now and I'm dating a different boy and things are going wonderful. We have sex almost every time we get to see each other which is 3-5 times a week. If we don't have sex I make sure I pleasure him and if I do good he gives me much in return.

There's still my addiction to masturbation

I have to do it at least 2 times a day.

I found that when I play with my clit, I sometimes pee

Its not female ejaculate because it smells like pee for sure

It doesn't phase me but I'm scared it could happen when I'm with my boyfriend

I don't want him to be grossed out

I always pee before I masturbate but I still end up going even a little

I wonder, should I try to stop this behavior or leave it alone and if it happens with my boyfriend tell him about it.

Karen

When I was five year old my brother show me how to rub my clit while I masturbation.

Hope

I love to play with myself and I always have. There is nothing more sensational than caressing myself. Sometimes, for quick indulgence I'll just go at it by getting myself wet and rubbing my clit till I cum. Other times I tease myself until my clit is hard and then I hold it with my index finger and my thumb and I "jerk" it like it was a mini penis. That usually gets me to the point of gushing. I have tried everything from cucumbers and dildos and electric toothbrushes. What's best though is when hubby watches me.

Tina

First I get totally naked, then I get a carrot or cucumber and get it warm. Them I go and lay on the bed and stick it is my vagina. If that doesn't get me to orgasm, then I get in the tub and use my dildo and vibrator together in my vagina. It works!

Daisy

I find menstrual pads are a useful master bating tool. I remember this one time when I was on my period and feeling horny. So I got up on my pillow and started humping it. The pad produced this wonderful feeling against my cunt that was even better than being naked. It was one of the best orgasms I've ever had! Besides that, you don't have to worry about the messy clean up afterwards.

I find that I get really horny around my period. Sometimes to the point where I'll have these weird vaginal orgasms for no apparent reason. It actually feels as if theirs a finger or something inside of me pressing and pressing on my G spot. The first time this happened I was shocked. I was laying in bed, not even thinking about anything sexual, when I started to have these "feelings" running inside of me. It was scary to me and I squirmed around, which only made the feeling stronger. Than I just felt this rising warm orgasm coming inside of my vagina. From around my G spot. How a period could affect the G spot I don't know. But it certainly seems to do something for mine.

Wendy

I must have been 3 or 4 when I found out that good feeling on my bottom. I was looking at a comic book with my right leg bent so the heel of my foot was pressed tight against vulva and as I reached out to turn the page, my heel pressed harder against my vulva and it began to feel good, so I mover faster and this wonderful feeling of tingling and it felt SO good. I did not know what it was, but I knew I sure liked it. I would about every time I sat down fold my leg so my heel was touching me. I did it watching TV, in church, in Sunday school class, riding in the car (the car vibration was enough to make it feel so good. I learned to do it so well I could do sitting it at the table. As time went by I was 11, and on Thanksgiving Day at the big table I was doing the same as usual, when something exploded in me and I gasped real loud and everyone stopped eating and looked at me, I was over whelmed. I said quickly that the gravy was hot. Then they started eating again, but I knew something was different and I LOVED it. After dinner I went to the upstairs bathroom and my cousin followed me in the bathroom and asked me what really happed when I gasped. She said the gravy was not that hot! So I told her what happened and it was an accident. She told me she was 5 when she found about that delicious feeling she had. I thought I was a freak and the only one to discover it. I was so glad I was not the only one. I was 11 and my cousin was 12 and she showed me how to use my fingers. This was our secret I thought. When Mom and I were alone she told me she had noticed me rocking and that she knew what I was doing. She told me about an orgasm and that it was called masturbation. She told me she masturbates and there was nothing wrong with it, But do it in private. In bed at night I use my fingers. I am always looking for things to rub against like trees about 2" thick, leaning trees. The back of our house, there are thick woods with a lot of small trees. I would clime a flag pole but they are in public places. However I was climbing the climbing bar at school and the 1" pipes was a delightful spot to rub against and bring me to an orgasm. I also have a full size bicycle with a banana seat. I walk my bike, straddling it and walk with my friend to school and from school every day, unless it is raining. My legs are just long enough to slide over the seat to the right and push myself along, then slide to the left. I bend over the handel bars and it puts my clit in contact with the seat. Every time I have an orgasm, sometimes my legs shake, sometimes I gasp and my face turned red. My friend asked me why my face turns red and all those funny wiggling, leg jerking and moaning. She is only 9 and I am afraid to tell her what it is. One day she asked me to let her ride it like I did. Her legs were not long enough to touch the ground so I held it up with the handel bars and she leaned over the handle base just like I did. We were almost home when she climaxed and I saw her legs shake, red face, and gasping. She asked me what happened, and I told her and she asked for me not to tell her mom. From then on we both climbed on that banana and had many gooooood feelings. She told me she had found her clit and loved playing with it. I was visiting her one day and she showed me a magazine that she found in her mom's desk, it was a Playgirl magazine, it was the first time I had ever seen a mans dick. It looked kind of scary at first, but then I saw a picture with the mans dick in her and she seemed happy to have it there. So I figured that was the way men and women got together. Then to my surprise my friend got close behind me and she slipped into my panties and started fondling my clit and she gave me a wonderful orgasm. Afterwards we hugged and she said she loved and admired me. For 3 years we shares many wonderful orgasms together. Then she moved to California and I think of her often. I am not a lesbian and do not have any desires to do that. What I miss is the tender love we shared. Now I am 24 and married to the sweetest man in the world. He starts tickling me and we start wrestling and it leads to sweet wonderful times and at times He either rubs his dick against my clit or fondles it or sucks on it, he always makes me climax and then he penetrates me to his satisfaction. My panties are so wet thinking about these exciting times I have had through my short life so far. I still love to masturbate but I do it less often because I love for my MAN to do it for me. I LOVE THIS SITE AND THANK YOU for having it. I hope that someone may see something they might like to try.

Thanks Again!

Wendy

Chantelle

First let me thank all of the girls who have shared their experiences here, and the site managers, you have helped me so much!

To explain, I am a post-operative male to female transsexual, who had her sex reassignment surgery 3 months ago. Although my sexuality is straight female, I have only recently been gifted (yes, it's definitely a gift) with female genitals. Having had to masturbate with a penis while imagining it was a clitoris for so long left me with some issues and questions. How do I masturbate to orgasm now? Can I even orgasm, or are the re-arranged nerves too numb? Are old habits so programmed into me that I can't orgasm without "jerking off"?

I have had some great masturbation sessions with amazing sensation, but until today I had only orgasmed (as I would define a "climax") when having an erotic dream.

Thank you too some ideas I found here, I decided to give it another try. I have a semi-rigid anal bead type vibe with a large handle. After some general rubbing and vaginal insertion (using techniques learnt on this site) to warm up, I used the vibe to gently (at first) rub the beaded part against my clit and vulva in an up and down motion. This was sort of like jerking off with the vibe handle in my hand - it helped - this was like what I used to do to masturbate!! The (shattering) orgasm, when it arrived, was more intense and prolonged than any I had in the old days!!

My conclusion is this: we learn to masturbate when young, and the techniques we use can get programmed into our minds, preventing us from orgasming in other ways. The moral of the story is be open to new ideas, explore your mind and body, and KNOW that it's ALL good, given time and practice.

Thank you all again, you have changed my life!!
*hugz*
Chantelle

Anonymous

I have been masturbating to orgasm since I was about 13. Before that I had fingered myself out of curiosity but it didn't really bring me much pleasure so I would stop. It was only when I Goggled masturbation that I found out about the clit (thank god). Now I masturbate almost every day in one of these ways. Either I fantasize about being raped or bondage until I am wet and horny and when I can't wait anymore I start rubbing my hard clit sometimes fingering myself until I cum. Or I read literotica to make me horny, for some reason I find the stories about mind control makes me most excited. I also find that watching lesbian porn makes me more horny than normal porn but I'm not a lesbian and I think that people shouldn't be worried if they are more turned on by this, I reckon its just natural. Thanks for this site!!

Anonymous

I am writing about my masturbation techniques and experiences, but first off I'd like to say thanks for not only creating a wonderful and educational site, but for giving girls and women an outlet to talk about what may be secret to many of us.
I'm almost 15, and I tried masturbation I think in the fall of 2005, so I was 13.

I read about female masturbation off of coolnurse.com, and it turned me on and made me curious. When I was little I looked at myself in mirrors and became aroused, I also remember thinking about penises when I first became aware they existed and becoming aroused, but instead of touching I perceived it as a need to use the bathroom, so all in all nothing much more than "mental masturbation" came of my curiosity. I was younger (but not real little) I watched our animals mate (we breed rabbits and I bred rodents for many years), rabbits first, and I'm not sure if I was a bit aroused, but I know I was mesmerized by the motions of the animals, in positions I had never seen them in doing other things. My mom told me I could watch but it made me feel a bit strange and intrusive to watch their small window of opportunity.

Hehe, ANYWAY:

On the site, it gave a few ideas and told about how it can be a healthy release of sexual feelings and tension.

So I tried it. It was awesome =P. I tried different ways of touching like the site had said (tapping, rubbing, flicking, etc.), eventually I had an orgasm by just rubbing at my clit and vaginal orifice. My head buzzed a bit afterward from the pure sensation I had no idea was even possible. The next morning I felt a *bit* guilty, but not to a point of which that stopped me from doing it again. And again.

I became very curious (and still am) about different methods and positions. For a long time I wasn't able to create enough lubricant to have more than one orgasm, sometimes not even in one day let alone one sitting.

As I've become more skilled and comfortable with masturbation and my body, I can have multiple orgasms and create more natural lube.

My methods include: I still just rub at my clit and vagina, but this usually takes longer without a visual aid (like reading stories on this great site). I usually begin with getting turned on by reading these stories, making a romantic story up in my head, or looking at *some* porn (I have stopped doing this because I think I became a bit addicted when I was looking often, plus I'm sure my mom would be horrified if she found out about it since she usually opposes porn). When I am feeling horny (for lack of a better term), just rocking my pelvis is great, for this is the way I turned myself on before discovering new methods. I then rub at my labia, working my way to my clit and orifice, I then think about sexual things of many natures (its often just sexual words or phrases, stuff I barely remember afterwards :P), and rub at my self in different ways until I orgasm. I find this method fulfilling because it takes a while for me to become fully stimulated physically and mentally so the payoff is great.

I've tried many positions, on my knees, on my back, my side, on my back with my legs above my head, sitting, on all fours, and even sort of half laying on my head with my feet in the air and my head hanging down. The orgasm was great, but only did this once because my head got a total blood rush and my arms got tired really fast from being laid on lol. I also use the showerhead method, prefer kneeling with the showerhead between my legs from the front for more clitoral stimulation and from behind for more vaginal stimulation. If I'm in a hurry or think my mom might come in I just stand or sit on our shower seat (we don't have a tub), so I can look unassuming more quickly. I often tease myself with the normal setting but switch it to pulse when I need some action!

I also use an old electric toothbrush. I tried it bare the first time and although I was in need of release enough to finish, the inner part of my labia were sore for a few days and that sucked. So now I put the finger of a glove held on with a small rubber band on it. Its comfy, slides around easily, and it changes like a condom, you take it off and chuck it, no more clean up needed. We were once out of gloves so I put I band-aid over it lightly, it worked and felt good cause the back of the band aid was slightly textured, but I still prefer the easiness of the glove finger method.

A few times I have used a Barbie for stimulation (I know it sounds gross), but I don't insert it or anything I just rub the heels of the feet over my clit. It takes a while like the finger method whereas the other two take no time at all, but it feels pretty good, and if you use a joined Barbie like me you can position her feet and legs to a point to hit different spots, plus your hands don't get as tired. A great position is sitting backwards on the toilet (with the seat down of course) because it forces your legs to be spread to full capacity and gives your head/chest/other arm and place to rest while masturbating.

I tried to use the suction tube of my shop vac on my clit once.. OUCH! It was way to strong and hurt, plus it would get stuck in one place and would be hard to move to the best place after being switched on. Plus it sucked away all my juices making it hard to even part my labia. It was the one time my "experiment" when horribly wrong. Other times, like the first time with the toothbrush or the time I used a petroleum jellied Q-tip, it hasn't been great, but its been good enough I can somehow finish the job lol. I suppose the strength of the shop vac was kind of a bad idea to start with, but my curiosity got the better of me.

I don't really do much with insertion because I can't get my finger in very far without discomfort, I don't know if I have a prominent hymen or if its the positions in with I've tried it, there just seems to be a block there I could only get my finger around if I was comfortable delving deeper with a curved finger, which I'm not, at this point.

But that's ok, I am extremely happy and satisfied with my sex life and I think masturbation is a great sexual outlet especially for teenage girls (where it seems to be shunned the most publicly), because too many girls seem needy for a male partner and will have sex with him to keep him with her. Its sad and sometimes I just want to shout "You could get more pleasure from a Ken doll!" But I would end up embarrassed and it would seem like a dis. Luckily none of my close friends are like this, but they do seem to have the need to date and be paid attention to by another person. I respect this, and although I'd be ok with finding the right guy, its not really something at the forefront of my thoughts. Sometimes I wonder if that would be different had I not discovered masturbation. In some ways I'm just sad I didn't sooner.

I found this site doing research for my personal knowledge and absolutely love it, its a great place to share things that are too often very very personal and it feels good to be telling others of my own experiences for the first time.

My mom knows I look at this site and other educational sites and she is okay with that because she did work in AIDS education for a long part of her life (I grew up playing with expired condoms like they were balloons and know how to properly apply them if you will). Since I was little she has educated me and told me it was okay to touch myself in private (I guess I did it absent mindedly while watching TV when I was teeny, but it was more in a curious way). She also knows that I am open to teens masturbating even though I want to save intercourse for marriage. Still, I haven't told her outright that I myself masturbate because it is just more comfortable for me to keep it private most of the time.

Maybe it stems from my "fun thinks" I kept private as a wee child, who knows?

In closing, I love this site, love researching about sex and human anatomy (its absolutely fascinating), and if I ever have a business someday I'll support the site funds-wise. I may write again should I find another fulfilling technique. Thanks so much and I hope others gained a bit from this extremely long message. ^^

Pippa

I'm 13 and started masturbrating about 6 months ago. I've just had the best orgasm ever using the tap in the bath. Normally what I do is pull my pants up so they're really tight and my flaps [labia] are hanging over them and it looks like a thong from behind. Then I have a big Tiger cuddle toy, I lie it on it's side and I lie down on it and start circular motions it gives me great orgasms and sometimes sharp pains and sometimes makes my legs go numb. It's such a great feeling and sometimes I want to do it all the time but I'm scared my mum will walk in or my dad.

Katya

I'm 30 years old and married with a young toddler. And I'm afraid my masturbation techniques might be a bit humdrum or unoriginal, but the way they make me feel is far from ordinary.... I simply lie in bed, remove my clothing, place a pillow beneath my bottom (this creates a better angle from which to reach my pussy), and begin to gently stroke my clit with my fingers, teasing slowly. And then faster - and faster - until the inevitable orgasm, which always feels somehow earth-shattering, as if it's happening for the first time in human history. I've tried dozens of other methods that I've read or heard about, f***ed everything from cucumbers to chair legs (and some other exotic vegetables while I was living in Asia). I tried it standing, sitting, crouching, in front of mirrors or windows, while peeing, rubbing a variety of household objects against my throbbing clit (books, stuffed animals, shampoo bottles, remote controls)... but in the end, I'm happiest when it's just me and my nimble fingers alone together in my bed, in the dark. Thank you for letting me share. And thank you all for inspiring me with your stories. I love this site.

Anonymous

I am 22 and have been masturbating since I was in kindergarden. I didn't understand the feeling, it reminded me of the peeing feeling. To this day I am obsessed with watching girls pee?Ii wish there was a girl out there who would want to pee with me...

Anyway I masturbate every day almost, and I get so wet in pants, ohhhh... Even now thinking about it turns me on. I read on this site a while back to trying humping a door, right on the outside edge. Place hands on each side of the handle. Let me know how it goes.

Anonymous

Like a majority of women, my techniques are simple but I have modified them a little to make them somewhat different.

I've been masturbating since I was about 5 years old. My methods were plain Jane back then, mostly relying on just pushing on my pubic area with my palms until I orgasmed either by sitting on the toilet with my legs firmly spread wide or by laying on my stomach in bed with my legs stiff. Over time I experimented with fat markers, stuffed dolls, and eventually going into vibrators when I got older.

I have two main methods that I use to bring me to explosive and amazing orgasms. The first seems to be a universal favorite and that is masturbating under running water in the tub. A detachable shower head is more ideal I think, but I don't have one of those so I make do with what I have. I don't do the usual method of scooting right under the faucet. Often that gets too uncomfortable being in that position. Instead, I'll fold a washcloth in half and wrap it around the tub faucet so that the water stream aims a little more forward instead of straight down. This way you can have the water falling more towards your body and you don't have to scoot down so far underneath the water. I also attach a rubber band to one of those handheld mirrors and put it over the washcloth, which also helps keep it from sliding down. But you can also put your feet around it to hold it and at the same time you can watch yourself get off underneath the water while the mirror's upside down.

What I do is spread my lips with both hands and just let the water run down until I can feel my stomach contract while those little waves of pleasure start building to bring me to orgasm little by little. It varies, sometimes I like to get it over fast and sometimes I just lay under there and let it build slowly. When I do it slowly, sometimes I let it bring me to the brink over and over again until I notice my lips getting bright pink and swollen with my little clit poking out from underneath it's hood. The longer I hold my lips open and let the water run down it, my genitals get so bright pink and I end up trying to hold open my pussy lips as far as they will go. Or I will hold them open so wide that my pink hard clit is standing out firmly and I watch in the mirror as the water runs over my clit and urethral area and makes my flaps and clit go back and forth. Once I am thoroughly turned on and ready to cum, my body shakes violently during my very intense orgasm. It's breathtaking.

My second preference is with my dick shaped vibrator and lots of KY Jelly while watching myself close up in the mirror. I start by turning it on high then adding KY to the tip, and running it's detailed and veiny tip all up along my slit paying close attention to my clitoral area. I do this over and over again until I'm pressing it pretty hard against my growing clit and my urethral opening faster and faster. By this time my clit is firmly erect, I take some KY and start rubbing it with with my index and middle fingers while gripping my clit in my hood back and forth. Afterwards I take out my long piece of fish tubing, put KY on one end, put it over my clit and then suck on the other end, watching my clit be sucked up in the small tube, making it swell and grow a little bit bigger. The bigger it is, the easier it is grip between your fingers. After that I slowly rub my big hard clit with my middle finger and all up and down and over my urethral opening between my lips. The feeling eventually becomes too intense so I have no control when I finally do cum. Again, I start to shake violently.

I find that these are the main ways I can achieve a really hard, explosive orgasm every time. Ideally, I would love to have a tub with jets that are able to pulsate out of control on my clit. I abuse my clit the way I do because when I want to make myself cum, I want to make myself cum hard and violent. I wouldn't have it any other way.

Melaney

I've been using a Sonicare toothbrush to masturbate. I have three different toothbrush heads, one without bristles, one with, and one for brushing my teeth only... I like to put it right over my clit, and man it feels great. I orgasm every time! Press hard though, sometimes it hurts if its not pressed right against you

Kelsey

Hey, my name is Kelsey. I'm 15 years old and have been masturbating since I was about 11. I first discovered masturbating because I had a mosquito bite on my inner thigh. One day as I scratching it, I began to get this feeling inside my panties. I rushed to my bedroom and stuck my hand into my underwear. At first I would lie on my back, legs spread apart and rub my clit. At about age 13, my mom who had been single as far back as I could remember started seeing this man. One night, after going to a movie, I came home to find the front door locked. I didn't think anything of it, I just went around the back and used the spare key. As I climbed the stairs to my room I heard a muffled grunting and soft ah's. My mom's door was slightly ajar so I peeked inside. Boy was that a surprise. My mom was lying on the bed, eyes closed, as her boyfriend pumped away on top of her. At thirteen, I was horrified. I cried myself to sleep. The next day I went through my mom's bedside table trying to find some proof that I hadn't imagined everything. I got my proof. A tube of KY Jelly, a pack of condoms and a tiny silver vibrator. My mom was out for the day so I took the vibrator back to my room. It was tiny enough that I could slip it inside my lips, and then put my panties back on. I did so, and then humped a pillow until I had my first ever orgasm. Though I just recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years, I still have a lot of fun with that little toy.

Nancy

I love to find a picture of a beautiful girl with firm tits (large or small), who's uninhibitedly playing with herself. And ideally, this would be a video clip in which she brings herself to orgasm. I strip off all my clothes, run the clip again, and masturbate furiously -- my ultimate aim being to explode into orgasm with the luscious beauty I'm watching. My screams are so loud, they've brought many a curious look from the folks next door. I'm sure they know what I'm up to -- and that only adds to my excitement!

Lauren

As a divorced woman of 42, I have been forced to masturbate because of my fear of contracting a STD from intercourse with a man. I have resurrected an unusual method I learned in my teen years. I straddle my mattress and grind my vagina along the edge of the mattress. I wear underwear while doing this to prevent soreness and to protect the sheet from stains. The underwear absorbs my wetness. I always orgasm intensely many times .

I do not wish to stop masturbating this way as I am guaranteed many orgasms compared to intercourse with a man. I have on occasion, used a magic wand, but I maybe have one or two weak orgasms. I have become addicted to my grinding method but so what. I love it. I highly recommend my method to those women who need to have intense orgasms and are not concerned about becoming addicted to it .....ENJOY.....

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