Shared Female Masturbation Techniques and Experiences: Collection 12

Jill

I have never had an orgasm during intercourse and probably never will. I find the required stimulation is not there. The first time I had what I call a good orgasm was when I was almost 17. I was a cheerleader in high school and myself and other cheerleaders were waiting for the game to begin. It was suggested I could not climb to the top of a swing set. I was always up to a dare so up I went. About 20 or 25 feet. I had my one piece outfit, panty-hose, and sneakers on. I was shocked at the sensations I received as I shinnied up the swing set. As I managed to get my arms over the top the friction the panty-hose created against my clit gave me what I call my first satisfying orgasm. I can't say if I cried out loud but I do remember hearing some snickering from below. I had to wait a little while before I slid back down. I was way to sensitive. I told this to my best friend later and she said she could till something had happened while I was up there. That was 2 years ago. Since then I have tried it again in blue jeans but with not the same results. As a matter of fact, I didn't cum at all. I'll have to dig out that one-piece bodysuit, put on a pair of sheer panty-hose and give it a try again. I love this site. As I said before orgasm does not come easy for me so i will experiment with some techniques mentioned here.

Thanks Jill

Alanna

Hi my name is Alanna, and I am 17. I probably started masturbating when I was around 5 or 6. During nap time at my preschool I use to bundle my blanket underneath me and hold it there with my hands and rub it against me. It was the most wonderful feeling in the whole entire world. I frequently masturbated at night before I fell asleep till I was 10. My mother always told me it was dirty and I should not touch myself in anyway. I thought I was dirty but I still did it but less often. I continued to masturbate almost every night and sometimes it was the only thing that could calm me down enough for me to actually go to sleep. I still did it the same way bringing my covers in a bundle underneath me and rubbing and pushing against them in this certain way. Sometimes I did it so much I would swell an hurt so I would have to stop. When I turned 13 my mother caught me laying naked on my bed after I had taken a shower masturbating. I was so embarrassed I stopped doing it all together and denied doing it ever. I had got my period that same year and never thought about the feeling of pushing something inside of me. So when I had Swim Team practice she gave me a tampon. I looked at her like she was insane. But since I am a swimmer I had to learn. Inserting it the first time kinda hurt. Then after a while and getting use to the idea of something being inside of me I forgot all about it. I ended up masturbating with it inside of me one night and it felt 10x better. I couldn't believe it. It was like the missing link. When I turned 15 I started stealing my mom's larger tampons and I learned a trick. I would take it out of the wrapper then let the hot water run. (but this only works with the plastic applicators tampons) I would put the tampon under the hot water and wait till the plastic got hot and the tampon filled up with hot water. Then I would insert it. It feels so warm and good. Then I inject the tampon in leaving the plastic in also. Run over to my bed and build my mound of covers underneath me. I then hump and rub the mound of covers and since the plastic part is still sticking out when you press down the tampon moves inside of you feeling like its going in and out as you move. I can orgasm in 30 sec. or less I mean wow. I lost my virginity when I was 16. Sex felt nothing like what I do when I masturbate I thought maybe it was going to feel 10x better but really its quite dull for me. Luckily I have a new boyfriend who is also 17. Though he is all about making me feel good. Its quite different for me him asking what i like and if this and that feels good. I am a very shy person when it comes to telling and showing what i like. He has a lot more experience than me and knows a lot more and actually didnt need any help with some things. He actually told me about your site and thank god for that. I would never talk about this to anyone but after him begging me to just check this site out I am so glad I did. I hope this experience helps someone out. I still use this trick. I haven't been able to orgasm any other way as good as this.

-Alanna

Anonymous

I just thought I would let you know about my masturbation experience. I'm 15, from the the time when I was quite little I found it nice to put my hand between my legs and just generally rub it around, usually outside my clothing. Thinking back on it now, it must have sometimes been quite obvious to mom and dad but they never said anything. Mom has always been very fussy about keeping her body in shape ad attractive and has regularly visited the beautician to have her legs, underarms and pubic area waxed (pubic area totally smooth). I often used to go along with her so I knew all about the process. Before I got to puberty she started me having legs waxed also. We discussed what I wanted when the pubic hair started growing and I decided I'd be smooth like mom. So when I was about 12 years old and there was enough to wax off for the first time, we went along to her beautician. It hurt a little bit but also gave me a real tingly feeling. When I got home I went to my room, took off my knickers and started rubbing up and down where the hair had been removed and very quickly got to orgasm. After this I spoke to mum and asked if she felt any different after she had been waxed - we have always been quite open about sex - she said it felt nice. That's why she kept it smooth, as well as because dad liked it that way too for normal and oral sex. After that I got quite aroused when it came to the time for my visit to the beautician. I had to be careful I did not appear too wet. When she finished, I would come home and masturbate. For about the past year I have heightened this experience still further by not wearing any knickers when I go to the beautician's for my waxing, and usually wearing a short loose skirt. When I come home afterwards I usually have a really intense orgasm.

Anonymous

Anonymous

I like to take time with myself and not rush it. I tease myself to new levels, then back off, then start again, reaching higher and higher plateaus. I tell myself not to cum, to wait, to make it worthwhile. Sometimes i fantasize that my lover is going to spank me if I cum too soon, and that he may spank me anyway if I do not stay perfectly still while he torments me. This drives me insane with desire. If I want to go even crazier, I imagine that it's my first time with a beautiful woman, licking me and caressing me. Using my fingers, so gently, I stroke my inner thighs and breasts and make myself "beg" to be touched on my clitoris. I do so, ever so lightly. It's breathtaking when I finally let myself feel free to go into a free-fall of delight. I always ejaculate and feel the contractions deep inside. Then I start all over again, slowly. It takes time, but I am worth it. So are you!

Anonymous

Anonymous

I'm almost 50 and I can't remember when I started to masturbate but I was young. Young enough that I had no idea what I was doing - but knew it felt good. Now I'm married for years and have found new ways thanks to this site to pleasure myself. I love to do it when I'm alone and especially if I feel that I might get caught - guess it's heightened sense. My more recent way is to use a massager we have - it vibrates much like a dildo so it works very well. I may use it alone or with other help. sometimes I push something into my vagina or other times something into my anus depending on my mood. My husband doesn't know, but one day I'll try it with him. Thanks for the site - love the info and the stories from the others.

Anonymous

Tina

Well, to start off, I would love to thank whomever created this extraordinary site. I find masturbation a stress release. I am a teacher as well as an office manager and sometimes work overwhelms me. I didn't start "playing" with myself until I was 17 years old. I had a boyfriend at the time who loved to eat me out as well as play with me. He introduced me to a new way to use Popsicles. First, lay a towel or something under you. Then you take a Popsicle and use it as if it were a dildo. It feels so good. You get so cold inside! wowowowow! Then you can even go on with using a vibrator on your clit. That feels incredible! After those experiences with him, we ended up breaking up for some reason. I had so many feelings, I had the urge to try to re-gain that feeling. I used the Popsicle and it made me feel like I was queen of the world. Now, I am engaged and my fiancé loves to use the Popsicle and place his mouth under to catch the juices of both the Popsicle and my body juices. Another thing that you could use is a rub called" Blue Stuff" you can get it at Wal-Mart. rub a little on there and it really feels incredible. Sort of like vapor-rub.

- Tina, age 21, Maryland

Caution should be used when inserting ice cold items into the vagina as frostbite is possible since the inner vagina is not usually highly sensitive to touch. It is not known what affect the ingredients of Popsicles may have the vaginal environment, but infections are a possible result.

Hillary

I have been masturbating since I was about 10 or 11. At school there were railings in the gym for the bleachers and in gym I would sit on them and rock back and forth ever so gently so that no one noticed. It felt really good. Now I just sit in the tub when I take a bath and use my fingers, it's great! (P.S. I am SO glad I found your site! I used to be so embarrassed about masturbation, but now I am much more confident! I also learned some new techniques! Keep up the good work!!!)

Hillary

Joanna

I have been masturbating for about 5 years, ever since my divorce. My ex used to love to eat my pussy, and who was I to complain!! I really like clitoral stimulation, and he was a master at tonguing my clit until I could barely stand it. But since my divorce I have been left to my own devices. I have an awesome vibrator that works my clit like nobody's business, but I have been really lucky to find a partner that is very good at giving my clit a work out. I never thought about getting down with another woman, and am quite surprised at myself, but while at the gym one day, another gal gave me a sign that she wanted to get physical. I blew it off at first, but the next time I went to the gym, she was showering the same time as I was. I couldn't help but notice that she was masturbating, and though I tried to ignore it, she caught me looking. Before I knew what was happening, she had her tongue wrapped around my clit, going for glory. I'm ashamed to say that I rode her face like it was Secretariat, and shook and came like I had not in many years. I then turned into her glorious pussy and suckled her clit as if my life depended on her orgasm. Her screams and shudders are still part of my masturbating fantasies 10 years later. Even though we saw each other at the gym many times after that, we never did enjoy each other in the same way again. Perhaps it was what we both needed at the time, I don't know. However, I do know that every time since then, whenever I masturbate, I see myself as I was that day, riding her tongue into glory, unafraid of being discovered, feeling her teeth on my clit, and knowing that this was meant to be. Helen, wherever you are, thank you for the memories, and for such an amazing pussy ride on your beautiful face. Peace and good pussy eating to you always.

Joanna

Nina

Hey, My name is Nina. I love your site! Before I used to feel so guilty for masturbating, but now I don't, thanks to reading other peoples experiences, and i also love this site because i can read about other girls techniques, and I'm always running to my room or the bathroom to try them. I'm 15 and I have been masturbating sense I was about 7. I never knew what it was really called, I just knew touching myself "down there" felt soo good.

My main technique is to lay on my bed, and think about my boyfriend kissing my all over, and working his way down to my pussy. Then I start to move my finger very slowly in a circle on my pussy, no special place at first, just all over, then I think about my boyfriends tongue sliding in and out of my hole. I start to feel myself wanting to cum, and then I pick up a little bit of speed and use my middle finger to move in and out of my hole. Then I really start to get wet. (I couldn't do any of this if I wasn't totally concentrated. And if I'm not really getting into my fantasy nothing will happen) Then I just can't keep still. I start to rub my inner lip and circle my hole, this usually really gets me going and I have my orgasm, and it feels soooo great. After words I feel so weak (in a good way)

I also tried the faucet technique I read about on here, and let me tell you, it gave me the best orgasm! I turned the water on warm, and when I felt my orgasm coming I turned the water down so it was colder, and I think that made it last longer. So if you haven't tried the bathtub faucet yet...go for it!!!

Well thanks for all the ideas, they all are great!

Casey

I am 14 years old, I have been masturbating since I was 6, usually after school I lay back naked on my bed, and gently rub myself, dreaming about another girl licking my bum, when I was 10, me and the boy next door had sex, and he licked my vagina.

Luv
Casey

Roz

I am 20 years old and have been masturbating for as long as I can remember. I have always been very sexual, even as a young child, and - thanks to my open minded parents - was told about sex at a very young age (2-3 years old). I believe this is essential for a healthy sex life as the younger you are when you are informed, the less embarrassed you feel about sex generally.

Until the age of about 12 I was always a little ashamed of masturbating. This was not because I personally felt it was wrong, but because I assumed that everyone else would be shocked and disgusted if they knew I did it. As a child I believed that I was probably the only one (or the only girl at least) in my peer group who masturbated so I kept it firmly to myself. However, at about 12 I dared to discuss it with my friends and learned that they masturbated too. Best of all were the conversations with one of my male friends: we told each other everything - what we liked (types of porn etc.), what we did and who we'd like to do it to.

It was also at 12 that I began experimenting with masturbation. As a child I would usually lie on my front, with my palm pressing against my clit. I didn't masturbate a lot, but I greatly enjoyed it and 'needed' to do it. Then at 12 I started masturbating regularly, also trying various positions and with various objects in my vagina, beginning simply with my fingers. I also started fantasizing properly. Before I had had crushes and had fantasized a little, but now I was regularly setting time aside for fantasy and prolonged masturbation. It became a hobby and it still is today!

Now I am in a long term relationship with a guy I am deeply in love with, and we have frequent and greatly fulfilling sex. However, I still masturbate and would never give it up. My boyfriend and I are very open about masturbation and both tell and show each other everything. We also discuss our favorite types of porn and our fantasies.

I masturbate in various different ways, ranging from touching my clit when I sit watching internet porn, to lying back on my bed and using a vibrator whilst fantasizing. My favorite position, though is still lying on my front. Even though I'm right handed, my left hand does most of the work. I put the middle finger into my vagina and press the heel of the palm against my clit. I put my right hand over my left for extra pressure. This is the easiest and quickest way I masturbate and I can often reach orgasm in under one minute. I don't masturbate every day, but most days, and when I do, I often masturbate up to five times consecutively as I often find that coming once is not enough.

I fantasize about several things including: my boyfriend and various actors/characters in a variety of different scenarios. When it's about an actor or the character they play, I'm rarely me and instead invent a character for myself to be - occasionally, the character I invent for myself is a man. A lot of you have mentioned thinking about sex with other women. From the ages of about 10 to 16 I did too, though now I prefer men. What I would like to know is: does anyone else like to think about two men. I don't mean having a threesome, but gay sex, in the same way that a lot of men like to think about lesbians. I also like the idea of using a strap-on (though I doubt my boyfriend would be too keen on this!), and I sometimes think about spanking, though this is less important.

I have another question, though I can understand if this is inappropriate for the website: In the chapter on fantasy, you mention rape, as in being raped. This is one of my fantasies (although it does not involve any pain or violence). However you have not mentioned raping itself. I'm sure many women fantasize about being raped, but am I the only one who fantasizes about raping? Again I am not into causing great pain or injury but I like the idea of being in control and spontaneous, and the element of surprise, which is possible for a man but impossible for a woman in real life, as a man must have an erection to begin with.

Many Thanks
Roz

Anonymous

Hello. I'm a 26 year old female who masturbates several times a day. I've been doing this for as long as I can remember. I was very young, maybe 7 or 8, and found my mother's boyfriends' dirty magazines hidden under the bed. I don't remember how I found out I could rub my clit and come to orgasm, but I did. I found videos and all sorts of toys in their bedroom. Masturbation feels sooo good. If I don't have any visual stimulation, I lie on my stomach to masturbate with my hips slightly raised off the bed or floor. I spread my lips open with my index and ring fingers and flick my clit with the middle finger. I always imagine myself with women. The adult movies I buy are always lesbian movies. Usually one good orgasm does the trick. I'm glad to hear about so many other women who pleasure themselves, as much as I do. Thanks for a great website.

Anonymous

I am sharing a technique that my girlfriend enjoys. She is 26 years old and is truly very beautiful and otherwise "normal" and an all American girl. It is a somewhat different approach to orgasm and just deepens my curiosity on what and how people are aroused. It took some time for her to really share the details with me (and show me) With the comfort of anonymity, we both decided we would offer this submission to see if there were "others" who have tried this technique. She has asked me to write it.

Kyle (not real name) masturbates by peeing in her underwear first and then rubbing herself to orgasm over the wet material. Sounds strange...it is different for sure. She has told me that she first began doing this in her early teens as she entered puberty. She equated a full bladder and the ensuing pressure to sexual arousal. When her bladder was full, she would almost unknowingly start rubbing herself. In an effort to have what she would quickly learn to be her first "orgasm" she would lie in her bed and begin the general rubbing around her vaginal area ( no penetration ). One time while doing this as she has explained, the urge to pee came and so she just "let go." Apparently, the combination of warm pee soaking through her underwear (and, to her dismay, her bed) and her sexual arousal created by her rubbing brought her to her first real orgasm and the "imprint" of sexual release was created! This newfound pleasure was overwhelming to her. During her teens she said she peed in her pants more than in the toilet. Naturally this activity presented a major inconvenience by generating all her wet underwear and early on, her bed, and as a result Kyle quickly adopted measures for managing this activity (towels, and secret hiding spots in her room for her wet things while living at home.[ can you imagine)?

We met in college and that is when I discovered her "technique." We started dating during our senior year and she was living in an apartment. One day after classes, I went to Kyle's apartment, she was not back from class yet, and when she came home I decided to "scare" her and hid in her bedroom closet and anticipated the fun of jumping out and surprising her. Well, it was me that got the surprise of my life! While waiting in Kyle's closet, I kept getting the unmistakable odor of urine. Of course it was very strong near and around her clothes basket. So as men do, I "investigated." The basket was full of wet towels and clothing...a couple of pairs of underwear, a pair of jeans and a pair of pajama bottoms....all were wet. At first I was weirded out. But I was also intrigued. Within a few minutes Kyle came into her room, but I had forgotten about the "scare" and suddenly, the closet door opens and there I am!! She was not happy about seeing me in there and was visibly shaken and upset. She asked me what I was doing and then just left the room abruptly. After some inquiry and coaxing, Kyle broke down and awkwardly explained in detail her masturbation thing. She still does this regularly but prefers to maintain privacy while doing it. When I now see extra towels out I know she needs her privacy I have seen her in the aftermath and I do find this very erotic. However, she would be mortified if people she knew ever found out!

While this may be a more extreme example, urine and especially the urge to urinate is reported by many women to enhance their sexual experiences. To the best of my knowledge, we don't know why the pressure of a full bladder enhances sex, but it does. Perhaps, it stimulates the same nerve associated with the female prostate gland, which is a different nerve than the one that goes to the clitoris.

Anonymous

Hi. This is a cool website and very informative. I am 29 years old and just started masturbating. It is kind of funny how I got started. I was shopping at a Wal-Mart when one of the clerks approached me and asked me if I would like a coupon for an Oral-B Hummingbird gum stimulator and flosser. Then she held it in her hand and told me to touch it. I was very surprised and impressed with the vibration that this "oral hygiene" tool had. I knew immediately that I had to have one and I knew what I was going to do with it!!! It works great for the clitoris, and it is small and discreet. I am urging all masturbating women to go out and buy one. They are less than $10.00. Have fun.

Eliza

Hi, my name is Eliza and I've been masturbating for quite a few years. Even when I didn't realize what I was doing was "masturbating." When I was younger, I would get such enjoyment when playing in the bath tub. I use to take an empty shampoo bottle, fill it up with warm water, and straddle it between my legs. Then I would squeeze the bottle and allow the water to shoot against my clit. At the time I didn't know anything about masturbation and just thought of this as pure fun.

As I gold older I would go into my bedroom and fondle myself, still not knowing the term for what I was doing. I would sit back on my bed, part my legs a little ways, and stroke my clit with my middle finger. I'd get aroused, but never to the point of having an orgasm.

Now that I'm older and now a bit more about masturbation, thanks to this lovely web site, I have learned new ways of pleasuring myself. I find the fingering method to be pretty useless with myself. Never am I satisfied, even when having fantasies of a man or woman with their head between my legs, teasing my clit with their tongue. One day I was searching around the house for anything that I thought would help put me in the mood. I found one of my big highlighters, the rounded kind that are real smooth.

Slowly I slip the highlighter (the bottom, not the cap end) into my pussy, touching my clit. Slowly and softly I rub the highlighter back and forth across it. As I'm doing this, I'm either fantastizing about being with someone or looking at some photos to help put me in the mood. Sometimes reading erotic stories really helps out.

I keep rubbing the highlighter across my clit, until I start to have slight spasms. I slow down a bit, enjoying the feeling of the marker soaking in my own juices. Now that the highlighter is wetter *usually when I start I'm already a bit wet* the feeling is even more satisfying. By this time I have to take it slow or else the feeling comes and goes, leaving me wanting more. So I keep going as slow as possible, until my body begins to shake. Finally I can't take it anymore, the spasms growing greater. I want moan out, but close my eyes and mentally scream out in ecstasy.

Usually I can do this a couple of times each night. Sometimes I have to wait a little bit before doing this again. It's a great feeling though. For the past month, I've masturbated at least 4 times every night. I live in a house of four and luckily don't have to hide the fact I do it either. Just recently I spoke with my mother about masturbating and I came to find out that she did it when she was younger. Makes me feel better to know that I'm not the only person that's ever done this.

Anonymous

I am 36 years old and I started masturbating when I was the age of 10. I used to go in the bedroom where I would be alone with the door shut and my mother would think I was in there playing and I would be in the floor with my shorts off sitting in the floor with my legs spread. I used my finger and was rubbing back and forth on my clit and I used to have this funny feeling but didn't know what it was but yet it felt good to. I would draw up and squirm with the feeling and then stop. I rubbed my finger up and down on my clit again and it was getting a great feeling after that first attempt. I would play with myself for a short while, and then quit. I used to sneak out on the back porch when no one was looking and used to sit on the porch and spread my legs with my shorts unzipped and have my left hand down my shorts and I had my fingers diddling with my clit then and it started feeling great from that moment on. I used to have to hide my masturbating and the secrets I kept to myself and wanted to feel the tingling and the relaxation that it felt. I used to have a girl doll and I would take the clothes off of her and lay on the bed or on the floor and spread my legs with no clothes on and I would take that doll and turn her head down toward my clit and the doll had a sucking sound to her mouth. I would put her face toward my clit and push down on her head to my clit and would move her head back and forth like she was sucking on me and eating my pussy. It felt so good. Now, since I got to the age I am now, I love laying on the bed without my husband around and love taking my hand and playing with my hot wet cunt and fucking myself and using my dildo. MMM, it feels so good when I use it and I love every minute of it and I love masturbating because it feels soooo good....

Barron

I love to rub my clit and have since I was young. I knew it felt good there but I never knew how good it could feel . When I was about 12, I sat down in the shower and was getting ready to shave my legs. Somehow, I moved just tothe right place and a stream of hard shower water hit my clit. Oh my gosh, I jerked away and it was throbbing. I didn't know what it would do but I now had to see. I spread my legs open and my vagina lips and moved just to the right spot. I think I came immediately. I continued to do this very often. One wonderful day I found my dads vibrator that he would use for his headaches. *(he said..ha) Mom and Dad left for the day and I was home alone, just me and the vibrator. I took of all my clothes and laid in the floor. I had never done this before but I knew it had to be good. I put the vibrator on my exposed swollen clitoris and turned on the switch. I have never felt anything so good in my life. I did this all day long. The next day I was sore, but I thought that might feel good too. And of course, it did. I want to try a clit sucker or I think they are actually skin pore cleaners. It looks good. Does anyone know? I'm going now to masturbate my clit. Bye......Barron

Anonymous

I go to the tanning salon year round and always tan completely naked. One day when I was just getting in the bed I heard the girl in the room next to me masturbating and moaning pretty loudly. I had just oiled up my body so I thought I might as well join her. I started to rub my voluptuous round tits and flick my nipples with my wet fingers. I even sucked my right nipple for awhile. Then I reached down to my slippery clit and started rubbing it while rocking back and forth in the hot tanning bed. I could hear her moans getting louder so I started to moan loud enough for her to hear me. Soon we came together while playing with our own pussies. I left my tanning session a little early so I could see who she was and how shocked was I to realize it was my own gorgeous boss. I'll never look at her the same way again. Now we make it a daily thing, at her house that is.

Anonymous

I am 27 years old and I have been masturbating since I was 7 or 8. It started when I was staying overnight at a friends house and she asked me if I had ever touched myself. She began to masturbate and I just watched. I went home the next day and tried it. Although, her technique was direct stimulation, I would rub on the outside of my pants, usually sitting in a chair with my legs tightly crossed. I did not know what was happening, but it felt really good. When I turned 15 I started to associate it with a "sexual" feeling. I would fantasize about my boyfriends or crushes and masturbating became a part of my everyday life. In college, I would often hear my roommate pleasing herself late at night when she thought I was asleep. That was the point when I started to use my fingers to rub my clit. This took a long time to reach orgasm but it was very intense. My roommate and I kind of knew what was going on - and we would talk about it. Pretty soon we both were comfortable masturbating together - in the dark, but we could both her each other. This was very exciting and it made me realize that masturbating was a very natural, acceptable thing to do. I mainly masturbate with a vibrator, laying down in the bed. I like to be totally alone when I do it. I hold the vibrator to the left side of my clit and cross my legs very tightly. I really don't move the vibrator around too much. I like to tease myself but find it very hard not to orgasm immediately. I just let it happen. I have also fantasized about being with another woman while I masturbate. Although, I have fooled around with a girl in college, (just manual stimulation) it is still very erotic to fantasize about it. I am now a newlywed and my husband and I are very open with masturbation. It has brought excitement and fun to our relationship and I am sure we will both be masturbating well into our golden years! Thanks for letting me share!

Anonymous

I use a stuffed animal to do it and I love it. I just lay on my stomach and move back and forth on it and I slightly moan and it helps a lot. I use the shower thing too and when I did that the first time I thought I was the only one. Thank God other people do it too. But for "Jenny" and "Tasha" hit me up on AIM and we can do something there. My s/n is [removed]. I'm actually do it right now as I read these since they seem to really turn me on.

I removed her AIM, as we could not control who and how many people attempted to contact her.

Anonymous

I'm 21 and I love masturbating. I can't remember how old I was when I first started. I think I may have been around 15.Whilst lying in bed one night I discovered that rubbing my clit felt nice. I started to do this regularly. To begin with I would stop just before orgasm because I couldn't handle the feeling. Then one night I managed to keep going as the excitement built. It was like an explosion. The most amazing feeling ever. Now I try to do it twice to three times a week. I like to do it in bed, I will strip naked and rub myself all over, focusing on my nipples. Eventually I work my way down south, I lick my middle finger and begin to rub gently then faster and faster as I approach climax. Afterwards I usually find I sleep easier.

Sinner

Hi, I'm a 20 y/o female, I want to contribute in your "experiences", and this is my story.

I've begun to masturbate at the age of... I don't remember. Things look like I've been doing that for all my life, since the very birth. I had been a real masturbation addict already at the age of 10. I had had sexual fantasies long before the age of 12 (the beginning of my periods), but, when my "bloody thing" started, my body had decided it's time to go crazy indeed. CRAZY! It was like a fire between my legs. Being inflamed, I greatly craved for sex in my teens, and that made me masturbate, sometimes, 3+ times a day.

I am almost 21 now, and have just a monstrous sex drive. I think my case is one of the extraordinary, which is sometimes called "nymphomaniac", although I hate this pseudoscientific term, and know that many other girls feel the same. I'm sure I have a huge amount of testosterone.

Usually I masturbate with my fingers, doing hard circular motion on my clit. I also use different things to play with the clit, I touch it with a lipstick, or a marker, etc. The frequency depends on many factors. When I'm busy at work and studies, and very tired, I may not masturbate for several days. When I don't have many things to worry about, I do that several times a day, usually 2 or 3. I would do even more, but the problem is that my clit goes sore. Still aroused and eager to get the stimulation, but sore! This pain prevents me from playing with myself, probably, for 10+ times a day. ;)

I think I smell and taste fantastic. I greatly regret I can't eat myself, being just able to lick my juices from my own fingers. I don't feel very comfortable with vaginal penetration, although sometimes I insert something there, to get new sensations. :) I can reach an orgasm at approx. 5 minutes, but I never do so. I prefer to prolong my sweet torment to 20-30 minutes at least, or longer, making myself stop when I feel the orgasm is near, and then continue. My fantasies are mostly violent. My favorite one is about being raped by the whole heavy metal band. These long-haired guys in chains and leather drive me mad. I imagine my hands are bond, or that I even have fetters on my hands and legs. The guys make me spread my legs. The band's leader is the first. He begins with eating me, rude and heavy, while others lick and rub my nipples, and make me do blowjobs for them all (of course, I have to swallow). From time to time, he bites my clit, that makes me scream, and they all laugh and say smut: that I smell and taste good, etc... Then, they simply f*** me hard. Oh yeah, and don't forget about the music I want for this bestial orgy: death or black metal.

Other girls may be there too. I like to imagine how I lick and suck and kiss them all over their bodies, and especially "there".

The orgasms I get with this fantasy bring me almost to death.

Your site is the best site about female sexuality I've ever seen. Carry on!

Love,
Sinner

Hoeboe

Ok, first I would just like to say, how fantastic it is, that women from young ages to older are sharing their wonderful experiences with others. From just reading the other peoples' experiences I got aroused and started to masturbate. I first started when I was very young, I'm 16 now by the way. I used to lie on the floor and rub my body up and down. Then one day when no one was in, I went to my staircase stuck my legs between the poles on the stairs, held my body up with my arms and rubbed my body against the poles, faster and faster. I was young when I did this, but then I got a bit older and got onto bigger things. I then realized that you could quite handily use your hands. And this started just after I knew exactly what masturbation was. At the moment I am thinking about sex every 15 minutes, and I am flirting with literally every boy, I cant help it, I just feel so horny. I usually lie in bed close my eyes, and imagine that I am hung up by a string and all the men that worship me, come to have sex with me. This turns into a dream and I get vigorous images of myself being touched by my type of men how I want to be touched. Its so arousing. I could go on forever, but I would just like to say, that I have learned a lot about myself and others on this site. This site proves to ourselves how much we think about sex, being loved, and more importantly how we are touched. Thanx again hoeboe x

Alice Rose

I have been "doing it" since I was about 12. My current favorite fantasy is that my boyfriend and I are laying on a couch watching a football game on TV. There are some other couples in the room so we have to be very discreet. Every once in a while someone speaks to us and we have to answer. I have to be very quite and not move or moan because we don't want anyone to know what we are doing. We have a blanket over us and he slips his hand down my panties and starts to rub me very gently until I get wet. Then he slips his finger into my vulva and justs lets it rest there for a few minutes. I get very hot because I know what it is going to feel like when he starts to move his finger. Then he starts to move his finger, just a little bit but it feels electric. He doesn't rub me evenly or rythmically. He just touches me randomly. He pushes down with his finger and rubs right next to my clit but not right on it. He keeps teasing my clit with little flicks and twitches of his finger. He keeps this up for the first half of the game. Stopping and starting, stopping and starting. He knows he is driving me crazy but he doesn't let me cum. He pulls on the top of my clit in even tugs and then uneven tugs. The teasing is unbearable. Then it's halftime and everyone gets up and gets food, etc. After halftime we lay back down on the couch and he starts all over again. But this time I know he is going to let me cum before the game is over. I don't know how or when it is going to happen but the anticipation is more than I can bear. He keeps flicking and teasing, rubbing and stopping and starting, and running his finger in circles around my clit until l think I am going to burst and then he stops and just lets his finger lay next to my clit. He will leave it perfectly still for a very long time. Then he will just move it a little bit. Then a little bit more. Then he rubs the shaft until I shudder and then he stops again. He keeps this up until finally, when I least expect it he doesn't stop. He just keeps teasing and flicking until I cum. But I have to cum perfectly quietly, no moaning and no moving.

Anonymous

Just sitting here in front of the computer and reading all you write, makes me HOT and makes me want to go into the bedroom and pleasure myself.
Indeed, I will.

Mare

Hey this is Mare,

I have been masturbating for a very long time (probably since 7, and I didn't even know it). I enjoy every moment of it. I get bored really easy so I like to try new things. Just recently, I noticed I had all these Mardi-Gras beads and I was extremely horny...so I decide to explore. I twisted a part of the necklace so that it was just a long string of beads and I stuck one end of the necklace between the lips of my pussy and the other at the back between my ass. Kneeling on my knees, I rubbed it back and forth making sure I had direct contact on my clit and on my anus. Thinking about someone I liked whether someone I knew or a celebrity would get me in the mood as I fantasize about them. The feeling was amazing...better than I ever had before. I switched from going slow and harder pressure to fast and lighter pressure in order to control and build up to a great orgasm. I recommend that you give this a try and see if it works for you. Have fun girls. Oh and thanks to this site I feel more comfortable about myself and is my inspiration.

Nadia

I think I was about 4 or 5 and woke up one evening feeling this great sensation. I was laying on my stomach with my hands pushing up against my pussy. I don't know how I found this out but this is the only way I get myself to cum. My boyfriend doesn't seem to do it.

Chantelle

Hi, my names Chantelle I'm 16. I've been masturbating since I really can't remember. I think part of it was because when I was 3 years old one of my sister's older guy friend who was like 7 or 8 yrs old asked me if I could keep a secret. We would go in to the woods every day. I'm not sure how we had sex. It was all a blur but I do remember us tasting each other. He asked me if it tasted good. I lied, it didn't and I also remember us French kissing, it tasted like metal. Anyways, I'm not sure if we did it right because I still have a hymen. I kept his secret because it was a secret and my sis always said I was a blabber-mouth so it made me feel honored to keep his secret. Then we moved and I remember, I'm not sure how old I was, I was probably 5 - 8 yrs old or something but I use to hump Mysize Barbie, stuffed animals, old Barbies that I didn't like their head I would shave bald and rub it on my pussy. Then I remember when I discovered the shower head techniques, I must have been 8- 9 yrs old or some age around there, and I took it off to rinse off and I remember rinsing off my vulva and it felt so good. At the time, I didn't know that I was masturbating, all I knew was that it felt good. Me and my best friend when I was younger, like 6 - 10 or some where around there, use to hump each other kiss and lick each other's breast. Once me and a friend licked each others pussies but not for long. Then also between ages 6 - 10 my best friend before I moved, Tina, well she told me about how she found a dick shaped thing in her mom's closet in a red bag. I helped her get it down and we discovered it had a dial, hi and low, at the time we didn't know it was a dildo we use to put it on our pussies and take turns, if felt good - some times too good. So we put socks over it. Also when I was like 9 years old, after the showerhead thing, I was using the massager on my legs because it felt good and passed it by my pussy and discovered that felt good too, so I used that. I told my older sis (4 years older) about the massager thing she use it once and that was the last 1st and last time I did anything sexual around my sis. I only told her because she told me that she had found this book at the top of my parent's stuff. It was a dirt book I remember sneaking in their closet and reading it. I also remember when my cousin Andrea was baby sitting how like I don't remember how it happened or how she got me to do it. I just remember that we were really close and like she got me to rub a plastic cup on my pussy, it felt good. I also remember kneeling down in the bathroom to pick something up and my ankle touched my pussy it feel so good. Then once I moved I was like 11 or 12 years old and just like figured out what had happened to me when I was younger and that it was sex and because of my religion, I'm Catholic, I started to feel bad and dirty. I still craved sex though. Like my Mom had bought me and my sis one of those squiggly pins that vibrated so I use to put it on my pussy, it felt so good. Then I didn't masturbate for a good year, because I though it was wrong. Until I was like 13 - 14 I started using anything I could, I'd hump pillows like bunch and squeeze between my legs and ride it. Then I used an old cup. Then I started to use my hands and I'd take my wrist which I still do sometimes and press it between my legs and squeeze my legs together and ride it move up and down it feel so good and you come so fast. I didn't discover my clit until I was 16, my current age, like in Sept my pen pal guy since I was 14, he finally got me to try phone sex and he was like rub you clit and I didn't even know what a clit was or anything so I was confused and faked it. Then I went on the Internet looked up clit, saw a picture of one, went to the bathroom looked in the mirror and found my clit. The next time we had phone sex, like I rubbed my clit, OMG it feels so good, I'm kind of jealous that I didn't discover it earlier. I only have to problem when I masturbate, I feel a moan coming and I have to stop because I live in a apartment... and I think that I'm going to be too loud so I've never really had a full complete of orgasm, I can get there I'm just too afraid I'll be so loud. I tried pillows to cover my mouth but I still think I'm too loud and stop. I'd love it if anyone could give me tips on how to smother the sound.

PS I no longer feel bad and dirty about that thing that happened to me when i was younger or about self pleasure as for for my religion, I', not even sure if it goes against it, I don't think it dose. I think that masturbation is completely natural and normal thing. I now rub my clit a lot because it feels so good until my index finger looks like its been in water to long LOL. I love rubbing my clit the best and sadly I have a removable shower head but its pressure is weak so no help there. I want to be able to have a orgasm all the way just don't know how to make my moans quiet any tips?

Anonymous

Hi its Alecia.

This is a great way to masturbate.

I was about 15 and I had so much homework to do. I went downstairs late in the evening and my parents decided they were going out. I was alone at home and for some time I knew, so I thought about doing so many things. As I was fantasizing about my boyfriend's huge hard cock, pushing against my clit while we hugged earlier that day, I felt my pussy begin to tingle. I became wet quickly & soon I was sliding my hand down my thong. I began to masturbate as usual with my fingers spreading my vagina lips & penetrating my pink clit at different levels. As I had a quick orgasm I was still horny. So I decided to try something new. I took off my trousers & thong and spread my legs as wide as possible on the bouncy sofa. For a moment I took in my whole pussy, spreading it with my hands, but not penetrating the swelling clit. I grabbed a pillow and with the little pompoms on the sides, began circling directly on my clit. At first it was ok but then I decided to push extra hard and fast. I began doing this & experimenting with sounds. I was breathing heavily & moaning. I bounced up and down on the sofa as my tender firm boobs bounced too. That was my best orgasm as a teenager. My little pink clit exposed as I exploded.

Anonymous

This is how I masturbate, I usually get naked put in a porn movie, lesbians only, lay on two or three pillows and hump it until I cum. This has always worked for me, seeing as though a man hasn't worked and a woman I haven't tried yet.

Anonymous

Oh my goodness. I like felt I was alone on the 'water thing.' I read someone's story about shower water hitting their clitoris and turning them on. One time, when I was about 12, I was playing with a cup while in the tub. Not knowing what I was doing, I would fill the cup up and pour it on my clitoris. It would feel good, but I only did it once because for some reason I thought I was being naughty. Now, I'm 15, I have a daily routine. If I am not masturbating while on my bed naked, I usually do it in the tub. What I do is turn on the water in the tub and lay on my back with my feet on the wall so the water can hit my clit. {the butt is over the drain.) Usually, I would put my big toe into the water spout and it causes a lot of pressure. If I want to, I can orgasm quickly, but usually, I will tease myself. I'd either have a little bit of water coming out the spout with my toe in it or a lot of water and I can relax. I really love when I wash my hair so I can lay back and touch my body. (I usually have to hold myself up with my elbows to keep from getting my hair wet otherwise.) But hey, everyone try this. No one in the house knows what I be doing. I just say that the water is cold or I already be in the bathroom while its still filling up. Well, I think I'll go do this now... no one's home! :-D

PS: Cheers to you ladies with Jacuzzi tubs!!

Rose

I've been masturbating since I was nine years old. I can remember that day perfectly. I'd been playing with my Barbie dolls one day and I decided to take their clothes off. It was interesting so I went to my bedroom and took my own clothes off and started to explore. Now I usually masturbate a few times a week, making sure to lock my door (it's so much better when no one's home and I can just strip down without intrusion because the lock is not a key lock, but one you can open from the outside with a paperclip). I go on websites with stories of erotic experiences and fantasize about women usually licking me and touching me. Sometimes I also go to more graphic websites. The only thing I've ever used while doing it are my fingers and the back of a brush. I used to masturbate in my computer chair or sometimes standing in the shower, or lying down on my bed, but now I find it much more sensational to lie down on my bed - on my stomach. It's very pleasurable and even after my orgasm I still tremble, and I feel lightheaded when I get up. I don't strip down usually for the fear of making a mess. I get extremely wet at any sign of skin. I love the website and I love reading about these sexual experiences and try them sometimes. Keep up the great work (I'm trying to make this short 'cause I'm actual feeling pretty hot right now ;-D )

~Rose

Liz

Hi. My name is Liz. I masturbate using many different methods but my favorite and most satisfying was one time I was on vacation. I was in a swimming pool and it was night time and I knew the pool was about to close (the security guard could walk by at any moment) and you could see a lot of units from the pool. I had pulled my bathing suit to the side down at my clit and had leaned back against the jet stream coming out of the pool. The water was pulsating my clit so hard I could barely take it but I did not want anyone to know what I was doing. A minute or two later I began to cum so hard I could not hold it in, I leaned forward and began to moan as low as I could. There was some one in the apartment facing me in the pool; I believe they became turned on as well because they were sitting on the porch looking towards the pool - maybe they were masturbating as well? Also, another time on vacation at the beach I was sitting on the balcony of the hotel with a blanket over me in my gown and I became turned on by the sounds of the ocean and I began to masturbate with my fingers rubbing my clit to the rhythm of the ocean. I looked up and there were three men looking towards me and I dropped my blanket and began to cum so hard I could not take it again and I did not moan softly this time - it was at sunset so they could see everything. My clit is pulsating just thinking about it right now.

Liz

Nadou

Orgasm started when I was a preschooler. This awesome relief I felt when I had to pee and I used my fists to keep my urine from just flooding out as I waited for a relative to free up the bathroom! On my belly I would waddle around with my fists under my crotch, it subdued the "I gotta go" moment with a very timely flush of chills from head to toe, or toe to head. I had no idea it was an orgasm until I was old enough to see a description of the term in Mom's big book o' women's health. I sat there thinking, "I rock, that's me", here, women are dying to experience this, just once, and I get it around three times a week, without much effort. As an adult I still can't get myself to orgasm in any position other than by myself on my belly. If its not my fists its the edge of a pillow, a step, the couch. With men I get mini-gasms, but nothing like what I can do on my own. Overall I am satisfied with my skill. It was awesome to read about others who share my technique. It may not be as fancy as what my man wants to imagine his chick doing in order to get off, but it sure does work. The hell with him!

Anonymous

I found out out by mistake a few weeks ago as I was lying on my bed circling my erect clit as I always do each night and as I had drank a few beers earlier all of a sudden had to pee! I ran to the bathroom and thought ..why should I stop pleasuring myself as I was soooooooo close to a wonderful orgasm ,,,, and as I was fingering myself and flicking my clit ...I began to pee & ooooooooooooooooooo.. the pressure of my fingers and my pee together gave me the most intense ongoing orgasm I had ever known!!! Now every time I have to pee It takes a lot loonger but MMMMMMMMMMMM try it girls It Is Fabulous!!

Anonymous

I love to play with myself, it's usually the best sex I can have. My longest living fantasy is to go to the gyno and tell him I want help... to learn how to cum better.

I spread myself on the bed and apply little suction bulbs to my nipples, which makes them grow from tiny little girl like pink to engorged stiff upright conicals which are super sensitive. While my nips are getting full and engorged and sucked on, I imagine the doctor spreading my pussy lips, which are self lubricating at a rate I've never been aware of before. He tells me I have a very tiny clit, like my little girl nipples. The doctors slides his fingers in and out, first one, then two, then three, and four... I feel very hot, and tell me so... he starts to push on my g spot with his upturned fingers, I squirm against the bed. The suction comes off my nipples, which are now enormous, poking toward the ceiling. I pull on my huge nipples while I imagine the clinic nurse yanking on them, forcefully, relentlessly. My pussy starts to drip juice, I tell the doctor I have always wanted to learn to squirt while coming. (am still working on this...)

I fantasize the good doctor applies a suction bulb to my clit, which is slippery. He pumps the bulb rhythmically, making me groan in pleasure. While he pumps my clit I slide a g spot vibrator in my cunt hole and plunge it in and out, concentrating on the ruffled ridge which marks my g spot. I remove the bulb from my clit after about fifteen minutes of firm, repetitive suction. I view my plump clit in the mirror while I rub the tip of the vibrator on it. It is now bigger than its ever been before. Then the bulb snakes down into my pussy, to latch onto my g spot, which grows even more as pressure is applied.

I continue to rub my clit lightly with the vibrator, imagining it is the doctor applying and teasingly removing it as I squirm my ass into the mattress. I relieve the pressure on my g spot and reapply the bulb to my clit... which is very tender now, I gasp as I suck that hard little hooded knob into the vacuum.

I fantasize the nurse begins to lightly play with my g spot while I gently touch the vibrator to my cunt opening, ignoring the lips and concentrating on the g spot.

I leave the clit bulb on while I explode into a multiple orgasm, the blood rushes into my swollen clit, I am so sensitive I cum and cum all over my hand, when I remove the bulb my clit is GIGANTIC, throbbing, I can continue the pleasure by squeezing my legs together and exploding in orgasm over and over.

It took a while to figure it out, think I'll go do it to myself right now.

Anonymous

Hi, I am a 23 year old female and I have masturbating since I was about 10 years old. I used to sit on the edge of my bed and just push down on it hard till I came...or I would ride the armrest of our couch. For the couch activity, my friend would normally join me and we would each sit on one. I used to get so turned on watching her slip her panties off and then riding the arm of the chair like no one is watching her. And then she would come so hard and spasm all over. I could never come like that because I would be too nervous.

Then later I discovered that I could use a pillow between my legs. This is still my favorite technique. I can come in about 10 seconds it feels so good. I also like to put one hand between my legs when I am very wet and then just slide it up and down my pussy. Usually when I am going to masturbate, I start reading a sexy novel or look at porno.