This section has been created to go hand in hand with the shared masturbation experiences. The shared techniques may tell us about the physical aspects of masturbation but it does not address the mental stimulation that goes along with it; fantasies are mentioned but they are not the focus of what is shared. This section will allow women to address in detail the mental stimulation that is often crucial to all their sexual activities, not just masturbation.
If the brain is not involved in a sexual activity it may be impossible to get the body sexually aroused to the level necessary for orgasm to occur, or the intensity of the physical stimulation required to do so is hard on the body or becomes less effective over time, resulting in the need for even more intense physical stimulation. Relying solely on the body to achieve orgasm can be detrimental to experiencing sexual pleasure.
I have found that for women who are experiencing difficulty achieving orgasm it is often the mental stimulation that is the missing ingredient. They are so focused on what they are doing and their physical responses, or their mental and physical frustration, that their brain is in a logical or emotional state when it needs to be in an erotic/sexual state. For any sexual experience to be successful the brain must be an active and willing participant.
Sexual fantasy often needs to precede the physical aspects of a sexual activity, to prepare the body for the physical sexual stimulation that is to follow. While the brain and body may work together to signal their desire for sex, we may desire sexual pleasure more often than this event occurs on its own; spontaneous physical sexual arousal and thoughts that grab our attention. For women, they may have learned to overlook the physical and mental signals of sexual desire and they may need to learn to recognize them for what they are, and to be more open and willing to explore them.
Women have sexual fantasies that address every conceivable subject and possibility. The more taboo a subject is, as determined by each society and social group, the more likely it is to be erotic and sexually arousing. This is why sexual fantasies often delve into forbidden or unusual subjects. There are no forbidden subjects here.
Women frequently have more than one fantasy they choose to explore depending on their mood and current sexual activity. Women are welcome to share as many of their sexual fantasies as they desire.
If you would like to share your sexual fantasies you can do so by clicking here.
Anonymous
I've rested now, having come down from the hottest, most passionate moments I've ever known. My heartbeat has slowed, my breathing is normal. My body is tired and sore, but my heart is filled with love and gratitude for the one who knows me and loves me so well. I rest my head on your chest and hear your heartbeat and your deep, even breathing, so content and peaceful. Your hands are gentle now as they caress my arm, laid across you. I love you completely and feel secure in the knowledge that you will never release me. I am yours.
A smile plays on my lips at that thought, so warm and tender. I am yours. Yes, I am yours and that means that you are mine. Another swelling of gratitude goes up, this time to the fate that brought us together. I turn my head enough to kiss the place where my cheek had been. One kiss isn't enough. Another kiss and another are set lightly over your chest, lightly, lightly, like the wings of a butterfly. The hair on your chest tickles my nose and I barely suppress a giggle.
Now my hand begins to wander, my fingers twining through that thick dark hair, feeling the silken coarseness. But where my hand goes, my lips follow, leaving more butterfly kisses in their wake. I look up and see you looking back at me, your deep brown eyes sparkling in the moonlight, a trace of a smile on your lips. I have to reach up, to touch your cheek, to trace your bottom lip with my thumb. It's not enough. I must kiss your lips, tenderly, so tenderly. I kiss you, and it's not enough. I kiss you again, and again, and again, and still I want more.
My hand begins to wander again. I have no idea where it is going, but it does. It wanders from your cheek to your neck, warm kisses close behind. From your neck to your chest, playing over a nipple that hardens at its touch. My heart is beating faster. Mine. You are mine, and if you are mine then I can play. I'm feeling bolder now, more free. Across your belly I roam, over your hip, down your thigh. I know now where my hand is wandering and I must follow.
I lean over you and trace my fingers back up your thigh, claiming their prize in my grasp. Their prize? No, MY prize. This thick, long shaft that has freed my body and enslaved my soul. This is what I dream of. This is what I desire. I can feel it swell and lengthen under my soft, feminine touch, and I can't help but lean down and kiss the sweet, silken head. Yes, very sweet. I can taste the mingled flavors of your juices and mine. A kiss is not enough.
With one hand on your belly and the other gently stroking your shaft, I begin to taste more and more. My tongue swirls around the head of your cock, licks your shaft. This is us, you and me, both our essences mingled into one being. I want it all, to suck it into my mouth, to feel it pressing the back of my throat. My heart is racing now and my breathing is quick. Slow, take it slow. There is no need to hurry. You are mine and I need to know you completely.
You are so patient, my love. You have mastered me and now you give me the freedom to explore you. But I can feel your need rising as I take you fully into my mouth. Your sweet cock grows more rigid by the moment, longer, thicker. I know I can't possibly take it all yet my desire grows as quickly as yours. The heat in my mouth fans a flame that spreads through my belly and into my groin. I must have all of you. I must. I wish I had your patience, but I don't. I need all of you and I need you now.
My body aches and my cunt is so sore, but I cannot wait another moment. I rise over you, straddle your hips and guide your hard cock into my wet, hot pussy. I sigh and become still while my swollen lips stretch around your thickness. Mmmm...yes, that's good. Now I'm settled and I place your hands on my hips. Guide me, love. Together we can set a slow, sensual pace. Oh, this is bliss, rising and falling like a sleek ship on rolling ocean swells. You have enslaved me yet again, my darling, and all you did was let me love you.
Anonymous
Since the moment you went to bed, I have been thinking about the lovely picture you painted tonight. I can not only see it, but feel it. That vision makes me sooo hot....my ass in the air, my face on the bed, hands tied behind my back, completely helpless while you take me to heights of ecstasy I have never reached before. One hand holding me down while the other spanks my white ass, turning to flaming red under your touch...your strong fingers squeezing my flesh, making me cry out in pain and with love...your teeth leaving their marks on my back and my ass...
I know you will hurt me, but you will never harm me -- you know my body's limits -- you must and will master me, mind, body and soul. I can feel your hand squeezing my breast, bruising me, while your fingers plunge into the deepest recesses of my cunt. The mixture of pleasure and pain is excruciating.
I'm sure I can't take another moment of the torment. I am screaming and crying out, "STOP! NO! DON'T STOP!" but you know those words mean nothing. What I want is no longer an issue. It's what you want and that is to free me from the bonds of my own control. I try to move, to take your fingers deeper into my pussy but you hold me still, I can't move, so I cry out again, this time begging, "Give me your cock?" and begging more, "Please, S, I need your cock!"
You hear me, but don't give in. You continue biting and spanking and squeezing my flesh, plunging your fingers deep inside of me, bringing me to the edge of ecstasy then slowly bringing me down, only to do it all over again, until I am screaming and crying and begging you with every breath. You know my body. You know my limits and when I reach the threshold of both pain and pleasure, you turn me over and sheath your cock in my aching, wet pussy. Riding high, you take me to paradise and back again, releasing my body from it's seemingly endless torment. You have mastered me, body, mind and soul and my heart swells with deepest love for you.
Mel, England
I have a fantasy where I go into a sex shop and decide to try out a few products. A lady comes over and asks if I need any help. I tell her that I'd like to try on a negligee but I'm not sure how to get into it, so she comes into a room with me. As she bolts the door we start talking about our fantasies and I tell her I've always wanted to suck a pussy. Anyone's pussy. At that she jumps up onto a table hitches up her skirt to reveal a huge clitoris. I can't contain myself and start sucking her pussy like mad. She's really enjoying it and I make her come then we have sex.
For some strange reason a lot of my fantasies involve women. I'm not a lesbian and have a long term boyfriend but the thought of being with a woman really turns me on.
Another fantasy I have is where I'm in a job interview for a really prestigious job at Harvey Nichols, an assistant brings me into the interview room and the female boss is sitting behind a glass table in a skirt and shirt and glasses. The assistant leaves and the interview begins. The boss keeps telling me how hard it is to get a job with such a prestigious company and that you have to have certain qualities to be successful. At this she closes the blinds at her door and locks it. She then takes off her glasses stands beside me leaning on the table and begins to play with my hair. She then leans down and kisses me. I grab her and put her on the table, rip off her knickers and begin sucking her pussy she's moaning really loud but advises me the rooms sound proof. We have sex on the table and arrange to meet up again out of work.
Another naughty fantasy I have is where I sleep over at my friend's house (who I suspect is a closet lesbian in real life) we're in bed together and I suggest we cuddle up for comfort. I put my arms around her and she grabs them and pulls them up to her breasts, she tells me she wishes she had breasts like mine and asks if she can feel how heavy they are. I agree and she does. Then she tells me she has a pain in her groin and asks me to see if I can massage it away, so I do. Then I start to massage her clitoris. we kiss and then she takes off my shorts and sucks my pussy. I suck hers and then we have full blown sex.
So those are a few of my fantasies. Mel, England
Anonymous
My fantasy is of me being caught by four men. They laugh and I can see their long cocks stiffen at the sight of me, they walk around me and pull me close to them so their cocks stroke me, they pull my clothes off and kiss me all over. Then they pin me down and rape me one after another with their hands, mouths, and cocks. Then they push my head to their cocks and slide it deep into my mouth again and again until they have all finished.
Anonymous
My fantasy is that I'll be lying in bed in my underwear, and suddenly wake up. A woman is taking off my bra and gently licking my breasts. She goes down, carefully pulling down my g-string. I now notice she is naked too. She licks around my clit, and then inserts a vibrator into me. Then we are kissing and she presses her hot naked body against mine while we orgasm with the vibrator still in. The she takes it out and we spoon. I am just going to sleep, when I feel her hands touching my vulva and I orgasm, so does she. Then she says "Now me" I lick and suck her clit and pussy and then she handcuffs herself to the bed lying there completely naked, and I get dressed and go to work, knowing she's waiting for me!
Anonymous
One of my big fantasies is this.
My boyfriend and I are hanging out at his house. His mom announces that she is going to the store and will be back in about an hour. My boyfriend jokingly says, "Well, with that out of the way, let's get to work!" and picks me up. He flops me down on his bed. I yank on his shirt collar and kiss him. We kiss again, and start making out on the bed. His warm tongue slides into my mouth, and I feel my clitoris getting hot. I begin to unbutton his shirt, and when I have it open, he slowly slides mine up past my breasts. He raises my bra, and starts to suck on my nipples. I let out a moan of pleasure, and I feel his long, hard erection pressing down on my leg. He kisses me down my belly, lower, and plays with my pubic hair. He licks me, and sticks his fingers into my vagina. Suddenly, he flips me over and licks all the way from my clitoris to my bottom. I let out a long moan of pleasure. He has found what I like, and does this for nearly 10 minutes. Then, suddenly, he stands up. He unzips his pants, pulls out is long, hard penis, and slides himself into me. A strong, sexy warmth takes over me. He lays on top of me, playing with my erect nipples. I feel his warm seed flow, and I once again moan with pleasure. We do this, until we glance at the clock. His mom will be home any minute, but we don't care. We continue to dance our long, passionate dance, wishing to never end.
-Anonymous
Anonymous
I'm at a night club enjoying the night and Justin Timberlake spots me from afar. He starts staring at me and watching every move I make. I make my way over to the bar where he is sitting and we are now close enough to touch. His eyes are undressing me with that "I want you look in his eyes". He ask me to dance with him, so we make our way on to the dance floor. The music is loud, the lights are dim and a strobe light is going. He seems to be taking his time with me and making sure he doesn't alarm me with any sudden gestures, but in my mind I'm thinking, take me. He pulls me up against his strong and tight amazing body. He smells so good and beads of sweat start running down his face and neck. As we are dancing he doesn't stop looking into my eyes still with that I want you look. The music ends and we go to have a drink together. Justin ask " did you come alone?" I tell him "yes I did". Justin replies "then you better let me take you home, I would feel more comfortable knowing you made it home safe". "Ok" I told him. We get into his Esclade and head for my house. The whole time we are riding Justin keeps looking over at me, checking out my body. He finally decides to reach his hand out and start playing with my hair and rubbing his fingers softly on my neck. We reach my house and he opens the door for me to get out and he steps up closer before I can get completely out of the truck. He steps in between my legs and cups his hands on my cheeks and slowly leans in to kiss my lips. He nibbles at my lips for a moment, teasing me and then he slowly slides his tongue into my mouth, making me moan with passion. Justin's hands begin to wonder down my chest and softly slides his fingers across my nipples, making them stand at attention. Then, he pulls back and looks into my eyes and ask " Can I take you inside and make love to you, I want you so bad. I want to taste you all over." With a low voice I tell him "yes, I want you too, so bad." We make our way to the door, the whole time I'm unlocking the door Justin can't keep his hands off me. We finally make it to the bed room door and he grabs me from behind and spins me around to face him. He begins to kiss me heavily with moans and grunts of passion rising up in him. He shoves me up against the wall and starts peeling away my shirt. His lips start wondering down my body and back up again. While his lips reached my lips again he starts slipping my bra strap off my shoulders to uncover my breast. I tug at his t-shirt to come off, he is so tall he has to help me. His body begins to touch my breast has he pushes his self up against me. He unsnaps my bra from behind and it hits the floor. Then he rubs his fingers slowly down my breast to my stomach and then to unbutton my jeans. His fingers slip just inside of my pants to push them down while his hands are caressing my hips and legs. While he is pushing my pants down he starts kissing my thighs and teasing me on the inside of my thighs. Then his hands reach for my panties and slowly peels them down off my warm wet groan. He can see how worked up I am. He then guides me to the bed and slowly lays me down. While I am laying there he stands on his knees above me rubbing his hands over my body and gazing into my eyes. My fingers reach to touch his lips as he kisses my fingertips. My hands wonder down his amazing body and unbutton his pants and slowly unzip his zipper. I can feel how hard he is and how big he is. Justin then helps me pull down his pants. Then I slide his boxers down. We are both naked and he slowly lays his body on top of mine and begins to kiss me deep in my mouth while we are both moaning. He has one arm underneath me holding me tight while the other arm is exploring my body. He starts to work his way down to my swollen breast kissing me and breathing on me. His lips barely touch my nipples, teasing the hell out of me. All of a sudden he cups his mouth over my nipple and begins to kiss, lick, and suck on them. I cannot hardly contain myself. I begin to shack and moan, bending my body up to him wanting more. Then Justin looks up at me with those beautiful blue eyes and says in a low sexy voice "I want to taste you". He bends his head back down and begins to kiss me down my stomach and hips. Then, I felt his warm wet mouth touch my cunt. He starts kissing it, lightly licking, and slips his tongue into me and slowly licks me up and down, while nibbling on it some. My body feels like it's changing gears constantly, not knowing how to drive, but I am enjoying every second of it. Finally I couldn't handle it anymore. I had to take him and have him my way. I push him over on his back and begin kissing him deep in his mouth while my breast a sliding back and forth on his masculine chest. I begin to work my way down his his amazing body, kissing and licking him all over. I reach his huge cock and lightly lick him saying to him " I love your dick it's so big and wonderful". I slip my mouth over his huge cock and slowly deep throat him and my tongue is licking it while I'm stocking him. I begin to lick the head of his cock and he's moaning and groaning saying softly with a groaning voice " you feel so good to me, don't ever stop. I want to be with you like this forever". I continue to pleasure him, enjoying watching him want it more and more. Then he stops me and says " I have got to have you now. I want to be inside of you." He lightly throws me back over. He pulls my legs apart and touches my groan with his fingers softly, then slowly lays down on top of me. He asks me to put it in because he wants to feel my touch. He slowly begins to push his huge cock inside of me. He takes his time because he wants to be gentle and not hurt me. He starts grinding me slow and ask in my ear softly " are you ok?" I pull his face to mine and say "yes" and begin kissing him again deep and hard. My legs are wrapped around his waist and our arms are holding each other tight. Our bodies are getting sweaty and we begin to slide against each other. He is not completely all the way in and I tell him "deeper, I want all of you in me". He shoves all of him inside of me and we begin to move together. Our bodies are tensing up, we are both breathing heavily, moaning and groaning, and then he looks me in the eyes and says " I love you, I can't live without you. My heart belongs to you and no one else. Tell me you feel the same way." And I tell him "I love you too, I don't want to live without you either. My mind, body, and soul belongs to you. You are the only one I want." We begin to kiss again with moaning and groaning. Then both of our bodies begin to tense up. My fingernails dig into his back and his arms are underneath my body holding me tight. I scream out " Oh Justin, it feels so good, more, more, more. Don't stop." He begins to moan louder and grunt out loud, " oh yeah, you feel so right. Your so warm, wet, and tight. You are perfect." Then all of a sudden we get off together. He shoots off in me and I can feel it feel me inside. Not caring what the results could be because of our passion for each other. He lays on top of me while he finishes and I can feel his big cock throbbing inside of me. We once again, start kissing each other and on the face and neck telling each other how much we love each other. After the wonderful love making we lay in bed holding each other and talking. Our eyes meet and we are ready to go at it again.
Anonymous
I dream of oral sex, I want it all the time...my fantasy is to be upside down, legs spread apart at the entrance to my church, and instead of people having to dip into the holy water font, they have to dip into ME, with their fingers, and then with their tongues...over and over...
The other fantasy is to have a girl with huge breasts fuck me with her big distended nipple, run it up and down my slit, swirl it around my hole and then rub my clit over and over with the nubby end of the nipple till I cum all over her breast. Then, while I am wet, I want her to spread her legs and have our pussies slide wetly against each other till we both cum together...
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
Last night, I had the most amazing dream which gave me sexual release to all my phobias. But the most important part of the dream came when I woke up and found new life in my ability to pleasure myself. I dreamt I was naked aside from a dressing gown which the wind kept blowing open. I could see my naked breasts as the cloth came off, and this excited me. As I looked further down I could see my gown was exposing me and my most intimate parts. As I saw this, I imagined a warm water trickling over me, washing my gown away. The water pushed my hand over my parts and pressed into my clitoris. The feeling buzzed at first, then throbbed, and as it throbbed and pulsated I felt myself being carried away. I screamed with pleasure!
Beth
I am with a man I barely know but I know his fantasies from cyber sex. We are at my house. I am wearing a black dress coat unbuttoned to play peek- a- boo with a sheer blouse and no bra underneath so that my nipples can be seen. A soft black skirt, covering silky black stockings and garter belt. With my head laying on his chest, I rub my knee into his knee and we tease each other while watching a movie in the dark. I can't help myself I place some popcorn in his mouth and while he's distracted I take off my dress coat. I snuggle closer to him, allowing him to feel the silkiness of my blouse. "Come here" he tells me and he pulls me closer. I am on top of him. I love the feel of him beneath the fabric of my soft, silky panties. I feel his warm hands on my thighs holding me down, and without resistance I begin coasting to ride every wave of his body. "Does that feel good" he asks me smiling. "Yes", I whisper into his ear. He slowly unbuttons my blouse watching to see my reaction. He likes what he sees and begins caressing my breasts. I unbutton his pants, and then begin to slide my panties off. He is laying back on the sofa playing with his throbbing penis. I remember his fantasy and I hike up my skirt and like a magnet you pull me onto you. I feel your hot penis glide inside, I want all of you, but first I want you to feel how soft I am, how wet, how tight. It feels so good to feel your skin under mine. Please grab my ass and glide me up and down. How do you like it? Fast or slow? So, you like it fast? Or is it the friction from your body to mine? You pull out and cum in ecstasy. "I'm tempted to put my head between your legs." You say. And, I lay back on the sofa smiling and saying, "Why Wait?"
Anonymous
I have always wanted to dress up as a school girl, in a plaid skirt and perform a strip tease. I always wanted a body massage with oils and to give a body massage. I always wanted to put a condom on my partner with my mouth. I always wanted to make love outside by a lake or in the rain. I always wanted to pure honey, chocolate syrup , caramel you know what I mean all over my body and let him lick it off. I love to have my neck kissed, behind my ears.
Anonymous
I like to imagine becoming sexually intimate with someone in my life who I don't particularly get along with in reality o that I am sure would never want to become sexually intimate with me. I always imagine every detail, from the conversations and/or events leading up to it, to the foreplay, to the sight of his/her body naked. In addition to turning me on, this sometimes helps me to see the person in a more positive light when I see them afterwards.
Anonymous
I would like to keep my name and mail address private, please. I am fifteen and I have never masturbated. I think I am scared of hurting myself. Anyhow, I do have sexual fantasies. The first one I ever had was when I was 11, I think. I woke up in the middle of the night and I was lying down with my stomach against the bed and my ass pointing to the air, lol! Back then, I didn't know it was a sexual fantasy, and I don't even remember what was the dream about. But now, I get into fan fiction pages about Harry Potter (yes, laugh) and get really wet reading femmeslashes!!! It just puts me in the mood! I'm not gay! 100% straight, but I think that woman turn me on because they are just like me, and I imagine they have experience, so they won't hurt me and know what they are doing. It's like masturbation but with another girl. Oh, and I love the idea of someone licking my pussy! Geez, reading all the masturbation stories makes me hot. I'm not into sliding fingers inside my vagina, It just doesn't makes me wet. Well, that's it...and I would appreciate if you could tell me how can I masturbate "by accident" ... cause I just can't seem to be able to do it being AWARE of me doing it!!
It is difficult to masturbate by accident. It takes action on your part to bring about the pleasure. You may accidentally cause yourself pleasure when you engage in some innocent activity that unexpectedly results in sexual stimulation. This occurs when you snuggle up to a pillow and pressure is placed on your vulva or when you shower and the water jets accidentally hit your clitoris. Once you know the activity causes sexual pleasure you must be self motivated to do it again. You must take responsibility for your sexual pleasure, not leave it up to chance.
Anonymous
I have fantasies of masturbating and being caught by a man and then he watches me.
Anonymous
Hi here's my fantasy
I meet a guy and he takes me to his apt. Were not even at the door and he's already holding me with my legs around his waste and my tit in his mouth. He sucks on it laps it up like its water. He kissed my whole chest the whole time me moaning and moaning tell him about how hot my pussy is and how I want him. He opens the door and throws me on the bed. He pulls down my pants and rips of my shirt. Again he kisses my tit sucks on it while his hand wander down around my inner thigh he
plays and teases me finally he gets to my slip runs his finger over and presses on it lightly making me moan and thrust my hips into the air yet he will not touch it. His other hand mean while is grasping and holding my tit making my nipple stand at attention. Finally with his other hand he opens my slit and runs his fingers around my lips he sticks two fingers in my aching pussy and plays with my clit with the others. Soon his mouth follows leaving my tits wanting more so I can't help but grab them. He starts kissing my inner thighs and pulls out his fingers to give my clit more attention he starts tongue fucking me rubbing my clit the whole while he is holding my hips down. I am screaming take me take ye. he doesn't give in. he knows I am loving it but begging for more. Finally after I am so close to cumming he resurfaces and thrust his huge cock into my soaking wet aching pussy and pounds it like mad. My legs wrapped around his torso and his arms nearly bruising my tits and my hand giving wanted attention to my clit. Soon in just minutes I cum like mad screaming and spasming. With him just collapsing on me like a heap of clothes.
Kim
My car breaks down in the middle of a road construction zone. I climb out of my car to ask if someone can radio for help for me. Several men walk up to assist me but, one man takes the lead. hes tall well muscularly defined , long blonde hair with blue eyes. he is wearing a sleeveless work shirt and tight jeans and work boots. I can feel my body start to become excited. He tells me to follow him and I do. We walk over to his truck and he tells me he will call a tow. I notice him checking out my perky breasts and my tight cut off shorts. He asks if Im from around here and tells me that I am a sight for sore eyes on this hot sunny day. I smile devilishly back at him and he responds with a grin. He takes his strong hand and pulls me in close to him. My breasts are pushed up against him as he leans in and kisses me. He turns me around and places me across the seat in his truck. My legs hanging down the outside of the door. He unsnaps my shorts and pulls them off effortlessly and spreads my legs apart. He then begins to trace the outline of my panties and lets one finger slip inside teasing my clit and leaving my panties very moist. My nipples are hardened and I can hardly sit still in the cab of his truck. He then places my panties to the side and begins eating my pussy like I have never been eaten before. I scream with ecstasy as he continues to devour my pussy. He then pulls me from the truck and bends me over the seat. My ass is exposed to the road for any and all to see. He unleashes his hard cock and enters me with such force it nearly picks me off the ground. He continues to nail from behind until I think I will not be able to get a breath again. As he cums deep inside me he lets out a soft moan then pulls out and turns me around yet again. He sets me on my knees and then puts his cock to my lips. Softly tracing the line and then parts my mouth and enters. I take him inside my willing mouth and suck for all I'm worth. After all....he just gave me the thrill of a lifetime!!!!!
Most satisfied, Kim
I've written to you before in the "Masturbation" section but came across the "Shared Sexual Fantasies" section and thought I'd contribute. :)
What I didn't mention before was:
I started masturbating when I was in 4th grade. I don't know how old I was, 9 seems about right, but anyway, that's what grade I was in. I started at this time because I had been doing sexual things with a childhood friend of mine for many years growing up and when we moved to another state, I didn't have her anymore so I eventually figured out that I could do it on my own. From the beginning, I always fantasized about being dominated and I still do, but the setting and events are different. Either way, I am basically being taken advantage of and am very submissive. I was always submissive with my friend, too. She made all the decisions about what we were going to do and told me what to do and I liked being instructed and demanded to do what she liked. Of course, she always asked me what I liked when it was my turn and did as I asked, but she always had control and I did what she told me to, because I liked her being in control.
This might sound odd for a little 4th grader to fantasize about, but this is what I would imagine: I was in a cabin in the middle of the woods. I was older, not my actual age, and I was with a man that was older still. He would be gone from the cabin and I would be laying in bed, asleep. Then he would come back with a bunch of other men. He brought them there to have me. They all stood around the room watching as he pulled the covers back and show them my body while I was still asleep. Then I'd imagine he'd start touching me all over my body, but really I'd be doing it to myself and pretending it was this man. Eventually I would wake up and we would have sex and then the other men would take their turns with me while all the others watched. The main man, the person who brought them to me, I'd always imagine him as taking a lot of care with me, though. He had to show them how to treat me and how to do me right. And if someone did something I did not like or disrespected me, he would make them stop and leave.
As I got older, I forgot all about this and didn't fantasize about such things for a very long time. I actually fantasized about nothing - I just did my thing. Then last year I found myself fantasizing about something that actually disturbed me. I never realized that what I fantasized about in the past might be considered "wrong" to some people until I got older. Anyway, what I find myself fantasizing about now is being raped. The forest theme continues as he takes me out to the forest and rapes me under a tree with a bunch of leaves on the ground (I dunno why that's always the setting I imagine... just is). He says really degrading things and holds me down and just... rapes me. Thing is, while I know I'd like being submissive in real life, I would hate to be disrespected in such a way. So I don't get why I'm even turned on by such things. It is something that really disgusts me, rape, but sometimes fantasizing about it is the only thing that gets me off.
I remember, too, between these two phases, was a point where I would just fantasies about being dominated. Kind of like... role playing and like the person was forcing themselves on me and holding my arms down and restraining me and making demands. But it was just a game. Somehow, though, eventually I came to crossing that line and imagined actually being raped.
Anyways, other fantasies are like... Well, I had a dream one night that my old best friend showed me how she masturbated. She took me to her room, laid on her bed and had me lay next to her. I laid on my side and she laid on her back. She took off her pants, lifted up her shirt and touched herself all over. She bent and raised her left leg and then put her hand in her underwear and I watched her fingers flicking underneath. I just watched for a few minutes while she enjoyed herself. Ever since, I've fantasized about mutual masturbation. That I'm masturbating with another girl. In my fantasy, we're always sitting facing each other with our legs open and laced over one another's so we have a perfect view of what the other person is doing... if that makes sense.
Ok so my last fantasy is also submissive. It's more detailed and elaborate than the others. But em... So there's this guy, or girl... usually a guy, though, so I'll go with that - and we're in his basement and he blindfolds me and has me lay down on the ground on some comforters and stuff. He handcuffs me to the leg of some big piece of furniture so I can't move. He's already fully undressed and slowly undresses me, still blindfolded. As he undress me he's kissing me all over and teasing me. After he has me laying there naked he continues with this for a long time, kissing and sucking on different parts of my body and rubbing his naked body against mine. Eventually he leave off with the rest of my body and focus between my thighs, teasing me by kissing and licking and sucking only on my thighs and he's purposefully being slow about it, knowing I'm wanting really badly now to just grab him and be fast and rough. But he won't do it no matter how much I beg. He slowly starts teasing my clit with his tongue and I'm aching so badly and pleading for him to please uncuff me but he refuses. He's touching me as he slowly moves up my body and props himself up over me. The blindfold is removed. He won't kiss me on the mouth but kisses my face and neck and shoulders and chest and runs his hands up my arms to where my hands are cuffed. For a moment I get really excited because I think he's finally going to uncuff me but he doesn't. Instead he just barely enters me and thrusts short and slow. He goes a little deeper but is still really slow and I want him so bad it hurts and I'm begging and begging him to go deeper and faster and harder and to fucking uncuff me but he still refuses. But finally, as tears of NEED start running down my face he reaches up and unlocks the cuffs and I immediately grab him hard, digging my fingers into his skin, and lift myself up to him and thrust him into me hard and deep over and over.Kim
I'm in my bed asleep. I am awakened by a stranger standing over me. My heart races and have a fear that over comes me. He leans over me and puts a hand over my mouth and tells me to be very quiet and that he is going to give me the fucking of a lifetime. I can't move. I can feel my heart beat speed up. Its dark and I can only see the image of him in the light shining through the window. He's big, tall and very muscular. He takes his hand from my mouth and pulls me up out of bed by my arm. he pulls me into him and kisses me deeply. I don't seem to have any fight in me as though he has some strange kind of hold over me. He holds me tight against him with one arm and the other drops down and squeezes my ass cheeks. I can feel my pussy getting moist as he explores my body with his free hand. He is very strong which only adds to the heat I am feeling. I have on a button down shirt and in one quick move he rips it apart popping all the buttons leaving me exposed to him. He picks me up and holds me to the wall. My legs wrap tightly around his waist. I can feel his hard cock pressing against my very wet pussy. He enters me with a deep thrust and I let out a moan of pleasure. He slowly pulls back and again thrusts deep inside me almost taking my breath away. Again and again he enters me with deep hard thrusts leaving me in a state of pure pleasure. He lets me slide down to the floor and slaps my face with his hard cock then slowly traces my lips with his cock head. I take him in my mouth and slowly tease his cock with my tongue. over and over he fucks my mouth. I can feel him hardening even more. He pulls out and pulls me up from my knees and bends me over the bed. He enters my cunt with such force. I'm screaming in ecstasy with his every thrust. Over and over he fucks me. When at last he cums. He kisses me on my ass and leaves as quick as he appeared, leaving me in a night of dreams about the stranger that took me like no other man has ever done.
Kim.I am 53 years old. I have been masturbating since I was about 4 or 5. So over the years I have had many fantasies. My latest one is watching my husband having a nude massage, or watching him have a physical given to him by a female. We have never let another female look at him. About 3 years ago he started going to a female for his physicals. He told me how he had to stand nude in front of her while she sat and did a genital check. She rolls his foreskin back and checks him very closely there is also another woman in the room when he is exposed. This made me upset briefly, knowing a woman had such control over him that she could make him pull him pants down and let her look at him. Then (although it still bugs me) it turns me on to think about her doing this. He doesn't want me to watch, so I can only think about it. We are looking for an older nurse or massage therapist to let me expose him to her. I am very visual and to me seeing is everything. This fantasy gets me going every time.
Michelle
Hi there,
I´m 25 and I´ve masturbated ever since I can remember. I don´t think about people I know in real life whilst I do it, not even when I had a boyfriend have I thought about him.
In one type of fantasy, it´s always good looking strangers with dark skin, mostly two at a time. I think it´s because I once read a book which included a sex scene that has inspired my wishes ever since. There was this women, being taken from behind while this guy's buddy laid underneath her and licked her clit, of course she came loads of times. When I masturbate, I see myself in this position, or I imagine that they start undressing me, talking about how much they like my body and how arousing they find the sight of my wet pussy. Then the two men start licking me, both kneeling in front of me between my spread legs, sticking their fingers inside me. Sometimes one licks and sucks on me while the other one is giving me his dick to suck it. Then they take turns to fuck me, each of them stops and lets the other guy have me shortly before I come so I won´t climax yet but get more and more willing to let them do anything with me. All this time, they keep talking to me and to each other, saying how horny they are and how beautiful the dick looks thrusting in and out of my juicy cunt. Sometimes the fantasy stops there cause I come, but sometimes I let them continue fucking me, one in my pussy and one in my ass, which I enjoy very much. I also imagine one guy having put his dick in my cunt or ass and the other one licking all reachable parts of our genitals. During all of this, they are really tender and caring about me, giving me pleasure being their main goal.
I´ve never had a threesome in real life, not even practiced anal intercourse on a regular basis, but I so hope to experience sex with two men one day. Although I know it´s probably not gonna be the way I dream of it. Maybe some things are meant to remain fantasy?
In another type of fantasy, I´m a child of about eight years, living in a big house with imaginary parents, and my imaginary uncle Mike secretly teaches me everything about sex. He is of course my favorite uncle and we spend a lot of time together, pretending doing my homework when we´re in my room and he gives me wonderful orgasms using all sorts of techniques. I use to wear innocent summer dresses and no underwear, and he uses every opportunity to grab under my skirt and dip his finger in my wet but still hairless pussy. When we´re at his place he also films us having sex and then we watch the videos together and get horny again. Over time, the fantasy developed and now he lets his friends have sex with me too, always making sure that they don´t hurt me but lick me a lot before he allows them to enter me, and sometimes he films that too, or takes pictures of me riding those big cocks. I also have forbidden sex with other men, like the priest and the teachers at school and my parent´s driver. He say´s he doesn´t like it but then he makes me tell him all about what I did with them in detail so he gets horny and fucks the brains out of me.
I don´t have a clue about the origins of this sort of fantasy, but I decided it didn´t matter and just enjoy the thrill.
Thanks for letting me share.
Michelle
I masturbate at least once a day. It's very refreshing. I have tons and tons of fantasies. I go through 5 or 6 in my head while I'm going at it. I like keeping my door cracked open. Cuz that's part of my fantasies. One of my fantasies take place at the movie theatre. Me and my girl are sitting in the 2nd to last row. The only people in that theatre is another woman like 4 or 5 rows away. Me and my girl are making out and she reaches for my crotch. She feels the bulge growing in my pants. She unzips my pants and starts stroking my huge rod. Her mouth gets watery as she begins to lick my dick ever so slowly. By now it is fully erect. She takes all 9" of me in her mouth and begins to suck. I tilt my head back and enjoy the ride. Her chocking and gagging sounds drive me crazy. I love seeing her head bop up and down. Soon I cant take it anymore, and I tell her that i'm going to cum. She circles her tongue around my hole, which drives me over the edge, and I shoot my load into the back of mouth. All of it doesn't fit in her mouth, so it starts streaming down the edge of her mouth. She swallows what she can. I zip up my pants as she wipes her mouth.
Another fantasy takes place with my girl Megan. She works at a hospital. She text messages me during her break that she wants me and she wants me now. I drive to her work, and she leads me into the bathroom. We go into a stall and she throw me up against the wall and we start making out. Her breathing increases and she whispers in my ear that she's mine and that I can do whatever I want with her. I take off her pants and bend her over the toilet. I drop my pants to my ankle and I slowly, slowly shove my cock into her tight ass. As soon as I'm in, I start pumping my dick fast and hard. All you hear is her soft moans and the sound of my balls smacking her ass. We fuck until I cum in her ass and she moans so loud that we're sure the people outside heard but we don't care.
The last fantasy is my favorite. I dream of doing this one day. I take my girl and get her dripping wet before I even take off her pants by massaging her coochie through her pants. Right when she can't take it anymore, I slip my hand into her pants and start fingering her while making out with her. I love hearing her moans through my mouth. I am memorized by her desire for me. I slip her pants off, and start putting my tongue to work. I work around her clit, so its not so intense, and to build up. I love it when her fingers run through my hair as she gently presses on the back of my head. When I can tell that she wants it, I start flicking my tongue over her clit. She rocks her hip with the rhythm of my mouth. Her soft and humble moans drive me crazy. When I see that she is about to climax, I start sucking as hard as I can, being careful not to hurt her. I take her all in my mouth, she thrusts her hip once more and she yells my name as she cums her delicious juices into my thirsty mouth. Once I work her down from her climax, I work my way back up, circling her beautiful breasts with my magical tongue. I get back up to her mouth and I let her taste a little bit of her delicious cum. She is mine for the rest of the night and I hold her tight to let her know that I am there for her and I appreciate her letting me eat her out and that our sex is just a part of her, and not the only thing I go after. But even so, she enjoyed it very much and cant wait until next time.
Based on the name on the e-mail account used to submit the above fantasies I am presuming the writer is a woman who fantasizes from the perspective that she is a man.
My fantasy is this:
I am in a basement type room with whips and chains, and sex toys all over. Two women come in. One holds me down while the other one undresses me. They tie me up, with my legs spread wide open. One of them strokes my breasts and the other grabs a big FAT vibrating dildo and shoves it onto my tight pussy. I scream in pain and pleasure. The woman stroking my breasts begins to suck on my clit, it feels overwhelmingly great. A few minutes later I am in orgasm and another woman comes in and begins to lick and suck on the other woman's pussy. I eventually get handcuffed to a bed and being tortured by all three women. I love the pleasure and the vibrations of the dildo are great!!! When we are all done I end up going to my apartment (only 14 by the way, so I don't have an apartment) and go to bed after my long day of pleasure.
Haley - Part 1
I have many sexual fantasies. The most common one is a hot, big-breasted , young woman approaches me and begins talking, we chit-chat for a while and she invites me to her house. I agree, and she takes me over, gives me a tour of her house and asks me if I want a drink. I accept the drink, which is alcoholic, and we each end up slightly buzzed. She starts talking about her love life and we end up on the subject of lesbians. She asks me if I have ever been with a girl before, I say no.
She asks me if I want to be with her, I say yes. She walks me into her bedroom and slowly undresses herself, while I watch. Then she walks toward me and slowly removes my shirt, then slowly running her hand over my legs and up my skirt. She then begin rubbing my pussy, and smiles as it gets hotter and wetter. She stand up and begins kissing me, first on my lips, than slowly down my neck. As she makes her way toward my breasts, she starts licking me. When she reaches my breasts, she sucks and plays with them.
As she leads me toward her bed, she has her hand inside my skirt, playing with my ass. As I lay on her bed, she takes my skirt off and them removes my thong, which is already wet. She then she gets on top and we kiss passionately. I then start kissing her neck, and reach her breasts. Her nipples get harder and harder and I kiss them. By this point, her hand has made its way down my body and between my legs. She starts to rub my clit. My clit is completely erect mow and I'm cumming all over.
As she strokes my hot, wet pussy, I begin to moan. I am grabbing the bed sheets and sweating as she inserts her two fingers inside my pussy. And I start to get an orgasm, I start to kiss her forehead. Then, her head makes its way down my body, all the way to my pussy. She flicks her tongue in and out of my pussy, while her hans are playing with my breasts.
Then, I notice that there is cum falling off of her and onto the bed. I roll on top of her and begin kissing her again. as I make my way down toward her pussy, she looks me in the eyes and smiles. Then, I continue my way down her tan body. When I reach her pussy, I begin licking her. Then she begins to moan, She is breathing heavily and sweating. While I lick her pussy, her body is slowly moving up and down. Up and down. Up and down.
As my mouth moves it way up to her stomach, she reaches into her night stand and gets her dildo. When she turns it on, we change positions, she is on top of me. With her ass in the air, she inserts the dildo into my pussy and the feeling I get is utterly amazing. I am almost screaming when I feel the orgasm's full effect. As she slowly moves the toy in and out, she begins rubbing my clit, making little circles with her fingers.
Then, she tosses the wet toy on the floor and sits on me. She then starts to hump me. I can feel her cum, hot on my body. She then leans over to kiss me. As she does, I reach up and grab her breasts. I squeeze them hard and she starts to moan again. She stops kissing me and plays with my breasts as well. Then I get on top of her, get the dido off the floor and insert into her pussy. Then she screams out wanting more. So as I move the toy in and out, I also lick her inner thighs, and make my way to her warm, erect pussy. As she pants and sweats, I go harder and faster, making her scream again.
Then the door to the room, which was closed, swings open, and a man, who is undressed, comes and lays next to us. His dick is already erect, and her gets behind me and inserts it into my pussy. I immediately stop shoving the dildo into her pussy when she gets out from under me. She watches as he gives it to me doggy style. Then he stops with me and she lays down next to me on the bed. He gets ont op of her and gives it to her rough. He is sweating already and her can barely control himself. Then, I sit on her fane as she starts to lick my pussy.
Then as he is still going on her, his hand reach up to squeeze my breasts. This continues for another ten minutes, until he stops. I get off of her and we both get on our knees, to take turns sucking his dick. As he ejaculates, he shoves my head toward his dick and it is so long, it goes halfway down my throat. I can feel his cum go down my throat. He stops me and commands us to start fucking each other, while he watches. We do and after twenty minutes, he leaves,and she collapses on me panting and sweating. She falls asleep on top of me.
~Haley, Florida
Haley - Part 2
I have always had sexual fantasies, ever since I was about ten or so. But until I found this site, I was never able to talk openly about it. Okay, here goes...
I'm at a club or ar, and this extremely hot girl comes over to me.(i'm not a lesbian, it's just they are more easier to imagine) She offers to buy me a drink, I accept. We begin to talk, and get on the subject of our love lives. She says she recently broke up with her boyfriend. She asks me if I am with anyone, I say no. As we continue to drink, (alcoholic) she starts asking me if I have ever been with another girl, of course, I haven't.
She invites me over to her place to hang out for a while, I agree. As we drive, she is constantly looking at my boobs and my legs. She smiles and continues. When we go inside her place, she gives me a tour, offers me a drink(alcoholic) and we sit down on the couch in the living room. She pops in a DVD and a lesbian porno starts to play. The lights are low and I am getting wetter and wetter as the movie continues.
When the movie is over, she asks if she can take me into her bedroom and make love to me. I am completely aroused now and agree. When we enter, she immediately undresses herself, as I watch. It reminds me of a strip tease. When she is naked, she slowly walks toward me and gently takes of my top.
Then leads me to her bed. Walking behind me, her hand is up my skirt, already rubbing my ass and pussy. When I reach the bed, I lay down,and she gets on top of me. She leans in close to my head, and whispers in my ear, "Are you ready?" I nod my head, and we begin to passionately kiss. Then she removes my bra and plays with my breasts, softly squeezing and then licking, and sucking. then she gently bites my nipples, making them erect.
She kisses my lips and moves her body up and down on mine. Up and down. Up and down. Up and down. By now I am completely wet and sweating. She stops humping me and flips my mini skirt up and softly sucks and licks my inner thighs. Then with her teeth, she removes my thong and pulls it down to my knees. Now we are both naked.
As the moves her soft, warm body toward my wet, throbbing pussy, I begin to think of all the possible things she could do to me. She then begins to kiss my pussy, and gently biting at my clit. As I begin to moan, she inserts two fingers into my vagina and moves them around. Then she stops, gets off of me. Its her turn now.
As I get on top of her, I can see the want in her eyes. Inside she is screaming for me to do everything I can fof her. I kiss her all over, on her lips, neck, and ears. While I kiss her, she has her hands on my legs, slowly making their way to my ass, them back down again. Her very touch makes me quiver with delight. She starts to moan as I make my way down to her breasts, which are already swollen. I move my chest up and down hers. We both know it hurts a little, but aren't willing to give up this moment of passion.
I stop humping her and make my way toward her pussy. I rub her clit, making her even more wet than before. As i start to lick her pussy, she is almost screaming. I know I have given her an orgasm. I then start to rub her clit with one hand while inserting two of my own fingers into her wet throbbing pussy. She pants and them begins to move her hips, in little circles at first, them up and down in small, jerky movement. I know she almost cannot handle what is being done, so I slow my pace.
She gets out from under me and slides onto me again. She starts to hump me, slow at first, then faster and harder. As she does, I am grabbing at her breasts, and squeezing very had. She lets out a small shriek of pain, I know she likes it. Then her hand reaches and gets a huge dildo off the nightstand. She slows her movement on top of me.
She goes toward my pussy again and insert her dildo into me. As she does this, i reach out and play with her long, brown hair. She then starts to move in in little circles, stimulating my G-spot. As I moan, she does it harder and faster. Then I scream out in pleasure. I can't control myself any longer, I look her deep in the eyes and pull myself on top of her. I hump her like I never have before. She screams and ejaculates. Her cum is all over he bed when I collapse on top of her, breathing heavily. I look up at her and she starts to stroke my hair. I then lay my head in the valley of her chest. I can hear her heart beat, it is racing. Mine is to. Then her hand reaches down, until it reaches my breasts.
She plays with them again, signaling she is ready for more. As I get up and let her on top of me, the door, which was shut, swings open and a tall, muscular man comes in, completely undressed. His dick is already erect when he come into the room and looks at us both. He says nothing when he reaches out for her hand and pulls her gently off the bed.
She gets to her knees and begins to suck him. I watch for a little while, then join her, realizing this is what I want to do. As we take turns sucking his dick, I can feel him get harder and longer. The next time his long hard dick goes into my mouth, I can feel his cum slide down my throat. I then begin to become wet again.
He then wants more. He picks up both up easily and tosses up on the bed. He comes over to me and puts himself inside of me. I am moaning for more, but he wont give more than a slow, soft one. he stops with me and goes to her, she had been watching the whole thing. He turns her over so her lower half was over the side of the bed. He give it to her slow as well. We look at each other, both of us wanting more of him, more of each other.
As she is getting him, I slide her head onto my pussy, and she begins to lick me, and suck. As he sees what I am doing, I know he is getting harder ny the second and cant control himself any longer. He exits her and gets on the bed. We both know what he wants; we both go to him on our knees. We take turns sucking him again.
Then, another man, much like the first, comes in and looks at me. His dick is becoming longer and harder as he watches us. He walks over the nightstand, opens the drawer, and pulls out two pair of handcuffs. As he handcuffs me and her, we both know what's going to happen next.
As they each have their turns with us, we are getting wetter and wetter. We both moan with orgasms. We both are loving each second. When the men let us go, they tell us to fuck each other. We both want more of each other, so we gladly obey. As we take turns eating each other out, both men leave without our knowing. When we finally stop, the men are long gone. We collapse into each other and fall asleep
~Haley
Download and listen to sexy stories written especially for women.
Click here to listen to a sample
Click on photo to learn more. $8.99 each.
Please Support This Website!
You can help guarantee access to this website remains free to everyone by buying products from Our Adult Store. Proceeds from the sale of items sold here goes towards keeping this website open to the general public and free of banner ads. The store is operated by the same people that bring you the website, not a third party. For your privacy and peace of mind, orders are billed as "Fox Internet Services" and shipped in plain packaging.
Affiliates and Advertisers
By supporting the following businesses you support this website.
HardToBuy.com sells sexual products, including vibrators and female sexuality products, in a discreet and tasteful environment. A generous supporter since July 2001
JT's Stockroom Our online catalog features 1100+ adult products, including safe sex supplies, a large selection of bondage, S/M and electrical gear, books, magazines, etc. A generous supporter since August 2001
Libida.com A sex toy store for women and their lovers. Toys, books and videos are individually reviewed and rated, plus a personalized "decision-maker" helps shoppers select products tailored to their needs. Privacy and discretion guaranteed. A generous supporter since September 2001. 10% off your first order, use promo code "THECLITORIS11" during checkout.
In Britain
Adult Toys UK with Passion the place to buy sex toys, lingerie, adult gifts & more. Free gift wrapping, online since 1999 and a generous supporter since November 2002.
In Canada
Sex Shop Canada Whether flying solo or romancing your lover, you'll find a treasure trove of adult toys and sexy lingerie to ignite your night! Slip into our sizzling selection of quality adult sex toys, vibrators, dildos, sexy lingerie, butt plugs, and other adult toys for better sex. A generous supporter since May 2005