Darcy - Age 32
I experienced my first orgasm when I was 13. I found that the hose type shower head did great for orgasms. Take the head off for full force and spray it on your Clitoris. It's amazing. My boyfriend did this amazing trick the other day. He slid his penis into me and kinda moved it in circles around the area of my G-spot. It was amazing, its a must try!
Lexy - Age 15
Hey I'm 15 years old. About....2 and 1/2 years ago I was at my friend's house. Her older sister's boyfriend was there and he was I think 17. He was pretty cute and I had a crush on him. I'd flirt with him (god looking back it's so embarrassing!). Anywhoo, he would sometimes chase my friend and me around the house and start wrestling and tickling us. I kinda got turned on, but it all seemed innocent enough.
Later on (it was a sleep over) we were all on the couch watching an absolutely horrible movie and my friend and her sister fell asleep. The order on the couch was the sister, the boyfriend, my friend, then me. his arm was under my friend and was resting between me and my friend. Then his hand rested on my knee. It slowly slide up my leg and took my hand, starting to massage it. If anyone has seen the movie Prince and Me with Julia Stiles, it's like that library scene where he takes her hand under the table and starts playing with it. Like a hand-sex type thing.
At the time I was getting really turned on. At times he would try to crack my knuckles, but I'd pull my hand away, then he'd slowly take it again, stroking it and moving his fingers in a circular motions, very gentle, as if making up or something. His hand would roam up and down my arm and sometimes my leg, and he couldn't really go anywhere else since his arm was pinned underneath my friend. But god it got me really warm down there. There was a voice in my head going "okay what the heck is going on? Is this wrong?" But it was so exciting these hand movements he was doing. This went on for like an hour.
When the movie ended the sister and my friend woke up, clueless of the little hand sex game (even though I really didn't know what it meant, I'm pretty sure I get it now) that was going on. Not until the next morning after he left and then came back did I realize I had done something kinda wrong. At breakfast we were talking about how boring the movie was. My friend's sister said, "God I fell asleep it was so boring. Did you guys?" my friend answered yes. So did the boyfriend, even though we both knew he didn't. I didn't say anything. That was when I realized SOMETHING was up. I felt guilty. Like I betrayed my friend and her sister. And I was only freaking 13 years old and he was almost 18! (and also soon to be fiance of the sister). I knew that girls my age had gone A LOT farther than what I had just done. But neither I nor my friends and ever done anything remotely sexual, or even implying something sexual, with someone else. I was wracked with guilt.
I haven't seen the guy in years since me and my friend drifted apart. But I recently added her on facebook, and her sister. Then the guy requested to be my friend. I flipped out. He remembered me. Then he sent me a message asking how I was doing and how he hasn't seen me in a while. I totally flipped out again. I know you all might be like, "jeez it wasn't that bad get over it". But for me, when my mother had very strict rules on anything physical with guys, so it was a huge taboo for me. Every time I went to my friend's house and saw him I'd get all hot and remember the feeling of his hands going up my leg and arm, massaging my hand causing tingles to shoot through my entire body.
I actually did tell my friend about it. She said her opinion of him is a lot different now. I felt even more guilty. I was happy I didn't have to be around him any more, but now that I've been contacted by him I don't know how I feel. Just remembering his hands on me, that if my friend and her sister weren't there what could've happened.....
Michelle
Last weekend I spent in a camp together with some people from my sports club. It was the time of my ovulation, so I knew beforehand that I was going to be horny. I also knew that there would be absolutely no one around that I would want to have sex with (I haven´t had sex for half a year now for several reasons and I don´t want to jump on the first one to come around), and even if there were, no chance to do it as everybody was sleeping in the gym, sleeping bag on mattress.
Precautionaryly I had masturbated a lot, hoping I could be making it through the weekend without having to do it there, cause I don´t like masturbating on toilets and I feel no thrill getting caught ;) So Friday night surprisingly this guy arrived who I somehow fancy for a while already, but he´s kind of shy and wouldn´t dare to hit on me, even so I sense that he´s attracted to me. We had a nice conversation during dinner and a chat later at the fire place, but there were dozens of other people around us and I had no idea how to create a relaxed and more private situation. Also, I admit that I´m not too daring myself. Bugger! So I decided to give up and went to sleep, he told me good night and we both knew how much we regretted not being able to make out.
In my sleeping bag I had the wildest imaginations about him and fantasized he was lying next to me, kissing and caressing my body right there in the gym. My physical desire was so strong, I reached a point where I had to touch myself, despite some other people already sleeping (at least I hope they were sleeping!) only a few meters away from me. Figuring that it was dark enough, hoping nobody would notice, trying not to make any noise I brought myself to climax. Finally I could calm down and sleep. The next day I felt a little awkward cause I wasn´t sure if I had really gone unnoticed, but I decided not to care. Unfortunately, he couldn´t stay for the rest of the weekend and left sometime after lunch, I went for an afternoon nap just to masturbate again, wishing it was his cock inside my pussy, not just my finger. Luckily, nobody entered the gym to find me heavily panting in a huge orgasm! I wonder what had happened if he could have stayed...
Kelly - Age 17
I masturbate. Wow, it felt good getting that out. I first started probably started about 9 or 10. I remember my mother catching me while I had my hand up my shirt (apparently I was touching myself in my sleep). The following morning she gave me a lecture on how 'dirty' it was to touch yourself 'that way'. After that I was more discreet. When I got my first boyfriend at 14 (we ended up dating for 2 years), by the end of our first year dating we had sex: oral, vaginal, 69.. I never did orgasm with him. I became very experienced at faking one, at least he believed it. Technically, at least in my opinion, I didn't completely lose my virginity to him. I never got wet enough for the whole penis penetration thing to work. My cherry was still intact since I always made him stop because it felt like someone was shoving a cheese grater up my vagina, not what I expected AT ALL.
Then I met my current 'almost boyfriend'. He's six years older than me. A few months back, out of the blue (I was 16 at the time), he called my dad up and asked to take me to the movies. we watched the movie, goofing around, tossing popcorn into the other's mouth. Anyway, we ended up back at his house to drop some things off when I got sick of him not making a move so I grabbed the back of his neck and kissed him. This lead to a full-blown makeout session; My legs wrapped around his waist as he held me up against the wall and kissed me down my neck. I have never been that turned on and wet as I am when I'm with him. The next day we went to the movies again and once again, went to his house. This time we ended up in his bathroom, me pinned up against the wall in front of the mirror so I could see our bodies pressed together. He laid me down on the floor, looked straight at me and told me that "he wasn't going to let me up until he made me cum", I could have came right then and there when he said that! He slowly stared massaging around my clit before he inserted two fingers in the 'come here' motion. I almost orgasmed, my legs were shaking and I was moaning but as I got closer, I made him stop, I was in tears because I wasn't sure what to think of this sensation. No one (other than myself) was able to bring me that close. He held me on his lap asking if he had hurt me. I couldn't tell him what I was feeling because I wasn't sure WHAT I was. A few days after this incident we had sex in his car. I orgasmed five times in one hour with him, trust me, it's a way different experience when the guy actually knows what he's doing and actually WANTS to please you as well. By the way, this time it didn't hurt in the slightest.
Nope, the story doesn't stop there . That week he had to leave for nine months when we talked on the phone he brought up phone sex and how he had never tried it but he didn't want to unless I would "get something out of it" which is when I told the first and only person who knows about me masturbating and frankly, I couldn't be happier. It's definitely opened up new opportunities and experiences for when he comes home, seeing as he wants me to show him what I do. If he can bring me to orgasm SIX times just by talking on the phone with me, I can't wait to see what happens when we see each other again.
Sandra
I don't remember exactly how old I was when I first started touching myself but I must have been around 8 or 9 years old. It just felt right when I did it.
My mother saw me once and later we spoke about it. She said it was OK to do that as long as I did not let anybody touch me or do anything that hurt me. I'll always remember that talk; it set the tone for my entire sexual life.
I got into the habit of fingering myself each night before I went to sleep. My technique was, and still is, very basic. I will lie on my back with my legs spread open and gently rub my clit in a circular manner. At first I never really climaxed but would have waves of pleasure that seemed to cover my whole body. I never tried putting objects into my vagina; in fact I ignored it until my period started. As I got better I learned to bring myself to orgasm and hold myself there for as long as I wanted to.
As I got older, into my early teens I learned more about sex, boys and the penis. I was very curious but at the same time very scared. I did not want to grow up and "become a woman" like the other girls I knew. The thought of having a boy slide part of himself into me was repulsive.
I continued to masturbate each night. One night at a sleep-over party with 3 other girls, I snuck into the bathroom and tried to masturbate quickly before bed but fond I could not. I went back to the bedroom, where I was sleeping on the floor in a sleeping bag. After all the other girls were asleep I began to rub my clit but again I could not come. Frustrated I tried to sleep. Later I started to masturbate and got very aroused by the idea of the others not knowing what I was doing. I had one of the most powerful orgasms I had ever experienced. The ironic thing was the next day we played "truth-or-dare" and one of the other girls confessed she had masturbated in the night.
My first sexual experience with a man came when I was 17. He was an older (40?) friend of my parents. I had gone to a hunting ranch, south of our home in San Antonio, TX with my dad. As soon as I got there I wanted to go home. The man, was leaving Saturday afternoon and offered to drive me home in his Mercedes-Benz station wagon. It began to rain as we were leaving the ranch and by the time it was dark it was a complete thunderstorm. We drove to a place where the road had been washed over and tried to turn around but got stuck in soft mud on the side of the road. We both got totally soaked trying to free the car from the mud. In the end we got the car out of the ditch and drove to the top of a hill and stopped for the night. He folded the seats down and made a bed out of some blankets. As we were both soaked, we stripped down to our underwear and lay down in the back of the car. At first I was very uncomfortable both physically, being hot, wet and lying in the back of a car, but also with the fact that I was almost naked with an older man I hardly knew. We lay very close together and after a while I managed to relax enough to fall asleep. I awoke sometime later to find myself very cold. I tried to cover my body with the blanket and in doing so woke him up. He realized I was cold and told me to snuggle against him. His body was very warm and I began to get aroused. I could feel his penis pressed against my leg. After a moment, he took his underwear off and slid his cock between my buttocks. I got scared and rolled over away from him. He very gently pulled me over closer to him so I was slightly on top of him and placed my hand on his penis. I had never felt a man's cock before; it was fascinating to feel the skin and the hard shaft. After a moment he asked if he could touch me. He took my panties off and spread my legs. Slowly he ran his fingers over my belly, into my crack and over my clit. At the same time he had again slid his penis between my legs, from behind, but did not try to enter my vagina, just rubbed it over the opening. I had a long and slow orgasm and when it was over I felt the warm sticky semen between my legs; he had come all over me.
I slept for a while; when I awoke he was lying beside me, stroking his cock. Without saying a word he got on top of me and pushed himself into me. There was no drama, blood or pain. I was tense and he seemed to sense this. He took long slow strokes into me and I could feel his penis twitch as he came inside me.
In the morning we drove back to the city in silence. When we arrived at my home, nobody was there as my mother and sister were at church. He asked if he could come in to use the bathroom. I also need to pee badly and we sort of rushed into the house.
When I came out of the bathroom he was in my bedroom. He looked at me and said in a matter of fact manner; " I want to take you from behind". It was not a question; just a statement. I did not know what he meant but I let him undress me and I watched him as he built a small pyramid of pillows on my bed.
He bent me over the pillows and knelt behind me. I could see what was happening in the mirror over my dresser. He slid the tip of his penis over the mouth of my vagina, spreading my lips open. He moistened himself with saliva, which I thought was gross, and slowly entered me. This time it hurt, as I was not ready, not wet and a bit sore from the night before. Once he was inside me it was OK as I was still full of semen. He started very slow but got faster and faster as I opened up for him.
Watching myself get fucked, in my own bedroom was like an out of body experience. I can't remember much but to this day I can close my eyes and see myself, head down, sweat soaked hair hanging into my eyes as he held my hips. It was very intense, almost painful as I came. He kept going for a moment as just as I was going to tell him to stop I felt the warmth inside me again as he ejaculated.
He quickly got dressed and left. I was alone. After a moment I got up and ran a bath. In the bathtub I realized I was bleeding. Soon afterwards my Mother came home, shocked to find me there as I was not to return until the following day.
I told her about the storm and getting the car stuck but nothing about the sex. I was worried I would be pregnant later but it never occurred to me at the time. I saw him again at a party at our home and he just smiled. Soon afterward he moved away. I honestly can't remember his name.
When I think about this now it seems so wrong, on so many levels but it was what happened. I wanted it to happen, I allowed it to happen. I enjoyed it.
I did not have sex again for 7 years, but I had boyfriends and often enjoyed mutual masturbation. I am now 31, married with twins. My husband and I have a very active sex life and I still masturbate most days.
Storm
I had sex when I was 17 and it was just simply amazing. It did hurt a bit at first but now its as easy as pie. My boyfriend tied me up to the bed and gave me oral then I returned the favour.
Rebecca - Age 18
When I lost my virginity when I was 14 I had no clue, but the second time we did it everything was ok, but when I went to the bathroom to go clean myself I noticed a little blood, so I took a quick look, but what I saw was my vulva ripped? Ever since I was a little girl I had like this little piece of skin that connected one side to the other, on the side kinda upright, but it had ripped. To this day, now that I'm 18, its still a little skin hanging there and I'm so embarrassed about it I don't want a doctor to see it, I'm not sure if this is common or not. I do have sex still but now I'm very shy about it and don't like my partner seeing or feeling me down there, so I usually have intercourse in the dark.... There's my little problem/story, girls help me out =)
Adrianna - Age 20
My boyfriend and I have very good orgasms at times.
This is the best one of all:
I had on this summer dress with a thong on, and of course, a bra. I wanted it bad, and so did he. That night we both lost our virginity. Was laying on my bed, looking at a magazine, and my boyfriend walks in on me. "Wanna play?" he asks me. I say sure, how bad could it be. We kissed for about five minutes, and he went lower. He caressed my breast and licked them, and sucked on them. I felt like I could explode, but I held it in, I don't know how. My clit is throbbing by now, and I wanted it. I told him I wanted more, he gave it to me to. He played with my clit, licking it, and licking my vulva. I moaned with pleasure and he knew I liked it. He went down on me and I had a 15 minute orgasm, I thought I was going to die. Then we went about our day, acting like it never happened.
Hello!
I'm new to this site, this is my first visit! Your articles are fantastic and I'd encourage every woman out there to read your articles. I've found throughout my education (I'm now 18 and out of high school) that we are not taught enough about female sexuality, knowing the parts of our body by name only is not very helpful when it comes to a good sexual understanding.
Much of my sexuality I have discovered on my own and it would have been nice to find this site earlier to answer some of those worrisome questions like what is a hymen and the various pleasures of female genitals.
One of the most important things I think young women trying sexual intercourse for the first time should consider is your partner. Knowing him/her well, caring for them and trusting them as well as loving them (if you are prepared for that) is very very important.
My boyfriend and I have been working up our sexual experiences together for nearly a year and we have yet to have penetration. It started out with casual touches like hand holding and back rubs. After a while he got more bold and started to touch my breasts and I his chest. I think it very important that you respect each others body in the whole, every part is sensitive. The first time I touched his penis and masturbated him, I took it very slow and we both enjoyed it immensely. Barely a week later we were trying mutual masturbation and we still keep coming up with new things to surprise one another.
Good communication is essential, you and your partner need to let each other know what you like and dislike. Trying new things can be very exciting. My boyfriend surprised me the other day by leaning over and taking one of breasts into his mouth! I was in bliss, his mouth was very warm!
Also, don't be afraid, speak up! If you are inexperienced, explore your body and learn what you like before you commit to do anything with a partner. Let him know what you like and try to take charge sometimes. Don't be pushed into to anything, so many women regret having sex when they've been pressured into it. And don't forget that your body is your temple and your sanctuary so look after it!
Thelma
My most enjoyable sexual experience came when I was in my mid fifties, I had been a widow for some 12 years bringing up my two children I had no sexual encounters during that time.
One evening my boss who was ten years younger than me and I were working late and we had gone into the strongroom to find some documents. Suddenly I felt his hands gently caress my my breast, this aroused long forgotten sensations and my whole body responded to the touch. I surprised myself when I pressed back against him and felt a hard bulge against my bum. I could feel my juices flowing, his hand went up my skirt stroking my inner thigh until it reached my wet knickers his hands went inside and he finger fucked me That was my first ever orgasm. I had many after during my being his mistress when he went down on me and fucked in may different positions and places.
Anonymous
Just a very short comment regarding your "Menstruation and Sex" section and the use of tampons there. I had been using pads for years because I didn't get along well with tampons initially. I have a very strong period and since my mid-teens or so they have been associated with pain (whenever a chunk of mucosa passes the cervix I have found). Anyway, I tried tampons again in my late teens because I had a sudden need for them at some occasion and found that they greatly decreased my menstruation pains. While I hardly got around the day without a huge load of pain medications, they became manageable and observed that for a few months and it remained like that. I've been using tampons still because, while I still don't get along without any medication at all, my pains have become so I can go after my normal day and I can participate in exams without lying on the table in unbearable cramps. So please take that into considering when you say to not be bothered by the mess. Some women really get another use than the prevention of 'mess' from tampons.
Tomo - Age 17
Well, I'm still a virgin and have yet to have an orgasm, but my boyfriend and I are getting fairly close. We have yet to talk about it, but I know that we both want to. He is one of the sweetest boys I know. Once, when we were kissing rather heavily on the couch, he told me 'tell me if I'm doing anything I shouldn't.' ^^ I really love him, and although I'm young, I known that my feelings for him are strong. We're both really shy though. Our first sexual experience was on Halloween, and it consisted mostly of touching and kissing. When he started touching me at my clit and vulva, he told me to tell him if he could do it better. I was too embarrassed to really say much, and although it wasn't the same way I touch myself, it still felt good. I touched him as well, >////< but He liked it so that was fine. Neither of us came, and he ended up having to go home, but I enjoyed it and almost couldn't sleep on the bed because I kept thinking about it. I'm so happy I found this site.
David B.
Greetings, My lover and I found the article on sex - particularly cunnilingus - during menstruation very helpful (my lover is concerned about my wanting to go down on her at that time), but I noticed one aspect that I didn't think was covered completely. My past experience (once previous to this beginning relationship) with cunnilingus during a lover's period was that her taste changed as her period progressed. Specifically, during the first couple of days her fluids had a sort of metallic or acidic taste that disappeared during the last few days, during which I experienced very rapid arousal from both smell and taste alone. If this is a usual occurrence then I'd think folks would like to know. And if metallic/acidic taste indicates a potential problem then I'd think they'd like to know that as well. Thank you. -David
Cate B.
I learned to enjoy sex by being myself when I'm with my partner. I live all worries outside the bedroom or I just lock them in the closet and get exited.
First I discovered my own pleasure by knowing my own body and then teach him what I like and how and when and where to touch me and we talk about sex all the time. So its up to each and every one to have great sex, so ladies don't blame anyone but yourself if you are not having great sex.
Hi, I am emailing with regards to the shaving section of your website. I started shaving when I was 15, and having been doing it ever since (I am now 23). I started because I really hated having all that hair, and I have an unusually large amount of daily vaginal discharge, which made quite a mess. When I started I had no "plan of attack" in terms of slowly trimming the hair shorter and shorter over time, nor did I have any idea about shaving in the direction of growth or anything like that. I just sat over the toilet one day, cut all my pubic hair as short as I could without pinching myself, and then hopped in the shower and started shaving with my mom's razor. Since then, I have noticed that over time my hair has been growing back in more slowly, so much so that it now takes about 4 days for enough to grow in that I can shave without getting razor burn. However, I have very sensitive skin, to the point that I can't use normal soaps on my skin without breaking into a rash. This made it very difficult to find a good way to lubricate my skin enough to shave. I used to use lotion, but that made the whole process very time consuming, as it immediately clogged the razor blades with every stroke. After reading your advice page, I tried the hair conditioner method that was mentioned by one of the contributors, and it worked so well! I am SO HAPPY! I cannot express how much easier this has made the shaving process for me! Now I can shave in the shower and it doesn't take hours! While I still need to wait several days between shaves, now I can shave without making an awful mess of my bathroom sink, and it even makes my skin softer than when I was using lotion! THANK YOU SO MUCH!
Hi,
I have really enjoyed stumbling across this website as I have appreciated the open honesty and respect with which the female body is examined. It made me wonder if you all had heard about Mooncup menstrual cups? I happened to discover them on the internet one day also, and after buying one and using it during just one period, I am so excited about it that I want to share it with all of my sisters out there. It's a silicone (or natural rubber latex, if you prefer) cup worn just inside the vagina (you can't feel it) and emptied a few times a day as a more cost-effective, environmentally-friendly, and healthy-for-vaginal-moisture-balance alternative to pads and tampons. I love it because it lets me see my menstruation as something feminine and beautiful rather than something to impede my busy schedule. Anyway, I thought I'd just mention it and you can Google it to check it out yourself, or here's a link to one of the main pages:
http://www.mooncup.co.uk/index.html
Other Menstrual Cups:
YouTube Videos:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vAKpyw-R-po
Wikipedia Article:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Menstrual_cup
Hey. . .I think this iss a suuper great siite. It helpps youu know you''re not allone in youur fantasiies and the thinggs you do. I guess I shoulld probablyy contribute siince I have my own sttories. I'm Alana (14), and I thinkk (sadlly can't completely remember) I had my firsst orgasm when I wass abbout 11? I do, howeverr, remember feelinng really sexual at a youngerr age and trying to release frustration by laying down on my bed and slowly running my hands over my niiples (didn't woork!).
My techniques are varied. . .I guess, but they're not super out there. I really enjoy back massagers and massaging your entire body and then sitting on it, riding it on the floor. I usually position my clit on the front ball of the massager and my butt on the back. From, there, everything else is hands free and whatever you want to think about is up to you. I also have a jet tub, so (I have to be way quiiet) and I close the door and put my legs over the side. Usually the pressure is to intense if I place my clit directly onto the jet, but if I get horny thinking about my boyfriend, it's not as painful. So sit against the jet for about a minute relaxing myself, and then I spread my legs (oh my god its amazing) and I ride the jet (confusing), but making motions with my body and moaning his name really helps me get off. Another thing is an electric toothbrush (not used or to be used ofc) and you place the back of the head on your clit and ahhhh (sometimes I literally lose my hearing for 3-5 minutes afterwards).
One more thing that I find makes me really horny is humping something. . .direct clit contact or not. . .but I can never finish the job && just resort to my hands. This technique really helps me if I really want to focus and get over weird feelings over my bf. The fact that I'm sure he wouldn't mind joining in (hehe, i am a good girl, so no) really turns me on.
The last thing I do (and I'm not sure why even, kind of out of character) is orgasming in class. Done it twice. If I sit in the back corner of a class, I will but my sweatshirt/bag over my skirt (uniforms:() and pull back my undwr and slowy (slowly) massage my clit. It brings an amazing orgasm but its hard not to squirm in your seat.
I am a virgin (and will remain one until marriage. I hope ;) . .cant insert anything in my vagina...even tampons just doesn't work for me..I've tried and its too tight). But I have done one thing with a guy. It was me and my boyfriend (my dream guy I've loved forever and finally admitted it to). He's so sweet, nice, amazing, smart...and I wanted him so much I never really thought about the physical aspect, and so when he asked me out and after a couple dates I had time to think, I realized he really turned me on. and I knew I turned him on too. We were in his house alone and I had gotten in a fight with my dad so my mom let me sleep over at his house, and I was literally bawling my eyes out. He laid me down on his bed and I was in a t shirt and shorts and he (not like directly going for my boobs/butt) slowly traced every curve over my clothes and then kissed me..it was surreal.. Then he picked me up (and beleive me, my eyes are like half closed and my heart is like beating too hard to function) and hugged me and rubbed my back. so were facing each other and I thanked him for everyhting and how hes been there for me and I didn't even realize how turned on I was so I just came out with it and told him. His reaction was hysterical...he didn't even know what to say. So I kinda jumped on him (what can I say) and he ended up kissing me all over and rubbing my clit thru my underwear until I came. It was...really perefect.
Alana
Tatiana
It was last year, when I was a sophmore. Me and my boyfriend had been dating since 8th grade [we stilll are]. Well, we were hanging out at his house one night when his parents were out of town, watching a movie. We started making out and he started feeling my boobs. At first I was really nervous, but I love him and wanted to to for it. So he took off my shirt and started sucking on my nipples. It felt so good, because I thought it would hurt. Then he pulled his pants off and he was going commando and aNd was already erect. I gave him a bj and he tasted so good. Before I knew it, he was fingering me and eAting me out. When I started to orgasm, he put his cock inside me and started out really slow until he was pounding me.
We've had sex at least 20 more times, but the first was the best :)
Marrisa
I don't remember the first time I masturbated but think I was 12 or 13 when I had my first orgasm. Since then I've been doing it often and eventually bought a dildo. I was always shy and made sure I had my privacy when I did it. I started dating a boy from school and we would make out often but that was all we did. One weekend my parents were away and I invited my boyfriend fo dinner. He had to work that day until 5 o'clock and would come to my house by 6. About 3 in the afternoon I showered and went down in just my robe to get a drink. I went in the living room and layed on the sofa to watch TV. I never mastubated their before but since I was alone I took of my robe and stated fingering myself. I had orgasmed once and was in the process of having a second when I realized my boyfriend was standing at the foot of the sofa watching me. The TV must have been loud enough that I didn't hear him knock and walk in. I was so embarrassed I started crying and grabbed my robe as fast as I could. He never saw me naked before and I was always modest in front of him. When I ran to my room he followed telling me it was ok and laughing about it. I felt terrible the rest of the day and through dinner and never expected him to get done work so early. I could hardly look him in the eye, I was so humiliated. That night after much discussion about the days events we ended up masturbating each other. I had never been so aroused in my life and when he brought me to orgasm so many times they were the most powerful I ever had. I also enjoyed satisfying him and we continue to do each other every week.
Anonymous
I love it when he caresses my clit with his tongue. In case I´m not moist enough in the beginning, he´ll spit some of his saliva onto my vulva (so sexy!) and then oh so tenderly lick me to orgasm. The other day we had sex and he came but I didn´t, so he took out my favourite vibrator. It´s an ivory colored Doc Johnson, it´s amazingly silent and an ideal toy for g-spot stimulation - or a-spot if you put it in deeper - has cost me some 30 Euros (I live in Germany) but was the best investment for my sex life so far. It was the first time he used a toy on me, I showed him how I usually handle it - put the nose on my clit to get started - but he couldn´t wait to take over. I wasn´t wet yet, so he let some spit drop on my pussy and easily the Doc slid inside. I was so turned on by his lack of inhibition, by the dirtyness of our actions - oh just the thought of it, my lover shoving my vibrator in and out, in and out, some more pressure on the front wall please, oh yes that´s good... I asked him to lick my clit while handling the Doc, and he did. It was heaven. I´m not easy to climax in positions/situations that are new to me though, which is why I didn´t reach that one big orgasm. Actually I´m not sure whether I came at all or whether I had many small ones, but then again it didn´t matter the least cause I felt absolutely satisfied, even if "just" mentally. I´m so looking forward to the next time we´ll use my vibrator, maybe it will be tonight. He has announced that he wants to shave my pussy naked.
